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Fundamentalsecphotoman/r/seduction05/09/20 11:05 AM
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If AI and insecurity was a person lol 😂
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:47 AM
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If they ask you to buy them drinks, they probably have a man waiting for them at home. Don’t do it man, most girls that are interested won’t ask for a drink…they will wait to see if you get them a drink. Save your money.
/r/seduction11/07/23 03:41 AM
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Are we playing bonk, marry, kill?
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:27 AM
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Suggestion: Be yourself. Seriously though, if she wants to have sex with you she will. Girls like to laugh, but don’t be a complete clown. Use the occasional one liner and that’s it.
/r/seduction27/09/20 05:05 AM
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I'm in my 30's now and I'm still learning to love myself. You can't get it from external sources, your worth and your validation has to come from within you.
/r/seduction11/09/20 04:15 AM
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Do you smoke?
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:34 PM
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Lol. That's a confident move, she might respond to that.
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:45 PM
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It's a little more complicated today. Location based app dating both revolutionized dating and ruined it in one fell swoop. If you ask for the time now, she's going to think your a broke scrub that can't afford a smart watch.
/r/seduction09/09/20 08:45 PM
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Ok...a couple things to unpack here. First of all, hang in there buddy. Second, don't be in such a rush to pair up. I always struggled with girls in high school so I was in a rush to catch up. I went on as many dates as I could. I also got into a 1 and a half year relationship that was toxic. I then casually dated for about a year. I then met someone that I thought was amazing. At 21, I got engaged and married at 22. I have now been married for over 9 years. If I could do it all over again, I wo…
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:12 AM
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It's always okay to initiate, but keep in mind that if your the one always initiating it looks clingy or needy. I'm not a pickup artist or anything. I've just had a bunch of failed relationships and a 10 year marriage. If at your age I knew what I know now, life would have been so much easier and a lot less heartache.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:19 PM
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Don't wait that long either, at some point it goes from looking slightly aloof to looking like a dick. I would say usually wait overnight or a few hours.
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:40 AM
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Yes and in turn makes her less interested. Do you answer her messages immediately?
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:38 AM
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When she texts you, don't answer right away. When she wants to hang out, don't always accept. One of the best ones I have found is to ignore a text for a little while, post something on IG and then wait a little longer to respond to her text. It shows that she is not the only thing you are paying attention to. When you are always available and jump at the chance, women tend to see you as less valuable. Don't be needy!!!!! That's the worst thing you could do if you want out of the friend zone. Do…
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:09 AM
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I've been married for 9 years, 7 of them happily. This damn quarantine has really messed things up for me at home. It's a lot harder to have a happy home life when I can't get away from the misses ever. At least before I could go meet up with friends or spend time on campus since I'm working on a degree. School is virtual and all indoor activities are closed in my state. Thank God I work on the front line and can't work from home.
/r/seduction06/09/20 11:12 PM
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Stop smoking weed if you want to be able seduce anyone. Keep smoking weed if you want women to think you play hacky sack and smell like patchouli.
/r/seduction06/09/20 11:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure that's the only option, I just have to work up the courage to finally leave. I feel so guilty leaving her and breaking all the promises I made on our wedding day.
/r/seduction05/09/20 12:18 PM
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I know I promised I would stay through good and bad. I also have been trying really hard to make it work. I never believed in therapy, I thought they are quacks. But to try to make it work I started seeing one. I tried to get her to do therapy too, but she refuses. I try to voice concerns, but it's always perceived as an attack and turns into a two day fight. I'm just tired of being the grown up all the time. I would love to just walk away, but she has no family support system so I feel guilty l…
/r/seduction05/09/20 12:16 PM
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That's good man, we're all trying to work on things for the better.
/r/seduction04/09/20 04:02 AM
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That's a wise plan. I'm writing her a letter as we speak. It will be harder for me because we work together and I'll be forced to see her at least 3 12hr shifts a week. That playlist I made to make myself feel better. Write a letter, it's therapeutic. Even if you don't give it to him, it's good to write out everything you feel alone in a controlled in environment instead of in the heat of the moment. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6kowxiXdW3BJTldrfgVxZL?si=SDKui7hcSZuFCLUaEmQlVg
/r/seduction04/09/20 12:51 AM
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I'm in a similar situation. I've known this girl from work for 2 years, and we've hung out at group events before. But about 6 months ago we started hanging out together, solo all the time. She's over at my house every day we don't work, some times all night. She's always sending me, memes, quotes, flirty texts, has something to say about everything I post on social. Being the fool that I am, over the last 2 months or so I've started to get romantic feelings for her. I've started to do things I …
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:56 PM
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