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NAH, SISefemel115/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:58 PM
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Omg so cringeee!!! I matched a guy on a dating app and we were talking about marriage and random stuff. I told him I have a timeline etc. He said I like women that have a plan. He then went on to talk about his female friend that was in a LTR whos BF (his original friend) wont marry her. He went into so many specifics about how his female friend would whine about the lack of a ring etc. In the end the stories seemed all to familiar and I asked him the name of his friend. Lo and behold it was my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:59 AM
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This is so disturbingly true. I used to catfish on Tinder and a lot of guys hit me up with weird pick up lines. When i made a real account with my real pictures 80% of the men that hit me up with a pick up line or compliment basically recycled the comment. So all the guys who complimented the catfish me gave the real me the same compliments / ice breakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:02 AM
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I know a woman who has been with a man for 9 years. She is dying to marry him but he keeps coming up with excuses. Some people just cant take a hint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:00 AM
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This is a great and comprehensive list that I think will benefit a lot of women, thanks for that! My personal takeaways - - If he talks really highly of himself he will at some point try to hit you with subtle negs about how his family and friends do not think you both match (this is intentional to make you insecure) - If he takes longer than 7-8 hours to reply.... I mean unless he is dead he has no excuse - Notice who initiates dates, if its you he is not interested sis - NEVER buy a man gifts.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:56 AM
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This is why I low key respect gold diggers a little bit. I mean if you are going to eventually have to deal with a shitty man at least you should be able to benefit from him (if he is well off) through material stuff or getting him to put stuff in your name - car, house etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:41 PM
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My friend was living with her dad until she was around 27. Her dad literally went to vacation to Russia and it was there that he decided to married a 21 year old. He bought his new bride back to his home country and my friend thats 27 LOST HER SHIT. She moved out of her dads house ASAP and never looked back. She thought her dad was giving off child molester vibes by marrying a 21 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:38 PM
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All the guys around my town are 2/10's. Its hard out here lool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:54 PM
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Initially I was furious but at the same time we were not exactly dating. I just kept him around because he was kind of like my hype man if that makes sense? Also he was always down to hang out whenever I had no one else around and he paid for stuff. In my mind I had somewhat friend zoned him (no intimacy between us). It was weird the whole thing, I would say he was like a friend for that year we were getting to know each other. Someone who could have had some long term potential? I did care abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:53 PM
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I have literally just been through this. Met a guy -> Invested 1 year of my life into him because he was begging me to marry him -> Did not present any Red flags -> He told me he was going on holiday with his female friend (did invite me but I said no) -> Did not feel threatened because she is a 10/10 whereas he is a 2/10 on a good day -> he comes back from vacation with her and ghosts me on my birthday -> Not sure what happened if he got some kind of ego boost by being around her?? After he gho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:03 PM
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I was trying to shake a guy off and to turn him "off" and get rid of him I told him I wont date him but if he wants to propose with a 10 carat ring im all ears. When I tell you this man spammed me for weeks with ring designs hahaha. He even went to a jewellery shop that exclusively deals diamonds in my town and asked prices. The sad thing is a lot of men will get turned off by requesting for a grand ring/proposal but there are still some who will go the full mile like this guy that I knew. Botto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:08 AM
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thats an actual alpha male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:54 AM
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the survivors guilt point is a very good one. I myself feel sometimes that i dont deserve to even find a HVM if all the women in my life have been abused so badly. It is such a weird feeling. Why should i be happy if they endured a lifetime of suffering? :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:22 PM
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I made a thread on this topic of arranged marriage https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/otghe8/western_desi_women_marrying_men_from_back_home/ So many lives are being ruined - the indopak women of the west need to be deprogrammed from this mentality that our "elders" know whats best in ever scenario of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:19 PM
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demon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:16 PM
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if you ever meet a muslim man with a sword tattoo just run away sis, he is a jinn lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:00 PM
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Never wanted to marry him, he wanted to marry me. - Lied about having a degree - High school drop out - Lived in his sisters house - Drove one of his brother in laws cars - Had a not so well paying job (got this through his brother in law) - Bad hygiene - Bad hair - Sounded illiterate when talking - Childish behaviour - Fuckboy - Gaslighter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:03 PM
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I DM'd it to you so that you can have a laugh. Man reading it again felt so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:42 PM
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He was stressing me out about a number of things. I was having the worst day at work. I had realized i was sending him paragraphs and in that moment i thought what is this all for? I wrote a roast that obliterated all his self confidence because i bought out all his insecurities. I blocked him and never looked back. Sometimes i feel bad for how severely i roasted him but then i remember what he put me through and wish i could do it all again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:26 PM
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Girl my brother was friends with a legit roadman. When my brother was sick this guy went to the pharmacy and food store and got my brother a bunch of stuff (without my brother asking). Guys like my brothers friend are typical hood guys from south London that just sell weed and dont give a shit about anything but he still did all that for my bro. This guy did not value you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:20 PM
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Gold from my ex - Quick your corporate job so I can support you with my minimum wage driver job. I will spoil you. LOOOOOL in what world????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:09 AM
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if he send you content from hoodville Instagram account just block him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:06 AM
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this story sounds like keemstars sad life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:03 AM
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OMG that story had me rolling hahah so im not the only one!!! And yes you are very right, no one should mess about when it comes to a shawarma!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:40 AM
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Guy 1 I cant remember why exactly we fought but he basically tried to gaslight me. He said something along the lines of "stop being creepy and just leave me alone". It was his standard behaviour he would say that then trash talk about me to his family about how I was the bad one and then he would try to get back with me. This had happened like 6 to 7 times prior and I was a raging pickmesha back then. That one time he tried to gaslight me idk why but I got very triggered. I took all of his abusi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:31 AM
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Never on the contrary aside from her dad being well of she was not an idiot. Like she did not have a proper desk job etc but she became an influencer (almost id say to Huda Beauty level). I would say more but i dont want to doxx her life because she is very private. But the thing that pissed me off the most is that as an influencer she was doing so well she had this fantastic business idea (which her dad was ready to fund) I know for a fact she would have been bigger than Huda Beauty but what ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:30 PM
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BIG FACTS SIS!!! The thing that killed me off and actually made me laugh was when the villager asked his wife "hun can you get a BBL". No HUN can you go back to hearing goats??? Man these guys infuriate me and then everyone around me asks why I refuse to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:23 PM
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Check it out https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikah_mut%27ah It is so DISTURBING mostly they lure helpless women into these kind of things, usually divorces/widows etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:19 PM
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We were shocked. She is educated, beautiful, so many things. All of us thought someone had done black magic on her because there is no way a progressive woman wakes up one day and wants to marry a villager. All of us also had another theory - her mom pretended to be supportive of her marrying an educated western Desi/HVM that he dad found. Deep down her mom wanted her to marry her only brothers only son so she could keep "millions in the family" mostly her family. So in other words the girl says…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:15 PM
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I can only speak for myself. I have dated a few Desi guys and you are right, they string you along, try to sleep with you and then ghost you based on either outcome. I had only one positive experience with a Pakistani guy but he was probably a huge exception because he had such a unique upbringing (adopted and raised by a lesbian couple). TBH I am traumatised from ALL men but I will agree that Desi men view women as sub human and for pleasure only. In fact in many parts of Pakistan they still do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:08 PM
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Yes I feel very sorry for the "subservient" women these men find from back home. TBH they never have it easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:32 AM
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Sad but true. This is the same even in Arab culture, in fact I remember when I was 28 one of my Arab friends moms tried to hook me up with someone. She basically tried to trick me into marrying my friends disabled cousin. When I asked to meet him she admitted he was disabled and that I should be thankful because "I was over 25 and that no other man would marry me." LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:30 AM
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Yes you are very right about the gaslighting. Desi women do shame each other alot thats probably why these situations happen. (my life is shitty so let me pressure you to make bad decisions too). I think its just so unfair how scrotes have these women that are willing to act as "visa service centers". The older generation of desi men who moved to the UK like my grandfather were such Alpha males because they made whatever bad situation they were in work and they acted like MEN. This new generatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:54 AM
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are you me?? lol same sentiments are felt here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:54 AM
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