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3	Where can I go as a high value man to meet high quality women (wifey material) or is online dating the only option? Social circles are good. Country club (and other private clubs like a racquet club, etc.) events or singles mixers are good. We're coming up on gala season for foundations and non-profits and those are always good spots. You're looking for exclusivity, and dating apps as a high value man (or man in general) is a complete shit show. Do you volunteer on a non-profit board? Those are good in that you'll find someone you share a passion with. You're going for quality, and apps are for dumpster divin…	/r/seduction	28/10/22 09:55 PM
1	It’s better to assume a girl is not interested than to assume they are interested, saves you a lot of time It’s better to assume Let me stop you right here. It's better to NOT assume anything.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 07:13 PM
1	Questions you always ask someone you’re starting to know, and what do their answers typically say about them? Probably not a first date question, but this is something you want to figure out if you want to date someone long-term.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 02:46 PM
2	Advice on chat Ask her if she's free the following weekend. If she is or flakes on you, then drop her.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 02:44 PM
1	What to do after a fail approach? Ignore her. You had a bad approach, at the gym. She goes there to work out, not to be hit on, unless you're a young Arnold. If she wants to talk to you, she'll say something. But she most likely just wants to work out and get on with her day. told her I thought she was gorgeous Don't lead with this either. Gorgeous women are a dime a dozen. Open the conversation with questions. Compliment her looks when you're getting physical with her.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 02:32 PM
3	What to say when a woman mentions her weight or wanting to lose weight So, guys, if she says something about her weight just move along. And guys, by move along, you should stop talking to her and find someone else to chat up (preferably not one obsessed with her weight).	/r/seduction	20/10/22 01:42 PM
19	Question about a date I just had today It happens. But look at it this way, you progressed this interaction as far as it could go. You did the best with what you had.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 01:13 AM
28	Question about a date I just had today She was being nice, and initially thought it would just be a walk, not necessarily going over to your place. Once you explained it to her she wanted to go home. Was this the only night she was going to be in town? When I said too soon, I meant you should've asked it on date 2.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 12:51 AM
149	Question about a date I just had today You did all that you could. She just wasn't feeling it. And that's ok. Maybe you asked to walk her back to her place way too soon, but understand that time was of the essence. So you had to move quick. Eh, there'll be more chicks.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 12:37 AM
1	So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves? I would agree with you on that. And some chicks do make physical contact first, but it usually starts out very subtle. I wouldn't lean on expecting women to make the first "touch" move or question why they don't do it more. They have to be subtle because they don't want to appear slutty.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 09:07 PM
0	How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too??? "I don't get what's so attractive about you" "Sorry you're slow on the uptake. What about you, on the inside, makes you stand out from the next attractive woman?" "You are not even all that" "You're right! I'm actually all that and a bag of chips! Besides your looks, what makes you think you're all that?" Honestly, don't put up with shit tests. If she is willing to shit test you, find a way to throw it back in her face and move on. These are pretty rough shit tests, and I wouldn't waste my time …	/r/seduction	19/10/22 09:01 PM
1	Does ignoring girls work? Typical deflection. Can't answer simple questions. Thank's for wasting our time.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 08:39 PM
2	I feel left out among people my age so dating seems hopeless. Hey man. I mean what I'm about to say with the upmost respect and care: Maybe you should consider seeing a therapist. He/she will help you develop the tools necessary to navigate this life from an interpersonal perspective. Also think about ways to better yourself and focus on your goals. Write your goals down and think about the steps you need to take to acheive them. I split my goals up like this: Personal, Mental/Spiritual, Physical, Professional. Put a reasonable timeline on your goals. Mayb…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 08:18 PM
8	Does ignoring girls work? What about my comment was chauvinistic? When did I refer to women as "master manipulators"? What about my comment makes you believe I think women are inferior to men or deserve lesser treatment? My comment is pretty clear. The average women feeds off of attention. If she is flakey or doesn't commit to a date, move onto the next one. I'm telling OP that his time is valuable, and he should treat it as such.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 07:51 PM
3	When having a date in your apartment shared with other flatmates, how can you have Netflix and chill? Buy a TV. Put it in your room. Close your door. Eventually, ditch the roommates.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:23 PM
2	Advice mindset approaching Just hop back on the wagon and approach. Find something happening in the vicinity and strike up a conversation on that. Ask opinion based questions. Don't beat yourself up over not talking to a beautiful woman or a stranger, just talk to them. You'll feel 100% better.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:07 PM
2	What are fun topics to talk about? You control the conversation based on the questions you ask her. Women thrive off how they feel, so you have to ask emotionally charged questions to start building up her feelings. Here are a few: What are you passionate about? What is your biggest fear? What type of people do you like/dislike? What is the best piece of advice you've received? What makes you feel special? What makes you smile? Let's create some tension: What qualities do you find attractive in a man? How do these qualities make …	/r/seduction	19/10/22 06:03 PM
5	Bar/club hookups? What are important things to hone in on for one night stands? In bars and clubs, look for this: Is she drinking? I'm not saying go for girls who are blacked out, but alcohol lowers inhibitions. And you don't want to try and hook up with the designated driver for a ONS. Learn how to get a chick away from her friends and by herself with you. The dance floor is a prime example. I would say take her to the bar to get a drink, but I'm not big on buying girls I just met a drink. Use your judgement, bu…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 05:22 PM
4	Keep getting ghosted after good first dates Honestly, there's nothing you could've done differently. Think of ghosting as having nothing to do with you, because it has nothing to do with you. Women (dudes too) ghost for a million different reasons. You just have to keep it moving. I met a chick on Bumble and had two solid dates with her. Slept with her both times. I go to setup our third date, and she commits to it. The day before our date I text her to confirm details, and I get nothing. Shitty? Yes. Could I have done anything different?…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 04:55 PM
73	Does ignoring girls work? Women thrive off of attention. Your validation is their supply. Use social media and your phone for meet-up logistics. If she flakes and doesn't commit, don't waste your time and move onto the next one. Either she'll hit you up, at which point you need to get a meet-up on the calendar, or you won't hear from her again. Ignoring girls may get you some results, but not from all of them. Honestly, if you're trying to set something up and she flakes or doesn't commit, don't waste your energy on her.…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 03:38 PM
4	So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves? The average woman doesn't want to appear slutty. The signs are subtle, but once you're able to pick them up, the easier your dating life will be. Basically, if she is comfortable with you touching her, and she touches back and doesn't pull away, and if the convo has lead to something more intimate, then you're pretty safe to initiate a kiss.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 03:22 PM
8	Women giving choosing signals but when I approach they reject with “I have a bf” Women like to feel wanted. It gives them validation. Your validation is their new supply. Yes all women are narcissists. Whoa, that escalated.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 02:22 AM
3	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. For sure. Most women don't want to be perceived as slutty (even in this day and age it's still looked down upon) and are even more afraid of rejection than the average man. So they'll send you subtle clues that they want you to talk to them. A good non-verbal indicator of interest (IOI) is going to be several glances with eye contact. A woman is not going to make eye contact several times with someone they don't think is attractive. A spin off of that is going to be eye contact, quick look away,…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 01:16 AM
1	Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women? Continue to work on yourself. Continue to put yourself in social situations to increase your odds. Continue to work out, focus on your goals and aspirations, expand your knowledge of the world. Seriously, getting in shape, grooming, and wearing clothes that fit you well, will put you above most dudes out here these days. Also, get better at identifying those non-verbal cues. It can be extremely subtle sometimes. You could be getting them and missing them completely. Have your female friends show…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 07:28 PM
1	Need advice for this and a girl point of view I guess. Get/give oral from/to her, and focus on developing your roster, i.e., get laid from other chicks. If she still doesn't want to have sex with you after a few oral sessions, cut her from the team. If you are already hooking up with other chicks, cut her now. Don't waste your time.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 07:02 PM
3	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. Naw, seduction happens between initial attraction and women who are naked in the bed with you. All because she's attracted to you doesn't mean she'll jump in bed with you. Seduction is all about building up that initial attraction to a boiling point, and if done well, she'll be throwing herself at you. Seduction is all about turning that initial attraction into physical intimacy.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:54 PM
7	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. This post is spot on. Working on yourself, getting in shape, grooming, and wearing clothes that fit you will put you above 80% of the dudes out here today that put zero effort in themselves. Reading, having hobbies, and being able to speak about things besides sports and the weather is even better. Picking up on non-verbal choosing signals from women is also key. I've missed out on so much when I was younger and didn't get that. There's no formula or special string of words you have to say. Beco…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:40 PM
6	Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women? Because they suck at it, and misery loves company. In all seriousness, to get better at approaching women, you have to work on becoming your best self, and picking up on non-verbal choosing signals. Get in shape, groom yourself, and wear clothes that are fashionable and fit you. Have hobbies, and be able to speak about things besides sports and the weather. Read a book or two. That will put you above 80% of dudes out here. And then look for those signs that a woman is open to you approaching the…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 06:16 PM