ecologamer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work? I took one Pilates class led by a chick I matched with on tinder… I must have been in shape, cause it felt easy	/r/seduction	09/05/26 02:09 AM
8	Is spawn camping unethical? Yes. That would be called grooming	/r/seduction	06/01/26 09:04 PM
2	21 and still a virgin. I lost my virginity at 28... and the day started off unassuming. I thought I was going on a hike with a friend.	/r/seduction	26/10/25 08:12 PM
1	Moving to SF from NYC. Am I fucked? I suggest look for opportunities to volunteer, or find groups that do activities that you like to do. There are also plenty of bars and night clubs you can check out and try cold approaching. It seems to me you are more experienced and comfortable with cold approaching. I would use that to your advantage. Since you are from SC (which is about an hour drive south), you probably still have connections who could help you out, not to mention you can always branch out away from just SF. There are ple…	/r/seduction	30/09/25 05:55 AM
1	How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up? Had one basically ask, but my house was a mess and I wasn’t willing to invite them over	/r/seduction	10/08/25 01:30 AM
3	Did anybody use Tinder to make friends with women and turn them into wing girls? I’ve had two female friends offer to be my wingman… never had an opportunity to utilize that offer tho	/r/seduction	11/02/25 04:14 AM
3	Cunnilingus Amen brother…	/r/seduction	04/02/25 03:23 PM
3	Share you kissing routines I don’t kiss enough to have a routine… at the very least when I do I don’t want chap lips	/r/seduction	23/12/24 07:55 AM
1	How a girl actually thinks! This just confirms… I’ve got nobody who fits even one of these in my life.	/r/seduction	18/12/24 08:34 AM
3	What did I do wrong? I wonder if her going to the restroom so many times was an attempt in hoping that you would follow. I’ve been dragged to the restroom before by a girl who wanted to fuck me, but I was too cowardly to step inside (not to mention there was a guard outside the restroom who stared daggers into me. This was at a college dance)	/r/seduction	30/07/22 04:39 PM
3	Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks? I'm like you Heizenbrg, I can be very sociable, and easy going, but once I am not in the room I feel like I've already been forgotten about. Whenever I see people I haven't seen in a bit, they seem excited to see me, but I rarely get invited to things. I've come to accept that I am just a wallflower at this point.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 04:39 AM
2	Welp, that was a failure. Thank you for that	/r/seduction	19/06/22 01:43 PM
1	Welp, that was a failure. I do this, and still go home alone… it gets tiring really quickly to socialize but be generally too much of a coward to take things to the next base with any woman I find some chemistry with	/r/seduction	19/06/22 06:51 AM
5	What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it? I’m sitting here wondering if people were doing that behind my back…	/r/seduction	08/05/22 05:33 PM
1	When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyed I’m curious, can you expand on why nothing good comes out of a girl bringing their friend on the first date? From my point of view, they are not comfortable with meeting someone they don’t really know alone, which is why they make the request.	/r/seduction	06/05/22 06:19 PM
1	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? Yea, case by case. In my example it could have easily led to sex… there was a lot of sexual tension. I let it die by stopping the tickling session, acting exhausted from it	/r/seduction	13/12/21 04:01 PM
11	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? I can’t answer this… but last time I had sexual tension high with a girl was because we had engaged in a pillow fight/tickle fight Edit: it was at a party and I realized it would be extremely inappropriate for me to escalate to sex so I killed the tension	/r/seduction	13/12/21 06:07 AM
6	I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any way Sometimes 2 dates aren’t enough to assure him that you are into him specifically. I went on a date with a girl relatively recently, but I had a feeling that while she seemed interested in me, she was also on dates with other guys. That feeling turned out to be correct for me. That may not be the whole case in this situation. Perhaps he might think you are still testing the waters, perhaps he just hasn’t had a chance to really be flirty in a sexual way before… it’s a bridge he will eventually cro…	/r/seduction	13/12/21 05:38 AM
1	[deleted by user] I feel the same way… I feel like I can count a number of times where there was probably an opportunity, but I didn’t feel right by it, so I let the sexual tension die. One particular time was because she was drunk and I had no idea how drunk she was. I think that we have the ability to initiate it, but it is a fine line between being a fuck boy and being genuinely interested in having a sexual relationship with someone. Unfortunately for me, I haven’t been able to get to that point with anybody …	/r/seduction	09/12/21 08:46 PM
15	Too many guys are too afraid to speak to strangers Here is the thing, I can walk up to people and start a convo, but I don’t have game… haven’t the slightest clue or self confidence to talk seduction or be flirty.	/r/seduction	12/11/21 05:47 PM
5	If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive? The only compliments I get from girls are how jealous they are of my hair 😂 Edit: and that is if they are drunk	/r/seduction	29/09/21 05:09 PM
8	25 and I have no idea what to do I feel you (27m) here with the same feeling.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 09:12 AM