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2	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world Some men go to brothels, but they also take the free sex when they can. The fact that so many men go to brothels shows that "free sex" is just not that easy for many men. If sex were free and easy, the entire prostitution market would collapse, but the fact that it is extremely strong means that free sex is very hard. The payment may not be via money handed to the women but rather there are other costs involved. Most men can not afford to pay for sex every time they get horny. That could be anyw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 04:45 AM
1	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world Because some men don’t want to pay for sex workers. Especially when some women hook up for free on dating apps. Certainly there are men who don't want sex workers, but clearly many do as prostitution is a $15 billion a year industry. Some men or even women may just not have the confidence or skill to get free sex, and free sex is not necessarily free as there are strings attached. There are also many married men who see sex workers. Also there are women willing to be in 50-50 relationships where…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 02:20 AM
3	The disconnect between perceived SMV and actual SMV is the primary reason so many people fail in the dating world Men overwhelmingly value youth and physical attractiveness because they signal fertility. Women prioritize status, resources, and competence because these traits historically indicated the ability to provide for offspring. This is one of the problems with relationships and the traditional family, which is that if a man marries a woman for her youth, that woman will grow older over time, which means he will get tired and bored or her and eventually want to cheat on her with a younger woman. Many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 01:36 AM
–	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism Someone whose values align with feminism can't just change their values. For example if you witness a child getting raped and your values are anti-rape and you identify as anti-rape, you can't just suddenly believe that rape is good. Values are not that easily changed. The same applies with feminism. If you believe women should be equal to men, it's not easy to just change that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:09 AM
–	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism It's very socially acceptable to generalise women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:08 AM
2	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism Many people make judgements on groups. It includes not just feminists judging men but also racists judging particular races, or even OP judging feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 12:23 PM
1	Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future? That's the left's main problem and why they keep losing. If you back say one hundred years of history if any democratic country, I would say the left wing party wins about half of elections. They don't "keep losing" all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 08:52 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well Having children is much harder for women. They are the ones carrying the baby and their bodies suffer because of it. All men do is ejaculate semen into someone. Because of this inequality, many men are very happy that they have power over women because women eg need to take time off work to have a baby etc. Many comments by men here prove that point. Many men are happy to use procreation to feel better than women. Of course, there are more and more women nowadays opting to not have children at a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:26 PM
1	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations So just get a trade job and everything will be fine? Forget about getting university degrees? There are many people who are struggling to find jobs and university education does help. Generally the more educated someone is, the higher their pay will be and the better their job prospects will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 07:22 AM
3	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations It's called "opportunity cost." If you're earning $10k per year and you look after a kid for 20 years, you only lose $200,000. If you are earning $100k per year and you look after a kid for 20 years, you lose $2 million. The more you earn, the more you cannot afford to have children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:38 AM
1	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations If tomorrow's workers are not educated enough, they'll compete with AI for jobs. Workers nowadays need to be educated enough to be smarter than AI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:31 AM
1	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations I don't think it's capitalism that is at fault. I think women's rights and empowerment has lowered birthrate, but this is not necessarily negative. Women having money and independence is arguably positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:24 AM
1	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations While I get not wanting to be "tied down" in high school or college now, by 30 you should be ready for something more serious. Every man is different. Leonardo DiCaprio, for example, seems very happy with short-term relationships. I'm sure if you look hard enough, there are plenty of men who want something long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:18 AM
1	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations Exactly. If you delay having kids or not have kids at all, this helps a lot financially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:14 AM
1	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. I think the welfare of the kid would be an issue. I think it's circumstances like these that validate antinatalism and not having kids. If you can't be sure that your kid will be happy, it's better to never have kids ever. More people only creates more problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:22 PM
2	From a woman's perspective: Being negative is a universally unattractive trait, regardless of gender To say "don't be negative" basically means conform to social norms because talking negative means going against social norms. So for example suppose you are among a group of very conservative religious Christian or Muslim people who make a joke about how women are dumb and should be in the kitchen. The positive thing to do is to laugh along whereas the negative thing to do is to challenge this. Conversely if you are among a group of very progressive people and someone make a sexist joke, the pos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 04:40 AM
1	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? It's not a contradiction. You can trace lineage from yourself to your descendents many generations in the future, but the genetic code will be completely different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:27 AM
1	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Comedy gold. Genetic code is the basis of how you trace your lineage. When there is reproduction, genetic code is mixed. Over many generations, it is mixed considerably. So if I have a kid, they have 50% of my genes and then my grandkids have 25% and my great-grandkids have 12.5% and so on until it reaches close to zero. Over many generations, your genetic codes dilutes into nothing. Yet you can still trace lineage from yourself to your descendents many generations in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 11:51 AM
1	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Tracing lineage and preserving generic code are completely different. Let's say I am able to trace my lineage back to Moses. This doesn't mean that the DNA of Moses is anything like mine because there are millions of generations between him and me, and for each generation there mixing of generic code. Moses's original genetic code would be unrecognisable in me today because of all the mixing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 09:13 AM
1	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Spreading genes is, according to natalists, a winning proposition, so of course natalists would define antinatalism as a losing proposition, but antinatalists would define procreation as a losing proposition. The aim of antinatalism is to not spread their genes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:19 AM
1	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? LOL tell that to all the people who can trace their lineage back to Genghis Khan Someone can trace their lineage back to Genghis Khan but over time the genes are mixed and diluted unless there is inbreeding, which has certain health risks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:17 AM
8	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? They'll all be filtered out of the gene pool and those who had kids will shape the future, which will be devoid of both women who rejected men and men who were rejected. Mutual Assured Destruction. Many people (myself included) just don't care about passing their genes on. DNA is just a sequence of chemicals (or more specifically nitrogenous bases), and as your children procreate, the sequence of chemicals that you provide is diluted down the generations. So for example if I have a kid, that kid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 03:46 AM
6	Why do men care if older single women are lonely? Obviously these men want to believe the single older woman is unhappy because it affirms the idea that women need men, which means men become more valuable. It's basic economics. Higher demand increases value. If women do not need men and can be perfectly happy by themselves, there is less demand for men, which lowers their value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 03:40 AM