ebrau36 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Becoming an "Alpha" Male I haven't read 'Sex at Dusk'--what is the author's premise?	/r/seduction	06/07/15 05:55 PM
34	Becoming an "Alpha" Male The idea of the 'alpha' male is largely based on a false understanding of human evolution and anthropology. Your quote: from an evolutionary perspective, woman seek mates who display the qualities of an alpha male, as this man will likely increase the survival odds of their offspring, by being able to protect the child, feed the child, and teach the child to in turn protect and feed themselves. More so, as they are in charge of or highly placed in their social group, everybody else respects them…	/r/seduction	02/07/15 05:45 PM
53	How to deal with your gf's nice guy friend Be nice to him. Fuck the shit out of your girl.	/r/seduction	13/03/15 03:56 PM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. Yea totally man. I guess my biggest beef with the 'PUA' philosophy (at least the older/original stuff) is that it frames picking up women/having casual sex as some elite activity that only super special guys ("Alphas") get to do. You see a lot of this ideology bandied about in phrases like "5% of the guys do 95% of the fucking" and often dubious stats about paternity/cuckoldry, i.e. "20% of men are not the biological father of their kid" with the obvious implication/scare tactic being that these…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 07:27 PM
24	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. REMOVE ALL PUA LANGUAGE FROM YOUR VOCABULARY. Women are real people, not sets. It's not negging, it's teasing. It's not LMR, it's that she's not quite comfortable with you yet. Most dating gurus that I have encountered have encouraged me to do so, and it makes a huge difference. You're socializing, not replicating some sort of weird system that you read on the Internet. You literally fucking nailed it with this. Treat other people (yourself included) as human beings worthy of compassion.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 06:00 AM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. yea deep human connections and love are for pussies	/r/seduction	07/03/15 05:57 AM
2	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. I guess my point is that there is a ton of over complicated bullshit out there. A lot of it happens to also be quite expensive and taught by guys of questionable character and achievement. In my own personal life I noticed that my own success with women sky rocketed once I began focusing on my own life, health, and passions and way less on the super technical stuff. I know this is referenced ('inner game') and what not. Also, don't misquote me. I don't anywhere say: "natural chemistry and person…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 05:49 AM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. keep paying for (or selling) high priced ebooks and seminars. enjoy. It's seduction for a reason, and it's because a lot of people don't walk out the door and have their natural chemistry as a person have people flock to them I would argue this is probably because other aspects of their life are out of balance.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 04:10 AM
15	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. Mistakes I wish I avoided: not lifting porn/masturbation thinking I had to be funny/clever/somehow impress women on dates (ESPECIALLY via text/electronic communication) focusing too much on 'getting girls' opposed to pursuing my passions and social/family relationships. Honestly this sub/other seduction sites would be basically non-existent if dudes who had trouble picking up women, just: got in shape stopped masturbating to porn focused on building the life they want let physical chemistry/sens…	/r/seduction	06/03/15 08:27 PM
2	Mystery's insight into the three second rule bahaah	/r/seduction	22/01/15 08:24 PM
1	Why do inexperienced guys find it hard to approach? Not all situations are actually appropriate to approach in. Listen to your intuition.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 03:43 AM
7	Why do inexperienced guys find it hard to approach? This is a bullshit hunter-gatherer scenario that likely wasn't true. According to most modern historical research and anthropological observation of modern h/g tribes sex was a shared resource and not at all the winner take all affair your describe. Honestly, mystery is not anything close to an anthropologist. Pick up a copy of 'Sex at Dawn'.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 03:42 AM
3	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? Awesome link! Starting strength is an amazing program.	/r/seduction	20/12/14 01:48 AM
2	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? It's definitely not easy. It's tricky throwing around the word 'addiction' when you consider stuff like heroin abuse and alcoholism, HOWEVER, it sure as fuck is hard to stop. I think part of the reason is the perceived consequences are so much more subtle. I mostly was able to stop due to positive reinforcement: i.e. I started to really like how I felt, how sex felt, how females reacted to me and how much more confident I felt in social situations. In short, the positives started to outweigh the…	/r/seduction	20/12/14 01:47 AM
1	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? That's fair enough and everyone is different. I can only speak from my own experience. From hanging out a bit in the nofap sub, and a bit of what I saw myself: the initial withdrawal from regular porn use can cause a temporary drop in libido. The surge that emerges afterwards is often pretty intense.	/r/seduction	20/12/14 01:44 AM
2	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? Dated several latin american women. The dynamics of most latin american dance (Salsa, bachata, merengue, etc.) will teach you more about the dynamics of the masculine/feminine and romance in general than years of couple counseling. I still suck at dancing, but I think I learned a lot about life. If you get good you can have no teeth, one leg and still pick up women.	/r/seduction	20/12/14 01:42 AM
5	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? As something of a counterpoint to your article I would posit the book 'Sex at Dawn' as well as the excellent podcast 'The Mating Grounds'. This idea that human sexuality evolved in a scene where the strongest man 'took' all the women is pretty debatable and does not seem to be born out either by archaeological evidence of hunter gatherers or modern day anthropological examples. 'Sex at Dawn' gets into this and some other interesting evidence, such as our genitalia size and volume of ejaculate. I…	/r/seduction	19/12/14 08:58 PM
7	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? There is very little scientific evidence for the recommendation to stop jerking off. There may well be good reasons for it, however, and I wouldn't knock it until you've tried it. See below. 1) Maybe it was placebo, maybe it was confidence, who knows--when I did a 30 day experiment w/ no porn and no masturbation I noticed a DRASTIC difference in how women reacted to me. I was more sensitive during sex and enjoyed it more. Felt more of a connection with my partners. Maybe the most noticeable was …	/r/seduction	19/12/14 08:45 PM
18	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? Stop jerking off or at least looking at porn. Start lifting heavy weights. Increase contact with novel females (platonically or romantically, just be around women). Consider your posture.	/r/seduction	19/12/14 06:15 PM
2	Texting game She is not interested in you.	/r/seduction	18/12/14 09:50 PM