| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Should I still try to have sex with this girl who stated the N word?Don’t f her ur better than that | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some good dating green flags?I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:33 PM |
| 19 | What are some good dating green flags?I actually reached out because I needed help with a dish I was making and he replied then we met a few months after at a mutual friend’s house at a party and we had a talk about the situation and everything went great but we agreed to it already when we went our separate ways that we would be able to be friends because he is friends with some family members (my cousins) but now we talk about food and how things are going when we have time (we both work a lot) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 103 | What are some good dating green flags?I had one guy we matched on a dating app he lives in another country (the country I’m originally from). We talked regularly back and forth and he was coming to Denmark where I live to a course (he is a chef) and he asked me two weeks in advance if I was interested in going on a date he knew I’m a vegetarian and from that he choose where we should go to eat and then we went for a small walk before going to the movies he was really nice and considerate he opened the doors actually listened and was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 168 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI really needed to see this I was exposed to porn when I was 9 years old and started watching it then I now know how terrible it is it’s unbelievable that this is the society we live in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 01:11 AM |
| 8 | How to have quality dates in lockdowns/high COVID incidence?I agree with the comment above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I am a bisexual woman and I was just catfished by a man pretending to be a female on Bumble. Please stay safe.Ive been through this so many times now i only match with verified users | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | I think she's serious 😂No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 108 | Left my abuser but I want to go back? Please help me make sense of thisYou won’t become stable living at home i recently cut my mom of too for throwing liquor bottles in my face and gaslighting me it’s really hard but you can do it you can get through this I don’t know what to do about you almost becoming homeless I’m so sorry all of this happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a girl with a very promiscuous past?I’ve been very promiscuous before and I’m telling you do not date her she hasn’t healed from her pick me days and it’s showing let her down gently though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 12 | Did your dad/brother/male figures understand when you were being harassed as a teen?My dad and stepdad and uncles always defended me when they were there and were always there and my brother and bio dad always pick up the phone when I call at night because they know it’s because I’m scared Once I was out drinking with my uncle who was 22 at the time I was 16 and he literally almost fought som dudes who hit on me because I was too young for them he screamed at them so I’ve always been respected by my male family same with grandfathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 22 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beOmg thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 68 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beHoly shot this is insane I will check my future dates laptops for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 22 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulHoly shit I’m so sorry he should be prosecuted and fired | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 04:31 AM |
| 53 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulIt is but let’s be honest men like that don’t care if we die or not if the body is warm it’s good enough for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 38 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulI saw the post that was what motivated me to make this post so women knew not only to watch their drinks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 55 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulIt’s insane my friends sister literally told us a few days before it happened that it was all over the tabloids and even though we were careful it still happened it’s so scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:56 PM |
| 26 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulI don’t blame you for not knowing I should have written that in the post but I don’t know if that happens all the time cuz my friend obviously didn’t and I would believe it depends on what dosage and what drug they are Using | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 49 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulI think u are correct I mean a few people were injected with needles at the Astroworld festival yesterday and they died and had foam coming out of their mouths so I think it would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 52 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulOmg that’s terrible is she okay now? And has she talked to a professional about what happened to her? It can be really traumatizing going to a bar ever again after something like that has happened especially when you loose all trust in the people who are supposed to help you( hospital workers and bartenders) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 101 | Needle spiking - happened to my best friend last weekend in Denmark be carefulExactly we were looking out for our drinks all the time we have a theory that it happened on the dancefloor after rejecting some guys it’s terrifying we have shown a picture to all bouncers in town of a guy who tried to rape her in the bathroom and they have kept him out so far so thank god that we are good friends with the bouncers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Tang tribal tattoos or any lion tattoos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | The first date went amazing.I completely agree it’s the bare minimum but it has never happened before and I just turned 21 so I don’t know what is the standard and so on but I’m raising my standards everyday this was the first date I’ve ever been on so I’m not expecting too much yet but I’m getting there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 7 | The first date went amazing.I’ve met him before it’s just our first date I thought about this very carefully but thank you very much for warning me❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?The place for the date is five minutes walking away from where I live both the movie and the restaurant so I think I’m just going to walk but thank you it’s a very good idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:23 PM |
| 3 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Love the comment about most dont act right. I am going to Block him if he does something that are against what i believe in. Yelling and those things are just a given in my book not going to lie thats just Human decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?I really needed that comment thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:14 PM |
| 5 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you so much for your help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 9 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you I feel like this is going to be very effective I already just block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 5 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 26 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?drug or alcohol abuse Watches porn Not a healthy relationship with his mother Watches sexist television for comedy like himym and two and a half men. Not clean and hygienic Does not live alone and has a stable income. A lot of debt Doesn’t listen and actually acts on what he says he will act on. Respects my no kissing before third date rule No sex before exclusive Does not open doors Pays half of the rent and doesn’t respect my rule about keeping finances separate until married Does not want to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you so much I’ve been very unlucky in the past and then my mom showed me this group and bought my “act like a lady think like a man’ it has helped tremendously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 9 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Wow okay great idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 02:06 PM |
| 6 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:15 PM |
| 23 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Thank you so much for all the advise I will do all of these things it’s sound very effective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:13 PM |
| 99 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Omg thank you so much I’ve had a very hard time understanding that I’m autistic so when people say something I take it too much to heart thank you this helps so much I will make a new list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 8 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Where do I find it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 7 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?I’ve read most of it I couldn’t find anything I’ll try and look again thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Offline FDS StrategiesI do exactly the same and they seriously just ignore me all my friends seem to believe that because I’ve been a prostitute I don’t have the means to set the boundaries that I set also looking back I never did in the past so they don’t take me seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:18 AM |
| 36 | God's willMy ex had an erectile dysfunction and couldn’t get kids that was and will for ever be a sign for me that the universe is onto something karma vise (he was mentally as physically abusive and was a diagnosed psychopath) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Can we please stop posting the messages we get from FDS Super Fans?I second this!💅💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Not really about dating but about lvm friendsYeah i realize that ive really been trying to change my Ways for about a year since i found this group but it has been hard but im now one step further than i was 20 minutes ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Not really about dating but about lvm friendsI JUST BLOCKED HIM EVERYWHERE OMG IM PROUD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Not really about dating but about lvm friendsThank you that helped a lot i needed someone to tell me it how it is because i feel like im trapped in my Pick me Ways again thank u will be blocking him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 39 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Im too emotionally drained right now to write anything but i will be back later or tomorrow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 95 | “Promising Young Woman”Omg thank you so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:44 AM |
| 45 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.I’m addicted to working on onlyfans but I’m stopping soon fds helped me realize that I’m worth so much more than that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑No im not the camera thing wasnt the case | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 139 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Omg this happened to me i left a date not long ago cuz he didnt Seem as respectful as he did over text | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 69 | He really thought he did somethingExactly it’s insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:01 AM |
| 16 | I need help establishing my ground rules for dating.I really appreciate that I really do we have to have each others backs in all of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 83 | He really thought he did somethingExactly I would rather be single my whole life than to be with someone that makes me feel unworthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:18 AM |
| 14 | I need help establishing my ground rules for dating.I agree but I’m a good act of character if anything at all feels off I will leave even before the date I’ve often been warned and I stayed cuz I didn’t think my intuition was right and I mean I don’t want to just stay at home I want to get more dating experience so I can filter them out. I completely understand your point of view it has happened before but I’ve been really sneaky with my own intentions lately and it helps so much I make sure to not give it my all and be cautious and not fall hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:14 AM |
| 19 | I need help establishing my ground rules for dating.That’s why I made the rule I’m not sleeping with him unless we are completely exclusive what do you mean by cheating and not directly? And how should I inforce it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 08:39 AM |
| 4 | The various ways financial abuse can look.My mom was abused like this it’s insane he is out of her life now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 9 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.Ohh hell no he is not worth anything like literally anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 10:23 AM |
| 35 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.WAIT WHAT DID HE SAY HELL NO HE DOES NOT GET TO SAY THAT F@&k no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:03 AM |
| 17 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Where do you find these posts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Another giant step forward for womankind!YAAYYY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | I’m scaredI don’t think it’s a matter that should be protested against when it happens because then the power will have been taken away from us it’s a direct attack on our reproductive system and women who do now wish to have children of any kind. I think it’s ruthless that it’s even posted on any form of social media platform where it’s known that it will be taken out of context it’s incredibly terrifying to think about. Ever attack on our bodies should be taken seriously just like the abortion ban in te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I’m scaredGoogle it yourself I can’t link it because of the article costing money. It is covered by the New York Times the Irish something and so many more if you google child bearing women alcohol and it’s ALL over TikTok and different social media platforms who took it down because backlash but it was there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:09 AM |
| 2 | I’m scaredOmg thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | I’m scaredYes ofcourse but the fact that they were acting as if there wasn’t any consequences on mens sperm was sad but yes ofcourse always drink moderately don’t binge drink stay under the recommended drinks per week | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Hard factsThe new one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Hard factsWatch dynasty it’s fucking amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 11 | OLD Red Flag Words & PhrasesIf he likes your picture your actual picture of your body and not your smile then fuck him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 5 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!It’s seriously insane how much we actually do for men. If I go on a date ever again and it’s disgusting in there I will sure as hell leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | 👀OR JUST KISS MY NECK DAMMIT OR OMG TOUCH MY THIGH it’s literally that easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | 👀Do it you never know before trying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 4 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!Ive seen her so many times it fucks me up i used to clean all the time when i first started to date my ex and sure enough later on he got fucking pressed over the fact that I didn’t clean and cooked and baked all the time never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 29 | 👀SAME I’m bisexual and I’ve had to have taken an active choice not to date anymore men for this purpose i just can’t deal with it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 31 | 👀No right it’s insane almost all guys I’ve dated were like that it baffles me that they expect us to read directions but noo not them and what’s the deal with no foreplay for us or wait no they expect us to get turned on by sucking their disgusting piece of meat 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 32 | 👀Or come ahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 7 | F*ckboi Summer Is Approaching!Haven’t lagged this much in a while thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 49 | I’m 35, I love being single, and I honestly can’t see myself being in a relationship with a man ever again. For me, it’s not worth the troubleIm 20 and my mom actually told me about this group and ive loved it ever since and i am actually really considering only dating females from now on im bisexual and men completely disgust me i dont want to give birth i want to adopt and ive always seen myself marry a woman anyways and fuck my brothers family when they find out im gay i never want to date a grown kid ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | You did the right thing! ✨👑Thank you so much I broke up with him a lvm a few months ago and I just started dating again and I felt guilty now I know what it’s okay because I deserve better and I’m not going to wait around for him to accept that I’m moving on 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsThank you so so much for the advice I dumped him in a good way ofcourse and we are still friends and I like that just because we weren’t a match we now both know that whatever tension was there is gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsAlready did thank you so much it was the greatest decision ever made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsI have healed I’m 20 years old and I’ve been single for a year before starting to date him with lots of therapy but I dumped him and actually think I found myself a hvm he works a lot he is a feminist he accepts me for who I am and we spent all day today having a virtual date drinking wine and making dinner for ourselves and I was so comfortable talking with him so let’s see how it goes I just couldn’t respect the other guy he didn’t have the level of hygiene that I expect another human being to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:37 AM |
| -14 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsI was in sw too when i was 16 and it was terrible had sex woth People my own age and it was literally disgusting and all my ex boyfriends couldnt figure out how to shower i really like the guy im dating now im 20 and he does shower like a lot but i dont think he brushes his teeth properly so should i when he comes over and shit should i keep a topthbrush for him and make it cozy for us too brush our teeth together before bed and breakfast? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:24 AM |
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