educationaler Archive

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1	Fucked up badly Thank you. And yes, you’ve made the right choice. Real love (or even attraction) is never built within a day. It takes time. Even flings, you must take failure after failure to get a single fling. If someone can’t understand that, (from a therapist) it’s going to be unhealthy. Focus on developing strong boundaries. But if emotions are like “fuck it, I want to risk it with her.” Then I would suggest catching her out of the blue if you go to the same school. If not, call her randomly. Or drop a fl…	/r/seduction	05/02/20 04:38 AM
5	Reciprocating interest You’re in a good position. Tbh, I would initiate something in person lol. But that’s just men hormones. Instead, resist it. Push/pull. Maybe leave her on seen once. Reply in a few hours. Give random text later when the convo staled like “Haven’t forgotten when you said about riding me all day ;)” or something.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:53 PM
1	Fucked up badly Any idea specifically what made her say that she loved you? Also, have you made it clear before that you were interested in her? It’s completely fine if things go sideways. That’s how we build funny moments in life when, in the moment, they suck. As Mark Manson says, if you’re not prepared to drop the dime instantly when she breaks one of your values, that’s why you’re probably not with them. Sucks to hear, but I’m not saying you should move on. Although you should lol. I’m sort of in the same s…	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:46 PM
1	Am I The Only One? The teasing would’ve been better, regardless of talking to an attractive woman or casually. Sometimes, we have to talk to woman the way we talk to friends. “Dude, you fucking suck so much LOL. Here, let me show you.”	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:36 AM
22	Girl did 99% of the work? Hey, congrats on being totally chilled with it! Don’t forget to praise yourself. To escalate, use friendly touches from the elbow, arm, and maybe hands. Don’t leave your hand there but a subtle 1-2 second touch. Upper back and shoulders works as well. Don’t feel the need to be pressured for flirting every second. Most of the time, it’s never like that. Give your best intention to show who you are and give a good time. Listen 70-80% of the time as well. Also, give hypothetical answers. For exampl…	/r/seduction	22/01/20 04:14 AM
2	Hit on daughter who was with her Mom at Starbucks for the Hell of it You may have been pushy with your desire too. Don’t try to pressure and get someone to accept you. A one time no speaks more than a guilty yes.	/r/seduction	10/01/20 07:08 PM
1	Second date, but confused about intentions... I’m pretty sure she’s interested in you. She’s only guessing your intentions at this point if you haven’t exhibit desire to her yet. Verbally, explain that you find interest and her and would like to continue seeing how things turn up. However, you seem to want kino escalation. Start with safe spots like the shoulders, arms, upper back, and maybe legs. Then move in closer to the neck, stomach, hair and face, lower back, and closer to her personal area. Don’t hang out there too. Just lightly touc…	/r/seduction	10/01/20 07:05 PM
1	We all know not to take it personally if she rejects us, but should we take it personally if she accepts us? I don’t deny my feelings when being rejected or accepted. I come to believe that it’s pointless to think obsessively about these terms. I get excited when accepted in a relationship, on a date, receiving a reply back, getting laughs, and etc. Don’t be emotionless. It’s really normal and okay to be fazed by rejection. You just have to feel it, accept, and let go. Understand that it’s a numbers game and there will always be another one that says yes. But yes, being accepted is good, normal, and an…	/r/seduction	10/01/20 07:00 PM
1	Rejection is just soul-crushing for me Focus on your opinion more. What do you think about that person? Are they for you? Would you be happy if they treated you like that for the rest of your life? Would you like it if you’re marrying a superficial person? What do you like to do RIGHT NOW? Do that.	/r/seduction	10/01/20 05:01 PM
1	My tease and seduce spotify playlist. Enjoy 😈 True. But music type shouldn’t really be a make it or break it for a relationship.	/r/seduction	28/12/19 02:03 AM
1	My tease and seduce spotify playlist. Enjoy 😈 Cognitive bias is defined as your perspective is based on your beliefs and systems of actions that follow that belief. For example, if there’s the belief that not many woman that you’re attracted to are not into metal, you will come to see that becoming into reality. On the contrary, if you believe the opposite, you’ll see that girls are into metal and begin to date those kinds of woman.	/r/seduction	28/12/19 12:25 AM
1	My tease and seduce spotify playlist. Enjoy 😈 Doesn’t matter. There will always be people that you find who’s into what you’re into based on your cognitive bias.	/r/seduction	28/12/19 12:02 AM
1	Worried about being alone If you find yourself having trouble what to speak about, there could be millions of reasons. You may believe that you have nothing worthy to say or nothing you say is worth being heard. It’s all about self discovery and why you feel the way you feel. I would work on putting your foot out instead of keeping things to yourself. So, basically, speak what’s on your mind instead of keeping it in. It helps allow your genuine self to come out. Others may be surprised since it’s new from you but it beco…	/r/seduction	22/12/19 05:18 PM
3	Advice on starting a conversation? Dating is like selling a product as a salesmen. A constant “technique” I would test is by putting them in a situation where they want to prove something. For example, if they had no bio, “Hey, I’m [name]. I hope the real you is more interesting than your profile. [some sort of acronym or emoji] Are you :)” That’s sort of a bad example, but that can be directed to the “push/pull technique” Also, it’s best to start off with something as simple as a “Hey.” If you’re interested in a girl, you’ll giv…	/r/seduction	19/12/19 10:33 PM
3	Advice on starting a conversation? I forgot to include what happens if you meet them on the dating app. I would refer to something on their bio. For instance, “Need new friends.” Or “Serious People Only.” You can shift that into a starting convo. For example again, “Is your friend supply running low ha ha?” Or “Who made the clown leave your life? :)”	/r/seduction	19/12/19 10:14 PM
5	Advice on starting a conversation? Every dating app is the same intention: meet someone you’re interested in. The point of texting isn’t to get to know someone, it is to set up a date in person. How to do that exactly? Let’s say you just got their phone number. Text them “Hey! This is [Name]. It was nice meeting you. Have a good night :)” Then later on, simple as this: “Hey, I’m going to [event]. Would you be available to join?” Then you’re on.	/r/seduction	19/12/19 10:06 PM