eczblack Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	In 2022 I want to reduce the patriarchal energy, thoughts and opinions around me. Send me your recommendations for new content! If you like Behind the Bastards, also give It Could Happen Here a listen. Robert Evans does this podcast as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 10:45 PM
23	How many red flags do you see? I wAnT tO eNjOy mY eArLy reTiReMenT (but my wife can still work f that) My 17 year old could eat an entire brown bag of groceries a day. I had an appetite like that as a teenager as well and completely forgot that's what it was like.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/21 12:56 PM
4	ItS A jOkE! What is that facial hair he has?! It's like he tacked a moldy kiwi to his chin.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 01:57 PM
5	I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakening I wish FDS had business cards we could slip to women to tell them how much better it is here and to join FDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 01:40 PM
2	I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakening Me too, except mine comes from my parents. They both do not express much interest of my life and hobbies and only call when they want to vent to someone. So every year, I hear the " you are so difficult to buy gifts for". This year especially really showed that disparity because when asked what I wanted for my birthday and Christmas, I first told them nothing. When they didn't agree to that ("because we have to get you something!"), I gave them a list with different things I could have bought my…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 01:33 PM
17	How to avoid interacting with men who are far right/hate women I would also add "triggered", "tyranny", "owned" (as in, they won an argument with someone). I hear this shit all the time at my job and it is ALWAYS from far right men who use it to mock other people's opinion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 01:19 PM
5	I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM".... Have you looked into adding landscaping to the yard? Really TALL landscaping, like bamboo or even reed rolls that are lightweight and can be stapled to the fence. Or perhaps you can grow something on a trellis. This totally sucks for you and I'm sorry you have to resort to hiding.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 09:27 PM
4	Ladies - Talk me through positives of wilfully remaining single & being happy. When I have those moments of existential crisis (what do I want, what makes me happy, etc), I really like watching Nathaniel Drew's videos on YouTube. I find them very grounding and it helps me to find my footing on getting back to what matters most to me. For me lately, it's being able to give permission to myself for creative outlets. Creative pursuits are not a waste of time and allowing myself to indulge something for the singular sake of enjoying it, rather than turning it into a side hustl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 02:00 PM
44	This is it. Today after I talk with my therapist I will tell my husband that I am not happy in our marriage. Thank you FDS for helping me realize I want and DESERVE more. This is going to be difficult for you, no lies about that. But it will be the right thing to do because you know that you deserve happiness and can have it, regardless of what he will tell you. We are all rooting for you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/21 05:06 PM
56	Confirmed: We are the product. It's the same idea as saying all men prefer someone who wears only natural makeup. Great, then they can date someone who likes natural makeup as well. Don't try to drag those of us who love makeup and put our time, effort, and artistry into our look. I'm hear that shit constantly: "what does your man think of all that eyeliner?". If he didn't like it, he would find someone who doesn't wear heavy eyeliner! Why on earth would the expectation be that I stop doing something for me, that I enjoy, bec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 10:56 PM
57	“I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their Own Just a heads up as well, the use of Nordic/Celtic symbolism has become very popular among the white supremacists groups in the US. Lots of these groups now associate themselves with those cultures because they see them as the whitest or most pure culture (good lord, even typing that makes me ill). So when dudes are crazy over the top making those associations of their heritage, it's a HUGE red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 09:00 PM
2	Long time lurker~First Post here! Happy Valentine’s Day! Thank you,I have found the perfect HVM(puppy) to spend it with :)💕 Awww! What's his name?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 01:54 PM
6	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I'm sorry, a sex points chart? Please tell me this isn't some toddler level reward chart where enough chores done equals sex because that is just the worst thing I can think of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 02:58 PM
1	Remember to subtract 5 inches from a man’s height 😂 I work in a place where people have to show their drivers license on the regular and it amazes me how much some of these guys lie about their height on their license. I'd say at least 75% of the licenses I see have the height off by at least two inches, if not more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 01:49 PM
9	Leveling up and relearning how to be by myself I take myself for a lunch date every Tuesday. I go to my local library and grab whatever books call out to me that week. Then I have lunch at the little cafe near the library (been getting food to go since things have slowly re-opened). My co-workers tease me about my love of the library but it is such a fulfilling place for me and I read at a very fast pace. They think I'm boring as hell but I love it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 03:16 PM
23	Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson" He cheated on Dita Von Teese! They were married for only a few years and she left due to his affairs and behavior, all of which he has repeated with apparently every woman he's ever dated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 01:46 AM
5	Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻 I agree with the undressed part not really doing it. I'd much prefer to see a man wear a button up shirt casually without a tie than to see him without the shirt on. There was a far more allure to me in that casual arousal than just seeing some one without their clothes on. At that point, it's like great, seen you naked, now what?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 10:20 PM
6	What are some questions you ask when dating, or things you look for, to determine if you're dating a decent human? Ooo, I've never heard of her before but based on that video, I want to read much more about her work!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 03:52 PM
107	Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her... This is my father to a T. He is on his fifth marriage and they have all ended the same way: he started cheating because he felt unappreciated. What the reality was is he got bored and didn't like the healthy boundaries his wife established. So it's her fault and he's getting too old to deal with someone else's bullshit like that and he "deserves to be happy, why doesn't she understand that?". For all the reasons that he chased after someone, those same reasons he uses against them later to justi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/21 07:58 PM