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| 59 | "Don't hate me" openerWhy that works - you’re acknowledging that what you’re doing (pick up/compliments) is out of the norm. However, “don’t hate me” has a negative conotation to it, and you’re already placing yourself coming from a needy place, as the undertone is that of a “approval-seeking” mentality, instead of being confident and high value. There are alternative ways of opening in that manner while acknowledging you’re behaving out of the norm. For example: “excuse me, this is kind of random and I don’t usually… | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 12:36 AM |
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