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1	How the game has changed for men in recent years. Good looks definitely help, and it'd be great for a change to actually see an Asian/Indian bro work the room and pull someone worthy home. But in my 10+ yrs of nightlife in the cities I mentioned, I've just never, ever seen it happen. And I used to - and still do - go out plenty. Like I noted, things are slowly changing, and that's awesome.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 02:51 AM
2	How the game has changed for men in recent years. Bingo, lol. OP is probably some Asian/Indian dude and knows that there are many struggling members of those groups (no offense) that frequent this sub. Only online do you read inane BS like "I have an Asian/Indian friend who kills it every weekend with 9s and 10s". Bull-fucking-shit. Maybe 0.0001% of Asian/Indian guys are like this, but the vast majority are struggling hard. Not saying they're all incels, but most of them have to put in a solid bit of work to get any kind of action. I've been ou…	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 12:51 AM
8	Dating trends I have been noticing in recent years. As for the interracial relationships, we're only just now seeing the young attractive entrepreneurs of immigrant/minority parents actualize themselves. Before recent political climates there was no room for a minority to be high SMV in the same ways that white men were high SMV. This is no longer the case. Also, as generations of immigrants come and go their attachment to their cultures traditions (ie: marrying within their religion/diaspora) becomes less and less. As a whole both whites and non…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/17 03:49 AM
2	The main reason you face setbacks for things out of your control (height/race/looks). one of the biggest problems for you indian bros in the US is that you socialize so much in your desi communities and it skews your perception about the overall population. There are plenty of Indian Americans born and raised here, that have mostly American friends, and they still struggle with non-Indian women. It isn't just the FOB desis that are struggling. Once in a blue moon I'll spot an IA dude with a cute non-Indian chic, but those occurrences are exceedingly rare, even in supposedly more …	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/17 09:09 PM
5	Comedian going viral these days amongst today's millennial women. Jokes involve blatantly confessing TRP truths. But since it's a woman saying it, it's all good. Feminists love her of course. Damn, that sounds like one heck of a toxic relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	12/03/17 07:59 PM
2	Your ethnic background does not stop you from getting laid or even getting hot girls, it just limits your options. I live in the USA and this simply isn't true. The only black group in the USA that does consistently well with the hb8s and hb9s-10s are famous athletes. Also depends on the demographic. At least with white women, black guys (compared to, say, Asian/Indian guys) do better, albeit marginally so. The percentage difference is probably too miniscule to fuss over, though.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/17 07:10 AM
1	Why North American "liberal" women hate the idea of going for guys of minority groups. I didn't notice this at all in California and in NYC. If anything it's the opposite. Maybe I should visit Texas sometime...	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/17 05:52 AM
2	Why North American "liberal" women hate the idea of going for guys of minority groups. Very true. It's quite strange when you start to really notice it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/17 05:51 AM
1	Why North American "liberal" women hate the idea of going for guys of minority groups. Exactly. NYC has tons of amazing women, but the competition for them is also fierce. Lots of dudes with great jobs, generational family wealth, looks etc etc. It's also quite clique-ish.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/17 05:49 AM
1	Why North American "liberal" women hate the idea of going for guys of minority groups. I live in Manhattan and it's exceedingly rare to see minority guys with women from other races (let alone attractive women of other races). And I'm no hermit, I work and play here, go out tons with friends to events, bars, clubs etc. I'm not saying "I've never seen a non-white dude with a cute chic", just that it's not that common...yet. But over the last 5 years or so it's gotten ever so slightly more common, I'd have to say. Maybe the future will be better yet...	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/17 05:47 AM
12	Women's sexual attraction to you is based on your hormone levels. Great post. There is entirely too much bro-science on TRP and the manosphere in general, and not enough real science. I've said it before, but for folk that take so much pride in being rational and scientific, posts like the OP's (which unfortunately are common) leave much to be desired from the community.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/16 10:22 PM
5	Women themselves confirm that TRP is correct about which kind of male sexual behavior is attractive You gotta understand, there's a ton of basement dwelling neckbeards around here who take their ideas of how reality works from this subreddit alone. Not all, but definitely many, and they don't like it when someone comes along trying to speak logic and truth that doesn't agree with their preconceived ideas of how the world ought to operate.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/16 04:42 AM
7	Women themselves confirm that TRP is correct about which kind of male sexual behavior is attractive Seriously. For a subreddit that prides itself on rational thinking, there sure are a lot of posters who fall for basic logic fallacies all too often.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/16 04:39 AM
1	Why do women lie about what they want? At the time, I thought she must be particularly dykie. I was wrong. The same one loved movies and tv with hot shirtless men and had a computer folder with pictures of them. I see no inconsistency on her part - those guys are in the top 20% of men in terms of looks. The 80% figure I stated came from this OKCupid study: "women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh." https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ It's important to note though that…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:58 PM
2	Why do women lie about what they want? Nah. Was never the nice guy, just something I've learned from observing women over many years - friends and chics I hooked up with, often within hours of meeting them, lol. "Slut shaming" is pretty minor these days. Compared to yesteryear, sure. But if you think most women could boldly proclaim to the world that they fuck 10 guys/month and face no consequences whatsoever, you're either incredibly naive or living in some fantasy world. How many guys would want to get with a woman like that, and p…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:50 PM
2	Why do women lie about what they want? I believe the term is "confirmation bias".	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 07:02 AM
1	Why do women lie about what they want? It is hurtful to tell the truth to the majority of men, just see the resistance by men of TRP. This. Considering that most women find 80+% of men below average looking, there would indeed be a lot of butthurt guys if the truth was laid bare.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:59 AM
5	Why do women lie about what they want? This, pretty much. People in general (and women especially) are terrified of being judged, and women are especially weary of being labeled as superficial sluts. Hence the typically generic, canned response of "a nice, sensitive guy blah blah blah" whenever she's asked what type of guy she really likes.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:58 AM
1	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. you want to hold onto the idea that hard work always overcomes looks in all situations. Wha? Where did I say anything about hard work trumping looks? Go fuckin learn how to read, then come back and read my post again. The point I was making was that they don't get rudely rejected by blondies as the OP was claiming happened to him frequently. And my friends' success with Latinas and Asians was because a) these girls were FOBs and mostly average lookin, b) they were looking to get with local white…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:52 AM
3	I fucked up badly This. Also, OP, given that it was just the second date...I bet you by the 3rd date at the very latest, you could've had her had you not been overly insistent. Yes, always try to get physical, but there's a right way to go about it, and there's also a fine line beyond which it starts to look a bit desperate/rapey. You have to learn where that fine line is, and that comes with experience because for each woman it's different. Anyway, live and learn. There will be plenty of others, don't worry abou…	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/16 12:38 AM
1	You need to see your girl when she was 19 How do you meet these women? Online/social circle/bars/clubs?	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/16 03:04 PM
7	You need to see your girl when she was 19 Excellent post, and I agree completely. It's true that most men find women in the 19-23 age bracket the most attractive - this has even been reported by OKCupid. But it really is self defeating to keep focusing on that, because guess what, you're not getting any younger yourself, and there will certainly come a time when the vast majority of these women will be downright creeped out by your approaches. What then? Will you just abandon sex and become a monk somewhere? Resign yourself to paying fo…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/16 01:31 PM
1	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. wouldn't the many Euro girls and girls not from NYC moving there make it very possible for an indian dude to do well with cute white girls (especially blondes) since the foreign ones aren't so strict on race? Yes, that's what I do most of the time...they're definitely easier to get with	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 05:40 AM
6	Short guys please share your experiences Be one of those guys. Be the guy that doesn't count. If nobody is going to find out and you're completely cool and not at all needy, 9/10 they will fuck you. But do you always want to be the guy that "doesn't count"? The one she'd rather forget, instead of reminiscing fondly about? The one she's embarrassed to admit she fucked to her friends, because they'd potentially mock her? It's fun to get laid, sure, but what if you get to the stage when you want a chic to stick around? Many here are obses…	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 04:51 AM
3	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. Most of the Indians in the northeast live in New Jersey, and I almost never go out there so I can't address the scene there. As for Manhattan, while I've seen a few Indian guys over the years with cute non-Indian women, I've literally never seen an Indian dude hitting on a cute girl at a club/bar and making any headway. I'm not saying it never happens, just that I haven't seen it in my countless nights of goin out around here. The other thing is that many in the younger generation ( < 23 ) are r…	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 04:29 AM
1	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. Speaking as a native of Lower midtown Manhattan: It's not terribly common to see interracial couples, although I can say for sure that in the past 5 yrs or so I've seen an uptick in the number of Asian guys with cute white chics. Queens/Brooklyn might be different (read: even better for minority guys), I can't say as I don't venture out too often to those areas, but the few times I did go I definitely picked up a friendlier vibe. That's probably because the girls aren't as hot as the ones you'd …	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:39 AM
3	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. Honestly if you're tall, white and are getting berated badly in bars, you're doing something horribly wrong. I know average lookin dudes who can slay Latinas and Asians, and yes, while they have to put in more work for the blonde bimbos, I've never seen them get rudely rejected. Worst case she gives them a number and flakes on them. You've gotta work on your approach brah... Heck in my entire life of partying hard in Hollywood (Los Angeles) and the trendiest parts of Manhattan (NYC), I've never …	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:32 AM
3	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. Exactly, I tried raising the same point. Too much bro science, not enough valuable info.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:30 AM
2	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. most white girls are actually very attracted to asian guys if the particular guy fits their criteria i.e. being tall, jacked, confident and not afraid to be the center of attention. Most women (of any race) are attracted to tall, jacked, confident guys, period. Even if you're not tall and jacked, if you're above average looking and confident + funny it goes a long way.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:27 AM
2	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. ...that's because he's probably BSing about being a tall, white, athletic dude. If I had to bet I'd say he's actually Asian/Indian, hence the similarity between his and my experiences.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/16 02:20 AM
1	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. No I am not, read my thread. You've said jack shit about your own SMV, other than "these are my experiences". What do you look like? What's your race/ethnicity? Height? Are you jacked or skinny? What scenes do you hang out in usually? Are you in a large city? Mid-tier? What's your competition? All of these will determine to a large extent how well you fare with women.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/16 05:26 AM
3	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. So yeah, its subjective to your SMV/style/race. Are you a biker? Are you urban? Are you a gym rat? Do you look like you listen to EDC music? Reggae? Rap? It reflects in your style and way you carry yourself which translates to the type of girls you attract. That was actually my only point - that it all depends on your SMV. YMMV.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/16 05:23 AM
23	Stereotypes: How I've noticed women of various ethnic groups act after doing lots of approaches and interacting with lots of different women. You're presenting this data as if it's objective truth, when in fact almost all of it is heavily subjective - tell us about your own background, what you look like, your style, approach, level of game etc. and assuming it's truthful, your info would be much more useful. Even then, however, at best it would be suited to those that are very similar to yourself. I appreciate the attempt, but I've learned over the years that ultimately you have to try things for yourself to get a sense of your own S…	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/16 04:56 AM
1	"Not-super-fit" woman in TwoXChromosomes (read: 50 lbs overweight) declares that she's only attracted to tall muscular guys If she claims he's 270lbs, he's probably at least 200lbs, probably 230 or so. He's a 5'6" dude, working as a teacher (ie, not making a lot of money), AND living at home with his parents at 36? Geez, can't blame the woman. Sure, she's no catch, but she didn't claim to want models, just guys that were taller and somewhat in shape. Doesn't seem like too much of an ask to me, tbh.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/16 08:16 PM
1	Cold Approach is a Lone-Wolf Fantasy It's very nerve-wracking in the sense of how much it pushes you out of your comfort zone at, and helps you grow internally. Each time you pussy out or fail you have to question yourself/your method/mistakes afterward and seek some uncomfortable answers. This is very true. It's why after all these years, I keep cold approaching, even though I'll acknowledge that my successes have mostly been with foreign women. I think repeatedly confronting that fear of rejection and overcoming it does in a way …	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 02:36 AM
10	Cold Approach is a Lone-Wolf Fantasy In all honesty, I didn't get that impression at all. OP never claimed that "cold approach never works". He just spelled out the reasons why it shouldn't be your #1 strategy. Of course you should talk to people everywhere, just don't expect massive results unless you're exceptional in a good way. It's wiser to invest in building a solid social circle, while availing of cold approach opportunities as and when they arise.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/16 02:24 AM
2	Cold Approach is a Lone-Wolf Fantasy Yeah, almost the entirety of the PUA discussions over at Roosh are dedicated to picking up women abroad. I'd have to say they're on to something.	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/16 06:27 PM
6	Cold Approach is a Lone-Wolf Fantasy Exactly echoes my experience and observations. The vast majority of my cold approach successes have been with foriegn women looking to meet locals, or when I was out with a group of friends. Very little success has resulted from cold approaching local women who already have solid social circles. However, I've gotta say that things were noticeably different when I was traveling abroad - there, my status as an American was evidently enough to overcome any reservations women had about spending one …	/r/TheRedPill	28/11/16 05:36 PM
11	Never compare your sex life with a girl's sex life I highly, highly doubt the average n-count of today's women in the US is 9. Eggzacklee. I've seen that number thrown around before too, and most girls I know have crossed that number by the time they're in their early 20s. And these are girls that aren't even especially promiscuous - they don't go out every Fri/Sat night looking for dick. Think about it - let's say she loses her virginity at around 15-16. Even at the extremely conservative and believable rate of 2 guys/year, and considering that…	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/16 07:59 PM
5	Never compare your sex life with a girl's sex life while girls get sex effortlessly, it's almost never what they really want. What they're after is commitment. Exactly. It's similar in a way to why so many guys aren't interested in hookers, even though we all know that if we paid we could score with a really gorgeous one. Because in the back of our minds, we know that she's only doin it with you for the money, and she'll do the same with 1000 other guys who pay. There's no validation in getting with a hooker, nothing to brag about. So women also…	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/16 07:48 PM
5	She's already been railed by someone less attractive and less cool than you It's not privilege if you can loose it. By that definition, nothing can qualify as a privilege, because anything can be lost.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/16 06:55 AM
2	So you missed out on the fun in your school years, this is why you are feeling the void and here are steps you can take to fix it. You're still just as clueless. Everything I said applies just as much to other aspects of your social life as it does to dating. If you think life starts to suck big time once you're 30+, you're goin to be a bitter and lonely man as you get older. I've told you before on here and I think it bears repeating, leave the shithole you're currently living in and try a real city like NYC/LA etc for a change. You're coming to all sorts of warped conclusions about life because your perspective right now …	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 10:57 PM
2	So you missed out on the fun in your school years, this is why you are feeling the void and here are steps you can take to fix it. He doesn't know shit. He posts on here pretending like he knows what he's talking about, probably because in real life people laugh at him when he speaks.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 07:59 PM
2	So you missed out on the fun in your school years, this is why you are feeling the void and here are steps you can take to fix it. Man I've seen you post here off and on dispensing with advice as if you're some know it all. You haven't even lived in a big town in the US yet, I can tell you I have friends well into their 30s and even early 40s who are hooking up with women in their 20s. I'm in my early 30s and this year alone I shacked up with around 10 girls all in the 18-24 age range. Really, you don't know shit. What you're saying applies maybe in small towns where everyone is married by their mid-late 20s (or sooner). Tr…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 07:55 PM
2	She's already been railed by someone less attractive and less cool than you I know exactly what you mean - in my life I'd say of all the girls I've seen, only about 5 - 6 will forever remain in my memory because of how perfect they looked, even without any makeup. They were the kind who could wake up in the morning with their hair disheveled, no makeup and still be a perfect 10.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 07:39 PM
10	She's already been railed by someone less attractive and less cool than you His quality is wealth. I wouldn't consider that a "quality" - that's just privilege plain and simple. Women are drawn to status, always have and always will be. However, what counts as high status can vary depending on the context. And yes, there absolutely is a certain type of woman that's drawn to pedigree. I see this in NYC all the time. The guy could be a some flabby dork but he comes from a well connected family, and so he gets consistent access to quality women in his circle and extended c…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 07:32 PM
1	She's already been railed by someone less attractive and less cool than you Next time a chic gives you attitude, just tell her, "If I've done better, you've done worse!". But yeah, OP raises a good point. I routinely see gorgeous girls with just utterly average, even dorky guys, far more often than I see such girls with good looking dudes. Definitely truth in this post.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 07:27 PM
1	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. it was about how people would lose their shit if they saw your brown ass with a pretty looking blonde. Then GTFO of whereever you happen to be that's like this. Life's too short to live in a place like that.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 04:50 PM
1	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. Do you live in NYC or have you even been here, like, once? There's a shit ton of drop dead gorgeous Russian, Ukrainian, Polish, and all sorts of European women. My buddies and I have literally gone several months dating non-American-born women exclusively. Last year I dated a Russian stripper that I picked up at a cafe - found out she was a stripper the night I spent at hers. Last week I brought home a 27 yr old Hungarian au pair, and last night I took a Swiss girl out for drinks. Really, I don'…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 03:38 AM
3	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. I haven't found that white guys have it that much easier but that is another debate entirely. Then you must be living in a bubble world. I worked at a major dating site myself until very recently. I can tell you the preference online (in the US at least) for white dudes is undeniably strong among just about every group of women, with perhaps the exception of black women. And considering that almost 50% of the entire single population in the US uses online dating in some way, shape, or form, that…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 02:57 AM
1	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. The only issue are Anglo American girls, basic bitches, suburban princesses, and WASPy girls. Main reason being because their social circles are highly against them going interracial and will destroy them for it. I learned long ago to steer clear of women from the Anglosphere (unless I get very strong signals) - they're the least open to dating minorities. I don't care enough to debate whether it's racism or not - when I first came to terms with the reality of it, there was certainly some bitter…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 02:51 AM
1	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. Exactly. LA is certainly not "easy mode" for anyone unless you look like a white dude from the movies and/or you have a very solid social circle giving you consistent access to quality women.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 02:47 AM
1	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. I've lived in both Los Angeles and NYC for many years now (currently in NYC). In both places, I've lived in arguably the best areas - mid/lower Manhattan in NYC, and the west side in LA (Santa Monica, South Bay, WeHo). I've also partied in the best neighborhoods in both cities for years. I never had much luck with white American women in either, but my dating life was (and is) still way, way better in NYC. If it wasn't for the steady stream of cute European and Russian women I'd probably hate it…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 02:38 AM
2	Here is the main thing about your ethnicity, if you're high SMV it works for you and if you're not, it works against you. So.Much.This! I live in a nice area of NYC, and if I'm out with a cute white/European girl as happens every now and then, I might get one or two curious looks, but nothing remotely hostile. No one honestly gives a fuck that I as a brown guy am out with a cute white chic. But yeah, it's true that many non-white guys see white girls as some sort of status symbol, completely ignoring all the gorgeous Asian/Latina/Black women out there. It just means more possibilities with lesser competition for th…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/16 03:00 PM
1	I live the strangest life. I usually go for the clean break, total no-contact. Stings for a short while, but I've been better off for it in the long run.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 12:36 AM
1	I live the strangest life. I don't even know if there's a moral to the story. I think there is, and you already mentioned it: have integrity, and date stable girls. Put your career and interests first. Crazies are seldom worth the trouble, no matter how hot they seem. And nothing beats the peace of mind and confidence that stems from having a secure job or even better, enough fuck-you money in the bank. So yeah, definitely focus on career. And having interests will just make you a better person. As for the rest of your po…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/16 11:41 PM
1	Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's Number Slutty behaviour is an inevitable result of urbanism. No. By that logic, the biggest and largest number of sluts would be in cities in India and Asia, but that's decidedly not true.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/16 09:37 PM
7	Low smv: how to handle and keep faith ? Fucking girls that are not into you is like fucking prostitutes. How many escorts have you actually fucked? IMHO fuckin a regular chic that's a 7+ and not an escort always counts for something, and if you have half a brain you'll know that the validation you get from a regular, cute chic is something you'll never get from an escort. And what makes you think these women aren't into you? Most women don't even respond to a text, let alone go out with and fuck a guy they're not into. Sure, you might…	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/16 08:14 PM
3	14,000 words worth of TRP wisdom - a compilation of every TRP quote I've compiled in the past 14 months. +1. Please consider uploading the doc somewhere or posting the contents here!	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 03:59 PM
2	This is what the actual age and SMV chart for men looks like. Gotta ask - what age range of women do you have the easiest time with?	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/16 02:45 AM
1	This is what the actual age and SMV chart for men looks like. I'm 33, and I feel very little attraction for women that are past 28 or so. Even the rare one that's kept herself in shape - there's just something psychologically that turns me off when I find out her age. It's silly because I'm of average SMV at best myself, and I fully realize that if I don't change my tastes, I'm goin to be miserable having to settle for the 30+ women as I get older. Maybe when I'm in my 40s, an early 30-something chic won't feel so lame to me :-/	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/16 02:43 AM
6	Most girls are usually really nice, if you're cool/attractive The world is a beautiful place for beautiful people. Not tryin' to be a dick, but really, there's no need to make a page long post about this. Lately I've been seeing massive posts made on the most common sensical stuff that even most 13 yr olds know.	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/16 02:38 AM
7	This is what we're concerned with attracting? Exactly, I was just about to say the same thing. He calls them filth but his best memories were with these women.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 06:00 PM
2	This is what we're concerned with attracting? How many of these women are actually hot? The ones I see engaging in this behavior have almost always been the least attractive of the lot - overweight, frumpy etc. They have to be loose because that's the only way they get attention from guys, no man in his right mind is goin to put in serious effort pursuing a 6. Sure, even the hottest women have their share of crazy stories, but what I'm saying is that for every hottie that does stuff like this there's dozens of fuglies that do that twice as …	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/16 05:15 PM
4	A life lesson I will take to the grave, and hopefully you will too Why should anyone take advice from a man who just got played like a fiddle. Too often people on this sub get fucked over, although you became jobless in NYC and miserable from the sounds of it. And then once done come on here to preach about rules to life by, when they don't even know themselves. You wouldn't go to an obese person for weight loss help, why would we come here for girl troubles. What the fuck are you on about? People share their experiences so others can learn from it, and it's tr…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/16 04:22 PM
10	A life lesson I will take to the grave, and hopefully you will too OP, First off, sorry for what happened to you, it really sucks. Others have already given you solid advice, but this is what I'd add: You don't move to NYC in your early 20s already in a relationship with a cute 20-something chic, unless you're high SMV. That's just a dumb move - you will not be able to keep her, as this city is filled with high SMV guys. Guys that take care of themselves, dress well, come from money or make good money, live on their own, etc etc. Any girl in her early 20s that'…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/16 03:15 PM
3	The not so gentle red pill truths. False Choice Fallacy. There are far more people who are both socially and financially successful than there are one or the other. When you're an adult, someone without a solid career who just parties all the time is a loser. Similarly, someone who is career-obsessed but in terrible shape with no friends and shitty/non-existent relationships with women is also a loser. Excellent point. It also bears mentioning that even with immense amounts of effort and sacrifice, only a minuscule fraction of pe…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/16 02:56 AM
1	The not so gentle red pill truths. For me personally, #5 and #6 are the most important. Many of us in some corner of our minds harbor these revenge fantasies, but the fact is, for a woman, even just maintaining herself so she remains slim(ish) is all it takes to keep her pool of options sufficiently full well into her 30s and even 40s. In fact, a woman who takes care of herself will at 40 probably be even more spoiled than her counterpart at 20, because at 40, finding a slim, attractive, bangable chic is extremely rare, whereas a…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/16 02:35 AM
2	If you're a TRP newbie, you absolutely have to do this Tinder experiment they used to be alpha samuaris, bruce lees, jackie chans now they're castrated friedzoned enuches in the 21st century LOL. As offensive as it is, can't deny there's a lot of truth in what you've said. A number of times I've seen groups of Asian guys, Asian girls and White guys together, in which all the Asian women are coupled up with the White guys, while the Asian guys just hang around...for what, I don't know. I just smh... That said, I see the situation slowly but steadily improving in the l…	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/16 02:38 PM
5	Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20% FWIW: A friend worked at a dating website (I won't mention which one) but said they had observed a marked difference in communication rates between men and women when plotted against the height difference. IIRC he said the greatest likelihood of communication was when the man was taller than the woman by 4 - 8 inches, and the likelihood tapered off much like a bell curve on either side of that difference.	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/16 02:59 AM
2	Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20% In fact I will go as far as to say that most guys who seek girl advice fall into one of the above categories. Yes, I concur. I wish there was some kind of study that could somehow track the demographics of users on sites similar to this subreddit along with TRP itself. I'm betting the vast majority would fall into the categories you mentioned.	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/16 02:57 AM
1	Women treat handsome guys like kings. The uglier the girl, the more mean from my experience So much this. Also, if the ugly friend is jealous that her friend is getting your attention while she has to play with her phone, you're in for a tough time.	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/16 02:10 AM
1	Women treat handsome guys like kings. Sorry, but I'd have to respectfully disagree. I've been goin out in LA and NYC for years, and while it's true that many women are perfectly polite and will "put you down gently" if they're not feeling it, there are also a substantial number who will completely ignore you when you say hello, rudely ask you to leave, etc etc. There really is such a thing as the "bitch shield" - it's not just a meaningless term the internet invented.	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/16 02:07 AM
5	Women treat handsome guys like kings. It was from OKTrends, a blog run by OKCupid for trends they observe on their site. The founder of the site wrote a really interesting book called Dataclysm that goes into this and other trends they've observed. Keep in mind that the parent company of OKCupid, IAS, owns Match.com, Chemistry, DateHookup, Tinder, PlentOfFish etc and this trend is more or less true for users on those sites as well. https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ "As you can see from the gray line, w…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/16 01:38 AM
3	Just experienced a firsthand dose of TRP...Unicorns do not exist. That complicates matters for sure, but then young men and women have been shacking up in cars since way back, even in much more socially conservative times and cultures - I would know, I grew up in one such culture myself! Onwards and upwards...	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/16 04:13 AM
9	Just experienced a firsthand dose of TRP...Unicorns do not exist. 4 dates? The fuck? Were you escalating from date 1 itself? Generally speaking: You should try and get as far as possible on the first date, and gauge her reaction. If she puts out, great. If she turns you down, pay very careful attention to the manner in which you were rejected - a "positive" rejection would be, in effect, a "not tonight, but most likely on our next date we're going to fuck". That's worth a second date. But as an absolute minimum, you must make out and feel her up a bit on date …	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/16 03:49 AM
2	A note on India: Crazy self entitled bitches meets pro-women sexual harassment laws Yeah, I think there was a time not long ago when brown guys could enjoy some success in Western Europe. With the influx of large numbers of Turks and Syrians recently, though, there's been a backlash and most brown guys will probably have to contend with negative stereotypes and such before they can even get a foot in the door. Also, most Indian guys aren't that tall, and the competition in Germany, Sweden, The Netherlands is on average 6'+. Something to consider.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/16 03:32 AM
2	A note on India: Crazy self entitled bitches meets pro-women sexual harassment laws I think minority guys are best advised to steer clear of the anglo countries, and aim for EE where the negative stereotypes about Indians haven't yet made their way. Other Western nations such as Germany, France etc can be hit-or-miss, from what I've heard. I'm also Indian and can confirm that I tend to do better with EE and Russian women.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/16 03:29 AM
1	The Hype about Foreign Women I was addressing this comment of yours: I have a feeling the reason we see so many on this sub talking about gaming foreign women like asians is because they are betas too afraid to game American women. I am dead serious. Btw, we're in agreement.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 06:46 PM
6	The Hype about Foreign Women Asian women especially in SEA worship white dick, though. Honestly if you're even a half-way decent looking white guy, you probably don't even need game in SEA. Things may be a bit different in the more developed Asian countries like Japan and South Korea, but elsewhere it's easy street. But I do agree that most of the guys goin to SEA and EE are probably forced to do so for one reason or another. I've met not a single guy that killed it in NYC or LA that still longed to travel abroad for pussy …	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 05:23 PM
45	Went from ~12% BF to ~18 BF, and it's like I'm in a different world So you've realized that women can be shallow as fuck also. Welcome to the club!	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 04:21 AM
9	Went from ~12% BF to ~18 BF, and it's like I'm in a different world But most of the fatsos are using their social circle and money to do so.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 04:21 AM
1	On sex positivity: let women be sluts, let men be empowered Men do not come here because they have trouble getting laid. I doubt very much that this subreddit is frequented by men getting as much sex as they'd like, or even anywhere close to it. Sure, there's some small percentage that has no problem getting action, but most are probably no better than the average guy anywhere else when it comes to pulling pussy.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 03:49 AM
1	On sex positivity: let women be sluts, let men be empowered Oh agreed 100%. But the reason they have to do this is because they're hypocritical and their women are really oppressed. So sex is really, really difficult to obtain for a lot of guys. So you've made my point, really - when women are liberated and freer to fuck around, everyone gets more sex. Granted, I'm not claiming that this is best for society, merely pointing out that in a subreddit where most everyone is obsessed with fucking as many women as possible, liberated women are much better than…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/16 03:42 AM
2	On sex positivity: let women be sluts, let men be empowered Alphas in the west can easily rack up 100+ notches in a lifetime (without relying on money or fame), but an average beta joe with serial monogamy and a decent social circle can still get 20+ in a lifetime, which isn't bad at all. TRPers get mad that they're not alpha, but keep in mind the comparison: guys in sexually repressed countries like India and places in the Middle East, where you're lucky if you can get to 8-9 in a whole lifetime. Most will probably fuck just 1-3 women at the most before…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 05:23 PM
11	Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended.... RP suggests that if you're not sufficiently attractive, women literally filter you out, making you invisible. To be fair, the vast majority of men experience this as soon as they hit puberty, without needing RP or anyone else to explain this to them. The thing I find fascinating about women dismissing a guy is that most of the time they're not even aware of it...it's like the decision seems to be made at a subconscious level. With guys it seems like there's some deliberate analysis taking place,…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 04:56 PM
1	Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended.... A red pilled man can have 20 bucks to his name and fuck an 8. Absolutely true. I've known plenty of seriously well off guys who couldn't get a date, let alone sex, and I've known a number of broke guys living in dumpy apartments pulling gorgeous women 10+ yrs younger. Money by itself does not make anyone Red Pill.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 04:31 PM
6	On sex positivity: let women be sluts, let men be empowered Exactly. Women's sexual liberation has been a boon for most guys as well, because on the whole, everyone, from the lowliest of betas on up, gets laid more than in places where women are kept covered up behind closed doors.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 05:42 AM
2	On sex positivity: let women be sluts, let men be empowered I understand that this assessment is not self-evident: At first sight, the maturation of the early "sexual revolution" into the current "slut culture" has overwhelmingly benefited women and disadvantaged the average man The average man on TRP is deeply inflamed by the idea that some small percentage of men are fuckin 30 girls/yr while he's barely surviving with just 5 - 6, if that. The average man on TRP needs to remember that it's precisely the sexual liberation of women that has allowed him to…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/16 05:41 AM
5	Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. LOL seriously. Too many aspies with too much analysis on here	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/16 10:11 PM
0	Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. He was fugly, that's for sure. But he had some good advice to give nonetheless. Can't say I agree 100% with all of his "wisdom", but a lot of it does make sense.	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/16 10:07 PM
4	A story of SMV strategy and Messed Up Cheating, Awalt Yeah, but it's not surprising that this is so. To some types, TRP/PUA seems to present a step-by-step methodology on how to get laid, so it can be especially appealing. Do this, act this way and this will be the outcome, etc etc. Aspies tend to be overly analytical so I think they're drawn to this kind of thinking even more so than the average individual.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/16 04:41 PM
-1	A story of SMV strategy and Messed Up Cheating, Awalt LOL. Yeah this subreddit (and indeed reddit on the whole) does seem to get its fair share of the autistic and aspy crowd...	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/16 06:34 AM
5	A story of SMV strategy and Messed Up Cheating, Awalt This x 100. OP - I'm also willing to bet you weren't the first guy she cheated with	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/16 06:34 AM
2	I'm just disgusted at how so many modern day women act Seriously, though - does anyone see attractive women (8s and up) on Tinder any more? IIRC I used to see many more attractive women on there, but these days it's nothing but fuglies. Now it's possible they're using some machine learning algo and only matching me with uglies because I don't get many right swipes either, lol, but I'm wondering if other guys' experience has been similar... Btw this is in NYC. When I change my location to other cities such as Moscow or Bogota I get matches with beaut…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/16 01:48 PM
10	They are starting to see it too: 30 Is the New 50: "Old Age" is Killing My Dating Life (Most of my 30-something guy friends are dating girls fresh out of college) Very well said. One of the things I learned rather late in life is to figure out your niche and then work it as much as you can. Some types/demographics of women will just be naturally more receptive; others won't give a fuck about you for whatever reason. Get in where you fit in etc etc.	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/16 04:00 AM
0	For Better or Worse I took a girl out last week, she was a HB6 If she was just an HB6, why did you take her out? You've called out the other guys for 'liking' her on Tinder, yet here you are actually spending something far more valuable: your time + money on a girl you're not that into. Not trying to call you out as such, but this just exemplifies what I mentioned earlier: the real problem is too many guys willing to spend time + money + attention on average janes. I've done this myself on occasion, not gonna lie..…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 01:41 PM
5	For Better or Worse You've complained about women but the real issue is the abundance of desperate beta orbiters who'll shower even the plainest of janes with attention in the hopes of getting laid. Fix that problem and everything else falls into place. I'm not suggesting women are special, saintly snowflakes as such, but let's be honest, no woman has ever shown up to someone's door with a gun, demanding he 'like' her FB/Instagram post.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 01:38 PM
3	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money Assuming this is a dating site and OP is saying that there are gems who are not professional prostitutes, the quality of the non prostitute women on Seeking Arrangement is going to go down just like any other dating site. I've already related my experience from 2.5 months of being on SA, but this has largely been true in my observation at least. The hottest ones have always asked for straight up cash, refusing to even meet unless details of the arrangement have been agreed upon prior. I've gotte…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 12:22 AM
2	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money +1 One of the things you develop as a guy as you get older is the ability to see through the illusions of make up and tight, skimpy clothing to discern whether a girl is genuinely attractive or just ho'd up.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 12:16 AM
1	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money I'm in my early 30s and that is listed on my profile, didn't stop any of the girls from meeting me though! The 18 yr old Indian chic was a 6 at best, not gonna lie. We had one glass of wine and then we went back to mine to spend the night.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 12:05 AM
2	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money I get no play from Asian women on SA. I think they're all holding out for a white guy, just like most Asian women on all other online dating sites (even regular ones like Match etc). But my approach is the same for all the women. That said, my experience echoes yours in that I've found Black and Latin women to be the most receptive. I'm not especially drawn to Indian women myself, but I did hook up with this really cute Trinidadian girl of Indian heritage about a month ago, and also this 18 yr o…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 05:49 PM
2	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money You don't need SA if you're targeting MILFs, tbh.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 02:57 PM
3	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money Once behaviour like yours inevitably becomes more common, the girls will wise up and find 'discreet' ways to ensure payment upfront. Absolutely, I'm just making the most of it while I still can.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 02:55 PM
2	Women are ruthless - Your time is valuable not hers. It has happened to literally every single guy I've ever known, even the smoothest of players. Women are just unpredictable like that. One thing I've learned is that you can't say you "have" her until she's face down ass up bare ass butt-naked on your bed. And even then, as they say on here, she's not yours, it's just your turn. So it goes...	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 03:40 AM
8	Denver_Luv's guide to using Seeking Arrangements for guys with good game and money If you're paying her cash, you're doin it wrong. 250/meet can get you an amazing ho even in an expensive city if you know where to look. Sure, on SA the girls will spend the entire night with you and it's much more of a true GFE deal, but still... I've been on SA now for about 2.5 months and I've porked about 10 girls, ranging in age from 18 - 24. White/Black/Latina/Indian. I make a decent living, but my MO is exactly the same as for all my regular dates - one or two drinks, then maybe dinner, t…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 03:13 AM
14	Women are ruthless - Your time is valuable not hers. Lol looks like we have a 14 yr old in our midst, fellas... You just can't handle the fact that you got kissed and dissed. You sound like a lamewad aspy, tbh. Take a chill pill man...	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/16 07:49 PM
6	Women are ruthless - Your time is valuable not hers. Look, no one likes to hear that some chic they'd like to bang just isn't in to them, but that doesn't make it any less true. I don't think /u/squidracer was trying to piss you off, but I do think he's correct in that she was probably being polite about it. Happens to everybody, no point in getting your ego bruised in all of this.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/16 07:44 PM
5	Women are ruthless - Your time is valuable not hers. You're over-analyzing. She was probably just not that into you. You can have a decent time with someone, but a few days later the thought of spending time with them again just doesn't excite you as much, or perhaps someone better comes along, or perhaps your best friend dies in a car crash, etc etc. Next her and move on.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/16 07:41 PM
1	It's time to talk about probable red pill truths concerning getting older that guys on here might not be comfortable with. Brazil Where were you before you moved to Brazil? I've been thinking of doing a 3-6 month somewhere in S. America myself, any tips/advice would be appreciated!	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/16 06:23 PM
1	You can actually can do something about your race, other than whining or trying to change it. If you think Maya the mullato will have the same status as Kelsey the aryan in 30 years when the USA is 40% white you are delusional. There is nothing inherently superior about blonde hair and blue eyes. The biggest reason why they're seen as more desirable by so many people is that the vast apparatus of western media currently dominates the media landscape globally and it's been hammering this trope into people's minds forever and a day. The cracks are starting to appear, however. In addition t…	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/16 01:16 PM
2	You can actually can do something about your race, other than whining or trying to change it. Read what I said again, brah...no one's saying settle for the 5s and 6s. I'm saying you should be more strategic and go for the hot girls that will see you as someone with high SMV. Going for a cute girl who thinks you're some loser just because you're Asian/Indian is bound to end in failure.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/16 06:09 PM
1	You can actually can do something about your race, other than whining or trying to change it. Thanks - you said it much better than I could.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/16 06:05 PM
2	You can actually can do something about your race, other than whining or trying to change it. Society generally has a hierarchy for beauty standards even if your personal tastes differ The essence of red pill is to not give two shits what society thinks. I think it behooves you to try your best to rid yourself of the indoctrination you've been subjected to. For me, an HB10 is an HB10 no matter her race/ethnicity. But it seems like a large contingent of guys give "extra credit" to a woman if she's American and white, which is shitbrained and ultimately self defeating. I'm not saying you s…	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/16 06:04 PM
2	You can actually can do something about your race, other than whining or trying to change it. Instead, you can switch it up, go after that hot blonde from Europe with a foreign accent who might actually love your exotic looks. This. Also guys need to stop being hypocritical and pedestalizing very specific phenotypes - beautiful, sexy women can be found in every race/ethnicity so find the type that's open to you and pursue them whenever you can. Sure, depending on where you live, you might have to put in some work to actually get to them, but it will usually pay off. Get in where you fit …	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/16 03:20 AM
1	Your Plates Most Likely Plate You As Well : Never Get Attached. Yep, that's exactly my point. I should state, though, that I do see plenty of Asian/Indian guys that are successful with decent personalities, but they still struggle in dating/hooking up - hence my comment about being strategic about where you go prowling.	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/16 04:21 PM
1	Your Plates Most Likely Plate You As Well : Never Get Attached. the 80/20 thing is absolutely true and you wouldn't question it if you were in the top 20% yourself. Like I said, I don't doubt there is an hierarchy as such, but I don't think it's nearly as rigid as many here make it out to be. Going from some of these posts you'd think if a guy isn't in the top 20% he's goin to die a virgin, lol. Also, I never said the guys I see the cute girls with are ugly - just that they're not 100% "alpha" as in tall, ripped, macho etc. They're just regular guys, average…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/16 03:41 PM
2	Your Plates Most Likely Plate You As Well : Never Get Attached. That's why we're always talking about how chicks only go for top 20% (sometimes top 5%) type of guys. This may well be true in the setting of a college campus, especially if it's a known party school. Or perhaps at bars/nightclubs. Outside of that, things such as social circle, shared commonalities etc play a much, much bigger role. I see this repeated over and over again, yet after having lived and partied in LA and NYC for many many years, I really cannot say that this is broadly true. I curre…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/16 04:22 AM