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In terms of literature, I think The Art of Manliness is absolutely excellent.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 10:33 PM
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I am an accountant working on breaking into real estate investment. He just finished his PhD in biochemistry and is looking at a career in chemical patent law.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 03:59 PM
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Yes! It's one of my favorite biographies.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 03:56 PM
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I watch a lot of stuff that has female role models I want to be like. Feminine, loving, beautiful, but strong supports for their families. Once Upon A Time and Jericho are my current favorites, both on Netflix.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 03:11 PM
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I'm such a nerd, when I was watching that I kept thinking "Wow, I wonder if they only used one source, this exactly mirrors the main events and viewpoints Antonia Fraser covered in her biography." Then at the end it said "based on the biography by Antonia Fraser." I do love that movie though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 03:10 PM
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I always felt the same way about our cleaning lady growing up. It's a strange relationship.
/r/RedPillWives28/04/17 12:14 PM
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I tried Habitica and didn't like it that much, but I was doing it alone. I'd love to try it with some other people.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:48 PM
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That would be great! :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:47 PM
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Yes. There is dodging a bullet, and I totally see how that's applicable - I'm glad she isn't marrying him and having three kids, too. But there's also tact and compassion.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 07:10 PM
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That's an awesome first step. Getting over that inertia is so tough. Hey... do you want an accountability buddy? I need to lose a lot of weight too. I've really ballooned while my boyfriend and I are in an LDR. 185 pounds!! Christ! (Although I have done powerlifting in the past, so a lot of it is still muscle... I'm still getting to the point of just way too fat. Big belly coming in.) I went hiking for 2 hours last night, stopped drinking beer a couple weeks ago, and am going to try to get back …
/r/RedPillWives25/04/17 08:08 PM
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Sure. But to say she "lucked out" when her partner just died? What the hell is wrong with you guys, seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 06:46 PM
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Yes. I think I might actually post that one on my facebook without comment and see what my bluepill friends make of it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 06:24 PM
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It might be worth checking if there's a NarAnon near you, too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 04:26 PM
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/u/castawayc, I'm so sorry that you're getting such insensitive advice at such a hard time. Of course this has an effect on your life in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 04:21 PM
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I can't believe this is getting upvotes. This is an absolutely reprehensible comment to make.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 04:18 PM
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I was raised Quaker and have recently been attending a Baptist church. My partner is an atheist. For me, Christianity reinforces the tendencies towards positivity, friendliness, service to others, and self-improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:58 PM
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Teasing is fine and pretty fun in an existing conversation. Negging as I've experienced it is literally a dude striking up a conversation with a backhanded compliment while I'm up at the bar getting another beer. It's super weird.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:52 PM
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I don't think there's any one answer to this. It depends hugely on the individual people. Personally, in my relationships, the roles we take in bed correlate pretty well to the roles we have in the rest of the relationship. I can't imagine it working another way for me. But it doesn't have to be that way for everyone, even red pill women. Your kinks aren't necessarily some kind of huge indicator of the rest of your personality. It's pretty common to get subs who are powerful at work, for example…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 08:47 PM
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Yeah, it was so weird! It was like I was watching the situation from the outside, thinking "Oh wow, negging in the wild!"
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 08:20 PM
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I've certainly had guys try PUA stuff on me at bars. It's a little bit hilarious when you can just identify "Oh, you're negging. Sorry, try someone else, I'm not interested." (It's not the guy that's hilarious, it's the situation.) Haven't encountered anything else, and that one is only because I like to chill out alone with a beer and a book at the pub. I think red pill women are generally less likely to be in situations where men try that kind of tactic on us.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 07:35 PM
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This is really good news. Thanks for doing this, mods.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 11:52 PM
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On the offchance you ever move out here, drop me a line! I'll show you around. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:14 PM
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I have definitely found all those things to be true here in Cleveland too. People are so nice! It's an awesome change after living in NYC.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:34 AM
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ENFJ. My boyfriend is an ISFJ. It works out perfectly! We're both really caring people, but I want to fix the whole world, whereas he just has a small circle of people he really cares about, and I'm the biggest one. He thrives on the affection and support from me, and I get a wonderful, caring, traditional man who hides the matches when I'm trying to set myself on fire to keep someone else warm.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:33 AM
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One of the nice things about acknowledging that the sexes are inherently different is that we can see that men and women both enjoy things for reasons the other sex doesn't really get. No need to poop all over it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:30 AM
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Congratulations, that's wonderful! It sounds like you're doing a great job with a really huge adjustment.
/r/RedPillWives15/04/17 12:10 AM
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I'm feeling so appreciated by my boyfriend this week, it's awesome. I'm finishing tax season (I'm an accountant) and buying a house at the same time, which is super stressful, but I'm really happy because I keep having conversations like these: Me: "The bosses brought a masseuse in. I feel amazing. I need to take a massage class." Him: "I love that your first thought when you feel good is 'I need to be able to share this feeling with people!'" Me: "One of my clients did his undergrad in emergenc…
/r/RedPillWives14/04/17 10:49 PM
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Honestly, I think I would lose respect for my captain if he wanted to stay home while I worked. There are a lot of possible setups we've talked about, but if it was a clear reversal of roles, I'm breadwinning and he's childcaring? No, that wouldn't work. I come across it sometimes with my accounting clients and I'm glad it works for them (and it does, genuinely!), but there is a gossipy little part of me that wants to know why they're okay with that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 12:44 PM
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The men they knew were lawyers, doctors, university lecturers. So they looked and thought, 'I could do that job', which indeed they could. The wives of the men working in the factories, building the roads, working the fields, those women saw how tough working outside the home was and wanted nothing to do with it - and still don't. That is a great point which I have never seen made before.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 04:44 PM
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I'll check it out, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 04:36 PM
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Yes, exactly. My very first boyfriend was ready to marry me when I was 19 (he was 25), and I actually have been married before. Had three other proposals as well. Now that I'm with my captain I've discovered that this incredibly cliche "soulmates" type of love actually exists, and I realize why I was so annoyed with all the previous guys - it wasn't really about me, it was about the fact that I checked off all the boxes for "The Woman I'll Settle Down With".
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 07:49 PM
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You know, I was trying to think about this lately, because the main issue people seem to have on this subreddit seems to be with MMV/finding commitment from men, and I have almost the opposite problem - I don't have a high SMV but when I date a man for more than 3 months and we live in the same city, he'll start talking marriage. It just predictably happens and it's... kind of annoying? It almost feels like the flipside of the more common "men want to use me for sex" complaint. Men just see me a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 12:40 PM
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All of the things you're saying about your relationship with him sound great. Don't worry! You sound super sweet, and he sounds like he appreciates it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 12:29 PM
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Sounds like it works out pretty well for you! :) I guess that makes sense for rope or wrestling. It's a little sad though, when I was in college we went all out for events. Kids today, letting the side down. (I say, at the ripe old age of 28...)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 12:18 PM
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I don't think I've ever seen a kink event where someone in sweatpants would be let past the front door.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 11:41 AM
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Seconding OkCupid. It's really good. You get plenty of people who are there for a lot more than just sex, and it's possible to find really good matches once you've answered a bunch of questions. I met my captain there! He is amazing. I've also had a number of other relationships from OkCupid. It's a good place. A tip for a girl dipping her toe into the online dating pool... do message guys first, but don't ask them out in that message. I actually read The Surrendered Single after I had already s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 02:46 AM
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I am very modest and am complimented on that often. Oh my god. Do you really not see how hilariously ironic statements like this are?
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:55 PM
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I'd be interested in whether there's a correlating trend between the SMV and MMV of women and men. I would guess, based on my own experience, that in most couples you could just switch the scores. Woman has SMV 5 and MMV 7, man will have SMV 7 and MMV 5. If you think of MMV on a ten point scale, which I haven't really seen much.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:53 PM
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"Just" an artist/teacher. You sound wonderful to me!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:38 PM
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I still wear them on Fridays - and converse when I'm in the office on Saturday! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:37 PM
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I have definitely found this to be true also. I work in accounting and my uniform used to be trousers (usually unflattering ones), a stretchy blouse, an old cardigan, and ballet flats. Now I'm in dresses, heels and either a nice cardigan or a swingy blazer. The difference is night and day. Everyone is much more chatty and complimentary. And in tax accounting, it's so important for clients to like you on a personal level.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 08:00 PM
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I'm grateful that my boyfriend started researching a wider variety of job paths this week. I'm confident he can get into the tiny field he wants to try, but it's reassuring that he's resourceful and thinking of back up plans. I'm grateful that I found some wonderful real estate and finance professionals this week who have really gone out of their way to help me out while I search for an investment property. And I'm grateful that my cat is a weirdo who likes to eat ants because they're in the kit…
/r/RedPillWives05/04/17 02:30 AM
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Maybe I've just been lucky in my communities (I lived in Scotland for a decade, and I really think European poly communities are more developed) but I just haven't seen that much major drama. I know five stable poly families, with nine kids between them all, one on the way and more planned. Two solo poly moms with regular boyfriends the kids know and love, a V with a husband and two wives, a quad with two husbands and two wives, and a triangle with a man and two women. Back in the USA I'm dealin…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 03:22 PM
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I've seen you say this a few times. It's really unlikely. Either you're lying about multiple therapists telling you the problem is where you live (which... that seems like a really strange thing for multiple therapists to tell you*) or they were trying to get across something that they couldn't make you understand. Either way, it's clear that you don't believe it, because if you did, you wouldn't be asking "Why are men acting this way towards me despite my wonderful characteristics?" you'd be as…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:00 PM
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It's impossible for strangers on the internet to tell you what's wrong with your MMV. However, I will say that one of the most important qualities for a woman in a relationship is the ability to understand that she might be wrong about things, and you seem very hard-headed in the face of evidence that there definitely is something you're lacking.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 12:56 PM
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Um, ew. :/ I love men with beards. I've never encountered that problem. As far as I'm aware they all shampoo their beards at the same time they're doing their hair. My captain does, at least.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:22 AM
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If there are so many different things you could work on, pick one, and work on just that. What's your top priority? This sounds like a really good one to work on, if you ask me: I don't want to be a push over like I am now and be surprised when people take advantage of that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 01:20 AM
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I hope he isn't. Guys like this give polyamory a bad name.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:38 AM
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Heck yeah poly redpill. :) Honestly, the fixation on group sex would have been a dealbreaker for me too. Not all poly people want orgies all the time, and the considerate poly people who aren't drama llamas listen to their partners' needs. This guy sounds like a bit of a jerk.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:37 AM
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Happily partnered, polyamorous RPW checking in. We are not monogamous and it works super well for us. And I want you to know that you did absolutely the right thing. His fixation on this was a red flag and you listened to your instincts. It would have been bad. Good choice, lady. Threesomes are a sexy fantasy for a lot of men. But there are many, many, many men out there who will happily set that fantasy aside when they meet a monogamous woman they love. You are not being jealous, scary, or extr…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:34 AM
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So, that is very impressive, congrats on finishing, and yes I've done Tough Mudder and Survival of the Fittest in the UK and wanted to die after both of them, but why is this in this sub?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 03:55 AM
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He was the gerbil to my hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 01:44 PM
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I am deeply happy. He's wonderful. :) It'll be even better when we can be in the same physical location again, but governments these days, with the visas and the paperwork...
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 11:45 AM
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I meet guys via OkCupid and my questions lay it all out. So they know. We got into it a bit more once we started having sex - "What are you into, here's what I'm into, hard limits?" I had a lot of sex before I found the red pill. Lots. Mostly very kinky. My captain was not nearly as experienced with kink as I am but is a true, natural, mature dom. So many men claim "I am the Twu Dom, kiss my boots!" but can't live up to it. He really is, and loving to boot. It worked out perfectly. Our kinks mes…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:26 AM
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Oooh, interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:17 AM
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What is RPWi?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 01:01 AM
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Yes! The first guy I ever dated was like that. An absolute sweetheart and very good provider... and the most boring, "whatever you say, honey" man imaginable. I think of him as the amoeba. He was all set with the house, car and job just waiting for me to finish college. I ran.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 12:25 AM
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I think that "first gen feminism" attitude is becoming more popular with millennials, though. A lot of us are really annoyed that feminism seems to mean that we must be harried working moms, doing everything men do and more, in heels. Not appealing. Feminism was supposed to be about choice. I don't think RPW and real feminism are even contradictory, necessarily. (Mainstream male red pill, yeah, definitely doesn't work with feminism.) I remember having this argument with my mom at 12 when I took …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 05:33 PM
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Uh, what?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 09:17 AM
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He hugs me close if I'm feeling nervous or sad. He likes that I usually grab the back of his shirt when he hugs me. (It's a really comforting, grounding thing for me and my ex-husband used to push me away whenever I did it.) He lifts weights. I have a childlike tendency to go out in clothing totally inappropriate for the weather. He keeps an eye on this and scolds me for not having my jacket or rain boots etc. It's super sweet. Last winter he told me to go out and buy a proper winter coat, and o…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 09:12 AM
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That is just too cute. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:51 PM
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This is definitely true. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar, but more importantly, it makes everyone feel good about the situation. I had a situation like this while I was in Scotland. I was taking a train alone from one city to another late on a Sunday night, when there weren't a lot of trains running, and I wasn't very familiar with the trains. I got on what I thought was the right one, but when the conductor came around to check tickets, he looked concerned and asked where I was goi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:28 PM
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Heh. :) It's quite nice actually. We definitely will get married, but the situation is tough right now since I had to leave the UK and he's finishing his PhD. I don't want him to get me a ring until he's working, and I can't go back to the UK until we're engaged. But lately whenever he's really pleased with me he's been asking me to marry him. :) Met him a few months after I started reading RPW...
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 01:00 AM
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Yes! This is a really, really interesting way to look at it. Thank you, /u/loneliness-inc.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 09:35 PM
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I really enjoyed What Southern Women Know.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 08:01 PM
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We're long distance right now, so I can't do what I really want... but I arranged for a crate of craft beers, four burgers and sides (wings and sweet potato fries) from our favorite place to be delivered to him and his flatmates. It took some effort with an ocean between us, but everything should show up at their door in about two hours. :D Edit: Burgers and beers have arrived for my lovely man and his excellent flatmates! "You're the best. Also marry me. The flat are cheering your name."
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 05:06 PM
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She is really cool. It's a shame she's also a little psycho. I really look up to her... just, you know, from a distance whenever possible. :P it's not like life is perfectly free of emotionally draining problems and/or regrets by doing so. Yeah, exactly. Would Mom have been happier if she'd gone red pill? In some ways, definitely, but overall, probably not. She definitely would be happier if she had more kids and had longer with her husband but she'd also be miserable if she had let her parents …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 01:55 PM
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Kind of archaic outside the Midwest, probably! :) A switch is a thin flexible branch cut to hit someone with; usually a kid who has been naughty. it stings like anything. So to make a switch for your own back is to create something yourself which is going to cause you pain.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 12:57 PM
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SJW reasons, basically. Her specialty is a very noble one, she's one of the most eminent professors at a diverse inner-city college teaching kids who are bootstrapping themselves up, and her dad always told her she wasn't smart enough to do a PhD. I love her and admire her ideals and I do get it. But geez, she has made a switch for her own back. Edit: How to motivate a feminist - tell her she can't do something you're encouraging her brother to do.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:14 PM
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TLDR: My mom is one, already was when she had me. Now retirement age but not planning to retire. She managed to "have it all" and seems pretty content but has made some huge sacrifices and her life has completely convinced me to swallow the red pill. My mom was in her thirties when she met my dad and 37 when she had me. Dad was 10 years older than her. Older parents didn't work out well for me. I have a major birth defect and dad is dead. Life for her, though, has worked out pretty much as well …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 02:22 AM
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It's only an issue if you make it an issue. If you can't let go of the thought that your captain needs to be smarter than you, of course it's going to be a stumbling block. But personally, I think it's very possible to hand over authority to a man who's not as smart as I am. My captain and I are more or less equally book smart (both very). But I'm definitely the one into more "intellectual" hobbies, and I definitely have the better practical business brain. Doesn't matter. He's still the authori…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:31 PM
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1) No, partly because I haven't been reading feminist books for about 2 years. 2) People don't even bother saying it now. It's like you're asking for a book published in the last year by a Jewish author who has publicly rejected Joseph Goebbels. The assumption is they don't agree; if anyone is saying anything about Dworkin, it's much more likely to be putting up their hand to say "Actually, I do think all sex is rape!" 3) You probably already know that. Are you having a good time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 11:01 PM
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A fuckton of feminists reject Dworkin. Even in my bluest bluepill days I never met anyone who still took Dworkin seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:15 PM
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Knitting groups are often surprisingly bluepill! It's become a young urban hipster activity in a ton of places.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 01:56 AM
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Mary Margaret from Once Upon a Time! She's so sweet and girly, never sloppy, but also practical. Strong and feminine, totally devoted to her man and their family.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 01:54 AM
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RPW with score 1. Presumably because he calls/texts me all the time. Which I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 05:13 PM
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I actually got into it by reading The Art of Manliness. I was linked to it because I lift weights and they have a really good article on increasing your grip strength, and then stayed because there's a ton of practical Skills For Being An Adult type stuff. But since then, I've been keeping tabs on the Family & Relationships section and there's a ton of good stuff. Yes, it's written for men... but an article like "How do you know if she's the one" for men is also a great guide for women.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 10:38 AM
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I use a lot of asian beauty products and it's made a HUGE difference to my skin. Relevant to this thread, I use sunscreens by Biore every day and it's a great preparation for makeup, unlike thick, sticky western sunscreens.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 09:28 AM
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I've definitely found this with my boyfriend. He's not the type of egotistical alpha-male described here, but is definitely a lot closer to it than the milquetoast end. A strong personality, but gentle about it. "No, don't stay home. Your friends have invited you out and I think it would be good for you to get some social time." "I would appreciate it if you saw a doctor about your headaches as soon as you can." "No, I don't want us drinking any booze tonight; I'll pick up some beers this weeken…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/16 04:10 PM
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OWI?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 04:48 PM
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I was raised Quaker but haven't gone to Meeting in quite a while. I still feel that I'm religious, though, and have been leaning more towards mainstream Christianity. I haven't found a sect yet that I feel entirely comfortable with but I am going to a local Pentecostal church a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 12:27 PM
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Oooh, the idea of "after work dresses" is great. I see a new section of my wardrobe coming on. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 06:05 PM
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Sorry, I know this is an old post, but I've recently figured out what's going on when my husband does this. Maybe it's the same for other guys. When my husband says "Oh you don't need all that" or other things that imply he doesn't need/want me to get all dressed up, or all made up, etc., I think it's actually that he wants me to look great without it looking like I had to make it an effort. Really, he wouldn't want me to be slobbing around in sweatpants and no makeup all the time, but he wants …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/15 06:03 PM
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I listen to podcasts on my iPhone. When I search for new ones, I tried just typing in "Jane Austen" and a bunch of audiobooks came up. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 08:01 PM
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But boring just sounds so good to me right now. Doing the same thing every month? Heaven! :) I guess I'd better stay to get my CA, then. I'm really starting to think I bit off more than I can chew, honestly. But if I could land in a position like what you're doing, that would be amazing- especially at a tech company. I work really well with tech geeks.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 03:00 PM
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Nope. My friends are all super blue pill SJWs. I'm a recent convert, ha. I wish I did have some real life rpw friends, I feel like that would be so encouraging.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 02:50 PM
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Yeah, I'm in audit too, but in the UK, so at least I haven't got it quite as bad as you poor souls in the New World, lol! When I apllied I thought "Audit, cool, I'll be preventing White collar crime!" Ha, ha, ha. God I just hate audit so much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 02:47 PM
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Yeah, that's definitely what I want to do. Right now I'm kind of locked in because I'm still getting my CA and if I left is have to pay back my training fees, but I hate the big 4 so much I'm seriously considering it anyway. I'd love to just get a little low-pressure accounts payable job or something.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 02:43 PM
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Ah, I see. Well, still - I'd wait until then and see what happens. He might have plans that he hasn't told you, and if he doesn't, you can ask him about it afterwards.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 08:57 PM
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Yep, some people create a wedding registry at a specific store - basically a wish list of housewares and things that they want. That's always great because you can pick something in your price range, you know it will go down well, and lately with electronic registries you can even be sure that no one else has bought them the same tea set or whatever. Not everyone does that though, I think it's becoming less of a thing. In my experience it's mostly done by people who go for the Big White Wedding.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 08:56 PM
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I'm not sure I understand, sorry! He will be around at the same time as your parents, or not?
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 08:06 PM
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It's pretty similar in America. My mother paid for our reception (quite small, by our preference). But even though it was fairly small our guests gave us cash gifts of about ten grand, plus a number of nice household items to help us set up a home.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 07:02 PM
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I didn't wait very long between discussing marriage and actually being proposed to, but we were under time pressure due to my visa status. In your place, I would try to calm down until after July. He has said that he wants to ask your parents for permission when you see them then, hasn't he? I would wait and see what happens then. If he believes strongly in getting your parent's permission, he may be waiting for that before making any further plans. Alternatively, if you go in July and it turns …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 06:57 PM
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Good lord. You know... I'm in training with a Big 4 accounting firm right now and I hate it. I know my husband doesn't like it either. I'm starting to hope that my story works out exactly like yours and your wife's.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 04:43 PM
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The Millionaire Mind Toxic Parents How to Win Friends and Influence People (cliche but it's actually great)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 04:10 PM
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Seconding this advice! I met my husband at a gaming group. A lot of guys really like it when women have geeky interests (as long as we don't beat them at games too often, lol). If she's into that kind of thing, groups for her interests are a great way to meet people and get more comfortable with her social skills, regardless of whether she's looking specifically for a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 06:45 AM
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I just wanted to let you know that I first heard about you because one of my very-feminist friends found your stuff and said "Hahaha, ecosse, you should read this! This seems right up your alley!" (He was joking. Majorly. He thought it was crazy.) I did read it and it's been enormously helpful. It's a slightly smug little secret, because my husband and all our friends are very "bluepill", and would be shocked if they knew I read your books... but strangely, my husband seems very happy with our r…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 04:14 PM
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Wait, are you a man, /u/ZenNate? Definitely don't do this. I would be so creeped out by my uncle giving me a book called "The Art of Seduction".
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 04:05 PM
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haven't read it, but I have heard excellent things about it and the author. That said, personally, regardless of how helpful or not it might be, I would find it very strange and uncomfortable to be given a book titled "The Art of Seduction" by my aunt. That would be a "I have kooky family members" anecdote in the making for me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 03:58 PM
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That would be great. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 09:37 AM
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Ugggghh. No, that's not normal at all. Classic narcissist behaviour. Oh man, I'm so sorry. I have so much sympathy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 06:53 AM
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I'm so sorry you're dealing with that, hon. :(
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 06:51 AM
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Yes. I actually have that book on my desk. If you found it helpful, another really good one is "Toxic Parents". Hilariously, on the same day I ordered it, my mom sent me a book on how to be a high-achieving executive with great kids and a hot body. Pretty much sums up our relationship. This is something I've been working on with a therapist for over a year. Could post more but currently on phone. This stuff is incredibly difficult; my inbox is always open if you want to talk. Also, /r/raisedbyna…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 10:21 PM
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Hm, okay, let's see. Bi. Yep, very comfortable. Certainly it helped me grow sexually. And yes, I was. "Spice it up"? Well, we're pretty kinky. My hard limits are pretty far along. They include rimming (doing or having done, just not okay with me), anything to do with feces/urine. Nothing that will leave scarring. And I have very strict rules around safety, in terms of STDs, pregnancy prevention, and also physical safety when getting kinky. Are you asking me what my sexual fantasies are here? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 05:51 PM
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Thank you. It was definitely a low point for me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 05:37 PM
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I went to visit my boyfriend for the weekend and we had a lot of very rough sex. (Totally fine; we were both into it being rough.) Then, later that afternoon, he broke up with me. He told me that he had been thinking about it before I came down, but wanted to see me again before he decided. He never mentioned anything about it before I visited at all, even though we were talking daily. So I was sitting there, in pain from being pretty brutally fucked, physically used up, unable to go home until …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 01:56 PM
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My husband's favorite is a pasta dish that I've been making for years. The first time he had it, I had done a huge batch for a bunch of friends who were over at my place for movies, and he said "You know, I'd have been very happy to be served that at a restaurant." That was a good year before we were dating... ;) I still make it in bulk because it's great as leftovers. I use a pack of back bacon, a white onion, usually a whole bag of spinach, whole punnet of chestnut mushrooms, packet of low-fat…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 06:38 PM
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Just wanted to check in again to say that I found out these lovely ladies have their HQ ten minutes away from me: http://www.swri.org.uk/index.htm Definitely going to have a look at them. I don't think they're the same as the WI but they look great!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 05:12 PM
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Despicable behavior is not always criminal This is the crux of it, I think. Yes, sometimes women are pressured or manipulated into sex. Sometimes we're really enthusiastic and then see afterwards that we were manipulated and taken advantage of. (Been there. I felt totally violated. It really sucks.) Men who do that are jerks. Total jerks. I understand why women are really angry at them. But criminalizing it isn't going to help, it just makes it harder for anyone to feel safe in their own actions…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 08:24 AM
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I'll check it out!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 08:31 PM
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I heard really good things about the Junior League when I used to live in the States. I'd absolutely love to find something similar in the UK, if anyone has suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 03:50 PM
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Oh for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 08:22 PM
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Italy has a birth rate of 1.4 per woman and pretty terrible gender equality by modern Western standards. I think I still agree with you in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 06:52 PM
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One thing I've done to keep from being horrible to people who I felt would have deserved it is to write their name on a piece of paper and put it in my shoe. It seems kind of silly, but it's so easy to be very cheerful and polite to a jerk's face when you're quietly thinking "I've been stepping you all day." And then eventually you just get out of the habit of talking about it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 05:13 PM
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We hyphenated because it was important to my husband that we have a single last name as a family, but I really did like my own last name too and didn't want to entirely lose it - partly because I feel like it's one of my last connections to my dad who died when I was 15. Also my dad had only daughters and I know he was a little disappointed that his surname wouldn't be passed on, so this was a nice way to help him out. :) If my husband had had a preference that I entirely take his name I would h…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 09:55 PM
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I've just discovered that a lot of classic books are available as free audiobooks with one chapter per podcast. I'm listening through a bunch of Jane Austen right now and loving it. Saved me a bunch of money, I usually get audiobooks from Audible.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 11:42 AM
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