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| 3 | Boyfriend seemed like a normal person until...Men like to compartmentalize things and often have selective memories about relationships so I always like to remind women to never forget those niggling feelings they have about things, no matter how small they might seem. Your brain is recognizing patterns from things you've seen or heard and taken note of in the past that seemed dangerous, it's an important survival tactic. Always trust your own mind, she's there to help you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 22 | “Love is hard” yeah ok.Ok so I'm sure if his girlfriend cheated on him and beat him he would be a-ok with that because LoVe Is HaRd 🙄🙄🙄 As for these millions of wives he claims to speak for, every woman I've ever met who stayed with their cheating abusive LVM husband and said they were happier than ever has been lying to everyone and themselves out of sheer psychological terror. I've held women crying their eyes out feeling beyond hopeless because of the latest abusive shit their LVM has pulled only to see them the ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:38 PM |
| 25 | Even the worst men will show HV traits in the beginning. This is how they hook you in.You feeling that way is no accident and you truly arent in any to blame for it - men externalize (blame others) and women internalize (blame themselves) and we have been socially groomed to do so. The important thing is you're aware of it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 24 | Even the worst men will show HV traits in the beginning. This is how they hook you in.LVM have two driving forces which frequently overlap in their lives - sexual gratification and social approval from their fathers/other men as a proxy for their fathers' approval, the latter of which manifests as feelings of emasculation (we can see evidence of this on a micro scale - their obsession with women having 'daddy issues' - "she won't sleep with me for sexual gratification, she must have daddy issues" following their own logic and projecting it onto women). LVM will do anything in pur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Asshole boyfriend dumps girlfriend because she still doesn’t look attractive to him after the nose job he pushed her into having.Misery loves company | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 11 | Asshole boyfriend dumps girlfriend because she still doesn’t look attractive to him after the nose job he pushed her into having.He's in the comments throwing a fit about FDS specifically, it's probably an incel troll who got booted from this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:21 AM |
| 46 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerThat or he was pornsick and hoping for a threesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be a Valentines PickmeishaUsername tracks 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 92 | Honestly don’t even know what to sayThis honestly reads like someone writing incest fantasy porn or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 55 | Ultimate pick-me waits nearly 20 years for her LVM's wife to die to finally be called his girlfriend ... but it doesn't work out that wayPickmeisha's been played so hard. There isn't a single doubt in my mind that she wasn't the only one he was having an affair with all those years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:25 PM |
| 131 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality."For penis reasons" 😂😂 the reason men do anything tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:29 PM |
| 104 | Woman seriously wonders if she’s wrong for pointing out that her husband is useless for not knowing where his own kids go to schoolIt has literally ALWAYS been his job to know, they're HIS CHILDREN. The type of lvm that talks about "babysitting" their own kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:32 AM |
| 155 | 😖😖😖Hope for a biologically disproportionate cartoon get a conventionally attractive but real life woman boohoo 🎻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 99 | No words.Financial abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 19 | What’s the deal with military men?My boss' husband is a military man and she's literally the worst case of pickme I have ever seen. He got her pregnant at 18 so she stayed with him through years of abusive controlling behavior, cheating on her constantly, drinking himself into oblivion and picking physical fights at bars and with her & her family, dragging her around the country to new places and leaving her there on her own with a baby, mental emotional financial sexual and physical abuse. It was so bad she sent their kid to li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Should i block my ex? 9 months post breakupChecking his social media, even if it's only occassionally, is keeping you tied to him. Sever that tie and block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:12 PM |
| 10 | Finally leveling up after 27 yrs of LVM.Good on you sis, what a journey you've been on. You've come through so much, I genuinely felt proud of you reading this 👏👏👏 per aspera ad astra, queen! Edit: your father reminds me of my father. He might be a narcissist like mine, in which case there are many resources online to help heal after being raised by narc parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:04 PM |
| 32 | After the depressing thread on HVM in cities - A general discussion on where to find good HVM.I can confirm that men studying social sciences generally tend to be LVM. My father was a social studies professor and left my mom for his much younger grad student and that is an extremely common occurrence among male social studies professors I have since learned. I did a Bachelor's in Anthropology and my professors were all LVM. The head of the department had a nanny because he didn't want to raise his own kids or clean his own house and often flirted with students. Not to mention social stud… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 12 | how to vet porn sick men?This!! A lot of the other comments mention bringing up your anti-porn stance or outright asking and I have to disagree. Pornsick men will outright lie about their porn sickness without hesitation. I've dated a few pornsick men before who swore up and down that they didn't like porn when I mentioned being against it for political reasons, only to later find literal hoards of it on their computers. Anything to get in your pants. The best tactic is to ask about it as if you're into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:04 AM |
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