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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Pre Divorce | Rant | ebmattman69 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/25 07:31 PM |
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| 3 | Told my ex I was going for my PhD she said they don't make much.lol reminds me of the time I had anxiety after my ex left me and I was trying to get home from out of town cause I promised my kid I’d tuck her in that night. Long story short the kiddo goodnight went well and was chatting with the ex after about my trip and life since she walked out. Told her about how I hit rock bottom but getting stronger everyday; she responded “until the next rock bottom”. Yeah never tell your ex a thing you got going on, in the end it’s all just toxic petty energy from the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Day 4, just need to write7 months in for me, same situation. Ex wife wanted space, given, wanted me to go to therapy to work on my trauma, done, in the end the goalposts moved and I was fighting a ghost. It feels like death and in a way it is but invest this time in yourself. Grieve, find self help for the issues she always said you had, invest in activities that fill your soul (old and new) and let fate decide what will happen. Whatever you do stop texting, you look desperate and are pushing her away more. Stay grounde… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Any recommendations for books on journaling?Best of luck, the first step is always the hardest but don’t feed into the negativity. Conquer those negative thoughts and become the best man you can be out of this experience | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Any recommendations for books on journaling?Not journaling but what helped me was reading Brene Brown “imperfect”. Helped unlock the brain fog I’d been living with for probably my entire life. From there journaling was just jotting down thoughts and maybe exploring meaning/patterns if I saw any, and things I wanted to talk to my therapist about. Always have two different color pens for journaling and for the notes/addendums. Biggest obstacle for me was just starting. Write anything and eventually the words/ideas start to flow (sounds corn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/26 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Pre DivorceI feel this. Our marriage counseling came with constraints on approved topics BY HER, and when the therapist agreed with me on something (visit #3) she quit and said therapy was stupid. But that I had to continue solo therapy cause I’m fucked up. Slowly realizing she’s a narcissist and untangling what are my true feelings and her projections | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/25 08:18 PM |
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