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I haven't really been listening to my heart on her though. Maybe I should now. I just don't want to fuck things up more you know. I'm wondering if this should be saved for later, maybe 2 weeks or something. Appreciate your thoughts. sure
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:31 PM
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Return that vulnerability to her. Tell her everything you are stating now, I mean what do you have to lose? Do this in person if possible. Plus, it's going to help you in the long run of being internally emotionally intelligent. This is counterintuitive but the best chance of getting her back is to let her go without being a doormat.
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:35 PM
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Sounds like you are the backup. I can resonate with most of the things you said here since I've gone through them personally. I'm not going to tell you some machismo thing like, "Fuck her, there is plenty of fish in the sea" or the less direct "don't operate in the scarcity mindset". Here is the truth if you can bare it: You aren't in love. I have a hard time sleeping with multiple people since sex is such an emotional connection. You want her so much because you don't have her. One line (well i…
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:20 PM
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Ok, go take a dance class. Learn to salsa, it'll give you a bunch of opportunities to meet women and learn a skill. I learned in college but if I could travel back in time, I would've learned it in high school.
/r/seduction26/07/16 08:52 PM
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Just because you aren't active in the community doesn't mean you haven't researched how to be better with girls. Pickup lines, how to meet girls, how to tell if a girl likes you, etc etc. Ever had a guy tell you that he has never looked at porn? I usually call bullshit, but there are a few that aren't currently watching porn. I feel the statistical data is similar to how to be better with the ladies. Sure, you might be currently researching but like porn you did at one time. Again this is just m…
/r/seduction25/07/16 09:06 PM
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The time after sex is an intimate one. There is a bunch of shit going on in her mind and it seems like she needed reassurance that this relationship isn't just about sex. I think you played it well since your answer was strong and let her know that you care about her and the relationship.
/r/seduction24/07/16 04:25 PM
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This is the thing about game. It's ever changing and especially now with the fast exchange of information. The point is that you need to be different than all the other guys that are approaching her. If 90 percent of the people are asking her for a "date" you need to be that 10 percent. The truth is at one time or another 99 percent of guys have looked at pickup/seduction material. Game is like fashion, it changes like the wind and sometimes it's better to go retro. If you can isolate a girl and…
/r/seduction24/07/16 07:14 AM
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Are you framing this as a "date"? What I'm seeing in my area (DC metro) of that once you frame it as a date, all the prerequisites that girl has for their perfect boyfriend gets applied on you. I go with the let's get to know each other direction, since it's a lot less threatening and I truly want to see if this is a person I might want to get to know more. The word "date" is loaded and each girl is different, the point is to get time with her to build chemistry and show her that you are an amaz…
/r/seduction23/07/16 03:10 PM
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Totally sober. I try to live in the moment and I feel that drugs and alcohol really messes that up. Even if you had great game on the night you were drunk or stoned you really weren't there. Nothing is lost or gained in terms of experience since you won't remember too much.
/r/seduction23/07/16 03:00 PM
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You should try to win her over so you get her stamp of approval. In the beginning of the night you should focus lots of your attention on her friend. The girl you like will see you have social intelligence and will wait her turn. Sometime during the night you should isolate the girl, then focus all your attention on her. Make sure you say something like, " I'm really glad I met your friends, she seems great." The girl you like is seeking validation from her friend and they will talk about everyt…
/r/seduction23/07/16 02:52 PM
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Your heart needs time to heal. I'm going through it at the moment too, so you aren't alone. When you are with her, you want to approach other girls and now that she is gone, you want her back. Fundamentally, you desire what you cant, or shouldn't, have. Just give it time and work on yourself and have fun and it should come back around.
/r/seduction23/07/16 09:44 AM
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Need a wingman to distract her date. If her friend isn't having fun, she by association will not have fun. Chances are they will ride together, bring a friend that is fun and can dance, or at least tries.
/r/seduction23/07/16 09:39 AM
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Don't act like someone you aren't. If you are into black culture and can speak the lingo, do it. Sounds like you aren't, just be yourself. Most black people can tell if it's an act immediately and it's a turn off.
/r/seduction22/07/16 10:47 PM
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Text game has been a challenge recently and I tried reading online and watching videos on YouTube with very little success. I stumbled on a PDF called magnetic messaging which really helped me out. It has a very strong and easy to remember structure with tons of examples. Theory about text game is kinda pointless without seeing exactly where you are messing up. Check it out and good luck.
/r/seduction01/07/16 01:05 PM
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Bring a girl over and it should clear up the air.
/r/seduction25/06/16 08:47 PM
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Don't state attraction because that is boring and approval seeking. It's a shit test in a way. If she is kinda talking to someone you still have a good chance. If she brings it up just say, "the verdicts still out... I don't know if I hate you or love you, but you seem fun and I'm enjoying hanging out with you... so far." It seems like she has some connection to you, play your cards right and see what happens.
/r/seduction21/06/16 06:10 PM
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You didn't neg yourself here. You took her frame away from her. You demonstrated that you were not needy and you were cool with it. In my opinion it was her shit test for guys to see if they are worthy in her eyes to date. Since you stood out, she is attracted since you weren't like 99 percent of the guys that chase her.
/r/seduction28/05/16 05:00 AM
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Seems like she is hot and cold due to her previous relationship. She still has hang ups about her past relationship. It seems like she is jumping between her different personalities like she is trying to find herself. Being non needy is key here. If she really likes you, she'll come back but you have to move on.
/r/seduction25/05/16 09:46 PM
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you are operating in a scarcity mindset. You wouldn't have this problems if you were operating out of abundance. Also, you've created the perfect woman in your mind. Even in the remote chance you ever become her boyfriend, she will ultimately disappoint you since she can't live up the the standard you've created in your mind.
/r/seduction25/05/16 02:12 PM
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OK, long read. I'll chime in since I was that guy in high school that didn't want to have sex. I think I had some religious reservations and I wanted to save it for the "right" person. First, you are coming off needy. Just because you follow certain baseline rules of game doesn't mean that you aren't perceived needy. Your neediness is coming out with approval seeking behavior. You seem to be qualifying yourself to reason with her that you are boyfriend material. Don't do this, do your own thing,…
/r/seduction25/05/16 01:20 PM
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Yeah, totally agree with using a richer medium. Use to be ok with the number close and reaching out initially with a text but realize that text is so limiting. Ended up calling a girl that I had a lame text chat with and had an amazing conversation. I will preface a number close with "you know I'm going to call you right like the good old day?"
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:34 PM
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