echinoderm0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? This... although I don't think I would prefer a man over a woman. I would have to interview them all.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 03:09 PM
-4	Some words of support from a woman :) I know you posted this out of a desire to reach out and help people to feel validated. But I would like to tell you, that as women, we should not be trying to understand. This forum is not a soapbox for us. Do not pride yourself on having the decency to notice your fellow humans and their experiences. Just be here. Listen to people. Try to understand where feelings of hurt come from (I see you're already getting some hurt comments in this thread). Use this insight to connect with people, but don…	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 12:01 AM
-6	Some words of support from a woman :) I know you posted this out of a desire to reach out and help people to feel validated. But I would like to tell you, that as women, we should not be trying to understand. This forum is not a soapbox for us. Do not pride yourself on having the decency to notice your fellow humans and their experiences. Just be here. Listen to people. Try to understand where feelings of hurt come from (I see you're already getting some hurt comments in this thread). Use this insight to connect with people, but don…	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 12:00 AM
-5	Some words of support from a woman :) I know you posted this out of a desire to reach out and help people to feel validated. But I would like to tell you, that as women, we should not be trying to understand. This forum is not a soapbox for us. Do not pride yourself on having the decency to notice your fellow humans and their experiences. Just be here. Listen to people. Try to understand where feelings of hurt come from (I see you're already getting some hurt comments in this thread). Use this insight to connect with people, but don…	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 12:00 AM
9	Some words of support from a woman :) I think she wants welcoming arms for her kindness and charity and wokeness.	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 11:54 PM
-4	Some words of support from a woman :) I find it similar to white people trying to relate with the struggles of minorities. If you don't live in the inner cities, if you haven't dealt with the immigration process, you CANT relate. Your goal shouldn't be to relate. It should be to listen and learn as much as you can as an outside party, so that you can support and engage with people that don't experience things the way you do.	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 11:53 PM
8	Some words of support from a woman :) I agree with this. I hate to say it, but this post made me uncomfortable. I wondered what she was wanting to gain or feel from making it. This entire forum is for male voices. Kinda like white people making speeches at BLM rallies. (As a woman, who's here to listen and learn BECAUSE I can't relate).	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 11:51 PM
19	Is marriage worth it? I do not. Manipulation tends to come from power imbalance. In EVERY generation of marriage, there has been a power imbalance. Now, the laws designed to protect women's vulnerability in marriage is being used to attack men. I believe that if two people want to intertwine their lives, they will. And I believe it is very powerful to say to a partner "I do not want to be with you out of fear of divorce. I want to wake up every day knowing we are together because we both still want to be." But I unde…	/r/MensRights	01/01/24 10:14 PM
1	How to become a dad? Why? Women with bigger abdomens are more suited to carry children without complications.	/r/MensRights	25/12/23 02:28 PM
2	How do you advance men’s rights in your own way? I'm a woman so just small actions of validation and reaffirming logic go a long way.	/r/MensRights	13/12/23 04:05 PM
13	Do women really think men are stupid? The older I get, the more I believe this to be true. People LIKE dumb, simple partners because they are easy. Like owning a fish. It's companionship without volatility or excitement.	/r/MensRights	23/11/23 01:35 AM
2	Let's talk about men and prison. Pretty sure it's actually just because it's way more uncomfortable to make women uncomfortable. Punishing women? Horrendous ! Punishing men? Justice.	/r/MensRights	22/11/23 02:34 AM
3	Do y'all feel like your life would be better if you were a woman Yep. It's ridiculous that anyone would be expected to figure out anything alone with very few observable behaviors. Either explicit guidance or a "leading by example." But emotions are private. No one shares. So how in the heck are you supposed to figure out healthy coping, when the examples of coping are all binge drinking, hyper sexuality, and numb violent smooth brains? It's insane that we expect men to have an innate understanding of responding to feelings.	/r/MensRights	19/11/23 04:11 PM
15	Do y'all feel like your life would be better if you were a woman As a woman*, I just want to say that I agree that getting emotional/social support is MUCH easier, and being an emotional being (like we all are) is much more accepted and forgiven when you're viewed in the context of female. There's a weird and hard to swallow dichotomy that comes with being a woman, where the majority of the time, you are respected as a feeling being, but ONLY UP UNTIL any sexual context. But, anyways, I would agree that women have it easier in terms of getting emotional suppo…	/r/MensRights	19/11/23 04:06 PM
12	Currently getting canceled at school debating the "99% of Men Are Rapists" statistic with Feminists Ignore it and don't engage. People that can actually think for themselves are well aware that these are ridiculous and nonsense. They feed off of being able to insult people that don't agree.	/r/MensRights	18/03/21 05:55 PM