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ecrvnr/r/askTRP13/02/16 11:57 PM
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Trickle truth to the max. She certainly didn't just suck a guy. And I'd go as far as doubting she was a virgin at all before meeting you. Anyway, I'd demote her back to plate at the very least.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:38 AM
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Exactly this. It's pretty common knowledge too. It's all about abundance mentality and realizing that your GF won't leave you if you say "I can't go out with you tonight because I'm seeing friends".
/r/askTRP10/07/17 06:22 AM
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Nah you're just becoming edgy.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 02:21 PM
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Forces you to get disciplined about something, increases testosterone level and the gym atmosphere will teach you to be man.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 07:07 PM
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If those are the only two possibilities in your mind I rather pity you lad.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:07 AM
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At least I'm not LARPing my life away.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:49 AM
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You can cheat on your woman, but never let your woman cheat on you. Yeah nah fuck off. Some people in this sub have their head so far up their own ass that they're conflating "being an awesome red-pilled man" with "being a shitty womanizer who won't ever stand by their woman". Stop LARPing, get real.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:41 AM
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Yeah, can't say I'm feeling sorry for you. You cheated in the first place, and she's now merely playing by the rules of the game that you started, eventhough YOU won't. To be honest you're entirely at fault here and there's nothing you can do except wait it out. Btw your wife is definitely having sex with that other dude.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:38 AM
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Some of you guys are pretty delusional. This isn't a shit test in any way, she simply isn't that into you. She's going with another dude and felt bad for you. Next her and if she ever comes back to you with more than "Asking you about some stuff you discussed earlier" then maybe there'll be a reason to think she's attracted to you.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 11:54 AM
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Some of you guys are pretty delusional. This isn't a shit test in any way, she simply isn't that into you. She's going with another dude and felt bad for you. Next her and if she ever comes back to you with more than "Asking you about some stuff you discussed earlier" then maybe there'll be a reason to think she's attracted to you.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 11:54 AM
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Trickle truth. Surely she didn't merely suck them off.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 07:40 AM
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Lol that's actually a pretty good response to that nonsense.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:09 AM
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So she wasn't alone then. The answer is no, it isn't safe for a woman to cycle alone in the middle east, but it's safe for a woman to cycle in the middle east with a heavily armed security detail.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 02:25 PM
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Monk mode is shit and won't solve anything. I've been in your situation, fapping to porn 3+ times a day and whenever I ended up with an actual I'd either not get it up or just bust my load in 20 seconds. What I did that helped a lot was drop porn altogether, and fap AT MOST once a day, using only my imagination and memories of girls I'd fucked previously, ideally just 2 or 3 times a week, except instead of shaking your dick like a madman you do slow, full strokes, while making sure to breath dee…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:13 PM
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Your hobbies are baseball on TV and LoL? It's true though that your gf should probably find shit to do to keep herself busy when you're not available. I dumped my ex for this reason. She had nothing to do in her life so she took it pretty bad every time I told her I couldn't see her because I was busy with other stuff. Emotionally dependent women are a hell of a burden and they're more likely to cheat on you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:09 PM
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Regardless, still a valid reason to next her.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:02 PM
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The guy manages to identify the reasons why Trump won and still starts his video by saying Trump is a sexist racist Hitler. This is the furthest thing from redpill. It's just your average liberal clueless rant.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 07:41 PM
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That's pretty good.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 03:43 PM
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lmao okay buddy
/r/askTRP01/11/16 08:02 AM
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Haha sorry man, that wasn't my intention. It's just that, when I read this sub and /r/theredpill I sometimes feel like some of the people are losing their way and confusing "be your own man and value yourself" with "just do whatever the fuck pops up in your mind and fuck everyone else and especially fuck consequences". Yes, fucking a different girl every night is fine. Yes having plates is fine. Yes, wanting to put your career before the wants and needs of others is fine, but I do believe you ha…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:06 PM
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Alright well I suppose we sort of agree on the idea but don't draw the line at the same point. I am certainly aware that the "game" is immoral and that it'll involve making some women in one's life unhappy. For example I certainly wouldn't care about a plate suddenly deciding she's jealous and wants me to stop fucking other girls. Where I draw the line is when you get in an LTR. Getting in an LTR doesn't necessarily involve marriage and kids, but it involves getting somewhat serious about this p…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:40 PM
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Sorry, but no. If you're unhappy with your gf because she won't do anal, you can either accept it or drop her and find yourself a girl who will. This isn't a plate, it's an LTR. Cheating and then pretending that lying about it is the right thing to do is hamstering, it's as simple as that. I know I'm just gonna get downvoted to shit because some people here don't like to be reminded of their hypocrisy, but I had to mention it anyway.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:45 PM
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I see the hamster isn't exclusive to women. This is some next level rationalization. OP, I suppose your history before you met her is your own business and you don't have to tell her about it if you don't want to, but cheating on her because you weren't getting what you wanted from her is what a lot of posts on this sub are about, except we all spend a whole lot of time claiming only women do that. Again I'm not your dad or a judge, and I can't compel you to tell her about it, but what right do …
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:25 PM
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she has since started suggesting I deceived her and took advantage of her Just to be safe there, make sure you keep all her previous text especially the ones where she said you did nothing wrong. Other than that I guess there isn't much more to say, tell her it's a shame she would think you took advantage of her and wish her well.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 03:35 PM
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Dan Bilzerian is a male Paris Hilton. Vulgarity galore and massive insecurity denoted by the need to let the whole world see how "I totally slay pussy and have so much money". Don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:59 AM
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Do you think her being a virgin changes much? I think her being a virgin makes this even more plausible. I'm no expert but I'd say most girls would like their first time to be somewhat meaningful and not with a random chad who'll never call them back. I'll just sort of restate my previous post but from my past experiences, I'm thinking OP being very confident is a good thing in the long term but might have worried her at first, because she thinks he's just used to doing that with a bunch of girl…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:24 PM
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At night I received messages that she is forever mine, and I am only hers. I told her that I would stay with her as long she is with me. She also said I love you and is now being close. A girl texting you that after a first or second date is absolutely head over heels and definitely wouldn't mind having sex with you. I've had that sort of thing a few times. A first date going really well, getting frisky and suddenly they'd stop me completely because they really wanted it but they were scared tha…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:04 PM
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She cried because she wanted the fuck out of you but was either impressed or didn't want to go too far to not come across as a slut. You did nothing wrong but you should stay a little cautious because she sounds like she's gonna become extra clingy.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:01 PM
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My recent dating experience made me realize I only need a girl around for sex, because they usually only make it worse emotionally.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 01:45 PM
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The one I do usually is : Go to a bar, have a pint or two When you get your second drink maybe try to transition to billiard or something if the bar you chose has that At that point you can have one or two more drinks if your game is lasting a long time Move on to walking in a park or sitting down near a pond or whatever, if she's up for that then you'll most likely be able to escalate That's for a first date obviously, once you know her better you might wanna do some more "fun" stuff like clubb…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 07:14 AM
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Yeah that was pretty wtf. I mean, I'm not one to put the military on a pedestal but I don't think these bitches realize what being deployed means.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 08:21 AM
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I haven't read anything so sad and deluded in a long time. This is the absolute product of a cucked sheltered society. Horrifying, really.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:44 PM
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Jesus fuck, the very beginning of the video is already cringeworthy. That pseudo-journalist claiming that a government working for its people first and everyone else second is racism... But yeah to go back to redpill and frame, Nigel, whether you agree with his political views or not, is undeniably more charismatic than any of the limp-dicked lefties that pretend to be government leaders.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:29 PM
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I had a girlfriend like that. My most recent ex actually. Every time we were having a conversation that was moving towards somewhat heated topics (politics, feminism, stuff like that), she would most of the time parrot feminist memes such as wage gap and the likes, and accuse me of "stepping all over her" when I disagreed with her. Terribly fucking annoying and it also makes it impossible to take the person seriously.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:48 PM
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Yeah holy fuck, the way she instantly resorts to 4th wave feminist/victim rhetoric the second she gets called out on her bullshit. To think there are guys out there stuck with women like that...
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:43 PM
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Yeah I got that feeling as well but in the end does it matter? If it's some SJW fishing for material to post on her blog she'll find it in this or another thread anyway so might as well anwser honestly. And if it's actually not a fake, then good on her husband!
/r/askTRP19/06/16 05:30 PM
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Yeah I actually have brown leather shoes but they're too long to put on just for a pic. As for the shirt I do roll up my sleeves almost every time but I'm going out now and it's cold as fuck heh! But good advice, that's what I would have told anyone.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 08:02 PM
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The type of clothes hardly matters. When it comes to "fashion", less is more. A pair of black pants with a plain shirt or t-shirt is perfectly fine. What matters is that it fits. A loose shirt isn't flattering, a slightly tight shirt is. So, right now all you can do is lose weight. I'm a student, so I'm poor as fuck, and on any given day I have about $50 to $100 bucks worth of clothes on me, and I still get occasional compliments on how well my shirt or polo fits. Pic related
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:23 PM
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I already replied to a few other comments but I'll add my grain of salt. Don't underestimate the importance of sex. A couple without a regular and healthy amount of sex is doomed. As I said in another comment, that doesn't mean you should constantly force yourself. As everyone else you're allowed to have stuff on your mind or be knackered etc (as is your husband), but you guys should make it a point to have sex regularly, and to try new shit as much as possible. That also implies keeping in top …
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:08 PM
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1, 3, 4 and 5 are good tips, but 2 is the reason a lot of marriages end in bloody divorce. This is fucking stupid, making sex a duty will eventually make it a chore. I turned down my gf for sex plenty of times because I was tired, or had a lot of my mind or whatever reason, and she did too occasionally for her own reason. Sex is a very common cause of shitstorms that can destroy relationship because of a serious lack of communication. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable. If you start forcing yours…
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:03 PM
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This subreddit promotes a good outlook on life, but it being kind of an echo chamber leads to some extreme views being formed, with a few new members coming here after a heartbreak and thinking this place is all about hating women. Welp if you want advice about being a good wife to your husband, here's my motto when it comes to women : I don't want to be with someone who needs me, I want to be with someone who wants me. Respect your husband, make sure you pull your weight in all aspects of your …
/r/askTRP18/06/16 06:56 PM
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She sees you as an orbiter and doesn't even try to hide it from you because she's confident that you're desperate enough that you'll stick around even if she shamelessly calls you her loyal dog. So there are two possibilities : -You have actually fucked her, in which case who cares what she's says, she's still putting out so enjoy the pussy and don't get invested in her in any way. -You haven't fucked her, and you probably never will. Soft next her and see what happens.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:33 AM
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How the fuck does that kind of shit not land you in jail? She literally tricked some guy into having a baby without his knowledge and is probably now getting alimony from him, that's fucking INSANE.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 04:19 PM
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I need someone to translate this.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 01:15 PM
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Yeah this is the best response. Either a rhetorical question, like "Why, are you trying to make me uncomfortable?", or just be honest "Yeah kinda, that shit is just gross".
/r/askTRP24/03/16 06:16 PM
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Give him a thumbs up and say "Big man" while smiling.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:21 PM
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Not completely true. It's not like movies will "increase your SMV", but having an extensive culture usually makes you a more interesting person, which does have an influence on SMV.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:32 PM
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Pretty much. Big sweaters are comfy, they have your smell and reminds them of you.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:27 PM
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You can't expect an LTR without drama. The problem here is that you took her tantrum seriously. When she's in a bad disposition just leave her alone, go do something else and don't think of her. If the drama eventually becomes to much then plate her or next her.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 07:16 PM
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Dude I know AWALT and so on, but if you're gonna wonder if you should next a LTR everytime she goes on a trip, then you're just pathetically mateguarding.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:54 PM
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Stop complaining Go lift Stop caring that much about girls Why the fuck did you spend "hours" on the phone with her?
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:12 PM
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If you worry about what others think then you have a long way to go. If anything, the people who knew her when she was fat will be salty that she became hot and you got her. Not that it matters anyway, just fuck whoever you want.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:09 PM
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Don't be a fucking robot. Behave however you want. If you're not fucking her anymore, next. If you are, then just do whatever the fuck you want the rest of the time, have fun, chat. Just don't become her emotional sponge or try to make her yours.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 06:06 PM
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Soft next her. Go on with your life and if SHE contacts you again to meet up or something, then do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:40 PM
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Even considering the possibility makes you a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:31 PM
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There's isn't a good way to handle this because there really isn't a "situation" to handle. She's easy so just enjoy your evening and fuck her, but maybe make sure you have other options if she disappears again with some other dude.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:23 PM
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I didn't reject him over being unattractive, I rejected him because I wasn't looking for anyone at the time, but time has been good to him That's a lie right there. You're free to reject whoever you want for the reasons you want, but don't try to hamster up fake reasons for rejecting people.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 04:17 PM
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It's not just that, it's all the "she dont" and all that shit, it makes me feel like I'm reading Justin Bieber's SMS convos
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:56 PM
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What's up with the texts written all in ebonics? Don't you guys know English?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 04:33 PM
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If you haven't actually had intercourse I wouldn't worry too much.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:33 AM
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The exclusivity is only in your mind. If you don't care about her also fucking other dudes, then keep seeing her. Otherwise next her.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 11:47 PM
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Should I try and get over her past and believe she can change Nope. Someone who has cheated will do it again. Do not under any circumstance get oneitis for that girl. Enjoy your time with her but do not commit and expect this relationship not to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 11:35 PM
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Same here in France. Most of my Tinder convos go the same way : -Funny opener, which girls appreciate 90% of the time -My profile picture also gets a lot of compliments -Exchange just a couple of messages about what they study and whatever and then offer to meet up for drinks And with that, most of the time they flat out refuse to meet up or make up some bullshit excuse, and are always too busy to go out. I was in NYC for the holidays and damn, Tinder game in the US is completely different, I ma…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 01:41 PM
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Right, I'll post that there. Although the other post is most certainly right but I guess having other people saying it help.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 11:56 PM
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It's all so tempting for women, because they basically have no incentive to not falsely accuse you of rape. If a woman accuses a man of rape and it turns out it was a false accusation, well, life just goes on and she can go on to do it to someone else, because 9 times out of 10, she's not punished for it and is even allowed to parade around with her victimhood status, even AFTER it was proven that she lied (see Emma Whoeversky). The only fair response for false allegations would be to inflict th…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:12 PM
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Well, that sounds pretty BP to me. First, flat out refusing to do it? I don't really see why, it sounds rather fun. If it's because you don't want your LTR to see you in a "less than ideal" position (covered with colored powder), it's a sign of a lack of confidence, and she's gonna notice it. Not cool. Instead, go and own it and use that colored powder to your advantage. If it's just that you don't want to run or whatever, kinda not cool either. Holding frame doesn't mean flat out saying "no" to…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:50 PM
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That's not necessarily true. My situation is certainly anecdotal, but here it goes anyway. I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks who is and has been into cooking for a long time, to the point where she made it her career (she's 24, I'm 21), and she currently works as a sous chef in a good restaurant, 10 hours a day, 5 days a week, and when talking about it she sounds pretty passionate. Another girl I was seeing right before that was indeed a complete slob who spent her days lounging around and…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:30 PM
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What would be the RP way to handle that? Seems to me you have only one choice there : You can go, I don't mind, but don't expect me to still be around when you come back Which leads to either, the girl deciding not to leave because she wants to keep you, but she'll resent you and your relationship is compromised, or she leaves anyway, and you move on to find other girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:33 PM
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I'd like to take a second to expand on that thing about her spending money on you. I'm definitely not RP, I'd say BP but learning. Anyway the point is, I've been on dating sites for a pretty long time, started getting pretty successful recently (after losing 20kg and starting to hit the gym). Went on a few dates with several girls, lots of spaghetti spilling. The last one, mane. She kept pushing to keep the date going, we hit a few bars, and I swear everytime it was time to pay for our drinks, s…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:15 PM
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A free meal is a free meal.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:54 AM
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I don't know, I don't do that just with girls. If a (male) friend texts me to ask something or offer to get a drink or whatever, I almost always answer within a few minutes max, even if I'm at work. It literally takes 20 seconds to write a text and it's a much more efficient way to communicate than waiting 2 days to answer.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:30 PM
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Ah fuck I feel number 8 so hard. I've been talking to a few girls recently mostly through Facebook and such, and most of the time they take like 24 hours to respond. Are you telling me that nowadays, with smartphones and shit, you can't take 30 seconds in your day to answer a message?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:00 PM
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This is for a simple reason. I've always said it, love and sex can't really be separated. My (now ex) gf told me after three years that she wasn't very enthusiastic about sex because I was quite out of shape, but still wanted to be with me because of my personality and so on (you get the idea). I was quite Blue Pill at the time so I was shocked that a Nice Guy such as myself would be denied sex eventhough the rest of our relationship was fine. Anyway, I dumped her, lost 15kg (about 5 more to los…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:24 PM
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Keep in mind this same girl woud freak the fuck out if she became completely invisible (like every man out there basically) and no one was interested in her. I mean, on the other hand I understand that being hit on constantly when you just want to go for a walk must be annoying, but that's all it is. Annoying. Just put on some headphones and forget about it. The guys who follow her around for several minutes were pretty creepy though.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:16 AM
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