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edgar_alan_bro/r/seduction07/08/12 09:22 PM
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Awesome! We need more people like you.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:10 AM
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I'm down. Especially since schools starting soon itll be a breeze.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:09 AM
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YET you're able to have one or more successful affairs on the side. ???. Im confused. But from what I can make out your assuming im a cheater? Thats a no. The best example I can give is this: a girl with an emotionally/physically abusive boyfriend. She won't leave him because since he treated her like shit she thinks she's shit and no one will want her. That's your definition. To show you how subjective it can be, here's mine: a cheater in a romantic relationship is someone who wastes the time o…
/r/seduction06/08/12 09:27 PM
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I am sure this works for you once in a while. Yes it actually does. From me personally freaking out whenever I even saw a girl I liked to now being able to approach and have have a meaningful conversation, it was godsend. Some girls recognize what you're doing and go for it anyway because dorky guys seem safer, and you're trying so, so hard for her. This is hilarious. Because I obviously want them to know im hitting on them thats the whole point. Also they do fall for it hard. And let's face it.…
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:25 PM
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Because there's always those girls who are in a relationship with someone who they dont like and are just with them because they don't think they'll be able to find anyone else. A cheater is just someone who isn't receiving something out of a relationship that they want, because of their inattentive partner, and decides to find it somewhere else. Edit: Decodes ---> Decides.
/r/seduction06/08/12 04:49 PM
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Just because there's a goalie does not mean you can't still score.
/r/seduction06/08/12 06:49 AM
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Well it looks like your having some problems with your inner game. I know exactly what you mean though becoming off as a robot, I have to try so freaking hard whenever im in a situation to show emotion excitement and changing my pitch of voice not to sound so monotone. So much so that around every hour I have to excuse myself to go the bathroom to breath, relax and recharge my battery. My advice for you is what im doing myself. Pick up is nothing but a game, really. As with every game whether it…
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:50 PM
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Well that's only if he escalated Kino really quickly and does not notice the rage face the girl has on.
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:42 PM
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Dude, this is perfect Im stealing this.
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:34 PM
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If any girl asks me to take a picture I always take a picture of myself as a neg. For example: Girl: Hey can you take a picture of us? Me: Sure! grabs camera poses funny takes a picture of myself
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:23 PM
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It'll do two things, they'll make the conversation so much easier and they'll know that your hitting on them.
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:56 PM
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Hey first of all you made your first big step! Im proud of you. Also a quick tip if your nervous, Tell her your nervous and that you dont normally do this and youll do fine.
/r/seduction03/08/12 06:51 AM
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NO worries i thought the same thing as i was reading it.
/r/seduction03/08/12 06:48 AM
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Its because her story has nothing to do with the question being asked.
/r/seduction03/08/12 06:39 AM
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But...your name....I dont know if to trust you or not....
/r/seduction03/08/12 06:35 AM
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You see they have to want to change, theyre in a mindset right now that even all the amazing advice we give right now will not help them out. Since they have no confidence and shit inner game they wont absorb anything we give them or worse spit it back out at us. Ive tried this with my roomate who had zero confidence, thought he looked ugly, self proclaimed nerd, etc and it seemed to be working the first couple of days but then since he saw "no changes" he reverted back. But who knows maybe thes…
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:13 PM
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(I just realized this is a boring post so far, I'm sorry). Dont do this. Your telling a story, how can you have a climax without a build up?
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:09 PM
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The ends will justify the means.
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:00 AM
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This is a great post on being friendzoned. This is a great post of letting go of attachments. Hope it helps!
/r/seduction01/08/12 06:54 AM
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Don't be outcome dependent. Have fun. Be selfish.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:36 AM
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I love this.
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:20 AM
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its enough to make a forever alone cry.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:25 AM
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Hey! I've been in your position many, many, times before and the way i have figured out to get the one-itis out of my mind is by constantly keeping myself busy. Read a book, start a hobby, go work out at the gym, hang out with your other friends, watch some stand up (I personally love this), do it so that you have no time to actually think about her. If the thought of her ever crosses your mind stop everything your doing, inhale, exchale...inhale...exhale pay attention to your breathing until yo…
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:48 PM
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Breath in Breath out, focus everything on your breathing until your mind is completely empty, before any idea/thought can cross your mind walk up to the set you want to approach and force yourself to be in the situation. After you get blown off you will realize how much it doesnt hurt and then everything will be much much easier for you.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:42 PM
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Tag = Kino = Good If you have a playful attitude along with the confidence to back it up, I dont see how playing a game of tag wont get you some sort of number close.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:24 PM
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She: Blank stare Me: Well you seriously suck at this game. smirk...tag your it Edit: I accidentally Blanks and Stares.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:43 PM
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While flipping through the channels today olympic ping pong came up and it caught my eye. I have never been more impressed than at that very moment. The sheer speed, accuracy and agility that those people have is amazing!
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:41 PM
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Hes just asking: Make conversation with someone on the mentioned item/subject
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:39 PM
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Have you ever made a candle? Last year I had the most incredible experience of learning how to hand make a candle. It really gave me a different perspective on them.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:38 PM
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As someone who regularly answers questions its seriously "Just read the fucking sidebar, thats why its there."
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:36 PM
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Hi your question would be answered better and more fully on /askseddit. As for the answer here, here and here is exactly what your looking for. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/07/12 05:08 AM
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You should take Cute out of your vocabulary and switch it with beautiful or fantastic. You want to start off strong.
/r/seduction25/07/12 06:47 AM
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"Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional." Thats some deep shit.
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:11 PM
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Thanks! As for advice I would highly recommend you read everything on the sidebar. This is going to be your bible for the next couple of weeks.
/r/seduction12/07/12 07:13 AM
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We need even more info than that. Are you new? Do you know any of the basics? Have you read the sidebar at all? Have you asked the coworker out? When you've gone out with the high school girl, have they been "dates"? How far have you gone with her? Also for beginner questions like these its better for you to post in /askseddit
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:36 AM
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Its not rape if is consented riiiiiighhtt?
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:32 AM
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Perfect quote. Upvotes!
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:52 AM
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A man is nothing but his word.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:40 AM
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IM just going to put this out there, i dont care if i get downvoted or not. There are some girls out ther who look like hb6's with clothes on but once they're naked oh sweet jesus do they look mighty fine. Maybe thats in the case of this girl?
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:39 AM
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I only prefer my first time to be special because a lot of people have told me they regret there first time because it wasn't special. (These are guys) Theyre utterly right, do you really want to tell people later on that you lost your virginity to some random girl you didnt like or thought was attractive in high school? Take it easy man! Your still in high school stop worrying about getting laid and try getting with someone you "click" with first. Edit: If you sleep with her, she will WITHOUT A…
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:06 AM
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I see. Well awesome to finally see someone else here doing daygame though.
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:49 PM
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Hmm interesting. Would it matter instead if you just casually look at the racks picking up a horrible dress near her and say: "Hey, what do you think about this dress? Im trying to buy one for my friend for her birthday this weekend." "What?! It looks horrible? But even i could pull it off! why wouldnt she like it?" Blah blah blah
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:39 PM
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I knew this one guy in college who used to do it, it was hilarious, even though youd seriously expect him to get better eventually. He didn't.
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:24 PM
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If a girl walks into a store as you are about to approach, it's not over. A note on this bullet. Why do you have to wait until she leaves? Why dont you just approach saying "Hey I dont normally do this but, I saw you from over there and I gotta tell you, you look beautiful today. Id kick myself if i didnt come over and say Hi. Hi my name is...." etc.
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:22 PM
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Hell I'd stop too. I'm not saying your friend sucks but I've seen people who just arent good at it and are wayyy too cocky do it and that shit is hilarious.
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:15 PM
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"Well Tuesdays i have Holly, Wednesdays I have Maria and Saturdays I have James (Her parents were a little tipsy when they named her) and I forgot Sundays name." Im_a_Rapist said it perfectly. The point is to never give a straight answer to anything right off the bat, be a challenge. Make them work for you.
/r/seduction11/07/12 10:11 PM
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This is why I like reading your FR's no gloating just the science behind the actions of someone who knows what the hell they're doing. Its creepy that I'm learning so much from a rapist though.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:48 PM
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Its almost spot on, except the fact that you should be lying to yourself. These are things you should believe because they are utterly and completely true.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:32 PM
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Your second one made me crack up. Even though it could just as easily be 3 times his age considering the forever alone crowd...
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:15 PM
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Also there is /highseddit since most of the Bar/Club posts here wont apply to you for a while.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:14 PM
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Bro you have no idea how proud of you I am right now. Put it here People seem to forget that this community really is aimed at improving yourself and not just to help you get laid.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:11 PM
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Ha! I get that a lot
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:24 AM
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Dude the smile you get when you see this is the smile you should use when approaching.
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:56 AM
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FFS if your going to downvote me at least have the balls to reply to my post on WHY your doing it.
/r/seduction10/07/12 10:21 PM
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Ive got good news and bad news. Bad news is I just quit literally half an hour ago after i read that smoking kills about 2.4 puppies every day. Good news is if im about to go to ___ for lunch. Lets go!
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:53 PM
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Assume Attraction, shes going with you to a movie on a valuable saturday night when she could be going out and partying, so dont lie to yourself when you obviously know its a date and therefore she is interested in you. Kino comes in so many different ways seriously a brush on the arm, touching her body to emphasize something you said, playing thumb war and betting something (a kiss?), brushing up against her while your walking with your shoulder, putting your leg on top of hers when your sittin…
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:46 PM
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"reward" yourself by taking mini breaks in between studying/doing work where you can make shit for her, whether its a not, a drawing, an art piece, planning out a date etc. this way your being productive both ways your doing something for your girl while finishing your work.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:37 PM
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The more you text her the more you loose your "new puppy" charm. Use it sparingly and if so push for a meetup somewhere where you can truly shine with body language, tone of voice, kino etc.
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:35 PM
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Start up your daygame and approach girls throughout your day! Your out for lunch and see a cute girl walking by you, WALK UP TO HER AND SAY "Hey my name is _____, i saw you from over there and I wouldve kicked myself if i didnt come over and say hi." Chat her up and get her number eject saying "Hey i gotta go i was on my lunch break, takes out phone hands it to her I'd love to see you sometime, here give me your number", schedule a date for later and boom you got someone. 60% of the time it work…
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:33 PM
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It was I think on the good FR example he pointed out. But ill get to your level soon enough...
/r/seduction06/07/12 05:01 AM
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This ^ Also when your talking to someone make sure your feet are pointed towards them.
/r/seduction05/07/12 11:03 PM
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I read something from Leonardo da Vinci in his treatise on painting, >he says that his students who are the most dissatisfied with their own >work are the quickest to improve, because they see their own >problems and try to fix them. But people who like their own work >never improve at all, they never see their own problems. Annnnddd your experiences once again proves why your the mod.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:55 PM
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And you speak Spanish. Dear god am I considered a stalker now?
/r/seduction05/07/12 08:18 AM
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First, put it here man. You had the balls to go up to them and for that i commend you. As for your game, you will inevitably talk to shitty people and have a bad day and thats what i think happened for you today. I dont think you screwed up as much as bill did but i do think you seemed nervous and not confident about yourself around the girls playing skeeball. But learn from these mistakes! Theyll start hurting less and less and you will become better and better the more you do them trust me.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:29 AM
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As for questions they should be directed towards /askseddit. Now to answer your question. Im not sure if your asking about openers or actual conversation building but ill start with openers. Openers Hi!, my name is _____. smile Thats seriously it. No fancy pick up lines nothing extraordinary. You have no idea how much a simple Hi! and a smile can do. Conversation Here is an amazing thread dedicated towards conversation, how to build threads etc. I would highly suggest you read the sidebar as wel…
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:22 AM
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Read the sidebar and you will do fine. Im pretty sure this isnt the answer you wanted but trust me theres some eye opening stuff there. I literally had 4 epiphanies there.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:11 AM
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Good good good I approve of this post. Listen to him he knows his stuff.
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:04 AM
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Have you ever tried taking some improv classes or just trying really hard to be witty?
/r/seduction05/07/12 07:03 AM
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Well take a look at it from this perspective. Imagine your talking to your best friend, are you having boring small talk or an engaging conversation? I think your just limiting your point of view because your talking to a girl, but there isn't really much off a difference between the both sexes. What I personally look for is someone who I would consider a life long friend, someone I can push, pull, joke around with and be deep with. I do have a tendency to be white knigtish but meh, this is my t…
/r/seduction04/07/12 06:41 PM
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There's no reason why you shouldn't do it now.
/r/seduction04/07/12 06:07 PM
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Make a joke if you need to send her smoke signals or if a telegraph would be better to get a hold of her to ask her out for drinks sometime.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:49 PM
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I would highly recommend you read American gods. He's a badass in that book as well.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:43 PM
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Id imagine you just know, no?
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:42 PM
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I came upon them through the book American gods. They are really interesting, its interesting how they portray Loki as a jealous pussy in Thor that made me giggle.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:37 PM
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I was going to point out yours too! I just forgot >.< Not many people know about norse gods. Or did you get it from Thor?
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:25 PM
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Live and learn, but I stress it even more now, Let things naturally develop, out don't want to come off too strong emotionally at the beginning (do whatever the hell you want physically) or else you will scare her off.
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:41 AM
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Here's my advice. OK you started talking to a girl nice that's awesome. Things progress you guys have good chemistry so you steady going out, even more awesome. As you said it was pretty damn obvious you liked her, so don't tell her next time, just let things progress naturally to where they're supposed to go. When you told her you liked her this implied that you want a relationship, this did a couple of things it ruined the game you were playing, because she found out the answer and then scare …
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:18 AM
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First it put it here, for your amazing night, this deserves so,e goddamn recognition. Second YOU CAN LEAD THIS INTO WHAT YOU WANT IT TO. Whether its a FWB or a LTR, let it progress then lead naturally, knudging it at times to make it lead to what you want. My suggestion for you is to first, stop texting her as much as you are now, remember the more you text her the more you will lose your "new puppy" value, and push for a date/meetup as soon as possible. This is because your still fresh on her m…
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:09 AM
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By keep do you mean a LTR? Well look back and tell me, have you created these? Physical connection Emotional connection Comfort Trust Also can you be specific with one particular instance with a girl. It would help us out more if you weren't so vague.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:58 AM
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Bro I'm proud of you, it brings a tear to my eye every time you guys finally grow a pair and close a girl. Good luck man! From now on you'll be a better you.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:54 AM
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Oh. I was a bit overdramatic oh well.
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:37 PM
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MY GOD YOUR BASICALLY ME. Please tell me your not mexican.
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:41 AM
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How do you only have 1 point? Upvote for you sir.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:28 PM
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She was sitting on a couch with no room next to her and when I finally could she didn't respond to my moves. Sit on top of her? As for your question, stop being so outcome dependent. Let a LTR relationship happen naturally, trust me its best that way. Just keep on acting towards here how you have before and it'll progress that way. Trust me. Good luck man! It seems like your doing good so I doubt youll need it!
/r/seduction02/07/12 07:23 PM
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I'm proud of you bro
/r/seduction02/07/12 07:40 AM
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You could also try these out: "Hey I've made it my goal to say hi to the first beautiful girl I see. I guess todays your lucky day!" "Hey I've made it my goal to do one thing that scares me everyday, today its talking to a beautiful woman." I love daygame.
/r/seduction02/07/12 06:17 AM
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Its just we get a lot of people who come in here like you asking if theres a magical way to pick up on girls. We have stuff on the sidebar to help you out, but its ultimately up to you to go out into the real world and put it into practice, not facebook, not an online dating website, the outside world.
/r/seduction02/07/12 06:12 AM
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Well its a mix from both. You got my comment down but, you can only achieve a certain level of connection through facebook as it is through the internet and almost devoid of any meaning. Here at seddit we really encourage for you to really go out and experience getting rejected because even though it hurts it will ultimately make your game 1,000,000x better than sitting here and reading about it or analyzing what "openers" you should use.
/r/seduction02/07/12 06:09 AM
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Just from this I can obviously tell you need to work on your inner game. Someone wont like you if you dont like yourself.
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:50 AM
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Well if by "big leagues" you mean that people will be older than you, yes they will, and its off putting for a girl to be talking to a younger man.
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:49 AM
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My advice to you would be to go out and talk to girls in real life. Your only 18 so that means you can't go to bars and most clubs but don't worry! Practice daygame. Go out to the mall and chat girls up, really anywhere is possible not just the mall. If you need some guides or videos I'd suggest you check out Sasha daygame on YouTube or on the sidebar.
/r/seduction02/07/12 03:30 AM
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First of all I can tell you that you could've done so much better if you would've displayed some confidence in yourself. , i meet up with this HB6 again and after some time she talks me into buying her these shots (should i have done that?) No you shouldn't have your not like all the other chumps out there. YOUR BETTER. You should've responded with. "Who do you think I am? Every other average guy out there. Guess what im better, ill show you. Grabs hand and leads her to dancefloor or whatever yo…
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:42 AM
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There's a conversation guide on the sidebar, here
/r/seduction30/06/12 06:29 AM
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Or you can BS it yourself since the horoscopes are already BS'ed
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:53 PM
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Im feeling pretty damn good Its a nice night/day out with some friends and I'm talking to a fine looking woman.
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:23 PM
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Hey don't restrict yourself to clubs and bars. Seriously thats such a small part of your daily life. Flirt with girls in stores, at the mall, during church, at the park, your really only restricted to what you choose to do. I myself am also 19 and practice much more daygame than i do night game. Theres too many things going on in a club and a bar, overstimulation really kills me and I personally dont drink as well which really ruins the points of bars. Anyways check this out if your interested. …
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:56 PM
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Bro you did great. Im proud of you.
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:50 PM
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Theres multiple articles in that pdf. Which one specifically were you surprised by? Or di all of them surprise you?
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:48 PM
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Dude just do day game. Here Check out Sasha Daygames material, he is pretty damn good.
/r/seduction29/06/12 07:54 PM
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when I try to read it, I find that I can interpret almost everything as flirting. First rule of seduction is to ALWAYS ASSUME ATTRACTION But I like to talk about stuff like computers and history, and girls don't like that stuff. So with them I end up either talking about that stuff anyway or talking about nothing at all, neither of which seem to do much good. Talk about your passions man. You will ultimately come off as strong and interesting because you know so much about them, just make them r…
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:59 AM
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Quick response for the "Do you pick up girls in the bookstore all the time" -Why yes about 7 on a good day 6 on a bad one. Good luck! We all get so proud when you guys finally get the balls to chat up a girl, it almost brings a tear to my eye. Edit: Formatting
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:51 AM
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Listen to this guy he knows what hes talking about.
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:38 AM
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Yeah ask her next wednesday on monday/sunday. Since you dont drive make it somewhere you can make it without having too much trouble.
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:11 AM
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Thank you The Oatmeal for everything youve done for me :3
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:09 AM
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Hi here is my two cents, you might be texting to much. The goal for you is to get in and ask directly for her to go somewhere with you, preferably alone and then getting out. Im not sure if you know this but the more that you text the more youll lose value come meeting time. Also take the guy below's advice. Think out your texts to be as clear and concise as possible , stop using "lol" and the other things listed as well, use correct grammar and punctuation. It makes you look uneducated, naive a…
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:35 AM
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Oh HELL YES HE WAS
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:32 AM
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You need to work on your insecurities, bro. But i dont know your particular situation, so she might've given you shit before. As for the whole logging in I never logged into my ex-girlfriends account thats a massive invasion of privacy in my book. Do you have her added on facebook? I believe there is a deeper problem here.
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:28 AM
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Same here. Its not even that hard. I take sparkling cider to parties and look like a classy drinker instead.
/r/seduction27/06/12 10:42 PM
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Your comments are always godsend. Nothing more to give advice here.
/r/seduction27/06/12 10:41 PM
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This seriously made my day. Anyone here cannot possibly be this awkward. This video is the first video ive ever seen that i actually hurt inside.
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:53 PM
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I loved this.
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:31 PM
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Oh see now your talking about daygame. Daygame is what i do personally since clubs bars arre to loud and theres so many distractions going on. Theres an AMA here done by SashaDaygame he is seriously really good so take some pointers from him. As for me personally my opener is just "Hey! You looked drop dead beautiful so i would kick myself if i didnt come over here and say hi." If you portray yourself as a confident man, you already have the good looking part and the charisma, its seriously that…
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:30 PM
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I think you might come out as "desperate" because your really outcome dependent. Seriously listen to the other guy when he says to just go out and have fun, make friends and not worry about whats going to happen. Go out to make friends and not to get blown at some random alleyway. Because in the end a girlfriend or a wife is just that a friend that you love incredibly deeply.
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:26 PM
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Well you could do what drosengix said but honestly, they will eventually catch your lie and people dont like liars. But its worth a try if anything. Good luck!
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:03 PM
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Ok yes i will admit I BS'ed the endorphin part, i just couldnt remember the name of the chemicals that are released (Hormones?) but Im 100% they are released i just forgot what they were called and I didn't want to take the time to research it. Its my major after all (:
/r/seduction27/06/12 08:01 PM
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Nah man that wasn't a shit test. One easy way to find out is to ask for his name. If there's any sort of hesitations he's fake if she says his name right away then she really has one. If she does just say "Damn that guys pretty lucky to have a girl who's smart and beautiful remind him tonight how much your worth" You seem to be doing alright though!
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:50 AM
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Exposure, exposure, exposure. That's one of the key things I think seddit should actively emphasize. Its works like magic and its better than whag any book can teach you. Sounds s like your doing good man! Good luck!
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:46 AM
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That's awesome dude! Way to see you get off your training wheels and go off and venture in the real world. My critique is that you still could've done kino. A little push here and there, a tug, a poke, tickling her are all things you couldve done even if she seemed closed off.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:42 AM
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Dude you did the hardest part, going out alone and trying to socialize and I seriously congratulate you on that. You then had the balls to go to a group and talk to them, for a first timer that's really good. OK for as what you did wrong although very minor is that you should try to game while sober, I know its your first time and you need some courage juice in you but try not to rely too heavily since it will make you make some really bad mistakes in the future. As for your approach If you woul…
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:32 AM
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Well you could always not go out with him. I'm not sure if I understand the problem correctly but he doesn't have to go with you every time right?
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:21 AM
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Thats perfect! Good luck tommorow!
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:17 AM
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Finally! I read an FR by Im_a_rapist ( I missed your last one) You freaking did amazing! Props to you. Maybe now you won't have to rape people :)
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:41 AM
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Nah man. Talk to her after class because your seeing her right? Let your personality shine and ask her out somewhere when you think its best.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:23 AM
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Edit: Forgot about kino. Freaking touch her more tomorrow man! But I think you have the jist of it since you high fived her. Remember just go in it giving no fucks. Whatever happens happens man.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:55 PM
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Hi, great job man! I'm proud you had the balls to talk to her and I will say it greets easier each time you do it. As for your questions: Text her today! Since its a little bit later say something along the lines of "Hey I hope your having an awesome day! We should hang out tomorrow after class, there's this awesome place (insert coffee shop/ ice cream shop here) we should totally swing by and have a chat." The longer you wait the weaker the impression you left on her will be, just remember that…
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:53 PM
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Exposure, exposure, exposure. This will with out a doubt make your experiences so much easier and comfortable.
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:28 AM
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Have you had enough kino escalation? Have you given them reasons to ghost back to your place? Have you isolated these girls from their friends? One quick thing I'd like to point out is that by a reason to go to your place should be along the lines of "Hey there's this cool X at my place do you want to check it out?" So they dont put on an anti slut defense
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:25 AM
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I have to agree with ThrowawayPua because seriously think about it in her position, a nice guy comes out of nowhere and starts chatting you up, after 5 minutes you sort of start to get interested and the kablam! His lips somehow end up on you. Its creeper status IMO.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:12 AM
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Yeah I guess it makes sense since as you say shes a stunner Im guessing HB9-10, so she probably has guys falling for her. Build rapport and be patient because this is going to be a loong ride. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:08 AM
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Texting your ex is a bad idea man, but alas I don't know your situation.
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:19 AM
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I would highly suggest you start with inner game since you have issues, you can do that here But seriously man if you say that your 230lbs at 6'4 and a power lifter that dayum you can pretty much give women ladyboners by just winking at them. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:17 AM
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Sounds cool! Although I know for a fact that your confidence really helped sell you. Ill make sure to use it one of these days.
/r/seduction24/06/12 11:19 PM
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My advice is this, next time you text her be completely declarative in you asking her say something along the lines of "You + Me + (whatever you want to do , tomorrow at __". Do this and if she declines try once more, if she declines again just move on you at least said you gave it your all.
/r/seduction24/06/12 09:41 PM
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Woah there buddy. It would be a hail mary of a throw to kiss a person youve only met for about 5 minutes. Everything else seems fine though. Also are you talking about Day Game Interactions or Night Game?
/r/seduction24/06/12 09:30 PM
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Work on being the life of the party sober which in my opinion is more genuinely attractive than beeing the life of the party while drunk which i feel is fake. I dont know how it works where you live but I personally dont drink so whenever i go to a party I take a bottle of sparkling cider and party with that. Its classy anda nice conversation starter!
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:05 PM
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Dude, heres the problem, you texted her too much and you lost the shine you had on your first date. This why this community stresses that you text very minimally, so it seems like: You have other shit going on in your life. You dont need her at all (even if you do or not) So you dont lose your shine Next time I would suggest you keep texting very minimal and leave the conversation for when your actually hanging out with her. It creates so much more meaning because youll have eye contact, kino, a…
/r/seduction24/06/12 08:00 PM
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We were supposed to meet up for drinks earlier but she never hit me up. You shouldve hit her up, made some arrangements and then gone through with it. I suggest drinks which I totally don't need at this point but want to keep this new party going. Dont drink period if your looking to game, it will seriously mess you up. Also it seems more so that your using alcohol as a crutch. Stay away from it!
/r/seduction24/06/12 07:51 PM
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Get out of your comfort zone now before it really turns into a habit later on in the future. I dont know if your perception of kino is groping/handling a girl but its so much more gentle than that. It does get to that point later on in the relationship if you escalate enough but its more like gentle touching. Start out small, like making a habit of High Fiving people or when your shaking a girls hand holding it a little more than normal. Youll get sooo much more comfortable after you get used to…
/r/seduction24/06/12 06:25 PM
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Thats awesome man! I'm aiming for what you have right now, its one of the most comforting things to have a girlfriend.
/r/seduction24/06/12 06:15 PM
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Shut up and kiss her in the mouth two things will happen: She will start to make out with you, things will get frisky and YOU WILL SEE HER NAKED. She will deny you and itll hurt a little bit and you probably wont see her again and forget about it in a couple of weeks. Grow a pair and do it. YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:37 PM
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Listen to this man and youll do fine
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:33 PM
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Well my advice is to be upfront to her tell her what YOU want out of this relationship, that way feelings wont develop and then get hurt. Of course she might completely and utterly reject you but its better than having some crazy girl wallowing for you attention/affection even if she is hot. Good luck! Even though I doubt youll need it.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:32 PM
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This man just won everything. Great job.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:29 PM
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Dude seriously? This in no way was pathetic. You went out and talked to some fine looking ladies. They just didnt realize how awesome you were and left. As for the girl text her. Tell her "hey _____ this is ______ , so I hear tommorrow is going to be pretty hot lets go grab some ice cream at ______." If she answers good if she doesnt then who cares. Good luck man im sure she'll take you up on that offer!
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:27 PM
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You should sit down a talk to her about where YOU think this should go, or what you want out of this relationship so that its perfectly clear to her. It might come off as rude or douchy but do it because or else you might be guilted into something that you might not want. Good Luck!
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:23 PM
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Guys if your anywhere near so cal (or any of the other seddit lairs) there are plenty of guys there that would be happy to go with you.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:17 PM
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Well if your anywhere near so cal (or any of the other seddit lairs) there are plenty of guys there that would be happy to go with you.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:16 PM
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Don't do it man. If shes going to respond then she will respond. I would suggest you wait a couple of days invite her somewhere and if she doesnt answer or declines then just move on.
/r/seduction23/06/12 10:12 PM
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There are plenty of ways, examples: Thumb wrestle' loser gets to choose what the other person gets to eat. Tell her you can read hands. Take her hand and BS things that are funny or make you look good. Tell her you don't like how your seat feels so move right next to her (don't ask just do it.), say the one next to her doesn't feel right either, then move and sit on her and you could say "Oh yeah that's better hard and bony, or nice and squishy (whichever is fine)" high five her for positive rei…
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:37 PM
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One of the (maybe unspoken) rules of being a wing man is that once someone calls dibs on a girl its only for his to try. Try following this so that situations like these don't happen again, plus ,an there must've been a shit load more girls there, even if this girl was really stunning she didn't seem worth it to me. Try spreading yourself out just a tad more so it doesn't seem like your completely focused on this one girl. You want to be seen as the person who can talk to anyone and this will he…
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:08 AM
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Let this man preach!
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:59 AM
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I seriously thought the tropical storm thing was genius as well as the whole punch glass thing. All you really need is some confidence to back it up and you'd do perfectly fine in meeting people. One piece of advice I have for you have a wing man to be there with you. Its really helped me a lot having someone there telling me in real time what I'm doing wrong and vice versa. Find one of your friends to do it with you. Learn together, there's no better motivation than making it a competition with…
/r/seduction23/06/12 05:56 AM
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HOnestly when your talking to girl you have to find that sweet spot in between AFC or Nice guy and asshole, they both have qualities that you want to have. Its always a question of balance and people tend to be in either side of the spectrum frustrated because they cant seem to get any girls.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:46 PM
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Do it man! It obviously wouldnt hurt, you'd be practicing your approach skills, everyone there mainly has the same interests, Day Game is as easy as going up to them and saying "Hey your pretty cute, I'd kick myself if i didn't come over and say hi! Hi shakes hand my names Kefka85. Make some small talk. Say hey after this we should do such and such things. Do it bro. Youll kill it i knkow you will!
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:43 PM
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Oh well that sucks. She will cash it in I know it!
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:31 PM
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It just depends on your target audience. Really detailed FR's help out new people, myself included, while short FR's he'll people find out what you could've done better, how you could've closed it etc. Its completely up to you man but from what in can see your actions are good and keeping that attitude to approach anyone and everyone is good as well.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:29 PM
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Hey have confidence in yourself man! I know you know your smart, good looking and charismatic so feed of this. I would suggest you start off small and do baby steps be comfortable in the first stage then push it. Smile at every small girl you see. Then say hi to them. Then approach them.
/r/seduction22/06/12 05:33 AM
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This should have been just you and her man. You should ask her out for some coffee before since you'll see her until next Wednesday. Since its the summer and its hot you can say "Hey I hear its going to be pretty hot tomorrow. You + me + ice cream. Lets do this!". This when you'll get your time to really shine!
/r/seduction22/06/12 04:47 AM
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Good to hear. Now next time go make them ladies faint
/r/seduction21/06/12 06:37 PM
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Of course she was interested. You seem like an awesome, well rounded guy, you look good, you have the confidence (your lying to yourself when you say its fake) and your pretty smart. You should've asked! You had nothing to lose but a lot to gain. But its OK you practiced, faced your fears, and best of all got to talk to a beautiful woman.
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:30 PM
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If I had a slow clap .GIF I'd put it here. Edit: Found one Congrats!
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:18 PM
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Oh yes sir it does. Here this guy was having the same problem. I hope it helps!
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:16 PM
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Was it test shit test, or did she actually have a boyfriend?
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:13 PM
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Ha thanks! Im working on trying to be more witty :3
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:02 PM
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Really now? /seduction Is both a self improvement sub reddit and for pick up. As for me personally I'm here to improve myself, when I'm dying I want to know I was the best me I could be. With over generalizing comes the fallicious notion that everyone here is coming to learn how to get laid. Of course there's guys here that are looking for that, but there are also plenty of lurkers who really just want to get a girlfriend, over come their fears, understand how girls work etc.
/r/seduction21/06/12 06:05 AM
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Oh Jesus F-Close? We don't work miracles here. Kidding, we got you. Touch her man, do it as soon as possible, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE Twist her words a bit turn them sexual if you can. Eye contact is key. When your looking at her imagine slowly undressing her and fucking the shut out of her. Send this vibe to her she'all feel it trust me man. Make her feel comfortable around you this is key so she won't put up any shields last minute. Shower man! One of the biggest mistakes guys make is put on colog…
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:05 AM
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Hey you didn't address this but use kino man! Touch them as much (and subtly) as possible create that physical connection with them. Also give strong eye contact if you can't then do triangular gazing, look at one eye then the next then her lips. This is to help her unconsciously realize that your attracted to her sexually as well. Don't worry about it man, your probably having a slump we all get them but just know this, YOU ARE AWESOME, your a sexy beast, your charming, funny, nice, smart and y…
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:54 AM
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Thats awesome man! Once it clicks it really does click. Its nice having a conversation for the sake of conversation. You have become outcome independent too! Which is great it takes a the pressure off of trying to get a number and just have fun!
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:46 AM
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Awesome guide. This will really help out people who are having problems with wit, something that's easy to grasp but oh so hard to master.
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:43 AM
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In my honest opinion this is pretty degrading and disrespectful towards women not to mention its immature. But to each his own.
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:38 AM
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Who cares if someone is looking at you, think of it like this: If a girl is looking at you she's thinking in her head "Damn why is that slut getting to talk with that awesome hot guy?" This right here is an awesome feeling. If a guy is watching he's thinking to himself "Damn I wish I had the balls like him too talk to hot girls." This feeling is just as awesome. If a girl rejections you so what? You learned a shit load from that conversation. You also just talked to a Beautiful Girl while other …
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:41 AM
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What can I say. She lost an awesome guy pity on her that she couldnt see that. Good luck bro, make them ladies faint next time!
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:32 AM
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"I have a boyfriend" <----- could've been a shit test I've seen this in so many places man but a simple "Oh cool he could make us cookies while we have adventures" could've easily passed it. But any ways keep at it, not many guys have the balls to go hit on girls like you so i commend you for that. Practice makes it perfect. Good luck! =)
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:28 AM
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Dude as for car kino there's a bunch of ways you can do it. Do this sit behind hb8 the non driver and pretend she's your girlfriend. Start rubbing her back, touch her arms, find an excuse to hold her hand. Make it CLEAR that that's who you want, go all in on her don't half ass them both, but still try too keep HB7 in the loop so she doesn't have the awkward third wheel. As for a threesome, yeah it sounds cool and shit but think about it, they both seem inexperienced so that I is such a hail Mary…
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:23 AM
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I just have one thing to say, sine she's experimenting on you , if she gives you her number or becomes emotionally attached, wouldn't that be a huge ethics violation? Maybe that's why I'd assume she didn't give it to you. Also as for FR's try to keep it within the box since most people will not read past the box. I read most of it but dear God did the wall of text seem overwhelming.
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:14 AM
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I'll try to answer as many as I can. I feel like answering the questions posted there helps you re affirm your own game and it keeps you on your toes by giving you different scenarios. IM PRETTY DAMN EXCITED AND I DONT KNOW WHY :D
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:46 PM
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Congratulations! I learned a lot from your FR man, especially that bit about people watching and the slightly kino gestures you made. Hope this ends where you want it to end.
/r/seduction20/06/12 07:16 PM
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If you can't hold eye contact, do triangular gazing start looking at one eye (naturally people look at peoples right eye) then look at their other eye and then their lips. This for many things, t keeps it intimate since your providing eye contact while showing that you want to kiss her (this is the bodies natural unconscious way of telling the other person I want to kiss you but of course you'll be using it to your advantage ;) )
/r/seduction20/06/12 07:07 PM
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Woah! We have a bad ass over here. You did great man, you seem confident in what you do, say, and act. Good luck finding that girl again!
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:42 PM
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You have PLENTY OF REASONS. Tell them they look cute. Boom you just made their day. Ask them for help finding a place. Boom you just made them feel useful Make them laugh. Boom you just gave them some awesome feeling endorphins (and its cheaper than weed!) Your a good looking man! Boom you just gave them a lady boner. Dude there's so many good reasons to approach a girl walking. Who cares f you get their number or not. You will make a lasting positive impression and make someones day! In a world…
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:27 PM
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Hey first of all congratulations on your first date! It'll be as awesome as you want it to be. But here are some tips. Kino it up! Touch her in a playful way as soon as possible. This will show that not only are you interested in her physically but it also creates a connection between you two. Don't ask too many questions. Instead turn them into statements. Read up on some news beforehand and have 3 interesting conversation topics just in case your conversation dies down Listen to some stand up …
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:15 PM
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A couple of things you should remember: your freaking awesome! You radiate it so she would be lucky for you to go and spend some time getting to know you. *ASSUME ATTRACTION* As for openers, this isn't rocket science man. Go up to her and say "Hey I think your pretty cute and id kick myself if I didnt come over and say hi. Hi! (Big smile on your face) my names blablabla. Good luck man! You have the first step into getting rid of that pesky AA which is acknowledging it and wanting to do something…
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:47 AM
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Be like hey what's up? I hear you like/are into (insert something that's in her "likes" that you like too). That's really awesome! After this try to close as fast as possible with her number and suggest a meet up. Be like "Hey I have to go save a puppy from a burning house? I also saw you liked ice cream, you + me + ice cream at (pick a place) at (whatever time works for you)" Remember you decide when and where so no asking. Be confident and you'll do fine =)
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:34 AM
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If you've kissed her before you can say "I miss your prickly mustache too!"
/r/seduction20/06/12 05:21 AM
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I personally prefer day game over night game because im not looking to f-close anyone I just want a relationship with an awesome girl. Which I feel is a lot harder to achieve with night game where the girls there seem to be on the shallow/dumb side of the spectrum (pretty faces nothing else). Im 19 as well but to each his own I guess. On the whole age thing I feel like since were such a young age theres still a large maturity range between 17-20 year olds ( your going to get a shit ton of drama …
/r/seduction20/06/12 01:33 AM
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Assume Attraction man! You seem like a pretty awesome guy, so there's no reason for her to not be attracted to you.
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:45 PM
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Dreads = Clothes. Its sort of a play on the word "thread"
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:42 PM
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This is good to know, I'll be using this for sure!
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:51 AM
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He might be one of those Stupid Guys that waits 3 days to text you FTFY =)
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:44 AM
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I can't out witty this. Follow this mans advice and you'll be fine. As the other guy points out just avoid pointless chit chat.
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:40 AM
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Hey you didn't mention this but you should text them within an hour of you meeting them it helps out a lot and since you say your normally an pretty funny I would assume you'd have some great text game. Its been said somewhere before that music helps out a lot so before you try approaching people listen to something, anything that'll pump you up or at least bring a big ol grin on your face. Remember you have to start of somewhere, it'll get easier, keep at it and Good Luck!
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:35 AM
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I actually really like the last one, since what can I say I'm a god cook amongst the other things we'll be doing...
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:20 AM
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Well I'd just assume that shed want a loyal partner that's all.
/r/seduction19/06/12 06:15 AM
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This ^ I feel the only way to salvage this is to flip it and this is gold.
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:16 AM
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Hey first of all I congratulate you on your first approach. As for the answer for your question ill giver youth an example of a similar situation I was in yesterday. I was at a casino and as I was going into the elevator I saw a nice HB7 inside. She asked me what floor I was on and I said 3, then 7, then 14 (my actual number) then 52 etc. She giggled a little bit and this opened me into being able to talk to her because my first impression was that I was funny. This also let me have a little bit…
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:09 AM
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Unlike the other guys here I think you were awesome. You had balls of steel in approaching these girls, you made them laugh with witty comebacks and best of all you had fun doing it, its just that you had some bad luck with the whole numbers thing. The only thing I find that you could've done better is that (maybe you did and forgot to write it) was kino. You obviously had them interested in you as a person but kino would've helped with the physical attraction. Keep at it and posts more FR's I l…
/r/seduction18/06/12 06:34 AM
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I'm not sure if its fair to her, of course though you say its complicated so it must be complicated. Good to hear you still have it in you.
/r/seduction18/06/12 06:18 AM
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Are you actually married or did you just tell her that? Edit: Maybe you should work on you and your wife's relationship first before you try and build up another one. But im in no position since I don't know you and your wife's relationship, you guys could be swingers for all I know.
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:33 PM
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