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echoes_morning/r/seduction30/04/15 02:16 PM
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Yeah, this is what happens sometime. It's normal, not everybody have to be interested in whoever come and talk to them ! You did all the work there, if she was more interested, she would have done something to push the interaction further as well. It's not really about what you did right, and what you did wrong, but what is happening between you and her. What you can actually work on is your assertiveness. Ask yourself what do you want out of the interaction. Did you go and talk to her to be tex…
/r/seduction25/06/15 08:07 AM
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What were you doing before those 3 months ? Maybe you chasing women was too far appart from your usual self, and you want to stay at home to get some kind of balance. If you want long lasting changes to your life, you should just keep on living your regular life, and trying small things differently. Baby steps is definitely the key, otherwise you are going to keep swinging between extreme states. Trust me, it's fine not to care for a while. You don't HAVE to keep chasing girls. It's quite the op…
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:48 AM
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I read a lot of Finkel's articles, and they are very interesting. Some of them about the infamous "Hard-to-get" technique that does work if applied in general, but not as efficient regarding your specific Target, towards which you should be showing your interest.
/r/seduction08/06/15 11:17 PM
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Women wants respect and security. Once they feel they have both from you, they like to feel a little aggression from your side, as part of a game. As long as you make sure they get you respect them and you're not gonna hurt them "really". The sexual part of the brain is very close to the "fear and aggression" part of the game. That's why rape fantasies exists. But again, rape fantasies exists because they can experience the thrill in a safe environment. Get rid of that security variable and you …
/r/seduction08/06/15 11:13 PM
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I don't want to look like you're a horny dog running after all the girls. But when you actually like one girl in particular, you should stop hiding things and be shameless about your virility. And just type that on google, you will see the results :D Since the women's revolution in the 70's, there as been a lot of changes in the male/female relationship, especially regarding dominance/submission, to the point that most of the males nowadays are actually scared to show their desire to a girl beca…
/r/seduction08/06/15 11:03 PM
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I make sure to never do anything that would make a girl call me "thirsty" That might be the problem. Never hide the fact that you are attracted to a specific girl. One of the biggest turn on for a girl is to see that you want her really badly, but you're being cool about it. The only thing she needs is to feel safe. That's why rape fantasies exists, they can allow themselves to feel extremely and brutally desired and still being actually safe as it is just a fantasy. Just look online how girls r…
/r/seduction08/06/15 06:43 PM
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So first choice is about being an expert with communicating with words, and second one is about being an expert with communicating without words, right ? Then I guess both of them works just the same, if you manage to communicate exactly what you want.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:51 PM
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Being needy is just something that you are when you are too dependent on her for your own happiness. Showing interest is an action. Those things are two separate things and doesn't have any connexion between them watsoever. If you are being needy, then whatever you do is not going to work, wether it is showing interest or not. You can pretend that you are not being needy, but that's just going work short term. If you are asking this question, it is because you think that "being needy" is somethi…
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:47 PM
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Don't fake confidence, it doesn't work. Be assertive. That's it. When somebody is pissing you off, just tell them. If you are attracted to a girl, just tell her. If you are nervous doing so, then say "I am not use to do it so I am a bit nervous but I wanted to say ..." Just be assertive, that is all.
/r/seduction19/05/15 09:39 PM
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I think you quite missed the point here. But I don't even want to clarify things for you since you're acting like an asshole.
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:18 AM
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Of course it is. Horniness is called sexual tension for a reason. Sexual attraction appears in the amygdala in a region so close to the one that has to deal with "aggression" that we sometimes mistake one for another. Everytime you look at a beautiful girl you feel a big tension, and EVERYTIME there's that one second where you ask yourself "should I go hide or should I go talk to her". Whether it be that new cute workmate, or that new bartender with the beautiful eyes. It doesn't necessarily las…
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:05 PM
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I was serious. I might have exaggerated a bit, but I think that he should not worry about it nor try to hide it, and that's it's a part of him being a sexual man. Just like when you see a girl having hard nipples or whatever. When you see someone horny, it can be a turn on. Why would you hide the fact that you want her ?
/r/seduction05/05/15 09:59 PM
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Is it possible you are lacking sexual confidence ? Do you believe that a girl can actually get horny thinking about you ?
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:06 PM
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Be yourself is probably the best advice you can ever get, when it is about dating. Especially when you read all the kind of toxic crap we can find on the internet. "Be yourself" = "Be assertive".
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:01 PM
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Don't hide it, keep it just the way it is. If they notice it, just bring on the naughty smile and carry on like nothing happened, she has to be the one embarassed about it :p
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:56 PM
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Oh I completely agre with you on those part, and I'm the kind of person that prefers acting direct and honest instead of being "deceiptful". But you are also correct that it needs calibration, being sexual usually brings a lot of anxieties. Not that much during the texting part, but mostly when things are about to get real. That's why I don't do text game much. I mostly prefer agreeing to meet then start there face to face. I do agree about that "female perspective on things" part though, it is …
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:11 PM
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I was mainly referring to that last thing, about showing too much sexual intent with messages, if it's not done properly it can easily "scare" the girl
/r/seduction05/05/15 12:28 PM
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But since it is only messages, I do believe it is better to do it that way to avoid any kind of flaking.
/r/seduction05/05/15 12:07 PM
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Realize that this tension is actually horniness, and allow yourself to exude it :) EDIT: You really need to own that nervousness and not try to hide it, learn to feel confortable with it.
/r/seduction05/05/15 12:00 PM
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Nothing, that was brilliantly executed :D
/r/seduction05/05/15 11:58 AM
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This definitely sounds like it. Sexual shame is extremely common. We know girls don't like wolf-whistling at all, and other stuff like this, so we tend to mix things up and think that girls don't like to see that somebody desire them. As if wanting someone is not "appropriate". For people having those problems, it is important to understand that girls don't want to be threatened. But if you show your desire and be a gentleman about it, let her decide what to do with it. Then it will make her fee…
/r/seduction04/05/15 03:44 PM
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I quit my job eight month ago, I've changed country and moved to live in Barcelona, I have not even started to look for a job. Most of my days I just relax, play video games, watch movies, go to the beach, etc... When my friends react as if I am being stupid, acting like a loser or a wanker, I just look at them with a big smile "Admit it, you wish you could do just the same as me". And most of the time, I get this reply "Actually yeah I wish, but that would definitely make me too anxious, so har…
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:41 PM
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That's exactly the thing ! You don't need to improve ! The only reason you might want to keep improving is because you are enjoying this process of learning ! I don't need to learn how to play instruments or to be good at Starcraft 2, but I do, because I enjoy the hell out of it !
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:20 PM
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I haven't read it, what is it about ?
/r/seduction01/05/15 03:05 PM
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Yeah, I think this is definitely the very basic of pick-up. If you definitely feel like you need to have a girl to be happy, then you're learning pick-up for the wrong reasons, and it is not going to help you unless you resolve that problem. Then once it is resolved, then you can ask yourself "Is the seduction process something that I actually enjoy and want to repeat and get better at ?", if your answer is yes, then this here is the right place for you. This is something that you do because you…
/r/seduction01/05/15 10:46 AM
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I see your point, and I quite agree with you. The lack of sexual intimacy can definitely affect your sexual confidence, and the lack of sexual confidence can definitely affect other aspect of your life, especially with our modern society where the perceived social "value" of someone is influenced that much about how much sex we think they get. I wasn't really talking about "non-attachment" nor "not emotionally investing in anyone", as I completely share your view on the subject. I was more talki…
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:51 AM
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Man, I don't even know what is a Phantom. Am I being needy ?
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:17 AM
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Oh yeah, I pretty much agree with what you are saying. Being in a great relationship is really beneficial and does make for a fuller life. That's pretty much what I said in the end of that second paragraph. The point I was trying to make was that when you feel that you desperatly need a girl, and start to behave desperatly with them, that will not lead you to those healthy, mutually beneficial relationships. One must be able to enjoy his life as a single person, and then choose to look for that …
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:43 PM
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Yep, that is exactly what I am talking about !
/r/seduction30/04/15 05:13 PM
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That's a subtle thing to understand. You don't look for one because you need one to be happy. You can definitely have a happy life without ever being in a great relationship with a girl. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to look for things that could potentially make your life even better. The root for self-development is definitely self-acceptance. And accepting myself doesn't mean that I don't want to try and get new things in my life that could improve it, it mostly mean that it's okay …
/r/seduction30/04/15 05:07 PM
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When you have something like this where you don't know what to think or to believe, there's nothing stopping you from believing what would actually be helpful to you.
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:26 PM
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Any kind of "type" can attract women, the only thing that matter is to be assertive.
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:14 PM
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Maybe you still have this problem where you are kinda "ashamed" of your sexuality, and will not show it. I used to be like that, when I wanted a girl, I would kinda try to suppress this feeling as if she could read in my mind somehow, and that it would be terrible thing for her to know. Now when I want to fuck a girl, I am not trying to suppress it anymore, instead I am thinking about it even more to make myself even more horny, and she can read my mind or my body langage as much as she wants, i…
/r/seduction30/04/15 02:50 PM
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