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edivadd/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:46 AM
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edivadd/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:09 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:37 AM
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edivadd/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:54 AM
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edivadd/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:41 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:47 AM
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edivadd/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:59 AM
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edivadd/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:25 AM
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edivadd/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 05:36 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:06 AM
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edivadd/r/askMRP30/01/19 12:21 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP09/03/19 09:49 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:41 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:08 AM
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edivadd/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:06 PM
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edivadd/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:05 PM
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Wtf what do you mean “when I was younger”? You are 23 fucking years old, this IS YOUNG. Dude, you’re just looking for an external cause to blame imho. You have so many years ahead even before hitting your 30s. And I write this with tough love
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:50 PM
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Any resource you’d recommend?
/r/seduction16/08/24 09:12 AM
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What is the country if I may ask?
/r/seduction16/08/24 09:11 AM
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Can you please share how you went from socially awkward to Chad?
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:23 AM
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Do you think I should go there anyway or tell her I won’t go?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:02 PM
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That’s true. Hard next won’t help anyway. It’s just another way to ease the same problem at the root: my extreme insecurity.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:34 AM
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If I don’t go, won’t she see this as me having fear or meeting her ex crush?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:10 AM
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Yes I did, I mean she doesn’t see them since last summer when she had her graduation party. Anyway I can’t control her, My question is to learn how I should approach this situation. Cause honestly I consider the fit guy and the close one a treat. She told me she developed a crush for the latter when he was close during her lowest time but gave up on that (probably because this guy was never interested in her). The best for me is work on myself and meditate on how my life is going to be without h…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:41 PM
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No I don’t
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:30 PM
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How are they gonna shittest me? I didn’t know men do that too. And how my girl is going to shittest me?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 01:55 PM
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Thanks a lot! Should I agree and meet her male friends? If so how should I act when hanging out with them?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:40 AM
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I know dude but if I start to think to that seriously I end up losing frame and shit myself out of fear of losing her. I know I’m still BP and need a lot of work on myself. This is just a way to cope with the fact.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:08 PM
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You’re saying she wants to hookup with random guys? Every girls desires to do that, even the married with alpha ones. It’s the same for men with girls
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:18 PM
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Define “little more attention” please. When we are apart our communication goes as follows: I call her in the morning to give her good morning, during the rest of the day she sends me a text or two that I ignore if I’m busy or wait on purpose (stupid I know) to reply. After work, on some days she calls me to catch up a few minutes. In the evening she video calls me. When we are together I keep teasing her all the time.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:32 AM
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Dress well: does it mean suit/smart casual?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:14 PM
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Yes I do have to wear them
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:09 PM
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I’m 5’4”
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:07 PM
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What is a lie?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:41 PM
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If she will cheat I won’t mind really, I’m tired of that. I want to focus on me. You know what? Alone I’m better.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:26 PM
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Mmm outgoing yes, sluts I dunno. She meets with me every couple of months. They are 3. 1 is fat and the other two are 6/7. My gf is a good 6.5/7 so out of that group I’d say two are fuckable.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:48 PM
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How much drama followed your ultimatum? Doesn’t she resent you for that?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:26 PM
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What do you mean you led? You forbid her to go?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:50 PM
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Outcome? What do you mean?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:47 PM
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What happened next: are you still with her?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:46 PM
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Did you have an experience like this?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:05 PM
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So I’m fucked?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:14 AM
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She’s a developer as myself. Define young. She’s 24.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 06:27 AM
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I am aroused by her. I find her sexy and beautiful. Sure I don’t want to fuck her brains out as I want when I see a hot girl, if that’s what I mean
/r/askTRP06/02/19 08:36 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:22 PM
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Why I shouldn’t?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:11 PM
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Demote because I’m the problem here (insecurity and inability to accept her as she really is) or because she’s the problem? Am I on the right for not trusting her? What would you do if you were in my shoes? What fucks my mind is that if you get to know her you see how much of a nice girl she is. She venerates her father, has lost her mom a couple years ago, cleans, cooks for her father and me. She says I’m her superhero. But then she’s extrovert, probably bisexual, has some guy friends and this …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:18 AM
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What? I didn’t understand
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:09 AM
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Be mindful of her actions. This worries me. Like wtf dude it’s like I have to observe a nymphomaniac and be careful she doesn’t fall on another man’s dick. It sucks. What’s the point
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:53 PM
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So I’m not right into thinking that it’s repulsive that a girl you want to spend your life with has the desire to fuck other men with you present in the moment? Wtf is this? Is it just me because I’m insecure? I’m lost here. And the best part is that she told she doesn’t want anyone besides her to have touch, kiss and fuck me. I told her it’s the same for her, that I can’t tolerate it. I don’t know what to think anymore. I thought that trp would stand for dumping this girl Edit: with vanilla I m…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:48 PM
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I fear it will happen someday in the future. My gut tells me that. Maybe it’s just as she’s loyal and admires me, but my gut feeling tells me this. I have the suspicion that one day I won’t be enough to satisfy all her sexual needs and eventually she will betray me with another couple. And the thought of this makes me sick and panick
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:43 PM
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I fear it will happen someday in the future. My gut tells me that. Maybe it’s just as she’s loyal and admires me, but my gut feeling tells me this. I have the suspicion that one day I won’t be enough to satisfy all her sexual needs and eventually she will betray me with another couple. And the thought of this makes me sick and panick
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:43 PM
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Why field report?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:30 PM
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Don’t you want to marry a bland and vanilla woman? The fact that she fantasizes about foursome repulses me
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:30 PM
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How can you accept and cope with the fact that your girl wants that?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:20 PM
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Yeah but AWALT so what’s the point to have a relationship with a woman anyway
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:45 PM
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Useless. All girls have these fantasies, just most are good at hiding it. Fuck.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:44 PM
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Why you say she was a sez fiery unloyal?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:35 PM
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What is this burden of performance?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:50 PM
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Religious in the fact I believe there is a God, not catholic. But the thing is even if you find those girls before they find the CC, they can eventually come up, after years, with the idea that they feel like they didn’t live to the fullest. They can ask themselves what if. And this makes me sad. So am I normal to want a girl like that? Do I have to just let go of this, give up and accept?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:10 AM
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Is having a unicorn as ideal healthy? Is it wrong to have this ideal?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:19 AM
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Fun in what way?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 07:22 AM
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Ah ok lol i didn’t understand that
/r/askMRP01/02/19 07:19 AM
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As far as I know flirting in front of your man is disrespectful. Why you say it isn’t?
/r/askMRP01/02/19 07:18 AM
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Yeah but one thing is having tingles for some celebrity, another is have them with a person sitting on the same table. For fuck sake keep it for you at least. Don’t show it like that
/r/askMRP01/02/19 07:17 AM
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Really? I want to give you a wider view, not to hamster but to really understand the concept myself. Her n count is 6 myself included. 2 “relationships” in middle school, 3 in high school. She had sex a couple of times before meeting with her ex 3 years ago. Between her last relationship and me nothing happened.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:35 PM
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Do you say she’s a slut based on what I wrote or because every girl is a slut by nature?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:55 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:02 AM
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I don’t know what that is, can you link me some resource please?
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:00 AM
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What do you mean with the first sentence?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:37 PM
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Thank you so much for taking the time write all that!
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:36 PM
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No we didn’t drink
/r/askMRP30/01/19 08:30 PM
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Thank you guys, it’s clear now I fucked up this entire relationship because of my insecurity
/r/askMRP30/01/19 08:28 PM
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His semi drunk? I don’t understand what you’re trying to tell me
/r/askMRP30/01/19 06:28 PM
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How? Please tell me cause it’s a serious problem
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:27 PM
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Just to add: I’m afraid of losing her because despite I showed her my insecurities multiple times she wanted to keep up with me, but I think she’s getting to a break point. I don’t want my life affected by insecurity anymore. I’ve loved too many years like that. Now I’m 24, doing a career I love (finally) and working to improve myself. The fact is that when insecurity kicks in I can’t think to anything else. What do you suggest for this? Because I think that it would be healthier to be able to c…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:49 PM
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Thanks, you hit the point.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:44 PM
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I’ve been insecure during the first initial months of the relationships, then some months I was ok then now I’m having these slip ups. Solving my insecurity is my #1 priority this year because I want to be confident in all aspects of life, not just girls. I want to be honest why you say that. I’m looking to receive your help guys so why should I lie?
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:43 PM
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What do you consider as flirty behavior then? On the socialize part you are right. That night I only wanted to see how she behaves in a group of friends since it was our first time going out with her friends.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:39 PM
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After the confrontation we did it like rabbits. She is submissive and I was very dominant (reading stuff about sex god method). She came, was sweating and smiling
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:37 PM
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So I am just a butthurt pussy, am I?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:33 PM
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No but she said it as if she enjoyed the double meaning joke
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:23 PM
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For future reference, if this happens again (with any girl) how should I act ?
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:21 PM
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Being attracted is one thing, act on your attraction is another. I openly asked her if she was attracted to him to which she replied “no way! And even if I was I would not do anything because I don’t want to ruin my friendship with my girl friend”. Says x but does y.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:06 PM
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Why do you think that behavior was flirty?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:11 PM
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Do you mean in which social interactions? I can tell you that before meeting her friends we hung out a couple of times with my brother and her girlfriend and she didn’t have this behavior. This difference in behavior pissed me off too. I mentioned it to her. She said she behaved differently because she feels in suggestion when hanging out with my family. She’s average, guys never hit on her. But it’s like I see her kindness, the way she takes care of me and the ways she shows me her love. But th…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:21 AM
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Not really. She has those three guy friends but she has also girl friends. They see them every couple of months. I just don’t like her extroversion. She’s open both with guys and girls. Her openness with guys is what I don’t like and makes me insecure. So I don’t know if on that night she was disrespectful or it’s my insecurity talking. Maybe it’s me. During the entire time that night she has been on my side and from time to time she was touching me to check how I was. After a couple of months i…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:16 AM
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Ok. But what do you think about her behavior. I want to know if I’m right or I’m just insecure
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:36 AM
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What made you accept that?
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:21 AM
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How do you behave when she has doubts about your relationship, herself and god knows what? I mean how do you avoid falling into her frame and dive into her insecurity to confront and comfort her? Sometimes it just pisses me off to listen to her shit. And I think this is betafying me more that I would like.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:48 PM
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Please explain why I’m misunderstanding
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:31 PM
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How do you handle communication via text/calls? Since she is my ltr I like to call her in the morning to say good morning. After a couple of days of that I switch to text and let her initiate communication. I think I’m just too focused on her because I think too much about it. I want to be more focused on my career. This lack of focus I’m experiencing is due to my insecurity. I’ve enough of that
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:30 PM
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I guess she wants a mixture of both extremities
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:26 PM
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Now is more clear, thanks
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:25 PM
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Examples?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:56 PM
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Usually it goes like this: we do it, I come in her mouth, she goes to clean herself. Then some time later we cuddle
/r/askTRP24/01/19 12:46 PM
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Really? Then why did she made all that drama about me being absent? Why did you gf did that too? I don’t understand. This is some fucked up shit.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:16 AM
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She’s as submissive as usual. Well recently she started to give me head during sex without me asking for it. I should also mention that after a while I was going rough I could see she was enjoying it less.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:15 AM
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aren’t AWALT?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:00 AM
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About that, she told me that when I use her like that she feels she can’t satisfy me anymore. What do you suggest?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:00 AM
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?
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:16 AM
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I recognized this “put her before me” behavior in myself. Slowly but steady improvements pal.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:51 AM
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Can you tell me exactly what were your mistakes in your relationship? I mean I’ll read your story if you are up to write it here.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:26 PM
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Dude, you described my situation in a perfect manner. Thank you so much, mostly for taking all the time to write that up. I must give that book a real shot (two years ago started reading it but dropped it in the middle).
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:44 PM
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What can you suggest me to rearrange my life? As of now the only good thing I can think of myself is my career path (web development) and it’s the only thing I’m focusing on to improve
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:32 PM
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I don’t have any gut feeling that she will. It’s just my insecurity speaking. If I look at her action, I shouldn’t have any doubt.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:31 PM
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About me
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:51 PM
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Cause I’m insecure
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:07 PM
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Ok, but I’m battled with my own consciousness. I want to be with her but then I would feel the regret for not staying with my family. I would feel like I didn’t fulfill my duty as their son
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:56 PM
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My family leaves after. She even said to me she wanted me for NYE but to stay at home. So I guess I will spend the day with her and the night with my family.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:55 PM
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How’s going with ltr and what changed in your relationship?
/r/askTRP26/12/18 03:24 PM
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What should not be mixed with it in terms of effectiveness?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:46 AM
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Wait wait. She has her period (end of it) and started taking the pill this Monday after finishing the last pack and taking a week break. She shouldn’t be ovulating right? As you wrote the white discharge is present when ovulating. How the fuck is she ovulating if on BC and on cycle?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:40 AM
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But I hear and read about people here doing pull out and be good for years. Suggestions on how can I fix the condoms problem?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 07:46 PM
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Please explain the whining part cause I didn’t understand
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:14 AM
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What? I don’t think so. She could have all the men she wants by just opening her legs. Why wait till meeting my brother.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:13 AM
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Should I give her another chance or hard next? She gave me a second chance in the past when I didn’t deserve it
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:54 PM
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So what should I do?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:53 PM
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Ok but I want to understand. So this is my problem right? So unicorn really don’t exist. For example even the nicest of girls, all books church and family, virgin and whatever you want to add, has these filthy sides?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:27 PM
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How do I work on my inner emotional frame? I want to but when I face situations like the above i start to panick and stop thinking rationally. Really asking for help.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:20 PM
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Yeah but I must admit I pressed her quite heavily before she told me those things. I knew she was thinking those but the problem I think it’s my insecurity that led me to press her to say what she said. I mean it shouldn’t even bother me because it’s normal to think those things, I would do the same if she had a hot sister/cousin. What do you think?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:28 AM
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I didn’t tell her it’s not cool
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:21 AM
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What bothers me is not that she could think my brother is more attractive than me - imo he his - but that she could actually think those things (comparing d sizes and such). I thought she could be an exception from all the other girls. Probably this is where the problem is. Probably, I should wake up.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:31 AM
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Ok but is it normal that a girl can think those things (compare brothers D and athleticism). I don’t know if I’m insecure or the problem here is her. I think I’m socially autistic so I’m asking seriously.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 06:08 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP16/12/18 08:24 AM
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Yeah?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:01 AM
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Yeah but wouldn’t you use this a way to game her? I mean, you get close and stuff so why not
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:52 PM
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Ok so by that meaning I understand the situation in my post is not whack shit, right?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 07:00 AM
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What do you mean by whack shit? Is it me or her on the wrong?
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:22 AM
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Well she has some guy friends (3 to 5) but she sees them every once in while, like every couple of months or so.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:36 AM
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Really? I thought unicorn meant virgin, good family principles and so on. Fuck. I acted out on this. Showed I was pissed about this. Even asked her if my past bothered her. She said that it did but she made peace with the fact that she can’t do anything about her. And now I’m worried she lost attraction to me.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:29 PM
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You’re right. I have a deep issue here
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:50 PM
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I believe she’s a good ltr material to be honest. The only problem is me accepting her as not an unicorn. Help me out please: how do I man up?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:49 PM
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Do these thoughts of insecurity ever go completely away when you’re an alpha male?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:36 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:21 AM
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This is exactly what’s happening to me. Holy shit. So to not feel inferior I should focus on my career, lift, pursue manly hobbies and take ownership of my responsibilities, right?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:04 AM
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It means I’m jealous because I feel inferior to other mens. Which means I must work on myself to achieve a mental frame in which I don’t feel inferior to anybody. Is that what RP is all about?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 09:49 AM
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Thanks dude, appreciate your help. I started my very first job on July. Recently i bought nicer clothes so I don’t look anymore like a teenager. I’m on a career path I love. Need to keep working on myself day in and day out. Diet and exercise. The funny thing is that sometimes I miss her so much it hurts, other times I just wanna be alone
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:23 PM
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Yes it’s nice, that’s why I started to be jealous about how she dresses. How do you outframe guys with higher SMV than yours? How you can you be so secure you won’t meet any of them?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:39 PM
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Yeah I guess you’re right. But this doesn’t make it different imho. I need to work on myself more and learn to suck it up
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:37 PM
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I’m a developer so I use commute to work on personal project so I wouldn’t say it’s a total waste of time. The thing that bothers is lack of time to go to the gym
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:31 PM
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You mean to set priorities?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:34 PM
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That’s what’s happening right now. My free time is the one I spend in the train
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:12 PM
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Last week I said to her something in a funny way, on the line of “cmon I know you wear those fit pants so that guys will look at your ass”. She told me that it’s not like that, she wears them because her ass is the only part of her body she likes. What should I take out of it? AWALT -> I want guys to look at my ass so that I receive validation?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:11 PM
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Yeah but the thought come anyway. So how you do you reason yourself out of this, considering abundance etc ?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:51 AM
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That is right considering that she’s a 6 or 7 at max. Well in my view she’s an 8 but that’s because of my taste. What if your girl is hb9?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:49 AM
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Yeah I guess moving closer is the best option for me
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:32 AM
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Yes
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:30 AM
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This is how the timetable works. I can take the bus at 8:15 and arrive at work by 8:40
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:29 AM
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I learned this at my own expense a month ago so no, I’m not gonna do that shit again.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:09 AM
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Thank you so much dude, it’s a liberating truth: to know that everyone’s mind is like mine, but you guys decide what thought to channel your energy too. That’s control. And now I understand why I have not it. Good place to start working.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:07 AM
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“You're allowing your mind to dictate a reality you find unpleasant and Rev up an emotional response.” What do you mean?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:16 PM
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