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Not banking on anything, just trying to fully think out the situation. Luckily, my hesitation has only made her want me more- obviously she has high SMV guys after her 24/7. I have cucked guys before just not someone who I’ve both been friendly with and see so often, as well I have established a strong reputation in our wider social circle as extremely strong willed and principled, so you can understand just a slight hesitation to deviate out of that role.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:53 PM
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I have really strong morals and would feel bad but I do really want to fuck her. Also, he’s a very good connection to have going into the professional world after we graduate- and I know how bitter a cucked guy can be. I’ll consider what you said though.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:55 PM
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Man this is such a hard one to swallow- that last part I mean. I still got oneitis for this girl and see her often due to mutual friend groups, and its been really difficult to forget her, more so than other girls in the past. She was a pretty good catch but honestly, I just wasn’t ready to be in a committed relationship. Too young and immature and I still am, still getting my shit together. I always obsess about getting her back though even though she definitely doesn’t care at all about me. Re…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 10:19 PM
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What does “show a path” mean? Like things that indicate I’m going places? Admittedly, thats an area I was mostly lacking in. In general the vibe hasn’t been bored, but more disappointed that I’m not doing productive things. I play guitar, work out regularly, have a very wide spread social network and influence which allows me to go to any sort of event I’d want to, I like to run and swim and hike, and I’m very passionate about Politics but haven’t been pursuing those passions because I became la…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:21 PM
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Awesome thanks thats actually a very important point.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:00 PM
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Oh- well I want to be extremely self sufficient for starters (Im not right now and its really holding back my potential), academically and then financially succesful, and when I have these things squared away with the body I want I would like to be influential on a much broader scale than most men aspire to be. All the girls that have fallen for me (for a few months at least) have said they were sort of hypnotized when I would go on these sort of passionate rants about pretty much anything I tho…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:14 PM
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Guess so. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:08 PM
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I think it really might be mother issues, but have never seen anything here that fleshes that out. Maybe if I understood that I could fix the problem. I do know objectively theyre not unicorns but that is where my subconscious goes when they’re in my life
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:07 PM
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Good shit, will do. I think I’m having trouble conveying that I very much embody DGAF and naturally employ dread, push/pull dominance all that stuff, reason I’m here is I inevitably get into am emotional relationship with the hottest chick in the harem and all that stuff I naturally have when im truly single just evaporates.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:06 PM
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Thanks hard ass you are not wrong- one thing I’d disagree with is that I truly am not boring but I am extremely irresponsible (working on it though). I think that is why they always come back for a little bit of the roller coaster that comes with any romantic relationship w/ me. It’s not boring, but I do think they get tired of my shit, does that make sense?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:02 PM
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Thanks. I think it does have to do with upbringing. But even before TRP I had the same problem a couple times, I somehow get the hottest girl to pursue me, and end up turning her off. I think that I become clingy and needy, and that I also develop oneitis fairly easily. Even though another unicorn will come in a few months like clockwork, the problem is that I see her as a unicorn I think. I will think and maybe make another, more coherent post.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:47 AM
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In life? Or in general? I want to avoid becoming BP in my relationships.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:02 AM
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Thanks brother, I have quit the drugs and am lifting, being productive etc. it has been noticeable to all my friends which is awesome. As I said, I did block her on everything and am totally fine with her being out of my life (I have accepted it at least). Where I am confused is in the fact that our mutual friends keep approaching me unprompted and talking about her, how she wants to be friends, all this conflicting stuff that is confusing to me, as this is my first LTR ever.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:29 PM
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I have started to do that. Have two plates hitting me up right now but it hasn’t helped much. Most guys here with high SMV that she’d be exposed to are actually very afraid of me (not a good thing, but is what it is), but nevertheless Im sure shes got another guy despite people telling me the opposite.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:35 AM
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First thing I did was quit the benzos. I’m doing better than ever, but wanted to know what you all thought about the situation.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:33 AM
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No, just why she’s become awkward, whereas at the beginning of the breakup she wasn’t as awkward.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:32 AM
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Yeah I hate Trump and liked Bernie a lot but Im known as one of the biggest players in my social circle. Most guys on the left are so because its normal wherever we grow up ir is normal in college. Most are not the SJW type. I dont want to stir anything up but I feel like attraction to a strongman figure or laws to keep things ‘traditional’ are things I associate with betas because they benefit from a strict society where women are good and stay at home and do their dishes blah blah. I for one l…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:01 AM
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I had a girl who was head over heels for me but started losing interest due in part to beta traits creeping in and I know also because I wasnt fucking her good enogh. SO as you said I need to go back to the basics. Anyone have tips on that or can direct me where to go for that info?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 05:08 PM
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I can attest to this. I have had three serious relationships and all have been with 9's. The first was in my social circle, the second I had a class with , the third was technically a coworker but I got to know her through my best friend who had a class with her. The thing is, in high school (first girl) and college (second two) if you are an awesome and popular high-status dude who is also good looking it is very easy to make these types of girls not only gain interest but actually fall for you…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 02:29 PM
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Oh no I acknowledge there were many red flags. I just became delusional after having the best sex I’ve had every day for months, her gaining approval of my family, etc. I left red pill because I thought I had it under control, and I got got. So I’m not ashamed to say I need hell here.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:57 PM
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Your example of arguing with feminists on the internet does not illustrate your argument. Dont be one of those misogynist creeps. I know women throghout my life that have bent over backwards to do things for me. Women are biologically and psychologically different than men, but they are not evil for god sake.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 06:22 PM
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LOL exclusive with a girl you haven’t even banged. If you aren’t in high school you must be insane. Stop this shit
/r/askTRP09/12/17 06:20 AM
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I do have a lot of abundance, just cant get the one girl out if my head. You sre right though.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 04:05 PM
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Definitely not the orbiter, but yes he’s the obligation Im the fun ‘bad boy’
/r/askTRP08/12/17 04:05 PM
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Very true. I will say thoughbthat girl 2 is proven not to be slutty. Low body count, we are sophomores and im the only guy shes banged at this school (due to her long distance boyfriend she was faithful to for over a year). Pursued me very persistently (thanks to TRP) and still didnt let me bang for a month. Her boyfriend goes to a different school, so I think considering all girls are branch swingers there’s no need to plate her, no?
/r/askTRP08/12/17 04:03 PM
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Im a soph in college, at a school known for kids with very good looks. I am good looking but not in the chad perfect genes sort of way. Just ignore it and stop giving a fuck. It really doesnt mean shit. It hasnt hindered me in the slightest, especially if you are already pretty good looking as you have said, as long as you are above average you should not feel inferior in ANY way to better looking dudes
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:52 AM
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This post sort of sucks. First of all as you know Chad is not a real person so you can define him however you want to fit your argument. Here you pretend that he is an insecure popular pretty boy but thats just the way you want to present him. In fact I fit your description of Chad to a tee, first ever oneitis just left a couple months ago for a guy with a lower SMV. That is why I'm here. So your post has some OK ideas but you need to lurk more and shut the fuck up because you are definitely one…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 02:45 PM
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I sleep at my friends' places a lot, because I find them to be more comfortable than my bed/ bedroom, should I cut this behavior entirely?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 02:24 PM
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Are you autistic? I feel like this should be extremely obvious. When a girl is into a guy, she tells her friends about it, if she is really into you she will talk about you a lot and of course she will be pissed if her friends hook up with you....does that sound strange to you or something?
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:05 AM
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RSD is blue pill with game. TRP is a lifestyle that more often than not improves one's 'game'. PUA has some of both but it's a wide range so some are more bluepilled than others, but it still attempts to crack at the 'truth' about fundamental psychological differences between men and women and how to manipulate them to your benefit. I think PUA has to be given credit because it provided a bridge for the cultivation of many TRP ideas. Take Roissy for example, before he became a virulent white nat…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:49 AM
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21 here, gunna bookmark this post. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:34 AM
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No prob homie wish you the best
/r/askTRP25/06/17 03:49 PM
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ha you fuckin' autist. Next time you see her at a social gathering, NOT like in the street or some shit, casually walk up to her (she will give you uncomfortable looks and this will test your frame- be strong and don't let her well deserved bad vibes towards you breach it) and apologize in the most graceful way possible. Going off of this it sounds like you are not socially intelligent or are the type of aggressive that genuinely makes you seem like a douche (not the sexy kind), so this may not …
/r/askTRP25/06/17 03:21 PM
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Not sure, I'va always been broke and managed to pull girls w/ Charisma and popularity, in my experience it's not all about the money. However, I'm dealing with girls in the 18-24 age range. If that's what you're talking about then it may not be because of your money unless it's obvious how rich you are.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:37 PM
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What the fuck bro? What country are you from, might make more sense if you have a different culture toward dating because from what it sounds like it seems like you started having a monogamous relationship with this girl after THREE WEEKS?? Of course she is gunna talk to other dudes. She should have been a plate anyway at that point, and certainly after you saw she was texting her ex . I have a different perspective on these things than a lot of guys here but I truly fail to see why you give suc…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 01:00 PM
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On and off for about six months, then I moved across the country.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 09:13 AM
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Might get downvoted for this, but I personally don't think there's anything wrong with being friends with a girl you've fucked a few times. Don't like reach out to her to hang out or whatever though, that would be a very lame thing to do. If she wants to hang out and you don't have a lot of friends I'd go for it, but maximize your SMV and work on your social skills on the side. Any girl you meet through her will probably know the scoop about your fling with her and since she ended it she probabl…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:52 AM
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Don't feel bad bro, I'm pretty much Black and though I'm not into Black girls just think about the type of people that find TRP. You and I know damn well the average black guy is not receptive to this type of stuff. Black couples are obviously common as hell just look at your parents lol Seriously though don't feel bad about what you like, if other black guys aren't into black girls as much that means more pussy for YOU, and TRP (to me, at least) is about YOUR happiness.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:48 AM
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I disagree with the 20% rule and yes there is a difference. Ugly guys will not get the time of day from most girls, if you are average you can make girls wet by having lots of other good qualities. I've seen it before. One of my best friends is average or below average honestly, and his girlfriend is easily a HB8.5 at least. This is because he is intelligent and has a very bold personality- and is the master of shit tests. She calls this dude up all the time and he will literally hang up halfway…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:46 AM
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SMV is more subjective than you would think if you only read this/ the main sub. here's an example: I have lower SMV than you would think if you look at the girls that not only fuck me, but end up developing deep feelings for me. I'll tell you a story from a couple years ago that illustrates this perfectly. There's this girl, we'll call her Ira. Ira is the hottest girl at our school, no doubt. Also a bit crazy and promiscuous, but at least a 9 or 9.5- my best friend , we'll call him JP, is a stu…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:32 AM
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lifpraylove's hesitancy is typical of men his generation, and is also reasonable from his perspective. Do not worry or be hesitant about cryptos like bitcoin, though. Consider yourself lucky to be in the position you are now, you will thank yourself a thousand times over when the time comes.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:01 AM
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I'm 21 yo and hope to be in the position you are, financially, at your age. Good job my man you did it right.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:59 AM
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Cut off contact and never talk to her again.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 12:31 PM
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Depends. I've had two. One pre-tro and one post trp. The first one I would not ever want to forget because for all her faults she was a hb9 and turned me from a 'guys alpha' (but a virgin nevertheless) to someone with the confidence to know he can get really hot girls, also was the definition of a hypergamous woman, taught me many many lessons the hard way that I meeded to learn for post-teenage dating. I would also not want to ever forget the dreamy and carefree feeling of teenage love with a b…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:53 PM
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This hit way too close to home
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:36 PM
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Np bud
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:38 AM
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I mean that she is the definition of a side hoe, dictated by circumstance, and your're still thinking about her like she's more than that. So stop it
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:26 AM
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I'm sorry but judgement is required here. She is very clearly a plate in the purest sense because you already have an established LTR. Therefore you need to look inside yourself and realize the fact that you are worrying and thinking about her so much is the root, and the manifestation, of your self-proclaimed neediness. STOP GIVING A FUCK. DOn't think about how well you're doing with her, she is clearly a hoe and luckily for you she doesn't pretend to be otherwise. Get the hint and only interac…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:53 AM
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You absolutely did the right thing. That level of disrespect is absurd unless you were a MASSIVE beta during the relationship, in that case it's just nature taking its course. And just so you know to never take her back- best believe she fucked her married ex at least once during your relationship with her and on top of that probably a few other dudes too. A girl who has been in a fucking LTR with a married man has normalized immoral and sneaky behavior to such an extent that it is her most natu…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:02 AM
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Damn. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:43 AM
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I took them up on it all the time, less so when we were friends with benefits because of the oneitis- but I was fucking other girls the whole time.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:26 PM
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That's absolutely not what I'm fucking doing jackass, my last post was way too long and full of unnecessary information. The posts I got in response didn't give any advice what-so-ever. You are the only one that's given me any direction at all. The reason I reposted it is to get advice, you really think I should ghost her? Alright, that's what i wanted to know. I wanted to see if, given the circumstances, that's the thing to do from a TRP perspective. Thanks for at least giving some advice but f…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:36 PM
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What is the 6 message rule? I gave in to the subtle contact one too many times
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:11 PM
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She used to my guy. I should make that clearer int he post.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:07 PM
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It was formatted differently, but I had to copy and paste it from the main sub. Think I came across wrong in this post, all I want is advice on how to next a girl that genuinely helped you out. Is there advice on that in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:33 PM
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You sound like a piece of shit
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 08:30 AM
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This kills me. Got oneitis for a girl that I'm only recently shaking off, but damn I really told her everything about me because I thought she was special. Despite high social status and charisma it just wasnt enough to keep her around because I made myself vulnerable to her. Well lesson learned, just hurts
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:40 PM
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Fuck yeah man thanks. Also I'm pretty good about shit tests in general this one just got the best of me because I became emotionally attached, I've been fucking other girls the entire time and especially since this thing ended, but you are so right overall thanks, this is really what I needed to read/see.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:31 PM
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I really don't think there's a new Chad, she's just sort of weird- but maybe I'm wrong. If all of you guys are saying she's fucking someone else you're probably right.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:26 PM
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Ha come on dude is there really an Alpha way to post on reddit?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:25 PM
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