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| 41 | A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call itI knew a guy who "could just read people" and "could tell by my skeptical personality" that I didn't have a close relationship with my dad. Actually I was just 1 of 2 women in a leadership course with like 30 other Marines and being sharp and thick-skinned is how you survive. tyvm. Many have tried similar things of telling me what my own past was like but that one stuck the most. Blows my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 12:06 AM |
| 35 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobI admit that I place a huge amount of identity and worth into my career, so I understand the crisis there. And giving up time consuming hobbies because they aren't sustainable with toddlers would be a punch to the gut as well. Fulfillment should definitely come from multiple sources. That being said- that's why I chose to remain childfree and would never have married (or even dated) my husband if he wanted kids. It was also important that he understood how consuming my job can be and that it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Men just have to ruin their chances, don't they?Could you elaborate please? I can see energy drink apparel being a red flag (much like Tap Out or Affliction tees) but the actual drink is just like coffee imo. I regularly drink the Monster Zeros because it doesn't make my teeth feel funny like coffee or the sugary versions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 36 | Cause of death: the audacity 😉 Share a story of a time a scrote either mansplained something you’re an expert in or made a hilarious statement like below. I’ll go first in comments!I don't have many big instances, but I'm on an all female team of Animal Control and we frequently respond to various wildlife ( I've had raccoons, snakes, skunks, a bat and probably more that I forgot just in the last two weeks and that's only me). Men are all the time getting dismissive or bamboozled by us rolling up and making little comments about "are you sure you can do this?" Like yes Greg, I'm okay with a baby opossum, you're welcome for saving your ass from hyperventilating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:25 PM |
| 87 | Cause of death: the audacity 😉 Share a story of a time a scrote either mansplained something you’re an expert in or made a hilarious statement like below. I’ll go first in comments!That was just an NPC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenI was literally within a month or so of dating my now-husband when I scheduled mine. I had put it off far too long because my self-proclaimed childfree ex always wanted me to wait every time I brought it up. I asked him (husband) if he would be willing to be my responsible adult for an upcoming surgery and he accepted with no questions other than ensuring my well-being. Later on, when the topic was brought up and he was fully supportive. Even offering after we were married to get snipped in soli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..I have hated this song above all since my first listen! I had to thumbs down SO many times when I used Pandora because they kept playing more covers of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:52 AM |
| 23 | Always keep your coins snatchedMy husband and I have separate accounts and don't plan on merging them and it's outstanding. Not a single fight over money and no reason to try and justify silly purchases that the other could think a waste. We are both responsible with money so it's a great set up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 16 | BruhWow, I never actually considered this as a thing that could happen. My ex would have frequent 40+ minute bathroom visits all of the time but I never noticed a TP difference. Side note: My husband sits down to pee most of the time and I really don't understand why more men don't (exception for mornings sometimes). I noticed that the bottom of the toilet never had more than a small bit of dust on it and that all the nasty grime I was used to seeing so long ago was most likely a direct result of me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 17 | Share your badass breakup stories!My ex thought I should move out and get my own place (had been together 2 years and I moved across the country for him) but thought we'd still be able to date after I moved out. We were civil for a while and my dog had to stay with him for a bit, but when he realized I wasn't interested in dating him anymore he was very surprised Pikachu. Like boy, I already bought my own new dish set. You think I'm gonna just concede to split my stuff and move in again if it works out?? There is just no future … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Share your badass breakup stories!I got ragged on by almost everyone I knew (and ones that heard the story years later) but I stand by 16 year old me. My brother had recently died and I had a co-worker who went out of his way to try and comfort/distract me. I wasn't super interested, but he was nice and distractions were welcome. About 3 months into dating, I realized that I just hated spending time with him. He was still nice, but the whineiest guy I'd ever met! Everything had something to whine about. So driving home one day I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 19 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Totally agree. I "dated" a guy with no socials and it was just a way to cover for basically a double life. It only lasted about a month before he ghosted, and thankfully I wasn't attached emotionally. I went into his job and one of his female coworkers mentioned him having a daughter (that I had no idea about). I think she may have been trying to subtlety get me to realize he was a fraud. My husband doesn't have social simply because he doesn't enjoy them. It inspired me to disable my Facebook a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:37 PM |
| 23 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortBut.. it did affect his life. If abortion was restricted when she was pregnant the second time, he would be living with 3 people he didn't care about instead of 2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 58 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Had a coworker that would throw tantrums when he was mad and storm out of the room but still had the nerve to try and gaslight all of his female coworkers by telling us how sensitive we were when we would communicate our preferences clearly. He was constantly the worst contributer to the team (ironically the job was labor heavy) and had the worst attitude. Ignored me for months because I upset him one day (didn't tell me why). Once I was assisting him in something near the end of shift simply be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:28 AM |
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