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Same way a woman is okay with having an equal salary with a man, just not her MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:01 PM
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I think OP meant mostly higher payed career women still want higher paid men, although they are not constrained by money. Might be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:06 AM
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Birth control pills enabled this, the drive was feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:13 AM
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Feminism's sexual revolution permitted this to happen, at the level it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:00 PM
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Might just be right, it is just that the same attractive men damage all the "fresh" women over and over. This is a big problem with feminism. You bring the solution here. Is it to hate all men? Or maybe just screen better and have more to offer, to the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:09 AM
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Stop giving attention to what kind of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:15 AM
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I answered to the question in the title. She should date her own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:20 AM
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Women want more than other women have, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:02 AM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:43 PM
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I thought this was over. I meant before that I read it more careful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:08 PM
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Yeah, read more careful now.. agree with that too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:28 AM
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Have you read the post? It says "cracked" "blew her brains out" "banged" etc. This is mainly big dick talk. OP used a very specific language here. Go on smalldickproblems and see how men are talking about killing themselves and yeah, maybe how women are sluts but not how they "cracked" another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:38 PM
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Men hate simps. Never understood paying millions of $ to some OF girls. Men also hate being cucks, and paying money to an OF girl that most likely has a bf is a special kind of cucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:20 PM
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You used different terms in this comment. I doubt that small dicked men send dick pics and say that he "rearranged her guts". Used up, easy and ran through were not mentiond in the thread. These are actually more likely to be used by smaller dicked men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:07 PM
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I think you will only find these from big dicked men. Only the most desired can pull these ones and get away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:11 PM
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Just downvote and no argument? classic, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:17 AM
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Yeah, I just feel that the most important aspect that men think women should take in consideration is the commitment (staying with the baby). All rest should be just a plus. All the single moms around tell us something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:14 AM
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Being a single mom and being fat are somewhat easily controllable and being tall and rich is not so much. That is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:59 PM
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Men provide protection from other men, that is why women look for bigger/taller men than the average (man), they never really searched for a man taller than themselves (just a precondition).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:22 PM
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Yes, both non-virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:14 AM
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I think in Japan, men have stopped caring and I am not sure that they have an upper hand there..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:03 PM
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Not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:16 AM
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Men hate a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:04 AM
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My opinion was always to just avoid the subject, not call the man "the biggest". He will know you are lying, if he is on the smaller side and you had previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:41 AM
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Yes, I got mixed up. Even when marriages were arranged there was still an expectancy for the bride to be virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:57 PM
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You are again speaking off topic. Arranged marriages have no way in this discussion. It is like speaking about free will and you bring up slavery or something. I compared today to the 90's, that is a good comparison. No need to go longer that. PS I do agree with your first comment and upvoted it, I just see now that you are responding here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:47 PM
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We went off track a lot. I answered the question of the topic. You have some good points here, but I really doubt that there are more women now in commitments than in the 90's, let's say (%wise). Way too many single moms in our time, for it to be true. And marriage is still the highest form of commitment. You said the reason people get married less is because they don't want to. That was my point. Men don't offer it, because they mainly jump to offer it to attractive, young, virgin and submissiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:02 PM
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How do you explain the general lack of commitment that women receive? declining marriage rates, increasing divorces etc Averages can be tricky, because one man can have 200 sexual partners and 99 be virgins, and the average would be 2 sexual partners. You get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:37 PM
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I heard of many male rock stars sexing up a bunch of female fans, never heard of any female musician having orgies with their male fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:29 PM
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Women are allowed to want whoever they please, it is just that usually, men are appreciated for other things. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:10 PM
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Not sure if sarcastic or not, anyway, I had my laugh Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:05 PM
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We are speaking about women here. In men's eyes, the wife must have some angelic features. An angel looks for love, not sex. The masculine persona is much more brutal and less emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:02 PM
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Reduced wife material market available
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:54 PM
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The random Chad would disagree, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:50 PM
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My most likely "hot" take on this, is that having sex pretty much equals to being married. The simple argument being that marriage used to be a condition for sex, but that condition went out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:47 PM
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Just for the woman to have respect for herself and her body, for her to seek love first and sex second.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:38 PM
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You deserve that award
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:34 PM
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*to have sex on a regular basis. Prostitutes were always expensive. In Romania, today, one session with a prostitute costs around 10% of a minimum salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:20 AM
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Men did need marriage to have sex, back when everything made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:34 AM
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I am intimidated if the woman would/has a multiple of my income. My ex is a doctor, and her career was a reason for break-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:09 AM
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Do not put words in my mouth. Did I say the word defeat? I just presented a fact, on point with the subject of the thread. I see your reply though, is not on subject
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:43 PM
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Swordpill talks a lot about strenght, just watched it all. If you have genetical physical strenght, you are half way there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:48 PM
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I said it is mostly driven by genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:02 AM
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Yes, the desire is driven mostly by traits that cannot be changed. Very optimistic outlook 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:02 PM
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Men like to be useful, if they can only achieve this via a transaction, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:46 PM
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That was the point of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:13 PM
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Even if you look at another woman? Men are not blind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:12 PM
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Never said that it factors
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:55 PM
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Skills can improve, size not. One of the most repeated claim in the bigdickproblems thread is that they have the "tool" to back up the skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:23 PM
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My gf said that one year ago, still in my head constantly. We are on and off since then..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:17 PM
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What is the end goal of your open relationship? Do you see yourself marrying and being exclusive with this girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:25 PM
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Strong points mentioned. I was speaking in general, but somehow you managed to mention me, bro. Tell something from your experience, if you want that. You would have no insecurity finding out your wife was more adventureous with another (random) man? Not speaking of an ex husband
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:32 PM
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Yes, in the sense that they want anything that might resemble a man. Many men prefer porn like this. Still, much less inflamatory. My gf using a big dildo might upset me in the sense she might be regretting some penis of the same size, if she was a virgin.. not a real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:06 AM
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I meant penis penetration, and I do not think it was misunderstood. If I shove a cucumber in my asshole, I am not penetrated in the way I would have been with a man, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:00 AM
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Women say that a dildo/strap is not like the real thing, just like a fleshlight is not like the real thing. Absolutely no reason to be insecure in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:50 AM
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Me either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:44 AM
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Yes, agreed. So your point is that the penetration factor in itself is irrelevant? What if we reproduced in another way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:11 AM
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Yes, pretty much it. The gene protection, it is a basic instict. Even if your wife loves a woman 10x more than she loves you, your genes are safe. Or even if she loves a man 10x more and does not act sexually, for whatever reason (religious, friendzone, shame etc), your genes are safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:36 AM
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Yes, sure. But this doesn't fully explain why many women are grossed out when they find out that their male partner had sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:27 AM
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Used to? Now it's all "fixed"? I think we can objectively say that being raped as a woman by a man is worse that the reverse, but that might just be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 05:24 AM
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Yes, I agree. Never said otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:37 AM
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Read recently a post in RJ where a man claimed comfort he was the "largest" she ever had. Just saying it plays a big part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:51 AM
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I agree with most of what you said. They are bothered by guys kissing because that might lead to penetration, that is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:48 AM
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Removed that part, you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:46 AM
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Reddit only allowed to post as debate. Internet debates about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:19 AM
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It is insecurity, never said otherwise. Sorry if you feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:07 AM
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Yes, women tend to be very lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:42 PM
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The "pump and dump", can be made, by definition, just by a man. He does the pumping, unless the women takes the "amazon" position in sex, lol But I do get your point. If you take this at a somewhat "liberal" level, you are both "using" yourselves. We can put this another way. Women or men end up having more casual sex when they in fact believed they were in a relationship? And who was more affected by this realization?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:28 PM
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Men want sex with their wife to be special, and casual sex reduces the "specialness". I cannot say more, Reddit is a space that encourages liberal thinking, with this down vote up vote system. You will not get a very honest opinion here. I feel it has a Black Mirror feel to it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:03 PM
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Exactly, only Chad. That is why he gets all the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:37 PM
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Would you accept having your menstrual cycle tracked? By a colleague..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:03 PM
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if at first the adviser says, to a man "concentrate on your career and social skills", there is nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:54 PM
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Yes, this is feminism in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:44 AM
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Does anyone have the referenced thread copied? It is now deleted..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:06 PM
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Calcsd can tell you better than me, girth is actually more important anyway so a 6 inch long 5.5 inch girth penis is very big. Even 5.5x5.5 is very big (sometimes called average in porn, lol). How much did you scroll?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:32 AM
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Yes, I am talking about the homemade videos. Pornhub is now 100% verified amateurs + large studios. Please tell me how much you have to scroll to find an average penis, not even talking about small. Verified amateurs are many times OF accounts that are promoting on pornhub. Pornhub also pays them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:57 AM
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And that independent porn (verified amateurs) is still filled with big and huge penises.. so yeah, the anxiety created by porn is more real now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:43 AM
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Have you heard of OF? It is not toxic by definition, it just enabled femme fatale
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:40 PM
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I just asked you to expand the idea you presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:01 PM
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They represent everything that is wrong with feminism. It is toxic femininity, femme fatale, financial male exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:52 AM
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For now..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:28 PM
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If guy spent all his youth only going to school and playing video games I am in this reply and do not like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:41 AM
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I agree with you, it just never came to mind she would mention it. I steered off anything that would remotely have anything to do with it. I never cared or knew about anyone's size, IRL. She was too liberal or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:58 AM
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I think the problem is portrayed in Forrest Gump best: "Seeing your lovely Jenny being railed over and over by the assholes and then returning to you (with some additional features), for safety and consolation."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:51 AM
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You seem to portray this in a good light. Not many women like this. That scenario would be best, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:43 AM
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We talked too much about her past. I became shocked after learning some things about her past, so I wanted to know more, but each detail made it worse. Never asked about size, though. She volunteered in telling me that one of the two guys before me was very small, and after about a month, while in bed, she randomly told that "I have an appropriate (or right) size" (not sure how to translate 100% in english). I knew instantly what that meant. She never had bad intentions, and was a sweetheart. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:34 AM
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I answered above. Please stick with this penetrative factor idea, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:21 AM
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Again, I wanted to make a general note. I did ask about previous partners (a mistake), but not to pry, in my "innocent" mind maybe it was just to get to know her. I never asked about size though, not even indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:20 AM
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That was more of a side note, I wanted to just point out the penetrative factor. But yeah, it was very disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:50 PM
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the scales will balance themselves, and the future might end up looking a lot like the past. Please expand here. How would that balance look like? Which past?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:07 PM
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Physical prowess is not so valued or needed anymore (arguably). Technology has entered absolutely every sector. Successful men, at large, might become extinct. A world with 90% female doctors is not that far fetched. Look into the student gender evolution. Again, it is hypothetical. How would women, basically adapt to this? Might just be some polyamory stuff: "A study by the Pew Research Center found that 19% of Generation Z members have experienced polyamorous relationships, which is higher com…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:05 PM
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What about his Chad Thunder cock? PS How can I have a custom user flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:58 PM
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They are. Watch some Andrew Tate or something, it is all about get in shape and make money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:54 PM
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Strictly in dating, regarding women, I could take the liberty and simplify it as "bad sexual decisions"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:49 PM
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I do not think it is about blame, it is just that everyone wants a relationship as healthy as they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:46 PM
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I just thought about this today. Many times it is just about the penetrative factor. After my ex told me that her situationship before me had a much larger penis, I just went silent.. and felt useless. Many guys have no issue with their girl being with other girls (they have no penis - shocker). Many girls have an issue with their man being with other men (they have a penis). The penis part is what might just amplify girls' trauma. The thought that they "gave themselves" to some asshole. And if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:40 PM
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It is more of a hypothetical situation. Women are doing increasingly well financially, so we can imagine a hypothetical situation where all men are poor and all women are rich (comparative to each other, even if an oligarchy is installed)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:45 AM
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I am myself a hypocrite in this, as I did engage in hook-up culture. Not proud of it. I feel like I gave up casual sex, mainly because of STD risks, being grossed out and trying not being a hypocrite. Without being aware I split women based on Madonna/ whore complex. As in, in considered there is a pool of women who engage in casual sex (whores) and those who don't (Madonna). I still think this is mostly true, but they do get mixed. I went without sex for 7 years, so that "Women have sex with wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:47 AM
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Yes. Not being her true sexual best is what is killing me. This makes me feel like a compromise.. useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:06 AM
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Reins, yes.. will remember this Let's put it this way, many things can be dealt with in extremes: Would it be more natural for a man to be submissive or for a woman? By the simple fact that a man does the penetrating in sex, we can get a clear idea. The woman is the receiver. A submissive man in bed seems unnatural, maybe just to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:43 PM
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drop this slut shaming of women how would this stop women going after all the Chads? My take is that it will only drive up n counts. why would they settle on a mid in their 20s? if that is their level, what is the problem? They will not get any better partner, while sleeping around..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:35 PM
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They are not committing because they do not consider that the women available are worth the commitment. men here tell women to settle for the best they can get Best they can get for marriage, not best they can get for a "pump and dump". The casual sex criteria is not high for men, we all now this. Men are not enthusiastic being settled for after the woman was "alpha widowed" by Chad. PS I do love all these red pill terms, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:31 PM
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I do agree with you, all that "Brave new world" dystopia might just be the norm in maybe even less than 50 years. We could argue that women already got somewhat replaced by porn and other similar activities. There will come a time when flesh and blood relationships aren't the norm This might just seem sad, but it might be feminism's wet dream actually. You cannot rape anyone, if it is all digital "surrogates".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:15 PM
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Capitalism sells this idea that if you have all this ambition and drive, you are "destined" to be rich. I keep asking this myself, like: What am I doing wrong? I should have been rich by now. So yeah, women are looking for indicators of a future (if not present) successful man. Successful implies some benefits like money/ influence/ power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:14 PM
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women haven't been replaced because they are cheaper than a robot This seems like a clear exaggeration, I do not want to live in such a world. In the rest, I pretty much agree. And you are one of the few that actually responded on topic. most women want to be wanted they want to be courted they want a man to take the reigns where the pants and carry the load I think all women want this. Some may not admit this. It is hard for the man to take the reigns, when he earns less than her, also hard for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:04 PM
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Please do not act like you know me. It is just an observation. If you want to participate in the discussion, please do. Stop the ad hominem attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:51 PM
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Please expand. Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:46 PM
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You are a true blessing to whomever has you as a partner. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:54 PM
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What if successful men are basically extinct? how would the sexual marketplace look, in a matriarchy? This is my scenario, as women are more and more dominant. Please read the full post. Nevertheless, I think you are somewhat right. Men do not like a very big socioeconomic difference, but, they like to be "above"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:20 AM
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Agreed, but too general. Please present the sexual marketplace, in the scenario I presented in the last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:37 PM
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Differential fertility is slowly heading the whole world into a non-feminist future and that's a very good thing. You mean that the religious tend to make more babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:28 PM
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Marriage doesn't increase salaries That is a pity, it should 😅 Maybe some government projects, to increase the salary of married men. And since women make their own money, they make men's chance for gaining higher salaries slimmer Yes, it is like each female promotion is a double relationship "kill": A man will not be able to marry (the one that would have received the promotion) and the promoted woman will have a harder time marrying..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:04 PM
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Please develop your vision of this hypothetical future, including females respecting men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:57 PM
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I agree and although it is a reasonable argument, it might be too utopic in the modern world. Family is encouraged for women, mostly in their 30s, when their fertility and attractiveness is dropping. There are many nuances here and could talk all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:51 PM
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Not sure why you used the word revenge, I might be missing some comments in this thread. But I think I get your point. The thing is, women always treated men worse based on attractiveness. In this scenario, it might result in an absolute ignoring of the unattractive "Joe".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:17 PM
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You actually seem to prove my case. What if like 99% men are poor and 99% of women are rich? What else will the men provide? That is my question and socioeconomic hypothesis. I am talking about a matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:08 PM
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Believing porn, in my opinion, is believing mainly that only a big dick can satisfy a woman. Or that a big dick spoiled her. Porn is very big dick focused. I see no alternative that is more terrible than this. Please, provide me the alternative you thought of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:58 PM
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Only when men aren't needed can we be truly wanted. It is still a game of needs. A woman will not partner with you if you are useless, you must bring something. But if you think it's all about height and dick, it will probably not be a good time for you. It is not about that, specifically. This just inflates hypergamy. The average Joe is becoming even more useless and invisible. Shifting from codependency to partnership sounds like a step forward to me. It might sound good on paper, but we still…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:47 PM
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Yes, not sure what you mean intentionally lowering women's leverage. I think it might be too late, anyhow. Society is 100% on board the feminism train, can't stop it now. Anything you might publicly say against feminism might get you called out as a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:34 PM
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Marriage rates are declining. Might be that the only ones still marrying (the McDonalds's girls or whatever they can find) are "Beta Bobs". Doctors and lawyers do not have much incentive to marry and settle down, since they have plenty of choice. Still, envision a world, 200 years from now. A true matriarchy has set in. The only high level educated gender is female. Not so hard to believe, with the current stats. What does this world look like? sexually..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:28 PM
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I feel that love and domination mingle very well, from a man's point of view. Men's most important objective is to be useful (to be protective while being dominating). Women's most important objective is to be cared for and loved (protected). That is my take. With feminism, most women have been better dominated and protected already, so many guys feel useless. In the same time, most women also have been traumatised and assaulted (bonding affected). Modern dating is not suboptimal, it is distorte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:22 PM
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