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For someone who doesn't read things because they are too long nor cares about them, you keep reading and caring. You are taking some fun liberties to support what you want to support. 'Obviously its for pairs' since it fits nicely into your mindset. But if they can’t manage their desires and emotions, they should by all means go ahead and get married. The difficulties of marriage are preferable by far to a sexually tortured life as a single. I went ahead and got married. The only sexual torture …
/r/RPChristians15/03/22 10:21 PM
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There is no good substitute for hanging out with guys in person. Most of my good friends live all over the country. We keep in touch with group chats and discord. We meet up a few times a year but that doesn't replace the need for you to be social with other guys. If you don't have any local friends there is plenty of thing you can get into. Tennis is one, especially if you get into some sort of a club or program. Plenty of guys get into bjj and mma training gyms. I eventually quit doing crossfi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 09:17 PM
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I want to start owning my shit and embrace my fears. Everyone sucks at the beginning. The ones who claim otherwise are lying. The line that's quoted is the important one. My body weight did not move this week. I console myself by noting that my waistline reduced half an inch Don't worry about weight, worry about body composition. Are you progressively lifting more? Great. Are you looking better despite weighing the same? Great. Trading 5lbs of fat for 5lbs of muscle and weighting the same is a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 08:29 PM
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Good on you, man. I can relate. I had a Dad who would ask me everyday "What did you do productive today?" to the point I'd work till I'm sick or feel guilty relaxing. It took a long time to break that mindset. You recognize it all, including worrying about someone else's opinion of you being a driving factor. I leaned into that discomfort hard. That's great. Don't lose focus. When you feel well again it will be easy to slip right back into those comfortable compulsions. Feeling pride in a job we…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 08:04 PM
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Be a little more specific next time. When I hear 'first commandment' my mind goes to Matthew 22:37. Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” If you believe that "be fruitful and multiply" is a literal commandment I wonder how you reconcile 1 Corinthians 7:8. Now to …
/r/RPChristians15/03/22 07:43 PM
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You seem to have forgotten the purpose of OYS. It is to focus on yourself, not others. So my progress, your progress, or anyone else’s doesn’t matter when he is looking at himself. You might make yourself feel better giving yourself excuses and trying to say you have it so much harder than the next guy, but all you are doing is trying to soothe your ego. You went digging through my history because an internet stranger made you feel uncomfortable. Maybe my response to him hit a little too close t…
/r/RPChristians15/03/22 05:16 PM
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Are you serious or not? I rarely pop over into rpc from mrp and your post is reminding me why. Stats (no change): 6', 171lb, 18% BF, 1 rep bench: 190lb, 1 rep squat: 195lb, 1 rep deadlift: 285lb This is from your OYS a year ago. You are 9 lbs heavier, still fat, and barely added anything to your lifts. Skimming through a year of your posts. Filled with half efforts and no work. Your diet is always just ok or eating more junk or pizza than you know you should. You are always trying to go to the g…
/r/RPChristians14/03/22 08:07 PM
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You are getting all lost in the weeds. It's pretty simple man. Does something need to be done? If no, is this something that you want to do? If still no, don't fucking do it. Are you trying to get something upspoken out of an action? Then it's a covert contract. do people really want a party? Who cares what they want? And if you are thinking about that, do you think you are in your own frame? However I did change the usual party arrangements to suit me and make it easier for me and everyone invo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:19 AM
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It would be a covert contract if he was expecting sex because he helped his wife, yes. Not at all what I'm suggesting he should be doing. I'm saying he danced like a monkey and still didn't sink his banana. I was hoping he would put that together on his own.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 04:57 AM
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I don’t think I have a good handle on why we have such parties. You are being your wife's first mate and thinking you are the captain. You helped your wife do what she wanted and for all your effort sex = none.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 01:56 PM
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BF% is just a tool to make you take stock and stop diluting yourself. People underestimate how much they eat and how fat they are. The guy who is 22% but thinks he is 14% will hamster himself out of doing anything. Once you finally realize that you are fat and need to get to work, you don't need to stress too hard about the complete accuracy of the method vs another. You're fat, work till your not. I'm not sure what that break down with the truth statements and Plato is all about. Sounds like yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 04:16 PM
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Good work on the weight loss, but you aren't lifting yet. You are doing cardio. Still good because you are fat at +22% BF. You will continue to lose weight when you start training and lifting heavy enough too. Granted there will be differences once you start going on into bulking/cutting cycles but for now its all about your caloric intake vs deficit. Its time to make that transition and learn how to lift with proper form and all that. mostly focusing on arms, have been adding legs as much as is…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 01:45 PM
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Deadlifts, ab work, and stretching hip flexors can absolutely fix lower back issues. Band pull apart, pull ups and stretching your over tight chest will help with upper and mid back. Looks like a good week. Learning to take time for self to enjoy life. Found some weak ego bullshit you worked out. Horns tips only work if you have the frame to back it up. Adapt that shit to what you actually want. You don’t have to ass fuck and piss on a girl just because someone tells you too. Half the time that …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 12:43 PM
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Over the course of this year I've come to appreciate how much catharsis there is in just putting thought on paper. I can tell a difference in my mental state when I don't. I still write an OYS every other week for this exact reason even though I rarely post them. Keep looking at yourself as objectively as you can. Good for you figuring out why you two aren’t working out and what you got to do about it. Good luck. Like red said though, you haven’t done anything till you follow through.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 12:16 PM
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I thought that was a joke. Knowing that was real made me sad for a second.
/r/askMRP20/08/21 06:07 PM
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I've never been a person that eats too much. Says the 19%BF fat man. You tracking your macros? Know how much protien you are already eating? My guess is no and you are just going to pile on more food anyway. Protein is the best option if you were gonna eat more blindly at least. Previously I was the most talkative person in the house Sounds like you are bored and talking too much to fill your time because you aren't doing anything else. Go find something better to do. Maybe removing yourself fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 09:44 PM
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I don't particularly care what the guy in question thinks. I've thought of him as an emotional idiot for a while. The initial insult was annoying and caught me off guard. It's exactly what W&S said. He got jealous that his wife didn't want to be around him and he lashed out. It's more the disgust you feel when someone disappoints you even when expect nothing from them. It pissed me off that he upset my wife over nothing. It pissed me off that he caused a black mark on an otherwise nice day. It p…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 10:03 PM
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Another 5'7" guy who thinks he is skinny fat. The average 5' 7" man weights 133 - 163 lbs. You are 167lbs. You aren't muscular and have no lifts to post. You are fat. Act accordingly. Fix your diet, go work out. If you don't know how look up the bigger leaner stronger method of tracking your macros. It isn't hard but you have to put forth some effort. My goal: Own my life. Be mentally strong. Leave a legacy to the world. Synergy, Pivot, Pardigm shift, Thought Leader. Hey look, both our lists are…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 09:37 PM
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It probably didn't help that we were at the beach and I had my shirt off. I only have one floral shirt left that I'll throw on on the boat sometimes. Might need to keep it in the truck for when the lonely wives are getting too riled up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 02:23 PM
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I tend to associate "skinny fat" as relatively thin with just no muscle. You are 5'7" and 152lbs. The average 5' 7" man weights 133 - 163 lbs. Your lifts are weird. You are curling 90lbs yet only leg pressing 175? Same for your chest press with 35lb dumbbells, which is 70lb on bar at best. At 18% body fat and those other stats, I'm going to say you are just regular fat. If you haven't done the work to calculate what your diet should be, go ahead and throw that on the top of the list.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 08:01 PM
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You didn't list your stats, probably for a reason. Without even seeing them, HOA knows you need to lift. I open with a random girl on the street, she is clearly not welcoming me, while being very polite though. I'm not convinced this isn't a troll account. Your entire interaction here was disgusting. I ought to to be amused as in "How did you know I plan on kidnapping you". Are you fucking retarded? Do you honestly think that making a kidnapping joke with a girl who clearly dislikes you and is t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 07:21 PM
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OYS 58 Age 34. Wife 33. Married 9. 195lbs. 6'0. BF: 13% This weekend marks the 3rd time I've had a fat husband accuse me of trying to bang his wife. He made a fool of himself publicly yelling about it. It pissed me off more than it should have. Stuck with me the rest of Saturday and Sunday. Not particularly happy about having my character attacked by someone I've known for years. Work is good. Found out from the boss that I that I was recommended for a new position. In the end they opted for som…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 01:32 PM
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Vision: Build a compound of wealth, happiness and empowerment for myself and my family You aren't really saying anything. Everyone wants to be rich, happy, and empowered. The devil is in the details, and so is a plan for actual improvement. Did the absolute minimum effort in divorce prep last week, so will do more this week to get things in order. Minimal effort and more future talk. I'm going to work on defining specifics for each of the main areas over the next week. More analysis paralysis. Q…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 09:48 PM
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They are more cyclical since you don't do it every day. Some people do pin very day, but I'm not one of them. I inject twice a week, but that is mainly to manage my E2 without having to mess with an AI. I'd much rather do it once a week instead but it isn't a big deal. Neither is a little cycling when you are at the top of the range like I am now. I don't even notice it. People who are injecting every 2 weeks or doing the implants will feel pretty bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 09:19 PM
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Low end of "normal" is shit. Most general doctors get scared and don't want to treat low T unless it is far below the range. And even when they do it seems to be in half measures. My urologist wanted me to use half my current dose only once every 2 weeks. Absolutely horrible protocol. Using gel gives mixed results. Injection gives the most consistent results and much cheaper than gel typically. By all means, still try the gel but know there are better options if it doesn't work out. Only negativ…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 01:58 PM
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I think I had gotten a shit test that day. Rule of thumb: Shit tests are generally about you, comfort tests are generally about her. Sounded like a compliance test. Something small but she wanted you to do what she wanted. One of my wife's favorites early on was to always try to get me to get off the couch we were both sitting on to turn on/off the fan or a light. Her controlling the route you were going sounds the same. She kept asking me what I did that produced the desired results which at fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 02:51 PM
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OYS 57 Nov 2 2020 - May 10 2021 Age 34. Wife 33. Married 9. 190lbs. 6'0. BF: 13% This OYS has been a long time coming. 6 months ago I quit reading anything self help and stopped getting on reddit. Physical Pre-Injury Lifts: Bench: 190x5, Squat:285x5, Deadlift:365x5 Current Lifts: Bench: 190x5, Squat:245x5, Deadlift: 315x5 I have deformations in my hips. One has been surgically repaired. The other popped out back in December. I was afraid it tore like the first one. Thankfully it didn't tear as b…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 02:00 PM
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“I'm able to hide the excess weight fairly well” We don’t care and that is some bullshit weak inner game and opinion of yourself. “I’m fat but I can hide it.” “The problem was that I couldn't identify any of my personality traits beyond those that were directly connected to my career.” “I receive a lot of external validation from everyone except my LTR” Doesn’t seem like you have a very good sense of self and are looking for ways define yourself outside of yourself. Including looking to others t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 08:01 PM
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The physical shit is your baseline. If someone is too lazy or inconsistent to lift then there is no hope anywhere else. It’s good you have that figured out. But over half your post is on how you have your physical stats are good. That is the baseline. You mentioned fucking around on here for over a year and accomplishing nothing. I don’t see a good plan in your post and at the moment assume this is going to end in failure just like all the other times you thought about trying. Generic goals like…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 07:41 PM
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Is it though?
/r/askMRP09/11/20 06:56 PM
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Minor shit test with a boundary enforcement lead to another significant event. Another threat of divorce was met with “OK” by me which added gas to the fire, which led to my phone being thrown to the floor, my kids ipad being thrown to the floor and a chair being toppled over. Feels like there is more to the story. I wouldn't think minor shit tests typically lead to threats of divorce and things being thrown around the house. Maybe an boundary enforcement, depending on what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 05:42 PM
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So you have a fat disrespectful wife who has made it a habit of getting you to pay for surgeries to look better for other men. I’m not getting enough value out of my marriage (right now) No kidding. I'm not sure why you are still devoting this much mental time to her. I get that you are admitting to where you are fucking up but its time to do something about it. The less you sit around and think about her actions the better things will go for you. Know what helps kill validation seeking? Attachi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 05:29 PM
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And between running from vs. towards something. In the past it was definitely the former. Nowadays I am not so sure. Its safe to assume that if you don't have a goal and you are just running, then you aren't running towards something. It is something along the lines of living an unconventional and examined life, as free of constraints as possible. It ties into my spiritual practice. I don’t think that ideology or theorizing is going to save the world. But individual emancipation just might. Good…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 04:54 PM
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OYS 56 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 9. 190lbs. 6'0. BF: 13% Physical Lifts: Bench: 190x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:355x5 Progress slowing down. Bench, DL, and all other auxiliary lifts are still creeping up. Back squat feels pretty stagnant. Not sure what is going on. Thought about squatting every day like the old SS or 5x5 regimen to just see what happens. I've been on PPL for a while. Mental I've been out of my wife's frame for a while now, but I haven't totally been in mine either. I don't know exactl…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 01:46 PM
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One of the mental things that has surprised me is to read something, clumsily try to apply it as a practice, eventually becoming a habit, and then "disappearing" into just how I act. The golf analogy has been makings it's way around MRP recently. You can read all about the perfect golf swing but till you go hit balls all you have is theory and if you can't execute it then it's worthless. People can read all they want, but till they apply it, even clumsily, then it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/20 03:20 PM
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OYS 55 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 9. 185lbs. 6'0. BF: 13% Last OYS was the 1st. Physical/Mental Lifts: Bench: 185x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:335x5 I'm in my third week of TMS now. The first week eased some of the symptoms but the anhedonia persisted. It is now the sixth week. It should have been week seven but the clinic didn't have power for a week. I'm happy to say that it is working/worked. After years of lingering depression it just is not there any more. Little bit of that anhedonia lingering but…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 08:29 PM
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2 months ago he was "156lbs 16% BF". 8 days ago he got up to "163lbs 18.1% BF". He has had that 165lb/15% body fat goal by the end of Sept since OYS 1. His lifts have shot up but I get the feeling that once those quick gains dry up he is going to flounder around. The conflicting goals and all. Like it sounds good but there isn't a plan. So my advice was to give something concrete to have in mind without getting distracted by hitting some metric. Like you said, how do you look in the mirror. Focu…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 08:25 PM
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You are between 15-17% BF and you think you need to increase mass... You don't need to worry about your weight as much as you need to worry about your body composition. Cut till you start looking good then worry about adding on some mass. Your wife doesn't care how much you are lifting nearly as much as you do. She is going to care how fat you are. There is a fat guy at my work who likes to talk about how much he can lift. Doesn't make him any more attractive. A strong fat guy is still a fat guy…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 03:08 PM
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OYS 54 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 8. 185lbs. 6'0. BF: 13% Physical/Mental Lifts: Bench: 185x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:300x5 Hit a sticking point with lifting. I hit a new max with bench but the other lifts have been stagnant. Deloading this week. Decreasing the reps and sets only and not the weight. First treatment is scheduled for the 17th. It will be 5 days a week for 7-8 weeks. I'm in my third week of TMS now. The first week eased some of the symptoms but the anhedonia persisted. They say you usua…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 02:20 PM
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No babies. Neither of us wanted kids when we got together. 14 years later and we still don't want kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/20 10:19 PM
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OYS 53 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 8. 185lbs. 6'0. BF: 12% Physical/Mental Lifts: Bench: 185x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:300x5 First treatment is scheduled for the 17th. It will be 5 days a week for 7-8 weeks. Had my first treatment yesterday. I go again later today. Most people start to see results 2 weeks after first treatment. Lets see if I'm one of them. Per the doc's advice, I picked up my guitar again and have been playing at least 30 minutes each day. Everyday is the plan at least. I played 5/7 d…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 02:58 PM
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I get that. It’s a mental shift from being a prisoner of circumstances to being your own driving force.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/20 08:51 PM
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OYS 52 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 8. 188lbs. 6'0. BF: 12% Physical/Mental Lifts: Bench: 185x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:300x5 Met with the doctor yesterday. Handed over the documentation and got approved for treatment. This week they will make sure everything is in order with my insurance provider. First treatment is scheduled for the 17th. It will be 5 days a week for 7-8 weeks. During the appointment I asked the doc about anhedonia. According to him it is almost always a symptom of something else. If…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 06:18 PM
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Last week I only wrote about a problem area. This week I took Rian's advice and kept it very dry. Wrote about the other parts of my life that I ignored last week. Nothing has changed with regard to my mental health. I didn't see the point in restating it so soon without any new information. My next appointment is Monday and I'll know a bit more after it. You have to jump through a lot of hoops in my state to be approved for TMS. I got all the documents in order and ready to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 03:58 AM
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OYS 51 Age 33. Wife 32. Married 8. 188lbs. 6'0. BF: 12% Physical Lifts: Bench: 185x5 Squat:275x5 Deadlift:300x5 New max on bench. Back to my old squat and deadlift numbers. Stretching more. Got my documentation in order for my doctor appointment next week. Career Work has slowed due to the virus. I've had more consistent work than others at the office. I can count at least 10 guys who will be laid off before me. I'm working towards opening a side business. I'm in the planning stages with a partn…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 03:10 PM
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OYS 50 Age 33. Married 8. 188lbs. 6'0. BF: 12% (Bod Pod) I haven't written an OYS for 13 weeks. I've hit a hard plateau. I've maintained most of the progress I've made, but I haven't progressed much beyond it in that time. My ego that makes this hard to talk about, but I've had major depressive disorder since I was 16. I don't like admitting it to others or myself. Now it is unavoidable. I've largely denied it or attributed the something else; the relationship, work, finances, lack of exercise, …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 03:17 PM
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I have ordered "Bigger, leaner, stronger" as someone recommended last week. Even though I have been disciplined in working out regularly, I need to be more productive with the time I am putting in. Not satisfied with the small gains anymore. I ate better during the week, but it was mostly just trying to avoid fast food. I made more an effort to get more calories in, I can easily get caught up with a project and lunch time is gone before I know it. Half the book is dedicated to diet. Making "more…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 03:43 PM
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What was the catalyst for you? The trend lines of your relationship seem headed in the right direction. What has changed for you and your mindsets/mental models? There is a quote of Charlie Parker's that sticks with me. He was a jazz musician if are not familiar. “First you learn the instrument, then you learn the music, then you forget all that bullshit and just play." So there is no singular thing that happens (at least not for me) and you think "this is is, this is the turning point". You sid…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/20 12:54 PM
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OYS 49 Age 33. Married 8. 185lbs. 6'0. BF:11.5% (Bod Pod) I've been gone the past 7 weeks for two reasons. 1. The proverbial rope has tightened. 2. Took a break from theory/talking/you fuckers to do more acting. Live my life some without overthinking it. Make a few mistakes. That shit is a good teacher. Physical I more or less have my TRT figured out. As a bonus, I'm over-prescribed enough to build up some extra T to do a cycle by the end of this year. I was just starting my bulk after the cut w…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 07:57 PM
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Happened to a good friend of mine. He got the ILYBINILWY before she actually did anything, but she had already picked out the guy she was building up the courage for. She was already getting feels from him and he was actively encouraging her to leave my friend for him. I agree that I would treat it as a death sentence 99% of the time even if she hasn't "done" anything yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 06:25 PM
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Fair enough. I don't keep up with the guys in here like some people do. You could have mentioned all that in previous OYS and I wouldn't know. I have no reason to lie about my numbers here. A lot of guys lie to themselves first and then in OYS by extension. That said, I have been at 6.9% measured via dexa scan, and 8% via skinfold and underwater weighing at different times when I was younger. Based on memory of how I looked then, I do think 10-11 is fairly close. You have done your homework and …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 04:31 AM
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43 years old, 5 foot 7, 192 lbs, 10.9% BF via scale. This doesn't seem right. I figured maybe you were a shredded monster but "225 x 8 reps" for legs doesn't make me think so. Neither does "Going to cut out booze and limit carbs for a while, as I look less defined that I did a month ago." I could be wrong. Everything I've ever seen about bio impedance scales are that they are never very accurate, and typically over estimate BF by ~3% at best. So getting a reading or 11% on a scale feels very wro…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:57 PM
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Post your stats like everyone else. Height, weight, lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:45 PM
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BP: 105Kg (230lbs), DL: 160Kg (350lbs), SQ: 120Kg (265lbs) You are 5'10 and 242lbs. You may be fat but at least you aren't weak. I'm frustrated that the number on the scale isn't changing. Even though I've dropped a size, and my lifts are increasing, I just can't get it out of my head. Body composition matters, not the number. Since you are a fan of SBIII go ahead and read one of the books he preaches. Bigger Leaner Stronger (BLS). It will teach you how to cut and manager your intake while getti…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 07:38 PM
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OYS 48 - The last 5 weeks. Stats: Age 33. Wife 32. Married 8. 187 lbs. 6'0. BF:11.5% (Bod Pod) Physical Lifts: Bench: 185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 After 8 weeks I went from 197lbs to 185lbs and ~14-15%BF to 11.5%BF. I got tested this morning. I could have lost weight faster but I had some events planned and didn't stick to the cut calories on those days. My lifts pretty much stayed about the same eating 70-75% of my cals. I felt very weak during those weeks. This week I start eating at a surplus f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 04:52 PM
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I guess man. I'm very much in camp "fuck 'em". If they want to eat paint to that degree, let them.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 06:04 AM
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We're doing our best. I have faith. Enough good and active guys in charge of moderation to keep it from getting over run but allow the worst through for some entertainment.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/20 09:56 PM
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You are thinking like a rational man. This little bitch will crumble at the thought of being without her. Yes he should hard next, but he won't survive it how he is now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 07:41 PM
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Delete this post before your dumb ass gets banned. Post in /r/askmrp to get properly yelled at. That or this is a troll post. Not sure yet. Lets assume it isn't. I'm absorbing the ideas fast just skimming and they are very impowering. I immediately changed my behaviour adn noticed a change in behaviour. No you aren't and no you haven't. This isn't a get fixed quick trick. You will revert and crumble immediately if you don't internalize, which you clearly haven't. I'm noticing a change in my wife…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 07:37 PM
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OYS 47 - The last 2 weeks. Stats: Age 32. Wife 32. Married 8. 192 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Previous Lifts: Bench: 185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 I've started my cut. I'll stay on it till I'm down to 10-11% BF. I doubt there will be any good strength gains during the cut. Good: Cut is going well. Down to 190-193 depending. When I feel I'm around my 10% BF goal I'm going to get a DEXA scan. Bad: Holy fuck I feel like shit. Lifts are hard. I'm barely squatting 225 right now. Deadlift is the same. Join…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 10:28 PM
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Enough for you to stay? 10k seems minimal to me... although I admit my numbers on salary are skewed. Not enough for me to stay, but nice to have the extra money while I'm working out where I go. It was a 9% bump to my base salary. I think your view of numbers are pretty skewed compared to the average person. I agree with you though, not big enough to not walk away. You may want to take ownership and figure out if she wants your help fixing it. I'm helping her with it already. It's a long process…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 12:27 AM
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OYS 46 - The last 3 weeks. Stats: Age 32. Wife 32. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Previous Lifts: Bench: 185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 I've started my cut this week. Made a rotating meal plan for 2 week rotations. I'll stay on it till I'm down to 10-11% BF. I doubt there will be any good strength gains during the cut. Good: Weight is dropping. 3 weeks ago I was 197-200. This week its 192-195. I don't care too much about the number and hope it isn't too much muscle loss that is also contri…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 05:55 PM
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I was a professional editor for a number of years before going to work for an engineering firm. I'd say you have the best production of all the RP guys I've bothered to look at making content right now. A few things could be tightened up, but still. Please help this man.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 09:20 PM
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Learn more about fogging, not bad here. The way I understand fogging is that you agree with whatever is said and shrug it off, thus removing a target that can be hit. I should do that shit more often in general. In this case I just latched onto the sadness part. "Yep, its sad". I'll dig out the book though and give that chapter another read. Maybe she's scared of your dick dying too. Or maybe there's correlation to you giving her positive feelz? Whichever it was, I'm cool with it. I'll assume th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 07:37 PM
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Need to see a chiro asap because I tweaked my back over the weekend. Having a long torso sucks. Look for one that does a lot of soft tissue work and, if you are lucky, dry needling. Sometimes they will call themselves sports chiropractic or sports medicine. That has worked the best for me over the years.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 06:29 PM
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He kicks ass at what he does. If you kick ass, you call the shots. Generally that is true. This situation is a bit different because of how the industry is shifting. We have had 3 really good guys walk in the last year over it without being stopped. They will throw more money at you to get you to stay but won't compromise on the travel. Its understandable. Much of our work now is on site service work and installation. I have an incredibly flexible schedule when I'm home. I do what ever I want an…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 06:13 PM
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Most frame drops with wife on texts. Stick to logistics only. Especially with someone you are divorcing. I think overall we are moving to a good place though, where we will remain close, and despite general RP sentiment there, I do want that. What the fuck? No shit you are going against RP sentiment. You want to remain close to someone you are divorcing? This is some lingering needy oneitis bullshit. I would at great length talk about my feelings, her transgressions and who she’s fucking, or she…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 05:28 PM
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Pretty sure you have recommended that book a few times now in various places. I read BSL on your recommendation. Thoroughly enjoyed it and have put it into practice. I'll add this to my reading list. You are one of the ones I've found most helpful. I'd be curious to see what your Top 5-10 books are.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 05:08 PM
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OYS 45 - The last 4 weeks. Stats: Age 32. Wife 32. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% Physical Previous Lifts: Bench: 185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 I quit CrossFit for the time being. I joined an old school lifting gym to go back to basics with BLS. I started last week going 4x a week. I lost some strength between the injury time and working out of town too long. Squat is down to 285. Deadlift 315. I'm sure my bench is down too. Shoulder is feeling good again. I'm going to test it out slow this week. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 04:43 PM
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Aren’t you the ass eating master general? Are you not proud of them?
/r/askMRP07/01/20 02:43 PM
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This isn't the place to complain about your wife and pretend you aren't a problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 04:29 PM
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BLS recommends cutting till you are ~10% and bulking till you are 15-17%. Rinse and repeat. Where you are now either start cutting or eat your maintenance amount with enough protien while lifting heavy. Going to cut calories down to about 2000 (slightly above TDEE ) stick with it for another month and then re-evaluate. To cut you cut down to 75-80% of your TDEE.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 05:49 PM
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Over all I think you have a good attitude. Time will tell. it's the mystery I'm worried about. If you start leading your family and taking charge you are going to be an interesting and fun person no matter how well she knows you. She is your wife not some strange at the bar you are trying to pick up. I think you will get more immediately out of reading Married Man Sex Life Primer and The Mindful Attraction Plan than The Rational Male. All are good and should be read but there is a reason MMSLP i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 11:11 PM
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First, I'm not advocating that you leave your wife to pursue younger women. YOU personally may not be able to do that given your current self. Other men your age can and do. What I am saying is that you are locked into a way of thinking based on fear. "I have to stay with her because she is the best I can do and I don't want to end up alone." Lack of abundance and you are convincing yourself of this with mental gymnastics. "Guys are over estimating how true this is or else everyone would be doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 11:06 PM
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My height is 6'3" & I currently weigh 315pds with a Bf% of 32. Over the past 2 years I've lost 90 pounds So at 28 you weighed 405. Holy shit. I've been searching for personal activities that burn calories as well as build a small amount of muscle mass too help burn more fat. I'm going to copy and paste what I wrote to another guy earlier today. "Its better to pick a good routine and stick with it. Going to the gym with no real plan and fucking around won't work nearly as well as having a plan. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 07:03 PM
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Don't forget to post your stats. Age, height, and weight at a minimum. It helps to know your relationship status, how old it is, and your lifts as well. I went and looked at your other OYS and saw something. Still not going to post any numbers yet, as I'm still trying to recondition. You big pussy. That dovetails into the other thing I noticed. This thread is called "Own your shit" not "Brag to internet strangers". 90% of what you have written are "wins" while minimizing your shit. Protecting th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 06:39 PM
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OYS #14 or something This simple line reeks of laziness and self defeat. Is 14 really that hard to count to that you have to add "or something" to cover yourself. You did that same shit with #13 too. Get the fuck out with that. Its only been 3 months you little pussy. This is where you come to do work, not feel sorry for yourself. Jesus. I see why you are flaired as "Cart before the horse". You are so obsessed with having a mission before you are even ready to think about it. Stop caring so much…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 06:23 PM
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Been lifting in the gym for about 4 weeks now Trying different things but mostly 5×5 squat 110 Press 160. Haven't started dead lifts but I hit a rotation on the machine's until I'm worn out. Its better to pick a good routine and stick with it. Going to the gym with no real plan and fucking around won't work nearly as well as having a plan. You will burn out or get flustered. I'm not sure what you mean by "I hit a rotation on the machine's until I'm worn out". If this means you are doing random s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 05:48 PM
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Felt like a psycopath though as it distanced me from almost everyone but especially from my kids. How did staying sober and not stuffing your fat face distance you from your kids? Sounds more like projection of how it made you feel. Ego. Deadlifted for the first time in a few months. Worked up to a hard 160kg. Felt ok though so I pulled 170kg. Was ugly but 1 rep maxes are meant to be ugly aren't they? So you don't lift for a few months then immediately decide to go for a 1 Rep Max. Sounds pretty…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 05:24 PM
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I’m not sure that’s entirely bad; at my age, my Tinder™ dating pool would consist of morbidly obese single mothers, feminazis and cat ladies. You are setting yourself up for defeat with your obvious oneitis. "Guess my wife is the best I can do because if even if I were to try and look she is the best I could get compared to these others." And what is this artificially limited dating pool. You are 56 and have no inner game. You think that because you are 56 that you are also limited to 50+. If yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 05:09 PM
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Continue poor physical health overall. Fatigue has been brutal. I’ve needed much more sleep than usual (10-12 hours) and still am tired throughout the day. I’ve been down this road before and know it’s temporary. I expected to be better by now though. Had Crohn’s treatment yesterday, so expect improvement by the weekend. I go through this shit a lot as well. I'll sleep just as long and feel tired as fuck. When I was younger I thought I might have arthritis because of constant joint pain. No arth…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 06:41 PM
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OYS 44 - The last 4 weeks. Stats: Age 32. Wife 32. Married 8. 192 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% Physical Bench:185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 I'm going backpacking for a few days starting Friday. I've been looking forward to the trip all month. It should be some good exercise as well. That immediately got messed up. I ended up having to go to the West for 3 weeks for work instead. Going to try again if the weather isn't too cold in the near future. Worst case I'll plan for early spring. While I was gone I didn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 07:37 PM
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Do you think you are just setting difficult but attainable goals instead of having a mission? Its a principal instead of something finite. So “ having an awesome life” isn’t something just hit and have forever. It’s constant work and always comparing things against it. Being a ripped mother fucker is a component of it, not the sole reason for existing. And that’s true with all sorts of food things in your life. But once you hit all those goals then what. If just maintaining an awesome life isn’t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 12:27 AM
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Absolutely man. Don’t act like a school girl and just chill with a cool guy who happens to be a higher up. Act like the status doesn’t mean much. He would set some boundaries if he didn’t want to be around someone.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 12:18 AM
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Yeah. I’m not going to recommend a 17 year old gets married as soon as he can. I agree that if you can’t control those urges and abstain then you should marry earlier as opposed to banging random women. Controlling those impulses is so much less painful than a rough divorce because of marrying too young and picking a bad mate. I was encouraging OP to focus on building himself up instead of just reading about sexual strategy. And as far as why would he need marriage if he stayed pure till his 20s…
/r/RPChristians15/11/19 12:49 PM
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Yeah. Your brain continues to develop until you are 25. Impulse control is very difficult at your age. It still isn’t great at my age, 32. At this stage I would say do your best to enjoy female company and be comfortable around it, but not to the point of sinning and making anything to large out of it. This is your youth. Enjoy it is male fellowship and learn yourself during this time. I’ll look up the scripture later to support this later. My plane is about to take off. So the general red pill …
/r/RPChristians14/11/19 10:16 PM
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Its easy to read but harder to enact. It’s feels like the problem is replacing a mission with a goal. It is bound to give you a crisis. It’s the dog finally catching the car. Once you reach the goal you have built years of your life around you are left with nothing else lined up behind it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 09:59 PM
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How long you wait to get married is really only a question you can answer. I would advise against doing it in your early 20s or younger. You didn’t post your age but I’m assuming you are mid to late 20s? Maybe you are even younger. As far as how to control urges and make yourself wait, it is much easier if you don’t casually date till you are ready to look for the one to marry. Instead focusing on yourself, your ministry, your friends, anything else. Education, sports, traveling, training, havin…
/r/RPChristians14/11/19 09:49 PM
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This is childish nonsense. Nothing of value here.
/r/RPChristians14/11/19 03:08 AM
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You are right man. I needed to hear that from the king of frame himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 05:04 PM
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You have a lot of hippie nonsense going on. Ayahuasca retreat, Epigenetics coaching, "taxed my nervous system and I felt wiped and sick afterwards" You are taking a psychoactive drug instead of dealing with your mental issues. You are seeing a quack who makes you think that your genes are so unique that you need someone to tell you exactly what you can eat based on them. You are blaming feeling sick and tired on too many reps and your nervous system. Dude. Face your issues head on and stop prete…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 03:54 PM
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OYS 43 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 192 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% Physical Bench: 185 Squat:300 Deadlift:355 I feel good. My hands are a little fucked still and my hip is sore/tight from all the squatting, but over all I feel good. I've stalled on gains mostly. I'm not sure how much of it is injury related and how much is training wrong. I'm blowing through Bigger Leaner Stronger right now. I've seen too many people talk about it not to read it. 50% through the book, so I haven't read any specifics…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 03:21 PM
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OYS 42 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% Physical Arms are still somewhat fucked. I've been running, doing ab work, and working front/back squats. Hit a new max of 300 before my form started suffering too much. I don't use a belt and hit parallel or below. My lower cross issues are largely gone. Back pain decreased. Upper cross is getting better too. Better flexibility. I tripled my VitD sup and started taking a 1/4 pill of the AI after each injection (2x/wk). It has only b…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 06:18 PM
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Never posted much because my journey was mine and I didn’t know how much it would actually add to the community. If you are taking about not posting to the OYS posts, shut the fuck up. You didn’t post out of fear and ego. And you didn’t swallow shit. The fact that you mention hysterical bonding in the title and then make no mention of you cheating on your wife makes me think you are using is wrong. What is it you are calling hysterical bonding? I’m sitting here after the worst month of my life a…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 06:58 AM
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Seems like projection and jealousy. Projection: "stop feeding this into your ego" Jealousy: "What you’re talking about is called CBT. Widely studied and nothing new." Read: It should have been me getting the attention and upvotes! I'm smarter than this guy and I already knew this AND another name for it. The other guys need to know I'm smart too. I personally like the simplification of the idea in your post. Very well might help some people make that mental connection finally.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 06:31 PM
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For real, where are the rules at now? It seems like I haven't been able to find shit since the reddit redesign. I've seen you reference rules before with others and looked for them. On the side bar I don't see any but there is a link to the Posting Quality Guide. First, let's address the general rules of posting. Here is the complete list of posts and comments which are not allowed on the subreddit. No concern trolling No bitching No shaming Moralizing Tone policing Harassment Solicitation Lacki…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 09:47 PM
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OYS 41 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% Physical Ulnar nerve entrapment... Doc told me to stop all Olympic lifts for a while. I'm limited to just stretching and ultra light weight with nothing over head. I hate it. It got worse and Doc banned me from anything involving grip. I can stretch, run, use my abs, and legs. That is about it. I can mostly feel my hands again. If I bend my elbow too much or the wrong way it will go numb still. He said I can try again in a month or t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 01:34 PM
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OYS 40 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Was feeling better after a several weeks with the sports med guy. Went a little harder in the gym. Fucked my arms up. Ulnar nerve entrapment. When it flairs up, my hands are in constant nagging pain when they aren't numb. Makes it difficult to sleep. Incredibly frustrating how much it limits me in the gym/life. Got my forearms dry needled and it helped. Doc threatened me with an epidural if I don't stop pushing too hard and …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 09:15 PM
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I wish I knew the answer to that one. I think about that at least once a day. It's why I read I'm reading all these books and trying new things. I'm looking for that answer or a way to shift my thinking. Most likely the answer is going to be something like "You just choose it". So simple and difficult at the same time.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure I follow. Are you asking what I do to attempt it? Or is it more of a philosophical question? Choosing to be happy in spite of any other circumstance?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 04:34 PM
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My goal is to be happy, same as yours. I imagine the next question would be "What makes you happy?". I'm at that stage where I still don't know how to answer that. I picked up the Fuck Bitches, Get Money. Getting money doesn't satisfy like it used to. Neither does my career. I'm starting to get a good idea about what it is I do want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 03:56 PM
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“>” before the text quotes it like so
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 11:26 PM
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Alcohol as been cut to 2 nights a week. Still a decent amount and you make no mention of volume. Besides pointless calories, it promotes estrogen production. Your tits don't need any help. It also makes being fun and light around the house a bit more difficult. Its very difficult to smile and not scowl. Anger phase is very real. I went through several. Reading and understanding helps you get angry. You don't get mad at animals behaving like animals do you? The same goes for women. You should be …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 04:13 AM
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constantly parading any progress in front of the crab bucket Good on you losing weight but be careful doing shit like that. It can come off as you looking for some sort of validation. "Look at me mommy!" Whats worse worse than coming off like that is if you are truly looking for that validation that has been denied for so long. That is weak thinking. I have nightmares of 40-year-old fat spinster daughters living downstairs in the basement. I want grandkids, dammit. That is Goal 1. Got to keep up…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 04:01 AM
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OYS 39 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Crossfit 1-3x/wk & regular lifting 1-3x/wk. I've started seeing a sports medicine professional. It is going well. Dialed back on the workouts some to focus more strengthening the weak muscles that contribute to the imbalances. Less pain over all. I'm up to injecting 140mg/wk split between two injections. I think I've hit the peak with this dose. Pushing for another increase no matter what numbers come back. Next appointment …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 03:43 AM
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OYS 38 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 8. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Crossfit 1-3x/wk & regular lifting 1-3x/wk. I've started seeing a sports medicine professional. It is going well. Dialed back on the workouts some to focus more strengthening the weak muscles that contribute to the imbalances. Less pain over all. Seeing some positive results from TRT. I'm up to injecting 140mg/wk. Still true. I think I've hit the peak with this dose. While much better than before, I'm still not where I used …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/19 02:55 PM
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send back an undercooked steak No such thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/19 01:37 PM
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What a fucking idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 08:30 PM
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I went back and read your past 6 or so OYS posts. I think your relationship is dead and neither of you care enough to try and mend it. I'm not sure you ever tried really. Looks like the first chance to exit, you took it. There is a reason they call new RP guys children with dynamite. You learned some shit and hauled ass. You said you met with a lawyer to understand your options. You have already gone rambo and care more about punishing her than fixing anything. You are too angry and she doesn't …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 08:26 PM
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I had just come from the plant wearing loose fitting fire resistant carhartt and steel toes. He liked em rough around the edges. I dialed back some of the more colorful things I used to wear in general. Opting for simpler and well fitting clothes. Only time I wear the things you hate is when I’m out on the boat or at the beach. I’m figuring this shit out. A fair amount of lying to myself has been both helpful and harmful. But I get your meaning.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/19 04:26 PM
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This is the son about to enter the military? I can't compute how stupid of an argument that must have been. A near grown adult getting fussed at for going outside barefoot. Someone society had deemed able to fight and die for the country... getting fussed at for doing a quick task with naked feet. Someone cares way too much here. Maybe it is a culture thing but I never wore shoes growing up. I'm 32 and still go outside in bare feet all the time.
/r/RPChristians29/08/19 06:45 PM
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Cause and effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 09:23 PM
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Some of your other shit might fall into place or be easier to manage if you start to address some of those vices. You have so many, who knows what it is doing to your mind. I had a major issues with porn, video games, attention seeking, alcohol, and some drugs. They were at different stages of life and in different combinations but they all mess with your mind to some degree. I used them as coping mechanisms starting with a shitty childhood. Maybe you are doing the same. It makes that shit even …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 04:27 PM
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Game: Getting sucked into a lot of her frame, Need to anticipate her moves based on her cycles. She's very edgy and anxious if she's tired or on shark week/preshark week. Taking pressure off her by stepping up kids discipline should help. Goal – Make abundance mindset happen, keep initiating and drawing her into my frame. I work at an engineering firm as well. We can think a little too much along the lines of C&E. I see that here. If you are trying to counteract her moves then you are playing he…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 04:06 PM
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OYS 37 The last 6 weeks. Some death, a little sexual harassment, a minor assault, some grinding, yet somehow things are better. Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 195 lbs. 6'0. BF:14% Physical Crossfit 1-3x/wk & regular lifting 1-3x/wk. I enjoy crossfit and have seen plenty of gains with it. I missed regular lifting still. I tried going to a McGym to supplement but it wasn't what I was after. Convinced a friend who has been neglecting lifting to start again. I stop by his place on the way home f…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 03:57 PM
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There is no question here. You seem to just want attention and know you would get banned if you posted this dumb shit in MRP. So what is it that you really want? Hoping for a little validation and circlejerk of "women are dumb. please associate my lifting hard with the man I just posted a picture of" ?
/r/askMRP13/08/19 05:50 PM
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Sexual aversion is conceptualized as a phobic reaction to sexual contact and, in many ways, is more similar to an anxiety disorder than to a sexual disorder. In the DSM-IV-TR, it is defined as the recurrent or persistent extreme avoidance of, or aversion to, all, or nearly all, genital sexual contact with a sexual partner. It can be so severe that an individual may avoid any type of physical contact including holding hands for fear that such contact may lead to sexual interaction. Well look at t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 06:16 PM
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Because I thought we were specifically talking about the times I have sex with her which specifically involves her. Like that very specific moment of escalation right before. Now I see you are talking about life in general and not something so specific. Got it. Are you really that needy? Does she ever get a chance to chase? I leave her alone for days at a time if I'm not interested in sex or am side tracked with a project or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 03:54 PM
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I thought I might, but a good enough chance to see if you saw something if I responded with what I'm actually doing. ...you're being reactive. So ignore all the weird shit she is doing and carry on like normal.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 03:46 PM
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Taken from the response I just gave to W&S. I swear she acts like an abuse victim. About half the time she will weakly fight me and it seems weirdly involuntary. After we are fucking I can hurt her, manhandle her, pull her hair, and talk dirty to her. But before that she seems sort of fucked up about it. I've pushed past it before testing to see if that is one of her things. Maybe her wanting to be a little combative but ultimately over taken but a stronger man. That was eventually met with sudd…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 03:41 PM
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I do notice how much I wrote about her actions. I bring it all up because it seems atypical in the ways she is working against it. I try not to get in her head too much but understanding the why I think can be helpful since she hasn't responded like the typical woman so far. What are you doing? I don't remember everything and have to re-read books but typically I do a mix of things from MMSLP, SGM, and suggestions from posts and comments in here. I do my best to game her through the day leading …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 03:40 PM
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I’m getting a lot out of today. All this time I’ve been viewing it as having patience and teaching a girl how to be vulnerable and let go. Brushing off her nervousness and forging ahead hopefully making her more comfortable over time. Seems I’ve given her no incentive to change it and I tolerate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 09:35 PM
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It is honestly only due to personal religious beliefs. I know you don’t have those hang ups and might find it hard to relate. I struggle with it myself. I either have to burn this down completely and start over or make it work while improving myself. If and when it becomes apparent that this is hopeless then I’ll burn it. But only after I know for sure I am no longer the fuck up and there is no hope for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 09:13 PM
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You're The Prize - by initiating after she refused, you're pursuing her instead. Damn it. Didn't put this together on my own. DEVI. Specifically Immersion in the moment. You nailed it again. Been working on Immersion most of all. She does stuff specifically to break immersion. On purpose. The mood is too nice? She will stop kissing to talk about something not sexual to try and stall or stop without overtly saying no. I'm rubbing her body or talking dirty to her? She will lock her arm protectivel…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 09:06 PM
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Fuck sitting around. Go be active. Lead you and your wife to do something fun. Spending time together can be great, but not sitting around like a fat ass. Think active dates. Not sitting down and watching and movie or going to dinner. She wants choreplay because she doesn't think you do enough/or is lazy and cuddles for comfort to feel good about continuing to not fuck you. Women hampster. All she knows is that she doesn't like you or want to have sex with you and her brain will make up all sort…
/r/askMRP16/07/19 08:57 PM
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Let's see. I should read that as "She views herself as higher SMV and believes she will be able to get what she wants from you still." Yeah, could be. Last time we hit this spot I took a hard line stance, started withdrawing attention and rejecting all the bad or unfavorable sex. She withdrew and got very cold again putting up those walls again. I could be wrong but I'm trying a different approach. Still reject what I don't want but make it flirty and amused. Give her nothing solid to aim at or …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 08:46 PM
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Whats funny is that I did say "What is in it for me?". Instead of answering she said "I don't want to do anything. I just want you to help me cum and then sleep." In the girly voice that means "just do what I want because I'm a girl". I laughed at her then told her what we could do that sounded fun to me. She still refused so I rolled over to go to sleep. She cuddled up against me so I started to escalate with what I wanted. She stopped again and got pouty. I said something teasing and then roll…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 08:35 PM
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OYS 36 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 190 lbs. 6'0. BF:15% I took a week and a half off from thinking about frame, gender dynamics, learning, progressing, game, the future, and all the shit I normally overthink. I was beginning to burn out and I could feel it coming. This was also during a week I was out of town working with several other guys. Work 12-14 hours, eat with the guys, read a little, sleep. It was good for me. I came back with fresh eyes and saw where I've been slipping. I put on…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 05:29 PM
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You haven't internalized anything yet and that is your main problem. Your responses show that you have a lot of trouble with rejection which suggests validation and emotional control issues. You are taking advice without understanding the reasoning behind it. Why is the advice to go to the gym, work on something else, or go to sleep? It isn't to hide how butthurt you are like you suggest. It is to go do something worth your time. In the early stages you won't be able to hide your frustration and…
/r/askMRP16/07/19 03:51 PM
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I don't have kids and have found it difficult navigating myself. I don't think anyone can really give you a concrete answer for your particular situation. I do think it has gotten to this point because of inaction over smaller things that taught her how she can behave with no consequences, but that doesn't help you right now. Number 1 is an excuse. If you wife is not capable of managing your son when you aren't home then she won't be when/if you get divorced. I do not believe it is wholly your r…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 09:19 PM
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Hmm. So you helped a guy to get raped. Or you made the story up for effect. Either way, well written.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 08:42 PM
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I read a lot of the responses, but not all. Why don’t you ever leave when she is freaking the fuck out and won’t let it rest. Over all great progress in a tough situation but you don’t seem to make her feel any pain from stomping all over what should be a boundary. If her dread is so ramped up imagine how effective walking out of the house and coming back several hours later or the next day would be. Go do something more worth the time besides be a punching bag. Remember DARE? Remove yourself fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 08:30 PM
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Try again.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 08:02 PM
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Get all your mental shit in order and post in the OYS next week (Tuesday). You got a decent answer to your victim puke already. Look through the current week's OYS and get an idea of what OYS is and see how others are doing it. I'm never sure how guys end up finding askMRP without stumbling on the weekly OYS sticky on MRP first. Here is another sticky you may have missed somehow. Fucking read it all.
/r/askMRP14/07/19 01:36 AM
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A good barometer of your frame and emotional control is how upset you get at random people on the internet. You are starting to seem butthurt. You are deflecting attention away from yourself and insulting /u/HornsOfApathy to make yourself feel better. My quick take away from your post is that you are trying to control you wife. Wrong. Second thing is that you care what you wife is doing. "Countering your STFU". This isn't a move in a game or a cool new way for you to be a manipulative cunt. You …
/r/askMRP13/07/19 03:06 PM
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OYS 35 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 189 lbs. 6'0. BF:?? Last week I was happy about increased energy from the rising, and hopefully corrected dose of, testosterone. I complained about the decreased mental focus. W&S took time away from his invention to give me a tip about using lists and breaking things down. I've started doing this and it helps. My mind is still very scattered but it helps me remember what I was doing and make progress, even if it is small. My lifting is regular and heavy…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 08:08 PM
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Start t-therapy in couple weeks. For some reason I thought my levels were around 130; they're 450; too high for insurance. The free t (I think they called it SGH or SGV) was just under 10 so that got me qualified. I could have started last weekend but it wasn't in the budget. Insurance sucks so the first treatment won't be cheap. I missed your TRT section the first time. Be careful and proactive with this. They started me on too low a dose and I got all kinds of fucked up. 2-3 months of hell. My…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 06:38 PM
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I can't shave more than twice a week as it burns like fuck and I've been unable to find a decent cream/routine to help. But at least I'm not dragging a 5 o'clock shadow into the office on Thurs mornings anymore. I have an incredibly thick beard and sensitive skin prone to ingrown hairs. I personally only shave my face 3 times a week max. I shave my head every other day on average. I've tried multiples types of shaving gels, creams, butters, you name it. So far I've found that Paula's Choice PC4M…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 05:58 PM
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Time and place for everything. Good to have strength AND skill. Of course use strength to your advantage in a competition in your weight class. But most the time you are trying to get better at skill when you are rolling with your team mates. Its like using your weight against women and teenagers when you have a 40 lb advantage. Neither of you really get much out of it. Play the game, don't just do the dance. For sure when the time is right. Basketball might not be the best 1:1 comparison for ji…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 05:42 PM
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Great advice. 2 years ago I got a notebook and for 6 months I used it as a bullet journal. It helped organize that stressful time of life. It became too tedious though. I stopped using it everyday. It is a great notebook and I've kept it to use for work notes since then. Using it to include lists and help organize like you said feels good. I made a list like you said. I only have 5 major items for it right now. Going to take the most important and break it down on its own page and make it manage…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 04:15 PM
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OYS 34 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Overcame a major issue of mine. I am no longer dependent on my wife for my testosterone injections. I've found a way to administer my own injections. Fuck yes. Not being able to do that was wrecking my self image and I honestly believe it was having an impact on how my wife viewed me as well. The last section was most likely me projecting those feeling on her. Either way, it is no longer an issue. Energy is co…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 10:35 PM
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If the picture of parasites was in her blood, then it's probably legit. They took her blood and put it on the slide in the same room. It was hers. I'd still cautious though - there are plenty of quacks out there who misunderstand serology and want to tell everyone they've got chronic Lyme, chronic toxo, or some other BS. The clue is usually when they tell you that the medication only partly worked, and you need to buy herbals. Absolutely. He didn't hype it up or push anything like homeopathy her…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/19 02:42 AM
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I felt the same way for a little while. Enter Toxoplasmosis. Quote from the CDC. "Toxoplasmosis is considered to be a leading cause of death attributed to foodborne illness in the United States. More than 40 million men, women, and children in the U.S. carry the Toxoplasma parasite, but very few have symptoms because the immune system usually keeps the parasite from causing illness." Remember that her immune system is fucked though. Her problems started after she and 3 of her friends ate at a so…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 05:48 PM
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PHYSICAL: Weight: 207 Bench workout: 8 x 135, 8 x 175, 8 x 185, 6 x 205, 4 x 225 How tall are you and what is your BF%? And I assume you are doing more than just chest press? What has motivated me on my lifts this week was my wife getting all hot and bothered making comments about some guy who is super jacked (probably 8-10% body fat) in a show we are watching. Dance monkey. For whatever reason, my wife is also trying to eat more clean food. ...because she is following your lead and possibly dre…
/r/RPChristians19/06/19 06:26 PM
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OYS 33 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). I just passed the 2 year anniversary mark of discovering (M)RP. I don't feel any need to make a dedicated anniversary post like some of the guys. Maybe year 3 will be my year for that. In a nut shell year 1 was unfucking a lifetime of mental illness, emotional instability, and toxic thinking. Year 2 is what most guys start on; unfucking the unattractive behavior, killing needy validation seeking, developing fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 03:31 PM
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Don't blame it on hormones you fucking tool. You're being lazy and apathetic. I'm sure that is part of it too. No joke though, that shit effects you more than you realize. I never would have believed how much it messes with every aspect of life till I started fucking with it. As of this week it feels like my levels are back to where I started at least. I'm back on the grind. And at those salaries, you shouldn't be working for money, you should be working to pay for yourself. If I'm billable 6 mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 05:23 PM
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I'm not sure I found the exact page you were referencing on T-nation. I did go and search HCG on the site and read several articles. Only one had to do with HCG specifically and it was about using it instead of full blown TRT.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 04:49 PM
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Oh, I agree 100%. I'm attributing it to fucked hormone levels at the moment. The truly important stuff I'm maintaining. But in the other aspects I'm coasting like you said. The one place I'll disagree is in my work. I worked hard to get where I am. People seem to be really into "The Unchained Man" right now. Pretty much said the ideal work arrangement is to make 75k+ working 30 or less hours. I'm 110k+ working 20-30 hours/wk on average. I feel pretty good being where I'm at right now. Sometimes …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 08:17 PM
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OYS 32 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Testosterone Replacement Last round of bloods had me at 209ng/dL. Last week my dose got raised from 60mg/week to 120mg/week. Took the first split of 60mg Sunday. Going to take the next later today. Things should finally start improving. I'm hopeful again. Still tired with a foggy mind and low sex drive, but it is temporary. Career Easy money. I'm a senior in my job title. I don't have any upward progression to…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 07:48 PM
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I would roll with them the same way I would with a kid. Work in technique and not try and power through. Let them try stuff without being a dickhead using my strength and weight advantage. Unless they are of a higher belt then I try to stay alive.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 03:13 PM
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So what I'm about to tell you might not jive with your particular church's teaching, but it will all be from the bible and I hope helps to comfort you. Others in the sub might not agree with some of this either. I usually quote from KJV but I prefer another translation for clarity that I'll quote from today. You are welcome to look up the scripture in your own translation as well. As someone who laid down everything to Jesus (and lost my family because of it) Matthew 10:34-37 - "34 Do not think …
/r/RPChristians10/06/19 04:25 PM
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Chuck said anything I would have said and more. The one thing I'm going to add is that your frame still needs work. You are initiating and forcing the conversation but she is controlling it. She tried saying she doesn’t feel like I love her as much as she loves me because of how quickly I was willing to abandon ship over one mistake. You already know I have a fear of you leaving me and that just made me even more insecure about it. Giving her comfort rewards bad behavior. She is trying to negoti…
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 04:27 PM
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He was split on if he should move me to 100 or 120. Settled on 120 based on how I reacted to 60. Said he has a guy in the 800s only taking 50mg a week and another guy stuck at 600 taking 220mg each week. People react all sorts of ways. He wants to do blood work in 3 months unless I start feeling something and push to do it sooner. Said to call him in 4 weeks to talk about how I'm feeling. Said to call if I noticed any sort of nipple sensitivity like they were feeling like getting sore from rubbi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 01:24 AM
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Did your Dr. prescribe HCG? He did not. He did ask if I wanted to have any kids in the future. I do not. This is needed to keep your natural T production going and keeps your nuts from shrinking to nothing. Didn't realize it was keeping natural production going. Thought it had to do with with fertility more than anything. Doc told me there is something to inject if I'm worried about testicle shrinkage. Told me it isn't really a concern and most his patients don't notice much of a change. Your E2…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 01:16 AM
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MRP is for people who used to be married as well. Not too uncommon for someone to be single by divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 01:07 AM
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crossfit was fun but wasn't nearly strength focused enough for me Depends on the gym. Ours is really strength focused. I don't blame you for moving to a regular one if you aren't seeing gains. Either she's a lost cause or I'm unattractive. I'll bet on the latter. Don't be tempted to blame her till you get your shit in order. Sure fire way to slip into anger phase, especially since you have been fucking around for 3 years. I'm beginning to realize I'm addicted to quick dopamine fixes. Social medi…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 05:21 PM
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OYS 31 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). I took 3 weeks off from posting an OYS. I usually do better and come back with better focus and drive after a little break. Testosterone Replacement /u/hack3ge nailed the prediction. "at 60mg a week you are likely lower than when you started most of the week". I got my blood work done last week and had my follow up appointment this morning. My TT went from 340 to 209 ng/dL. My FT went from 10.3 to 7.8 pg/mL. H…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 05:01 PM
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I used to puke during BJJ sometimes. That thick ass gi holds in so much heat. I imagine the dobok does the same. Found out it was a heat tolerance thing for me. Heard salt helps with heat tolerance and nausea. Started drinking some salt water before working out or rolling. Worked immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 02:34 PM
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Alright homie, let's put a fine tip on this fucker. You want to stay with your wife and have a girl on the side who is having your daughter. Ideally I'm sure you would want to openly be with her sometimes as a second family. Modern day Morman multifamily type shit. Yeah? That the idea situation right now? Maybe I'm crazy but seeing as how both these women are still putting up with you I think you have a real weird chance at it if you spell out that shit. But that requires some rock hard frame to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 11:00 PM
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I actually have been hoping for the day MRP and RPC give each other valid feedback on OYS. RnRC did tell me "I would love to see more comments from MRP members, especially in our OYS posts." so I figured I'd give it an honest effort. A question I have then would be if RESPONDing to her threat is validating it then what would have been the proper action. Let me rephrase it. If you treat a threat as real, then it is real. Don't autistically assume you can ignore every threat and be ok, but largely…
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 10:39 PM
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Lets see. You were RP aware at least 7 months ago. Started posting OYS 4 months ago. I didn't read any of them besides today's. I wanted to see how long you have been around and still making rookie mistakes. You are aware of DEER yeah? You are Defending yourself and Explaining your actions to mommy in every other sentence. From what I see, you have a ton of guilt about your past actions and are firmly placing yourself in your wife's frame for some reason. "I need to confess to mommy and let her …
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 07:03 PM
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I'm 32 and several of my friends respond the same way when I voice an opinion that if RP in nature. It isn't just the newest generation. People wrap their identity into opinions. It makes rational discussion hard because someone sees you disagreeing with them the same as you insulting them at their core. Politics, medicine, science, gender dynamics... it all suffers from it. Needing some guidance, I’m curious as to how you live a life unrelatable to anybody else. You are thinking about it a litt…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 06:23 PM
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Just keep reading the side bar. That whole Marriage section reads pretty textbook. Was told it was because I was overweight and not dynamic. So switched it up, smashed it at the gym, was dynamic, lost 6 stone Women rationalize why they aren't attracted to you. Could be your weight or it could be the slightest of headaches that she just got. Either way, something about you is/was still unattractive and what ever she says most likely isn't the truth. No change! I felt duped and lied to. Welcome to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 05:49 PM
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I responded anyway since I’m a Nice Guy. I basically said that it was never my intent to cause her such unhappiness and asked her what I could do to heal this rift. And she wrote back a lengthy reply, not answering my question, but essentially saying more of the same. At least you know you did something stupid. I'm not sure you know why though. They way I read that is that she is doing shit to make you dance like the monkey you are. She isn't telling you exactly what she wants because chances ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 05:10 PM
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I actually agree with you. I'm a christian and find RPChristians a little soft as well, but still helpful and a good community of people. Redpill is amoral and I'm fine with that. I use my the tool box (RP) within my own morals and don't care how others use it with their own morals. I think TRP can be a little much at times. There is great information but I see a decent amount of trash. Reading some of the posts and comments I see too many bitter MGTOWs, children who clearly don't know what they…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 06:17 PM
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Faggot games win faggot prizes.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 04:11 PM
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You are a young single guy who has never been married correct? I personally don't really see you posting in MRP as an issue but your experience is going to be much different that the other guys here. You had a 1.5year LTR which isn't even in the same ballpark as being married. Basically you had a girl friend from age 18-20. There is a reason MRP is called hardmode. You don't get to reset with a new woman all the time. Want to lean bulk but I have no control over the majority of my diet (living a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 03:52 PM
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I thought maybe you were just being harsh. Checked his post history. Has actually done nothing. RP aware for just over 30 days. Claiming the sub "saved" him...
/r/askMRP22/05/19 09:42 PM
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Where do you administer it? Everything I've seen so far is stomach. I'll check out that page later tonight and do some reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 10:20 PM
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Well shit. You just handed out a nice little manual. I think the answer in dealing with my wife is somewhere between the posts by MitW and your post here. She is absolutely FA, which I didn't have a name for before right now. Found some minor success with everything MitW broke down for me once as well as his other posts. But she starts withdrawing after too much intimacy or trying to escalate too often. Intimate (not sexual): she freaks out and tries to distance herself or push me away, be mean,…
/r/askMRP16/05/19 09:56 PM
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Lol. Been hanging on to that one have you?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:36 AM
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OYS 30 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Testosterone Replacement This has dominated my thinking and much of my life for the past 3 months. My inner game is fucked because I'm dependent on my wife for the injections due to an extreme needle phobia. As several people have pointed out, my dose is way too low right now. I'm likely lower T than when I started. As a result I have less energy, more depression, more self image issues. I haven't fallen apart…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 06:40 PM
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Lifts: 205 lbs bench is my 1 rep max, 225lbs squat 1 rep max Those lifts seems strange. What is up with your low squat compared to your bench? Very recently I am realizing how much losing my mom early (6) might have really, really fucked me up with women. I want her (my wife- maybe standing in for my mom) affection so much, it’s really pathetic. Therapy isn't a bad thing. On the other hand, my Father in law is a super alpha and he was an orphan. My grandfather was an orphan. Lied about his age a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 09:21 PM
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12 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 12:57 PM
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It could be that she is just an unhappy fuck with mental issues that everyone, including her family, knows. I don't have many expectations of her, she's a SAHM, kids are in school, outside of cooking a meal a couple nights a week and some laundry, she doesn't have much on her. I make good money and we have lots of support. She should not be stressed out given the circumstances, I don't know what she resents me for but half of every week is the silent treatment. Maybe this is it. She could be bor…
/r/askMRP08/05/19 05:48 PM
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I got off the AI right when we talked about it. The low E2 symptoms stopped 2 weeks after that. You need to be more assertive with your doctor and tell him you can tell shit isn't right and don't wait. I'll call him up again. Problem is I'm a choosing beggar in this area where I live. Took several weeks to even find someone who would agree to treat me. So many men in this area have no other options that he is slammed constantly. I had to wait 3 months to even have my first conversation with him.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 05:15 PM
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OYS 29 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). I'm tired of the format. Testosterone Replacement 57 days of TRT. 60mg of TestC 1xWeek. I think 57 days is long enough to know that my shit is too low. Nothing I can do about it right now. Slog through another 5 weeks of this till Doc accepts my labs. 2 weeks after that we get to talk about them and make any needed adjustments. 7 weeks. Back when I was boxing the coach would always yell out, "Push! Win the fig…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 04:00 AM
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I think it’s all about moderation. From what I have seen you have never pushed anything so hard that it feels like spam or a money grab. The amount of good you have done for the community earns you a little shill time in my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 02:39 PM
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Head on over to /r/askmrp before you catch a ban. The short answer. Your frame sucks. You are in her frame. You aren't your own judge. How do I notify my counterpart that I would like to do something and plan it and do it in a way that’s respectful of her and our relationship without relinquishing control to her. Or worse yet her thinking she has that control. Because she really wouldn’t. But her thinking she did would cause enough problems. That is a fucking mess.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:59 AM
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OYS 28 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Testosterone Replacement 50 days of TRT. 60mg of TestC 1xWeek. I stopped taking the estrogen blocker (Anastrozole). I got some great advice and realized some pretty bad side effects were due to my estrogen crashing out and not a pinched nerve like I assuemd previously. Symptoms improved by about 75% over 7 days. Still have some minor pins and needles from time to time. Like someone pointed out, shit is going t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:55 AM
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It all comes down to frame, my friend. Are you in control of your emotions and actions or not? Ultimately, you are only in control of yourself. If other people's actions get you upset for years, you have weak frame. Understandably, not all actions are created equal. I'm primarily talking about what you referenced. Someone standing you up or being rude, not your spouse cheating on you or your junkie cousin scamming your grandmother's retirement money out of her. There is an appropriate amount of …
/r/RPChristians30/04/19 03:00 PM
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You are an adult in charge of yourself and another person. 1 Corinthians 11:3 " But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." As a man you are the head of the household. I am assuming that it is just him and his wife at this point so "Yourself and another person." No room for hurt feelings because things aren’t going how you imagined. People tend to idealize things, especially marriage. Its very difficult to…
/r/RPChristians29/04/19 08:49 PM
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STFU and sidebar are very important, yes. There is no substitute for it. But looking back on my first year of marriage I would say pay special attention to managing your ego and protecting against covert contacts. Set correct boundaries early and dispassionately. Showing kindness isn’t the same as being a pushover nice guy. So many guys messed that up. Myself included. I’ve seen too many Christian guys put too much personal self worth into being a “virtuous” person and think too much of themselv…
/r/RPChristians28/04/19 04:24 PM
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It always annoys me when people post questions in askMRP but don't post in OYS. Shows a lack of commitment or caring. I did some skimming through your post history to get a sense of you for some reason. I found some shit in there you need to address immediately. That or just give up now. Hotwifelifstyle... really man? Hard fucking stop to that nonsense right now. I saw that your post 4 months ago mentioned you aren't into the lifestyle... yet. If she is the one who suggested it, and I imagined s…
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:58 AM
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Relationships should primarily be woman's work. This man needs to focus on fixing himself right now, relationship be damned.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:28 AM
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Don't be a bitch? You are going to think I'm kidding or being curt. I'm not. It's advice sort of like "Be Fun". It is different from person to person, but essentially... Stop being a bitch. Like HB said, your post seems rushed. You mind is most likely all over the place. Chances are you are all in your feels and quickly posting to askMRP because you can't calm yourself down long enough to figure it out yourself. Classic bitch behavior, looking for others to change the way you feel. So, you know.…
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:25 AM
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Holy shit that hair. The fucking Mississippi Claw. That is ban worthy alone. I think I’m seeing the problem here. You are assuming he can read well enough to muddle through a real book. Anything more than 1000 words and he can’t focus.
/r/askMRP22/04/19 03:40 AM
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After talking with another guy on TRT yesterday I realized that the tingling in my hands/arms/back wasn't just a pinched nerve. Its been getting progressively worse for 4 weeks to the point I thought an old injury might have caused some pressure on my spinal cord. More than likely though the AI crashed my e2 and I'm feeling those side effects. Called my doc this morning and talked about it. Stopping the AI but he doesn't want to raise my dose til he sees my blood work a month from now. Annoying …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 05:58 PM
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Hate the zipper. That makes it a jacket, not a hoodie. I'll accept that reasoning. I don't hate that jacket, but I can't say I'd ever think about buying it. Now that I'm thinking about it, I'd still try it and see how it looked. I'll have to see about tailoring it Beyond suits and dress clothing I've never had anything tailored off the rack. I buy athletic cut to avoid that shitty boxy look a lot of rack stuff has. Not sure if a good tailor really exists around here. I should check though. You t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 08:58 PM
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I'm starting to get worried about that actually. I've done some reading and saw many people say the same thing as you. My e2 was already high before starting the 60mg. Doc told me they normally wait to start people on a blocker to see how it effects their e2 levels first. But because mine was already pretty high he didn't want to risk pushing me even higher. I'll call him and see about getting blood work done earlier to see if its crashing. I forget the dose but its half a pill on monday and thu…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 07:20 PM
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Jesus I hate your dress style. Ha. I'm aging out of it I suppose. I'm absolutely going to be that 45 year old at concerts still, but the rest of it needs to age up. Emo hippie wannabe. You can chill out on that shit. I'll accept hipster douche wannabe, emo and/or hippie is too far. I don't know if you saw where SBIII mentioned Reiss, but that actually does seem like the perfect toned down version of what I like. Example I do love hoodies. The exact one I wore most this winter. Curious how much y…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 03:49 PM
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Engineering firm in the deep south that is incredibly relaxed. The owner typically wears a polo, khakis, and white tennis shoes every day. Everyone younger than 45 typically wears polo, jeans, tennis shoes. Everyone older wears those fucking horrible fishing shirts or a polo, khaki, and tennis shoes. There is an exception here and there. One project manager hasn't worn a collared shirt in 3 years. Another guy goes full dress and sport coat. When I first got hired 5 years ago I dressed like the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 03:09 PM
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Maybe? In high school I played in bands and went to punk and indie shows constantly. Festivals and concerts all through that time and college. So take the stereotypical indie kid and age him up to 32 and make him slightly more serious. Kind of an asshole who constantly makes jokes and teases people, but generally nice at heart? Most people are pretty comfortable and chatty with me except men who get their feelings hurt easily. Is that an aura? Dumb way to try and narrow this down, but you ever w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 04:49 AM
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Here we go. More what I was looking for. The other advice was alright and appreciate the time taken to write it. Sports jackets and monk strap aren't really my thing. These are my favorite dress shoes to wear with suits or dark jeans + button-up. These are essentially what I wear every day to work now. Different colorways and styles but its all kind of the same. I don't mind spending money for shoes and suits, but the thought of spending 100+ for shirts fucks my head up though. Reiss is legit du…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 03:27 AM
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Dear diary, I've been a grumpy fuckface for too damn long. Constantly forget the importance of keeping a positive mindset and being fun. Still grinding but took two weeks off OYS. Last few felt like publicly documenting my TRT process mainly with nothing else being noteworthy. I'm not getting the revelations like I once did. 60 DoD came at a good time for me to take stock and see where I'm standing. OYS 27 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Testostero…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 05:26 PM
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Hell yeah dude. I almost skipped reading anything in this week's OYS. This post made the click worth it. The other guys told you all you need to know right now going forward. Keep that good stuff up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 03:59 AM
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Was hoping someone would mention skin care this week sometime. I've been shaving my head for about 6 years now. I've started to notice my skin is looking less than stellar this year. 6 years ago I would just use some aftershave and occasionally face lotion. I am not consistent with it. I did a little research and saw some people recommending shea butter as a moisturizer for bald guys. It has the equivalent of 6-10 SPF that is natural as well. Only been using it for about 3 months now. Got any op…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 07:10 PM
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Good job not murdering anyone. Proud of you.
/r/RPChristians08/04/19 05:14 PM
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Lol buddy. Take a step back and look. You spent around 2 hours making 4 posts defending yourself against someone who honestly does not care. /u/rocknrollchuck has the patience of a saint treating everyone here as calmly as he does. I’m not trying to AMOG you really, but I did want to see how your fragile fame dealt with a one word response. You exceeded my expectations. You have zero frame man. Sad but true. I’m not being a total jerk just for the sake of it. People with strong frames can brush …
/r/RPChristians07/04/19 11:31 PM
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Do you get it? Do you understand? Nope
/r/RPChristians07/04/19 08:11 PM
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Oh boy. Your title has it completely right. You are living in a fantasy world right now and using Christianity as a way to protect your ego. Every cute girl I make eye-contact with gives me those lovey-dovey eyes. Even if they're holding their boyfriend's hand. You are making yourself feel better imagining these women would just throw themselves at you if you were able to get past those pesky restrictions. Since 2009 when I was 23. College girls flirting with me like crazy Because they are colle…
/r/RPChristians07/04/19 04:41 PM
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After wife turned down for sex, I disengaged and stopped talking. We had been talking before and I think there was a covert contract. AKA acting butthurt. Did you shut up immediately and act like an autistic mute? Because it sounds that way. I left something RP open on the laptop a few months ago; I'm more careful now Once you start making noticeable changes you ass is going under the microscope. Tighten up. I eventually apologize for shutting down. I think in retrospect I should have left for t…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/19 04:31 PM
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Don't talk about us like that. /s
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 03:18 PM
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I'm not fat and I essentially did that for a month for fun. I'd drink coffee with 2 Tbsp of butter in the morning. (200 cal, 24g fat) .5 lb chicken at lunch (250 cal, 52g protien) ~1lb steak and another Tbsp of butter for dinner (900-1100cal, ~90g protien, ~82g fat) Total at the end of the day would be ~1350-1550 cals, 144g protien, 110g fat. Lifting was hard as shit, but I felt great and lost about 10lbs. 185 down to 175. It was actually hard to even eat that much and often I'd eat less than 1l…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 07:16 PM
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Some people just want to argue or "prove" they know marginally more while expending 2% of the effort. Nice post. A calorie is a calorie. Sure you need differing levels of protien for muscle growth and fat for brain function, but that isn't the point. If milk makes you shit water within 5 minutes, don't drink it. If you feel like shit eating gluten, don't eat it. If you are eating a perfectly tuned diet for your snowflake body but are still taking in 1000 calories more than you burn, it means not…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 06:45 PM
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Doing Cardio work because I get winded going up stairs. Using machines at the Y until I can see a Dr. about my shoulder. You will have to start lifting at some point, so don't use your shoulder as an excuse for too long. I have a shit ton of injuries myself, including a fucked shoulder. You can't do it if you are smart about it. Don't be one of these idiots who thinks you can somehow get by without lifting. My guess would be that you don't really know what you are doing right now anyway so go ah…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 09:40 PM
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Alright, I'm in. We edit this initial comment to include goals and report success I'm guessing?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 03:22 PM
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She pulled back saying she still wanted to have sex, but she wanted more emotional connection first. I’m not sure why, but I just kind of shut down. I had no desire to connect with her emotionally and only minimal desire to continue pursuing her sexually. "The great advantage of LTR sex over a ONS or STR is its potential for intimacy; sex with the deep emotional and physical interplay based on profound knowledge of and raw, unfiltered interaction between each others' bodies, minds, and emotions.…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 06:19 PM
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Hell yeah, man. Light at the end of the tunnel. Can't imagine dealing with that level of stress and bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:49 PM
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Very true. I think it is a symptom of me being passive lately. I'm letting shit slip. I had it tight for a while. I broke her of just spending how ever she wanted earlier after becoming RP aware. She asks me before anything more than daily expenses like groceries, gas, necessities. I've been questioning myself too much lately. Counter-intuitively, if you limit her, she'll appreciate things more and won't want to buy as much. Maybe I haven't been as restrictive over certain things as I should, ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:21 AM
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I can follow that logic but, nah. Wish it was just that. I don't fuck with covert contracts like that. I have no intention of keeping her happy because I'm after sex. If anything I think it is something deeper, like I feel sorry for. I don't think she is the prize, but I don't consistently think I am either. There is a prize-less void there, where it should be me. I have some self image issues to be sure. I think that is most likely the root of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:13 AM
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Ingrained BP shit I'm guessing. Feeling like I'm denying her something I can afford, but don't want to spend money on. I enjoy when my wife happy and she tends to be happy after getting something she wants. Even though I know I'm the "responsible adult" its a feeling of depriving her of something. It is stupid guilt.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 05:33 PM
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OYS 26 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Physical/Testosterone Replacement Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 285x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 295x1 Tested my squat max this week. Up to 285 from 265. Nice to see progress. I irritated the shit out of my left shoulder and ribs fucking around with snatches. I swear I hurt myself every time I start feeling comfortable with these fucking things. I should just write them off for a while. Maybe for good. I want to te…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 08:18 PM
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I've been doing my injection on Sunday night. The first injection being the 3rd. Supposed to take about 4-6 weeks to really notice a change. I'm at 10 days and I can't really tell a difference. I'm pretty sure the vial I have is 200mg/mL. So I'm injecting 60mg each week currently. Your doctor isn't familiar so I'll tell you how mine is treating me at first, in case you haven't given much thought to dosage. Seems low in my mind and even he mentioned I might need to have it increased after bloodwo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 08:51 PM
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The guy I'm seeing is a specialist. All he does is balance hormones and 90% of it is for men. Been at it for 10+ year if I remember right. Seems to know his stuff and has a lot of anecdotal evidence through his patients results where he has tweaked what he feels is the best range for certain things like E2 and FT. Since you are doing much of this research on your own I'm happy to answer any questions I can based on what he has told me, if you find that helpful. I'm curious what the Free Testoste…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 07:15 PM
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I don't know how useful my advice is going to be. I wouldn't say it is purely MRP either. All I have is my personal experience. I grew up with a father who traveled a ton for work. He also worked long hours at the office and worked nights at home. He did it in the name of providing for the family. I don't know how true that is. I personally think he did it because he didn't want to be around us much. He had a large ego and he made his work his pride. All I do know for sure is that we didn't (and…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 08:52 PM
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OYS 25 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. 12% (Navy) - 14%BF (calipers). Physical/Testosterone Replacement Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 295x1 I've reached a few benchmarks. Form is continuing to improve. ROM is increasing slowly. I can do bar muscle ups and strict handstand pushups against a wall now. Still working on ring muscle ups, strict muscle ups, and any sort of handstand balance. One week in with TRT and an estrogen blocker. I don't feel much di…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 05:44 PM
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That was ~3 weeks before starting TRT.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/19 12:59 AM
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I have about 5 pages worth of tests. I don't know the significance of all of it. What I do know is: My heart is great. No danger of diabetes. Estrogen higher than it should be. 33 pg/mL Total and Free Testosterone lower than they should be. TT 382 ng/dL. FT 10.2 pg/mL SHBG is 23.3 nmol/L. I don't know the significance of it really, but you asked about it. The reference interval is 16.5-55.9. So it is on the lower end. I have pretty high IGF-1. 257 ng/mL. Barely outside the RI 88-246. At my absol…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 10:56 PM
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When do you get your lab results? Also the 28th?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/19 07:25 PM
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Keeping track of how many times MRP offends you? Take a beat and read your own user name.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 07:17 PM
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What? No. I view the weekly OYS is for the past week or weeks if you haven't posted in a while. If you keep making live updates then you wont have anything for the next OYS. Plus I doubt people will read or pay attention to continued updates. Especially the guys who have the best insight. I did see where you moved this post to your OYS. I browsed through your history and saw that you are fairly new and figuring stuff out. Did you read the stickied post on askMRP? Especially this part? askMRP is …
/r/askMRP09/03/19 04:24 PM
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This isn't a question. This is barely a FR. If this must exist, it should be an OYS.
/r/askMRP08/03/19 04:41 PM
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33 pg/mL. Normal limits for men is 10-40 I've read. Doc said that is higher than he would like.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/19 03:16 AM
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OYS 24 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical/Testosterone Replacement The clinic worked me in early. I went Thrusday to get my results. TOTAL was 380 this time with FREE being 10.5. Doc told me that he wants me to have a FREE of at least 20 and it doesn't really matter whatever TOTAL ends up being. He guessed between 700-900 which is the upper third of "normal". My estrogen was also really high in the normal range. So in addition to the T prescription they …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 06:57 PM
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Without dissecting the interaction, this time around it very much felt like duty. There have been times where it has been a fun experience just like any other sexual encounter. When we were younger she would do it in a parking lot, movie theater, or in the car someplace. Semi-public is fun. Little to no emotion involved with the offers this week. Consistently fostering that more emotional environment is a challenge. In my mind I'm hitting all the similar notes as I did the first week I got your …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 03:51 PM
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Thanks. That isn't a horrible cycle I'd say. Helped others in the process of figuring out his own thinking. When it was time for him to move on from the social side of things, the record of it all was left behind. I've seen references to other respected RP and MRP users who imploded for one reason or another. Glad that wasn't the case for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 08:21 PM
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Did something specific happen with Jack? I've been curious why he just stopped one day. I've only been around a little under 2 years. I've read his comments and posts, especially when just discovering MRP. Even though his comments were incredibly long they helped me understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 07:19 PM
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It's like she wants to put conditions on the sex and needs to be either tipsy or half asleep to fuck, like she doesn't want to take responsibility for what happens. MitW gave me a ton of great advice about a month ago. Especially helpful getting me to understand her trying to impose a sexual script. I had/have my own emotion and validation issues as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 10:09 PM
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OYS 23 Stats: Age 32. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Been a better week. About half the days I've had energy enough to workout without gassing out immediately. Men's Clinic blood work came back. I don't get to know the specifics of the results until my appointment in March I guess. I asked them to put me on a list to call if there is a cancellation. Reading Current: Models, SexGodMethod Sex/Relationshi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:30 PM
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This stuff doesn’t happen over night. It took several years to dig that hole and will take some real work to climb out of it. Good start but I get the feeling you might be trying to change too much too fast and will burn out. You don’t have to fix every single aspect of your life on day one. Bingeing on MRP for 8 hours isn’t going to do it. Check out the levels of dread and start at the beginning. You seem to have a good attitude going into this. Changing your diet drastically (keto) and going f…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 05:32 PM
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100% correct. Its the only way I have known how to control her. She loves me because I abuse her. Its pretty sick, I know. Then you have missed the point of MRP I'd say. Stop trying to control her. Control yourself. Red Pill is about YOU. You are dancing around based on what other people are doing. If she cheats, fuck it. Leave. Mate guarding your messed up wife isn't going to solve anything, if anything it makes you look bad. Set a boundary like MitW said and stop jumping with each new thing. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 07:21 PM
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I've seen you post around MRP and askMRP. You seem to have a massive ego, and that isn't a complement. Even your "OYS", if you can call it that, points to this. You have two things to talk about. Career and Wife. You open with how amazing you are at work and everything is perfect. Next you compare you self constantly to this Ron guy tearing him down while also propping yourself up. Your hamster is going to catch fire spinning that fast. My wife and I are both codependents and latch on to fucked …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 05:14 PM
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OYS 22 Stats: Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 My appointment with the Men's Clinic doctor was Thursday. It was essentially a consultation before any sort of treatment. Talked about symptoms and if they thought the could do anything for me before doing all the tests. Long story short, they also think this is a low testosterone issue. Said that the total T count isn't really important but a decent…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 04:20 PM
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You didn't say much about this. If porn is an addiction for you, you need to break it. I went porn free about 2 months ago. I'm managing to stay clean of it and you are right, it did mess up a lot of things. I keep it in my goals as a reminder right now. The worst is over but I'll still have some cravings from time to time, but nothing I can't deal with.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/19 05:25 PM
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I wrote this up but didn’t know of the moderated 3 day limit for new accounts to post directly on MRP so posting here. I hoped by "directly on MRP" you were talking about the OYS thread. Looking at your post history I see where you threw caution to the wind and thought everyone in MRP needed to see your faggy behavior. That being said you got an incredibly good response in here from some of the best users. Be thankful for that and actually listen to them. They pinpointed several things you need …
/r/askMRP14/02/19 04:23 PM
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Jesus, it feels like there are more dumb fucks milling around this week than usual. Maybe I just don't pay enough attention to notice usually. Either way, happy to see when they get the boot.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 06:18 PM
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OYS 21 Stats: Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Still feels like I can't get well. I thought I might be getting sick the past month. Now it feels like a perpetual state of being. I'll have a couple good strong days, then feel like I'm anemic. I've had to wait 3 months to see the only Men's health doctor in the area isn't affiliated with insurance. He agrees that 340ng/dL is a low testosterone coun…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 08:34 PM
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He earn himself a ban? That is nice. I left the tab open because there was no way this post wasn't going to be removed by the time I checked it again. I wanted to read the fallout that was bound to happen in the comments over this rambling mess of a post.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 05:02 PM
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Its because I wrote /r/ instead of /u/ by mistake. Fixed it in my post. /u/man_in_the_world, if you want to check out his many great posts and comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 02:50 PM
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Thanks, man. It might be the first one that actually felt pretty good to write and post. Several of you guys have helped me tremendously.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 07:01 PM
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I'm no expert, but I recognize some shit that's familiar. I'm dealing with something similar. Have you read these two posts? Lack of emotion. Validation needs. So I think I'm going to start turning this down, telling her that I want more fulfilling sex that doesn't make me feel bad afterwards. I'm not sure if I want to lay this out affirmatively when we're not in bed or wait until she tries to offer it and then decline on these grounds at that point. I see this as a potential way to upset her ru…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 03:58 PM
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OYS 20 Stats: Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Gone to the gym a hand full of times the past two weeks. Felt really good for maybe 3 days then it all went down hill. Can't focus for shit. Feels like I can't get well. 9 days till the Men's doctor visit and hopefully put this behind me in time. Reading Along with my general energy levels and focus, my book reading has slipped. Read a decent amount …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 05:38 PM
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Wish reddit gave you the option to get alerted on any reply in a comment chain you are a part of. Just saw your comment while going back and reviewing this conversation before tomorrow's OYS. I think what you mention is great but too "advanced" to be put to use right now. We have very little immersion at all right now mostly because of how resistant she is. Could be something to do with me still, or just her own little mental issues. She gets anxious if the lights are on and I can see her too we…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 07:33 PM
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Man, everyone has pointed out you need some boundaries. Seriously read the post rocknrollchuck linked to. Multiple times. Here it is again. Here is one sentence you need to memorize from it. It is ok to plan an escalating way to defend the boundary, and try one thing after the other. But you must defend it. What I kept seeing in your posts is where you think you set a boundary, but a line in the sand doesn't mean shit if there is no recourse for crossing it. Know why she keeps going through you …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 05:34 PM
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Are you saying that you and your wife never have happy moments together? Never laugh? Never smile at each other? We have happy moments, sure. I make her laugh and smile all the time. I can't recall it ever going the other way though. I'll smile or laugh at something cute she had done but I don't think it is ever intentional. Lets just say there are no special attempts made for certain. Do you even like each other? I do and much of that might be the memory of all our time together. Remembering ho…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 04:23 PM
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It is a mixture of the two I'd say. I think that for most the same reasons that men tend to find this subreddit, I became unattractive for a while. But not before negotiating for sex, pressuring her to have sex with her husband because that is what she has to do, being needy. Everything that would cause someone to create emotional walls and be guarded. Nice guy stuff. Ok, don't go full bore just yet. She doesn't get emotional in a positive way really. Usually her getting emotional is when she is…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 02:42 AM
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Alright. I'm going to take this is seriously as I can. I read this several times the past 3 days, and then the two linked posts, and then the posts you linked in those. You have written some gold in the very recent past, so thanks for that. Anyway, kept it in the back of my mind all the days. Your wife's vision of 'good' sex as orgasm-focused and emotionally detached seems to me to be a limited, anti-vulnerable, emotional-safety-first approach to sex probably learned by her the hard way as a def…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/19 09:01 PM
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Have you read The Sex God Method? A while back I started reading it and eventually stopped because we were not having all that much sex and I was getting frustrated not being able to try and use what I was reading. I recognized that I had to be more attractive and work on my inner game much more as well. I got the broad strokes from the first half of the book and I did focus on not being the archetypical bad lovers. I recognized and lessened bad behavior based on that. From there I read MMSLP an…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 04:22 PM
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Thanks for breaking that down. If I understand this all correctly this all boils down to frame. I'm fairly positive she is going to put forth the exact same narrative the very next time I initiate. So I need to keep rejecting bad and unacceptable sex/terms but STFU while doing it. Refuse anything that even resembles negotiation. At what point would you have bailed out? Would you have just disengaged from the moment she started complaining and non stop talking? Just trying to ignore and power thr…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 09:37 PM
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OYS 19 Stats: Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Haven't worked out the past 2.5 weeks. Been very sick. Just starting to come out of is this week. Going to the gym after work today. Itching to lift something heavy. Reading Current: Models Next: Way of the Superior Male After I finish Models, I'm reading the books I haven't read yet starting from the top of the 12 levels of dread post. Addiction Por…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement. You guys help more than you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/19 01:20 AM
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It is something I've dealt with since I was 16. I know how to handle it. I go to a therapist once a month and learned how to keep things at bay over the past several years. It is just hell during an episode. Typically I have 1-2 really bad weeks a year. This was an especially bad one triggered by the lack of dopamine by stopping my addictive habits I'm guessing. Felt significant enough to mention and just talking about it helps. Best I can tell I'm on the other side of it. I'm really looking for…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 05:15 PM
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OYS 18 Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Form is getting better and my shoulder has just about fully recovered since tweaking it a month ago. Did some benchmark crossfit workouts and ended up shaving off 1-2 minutes on average since last year. Feels great seeing some progress. Goals Break addiction to pornography/sexual attention. This has been a miserable month if I'm being honest. I had no idea …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/19 05:46 PM
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I took some time and read the post you linked several times as well as all the all the posts linked in it. I followed it all the way down. You're focusing on her, what she thinks, and how to change it. I tend to think pretty linearly. Cause and Effect. So I observe the effect, my wife's behavior, to gauge the effectiveness of the cause. That is an easy trap to fall into. Especially when validation seeking sneaks back in. I get what you are saying though. For now I need to completely separate my …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 02:49 PM
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OYS 17 Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 177 lbs. 6'0. ~14%BF (calipers). Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 I have bad form and am correcting that before moving any heavier. It is getting better little by little. Mainly flexibility is the issue. Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 Shoulder has healed up enough to lift again. I've been working out of town the past two weeks and rested my shoulder. I'll test it out tomorrow when I'm back in the gym. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 04:45 PM
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I'm glad you got to share how much of an impact he has had on this community. I've never looked at what else he might have done beyond that one book. It is cool to hear him talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/18 04:55 AM
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Do you have to talk to him about getting it up that high or is it the normal practice to go ahead and jack you up to the 1000s? Curious of it should purposely talk to them about increasing to at least 800+ if they don't on their own.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 09:23 PM
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Unless they are calling them something else near where I live, we don't have nay men's clinics anywhere near by. I might could check the next state over if I had to. Concierge medicine is a new one for me. Never knew these things existed till now. There are a couple around here but they are 2k a year just to be a member. Is that about normal?I go to the doctor maybe 2x a year. I'm going to give the center I mentioned to steel a chance first. Should be about $500 in visits and then the perscripti…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/18 08:50 PM
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He absolutely isn't an endocrinologist. He is the general doctor I've seen for the past year and a half. So I'm assuming that is internal medicine? So update since we last spoke. I called up several places around here and spoke to the nurse practitioners. The first 2 pretty much said yes, if it isn't below that 300 benchmark they won't really do anything to help me. Last place I called said they don't partner with any sort of insurance so every appointment has to be covered out of pocket. BUT, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 03:20 AM
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Testosterone cypionate 10ml 200mg/ml. I'm talking about injections. Anything else is a half-measure and stupid expensive. Thanks. Do you think the pellets that are placed under your skin fall into the "half-measure" category? One of the clinics here seem to be all about them. You do it every 3-6 months it seems like. Injections are what, every 2 weeks or so? I do hate needles with a passion. I've finally gotten to where I can have blood drawn or get injections, but its a process. That being said…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:54 PM
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Stop trying to get insurance to pay. I should have clarified. I told him that I was willing to pay for treatment out of pocket no matter what insurance would cover. He, however, is unwilling to prescribe any sort of treatment unless it is within the approved insurance coverage ranges for some reason. you can get a 3 month supply of T for 50$ In the form of what? I don't know what the types of treatment are. I went to goodrx and just typed in testosterone out of curiosity. The default result was …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 03:34 PM
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Yes, ng/dL. I thought I wrote the units in the initial range. I didn't. Added now. I'd be looking to jack up endogenous production before jumping to medication. I've had a suspicion that my levels were low for a while and have been doing what is recommended to increase my levels naturally. I got tested after I had been trying to increase it naturally before ever knowing my testosterone. My guess is that I was below that 300 range before and I've managed to increase it to the level it is now, whi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 02:55 PM
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OYS 16 If you have dealt with low testosterone issues before please check out the Testosterone section if you have the time to offer your opinion. Age 31. Wife 31. Married 7. 177 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers). It has been a while since I've checked my body fat properly. I'll do that this week. Physical Crossfit/Lift 4xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 I've lost around 7-10 pounds now after changing the way I eat. 3 weeks now. Shoulder …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 10:07 PM
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If I know its just shit, sure. Makes sense. I thought maybe I wasn't clear enough and he thought I was saying the internet was determining my mood and evening. In which case I'd agree I'm a fuck up. I wanted to know what he had to say in that case so I clarified it. Point taken though.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 07:06 PM
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Its why I write as much as I do. I try not to hide my flaws or things I know I'm struggling with. This is OYS after all. Some of it came out in stages. I'm assuming you read some of my history or you wouldn't have mentioned ADHD. Omega behavior, reinforcing to yourself and everyone else that you are unfuckable. Fair point. The most recent form of sexual gratification is hard to let go of, especially when the behavior has been entrenched for years. Any other addictions you haven't mentioned? Not …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 04:25 PM
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What ever you decide on, just commit to it fully. I've tried keto. I've tried paleo. I've tried restricting foods. And you know what? I've had ok results. I've maintained weight, lost weight, and gained weight at different times. Mixed results with things that I know should work. The problem is I wasn't committing fully. I'd do it mainly but relax the standards when it fit my situation. On the whole I was eating pretty clean though. I should be great right? I'm going to tell you something that t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 09:03 PM
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OYS 16 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~17%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 5xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 Guy from my office is going to the gym with me now. Serves as a great motivator. He is a slightly out of shape guy who played sports in highschool. He is still pretty damn strong and lifting more than me. So instead of my normal 2-3 times a week, I'm going 5. Coming to the end of the 2nd week and I'm surprised…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 05:54 AM
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Thanks. I have a doctor appointment scheduled for the end of next week now. I'll have what I want to say locked and loaded. You mention injections specifically. I don't know much about any of this yes but I do know they have like patches and gels. If my doc recommends those should I push for the injections instead? I'm assuming you went through this yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 04:52 PM
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Same flawed nice guy thinking, that sex == relationship. Yeah. This is a harder process than I imagined it would be a year or so ago. Related, yes, but not interchangeable nor definitive. That is the key right there isn't it. Such a radical way to view it when you were raised super religious.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 04:51 PM
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I'm easily recognizing shit tests... She came in giving me some shit or comfort tests about why I wasn't in living room watching tv with her. I just told her I wasn't in mood to watch what she was watching. She probably sensed my butt hurt. ... are you ? DEER. Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize. You just explained your actions to a shitty acting wife. Tried some sexting, got shot down. "I don't want to play these games." Instead of blowing it off, I asked "ever?" she said she didn't know. I sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 04:58 AM
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OYS 15 I'm finally accepting some shit I've been trying to ignore. Age 31. Wife 30. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~17%BF (calipers) The shit I've been avoiding I have a massive amount of cognitive dissonance surrounding sex and morality. I've been incredibly reluctant to talk about it on Reddit or even in therapy. Raised incredibly religious and I still have a lot of those things ingrained in me. I'm stagnating because of it. Nice guys are passive aggressive. That extends in to sex. Cheating, masturb…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 07:21 PM
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OYS 14 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~17%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 3xweek. Squat: 265x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 I irritated my shoulder injury pretty bad doing snatches and handstand pushups week before last. Two friends of mine recommended ROMWOD recently and I've started doing that while giving my shoulder time to heal up. I think most of my repeat injuries are due to inflexibility anyway so I've decided to throw myse…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/18 10:40 PM
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OYS 13 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 3xweek. Squat: 255x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 I have a bunch of old injuries. I usually irritate one or another each week. Sometimes it is bad enough to make me rest and heal up. This was one of those weeks. I'll eventually have to have surgery on my shoulder. Reading Reading NMMNG, Sex God Method, 12 Rules for Life Mentality Overall it is sightly better …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 01:00 AM
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What is this site you guys are always finding these gems on?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/18 02:12 PM
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OYS 12 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 7. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 3xweek. Squat: 255x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 Reading Reading NMMNG, Sex God Method, 12 Rules for Life Mentality Recovered from dealing with my family. I've got an actionable plan for the future. Frame/Sex Last week was weird. My wife did some crazy shit when we were getting intimate that confused me to no end. Someone told me it was getting dangerously c…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 04:30 PM
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What a cute way to initiate. Yeah I thought so. Make my presence known, obviously get in her way, stretch, flex, give her the eye. Not sure about the Nice Guy comment. It's simple: she is not attracted to you and you're trying to Rambo her into sexual submission.There's a difference between escalating a soft no/LMR and misreading signals. She sent you a bunch and it seems you missed all of them. Maybe? I've gone rambo a few times over certain things, sure. There is some precedence here. Last tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 06:56 PM
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OYS 11 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 3xweek. Squat: 255x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 285x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 Reading Reading NMMNG over again during downtime at work. ~70%. (No progress made since last week. Work is busy) Sex God Method is on deck next. Need to read it again now that some progress is being made. I've been reading Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life in my spare time at home. House projects taking the …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/18 04:00 PM
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Are going Rambo in the bedroom Probably. You are referencing DEVI from Sex God Method yeah? I read half of that about 8 months ago determined it wasn't going to help me right then since everything else was so messed up. Its been in the back of my mind though. I'm sure what you mentioned is what is lacking. I'm going to read it again now that it can actually be useful to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 03:42 PM
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I've sat down to reply a few times but don't really have much to say. Everything you said is right. I was feeling rough that day but I'm back fairly centered. Thanks for the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 06:07 PM
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OYS 10 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Physical Crossfit/Lift 3xweek. Squat: 255x1 Bench: 185x1 Deadlift: 280x1 Goals: Squat: 290x1 Bench: 220x1 Deadlift: 340x1 Reading Reading NMMNG over again during downtime at work. ~70%. I've been reading Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life in my spare time at home. Less than halfway through. House projects taking the place of reading right now. Mentality/Medication Meditation is still inconsistent. 1-5x week. I tried a new time o…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 07:36 PM
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Agree and Amplify
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 07:14 PM
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Why should we help someone who disses us like this? (Lots of betas here, I guess.) Great way to way to learn is to teach, yeah? I fully expect this post to get deleted by a mod, but before then why not break down what he says to help myself. It isn't worth the time of the established guys to be sure. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 06:55 PM
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I'm recently unplugged. No you aren't. Since then I have been voraciously chewing through large amounts of written, video, and audio content to learn more about these red pill concepts. I've been working on myself for a few weeks now Starting to unplug, sure, but don't make the mistake that you have fully internalized all these concepts after cramming a few books. I've been married for 14 years. If you haven't moved on to the next post to to the length of this one, my question is: how long shoul…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 06:47 PM
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The negotiating BJ for 30 seconds and you'll go down on her was cringe-worthy. Maybe Chad can join you in the bedroom and keep time to make sure it's a full 30 seconds. I was stuck between thinking if it was cringey or if the time old game/promise of "just the tip" before fucking balls deep. I didn't plan on keeping time or even honoring 30 seconds. It was absolutely going to be a "I'm positive it hasn't' been long enough, keep going" sort of thing. Playing around with her with my dick in her mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:15 PM
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OYS 9 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Crossfit 3xweek. Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 255 x 3 Reading Reading NMMNG over again. About 60%. Work has slowed down this week so I should be able to cover some ground if I stay focused. I've been reading Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life in my spare time at home. Not exactly a RP book but I've found it helpful so far. /u/strategos_autokrator post history. Mentality/Medication Nothing major this week. Meditation is…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:14 PM
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I don't want to provide comfort via compliance at all. So my redirecting is usually focused on ignoring what ever benign thing she wants done and change the topic to something more positive. Talking about something fun we have planned soon for example. Nothing overly flirty but something we are doing together. The times I ignore them completely isn't helping in the comfort area. Like you said, might be why I'm getting tested a lot. These are comfort tests, not shit tests. Hmmm. Well I fucked tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 03:59 PM
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“You’re a pervert” - “You’re fucking right I am” I've said this exact thing several times. I switched to more of the matter of fact statement because the playful responses were not really working the way I was hoping. It started to feel more like a boundary issue and a constant insult. So I changed from being jokey to saying it plainly. Might be time to go back to AA since her attitude has changed some since then. You get the idea....have some fun, stop worrying that it might piss her off. What’…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 03:15 PM
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Meditation is spotty. I hit between 2-4x a week. Plenty of room for improvement. Just asking me about it got me to look at my current reminder time and change it to something easier to maintain than what it was before. STBX? Why is she not a current ex? I guess she didn't really turn around?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 03:08 PM
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OYS 8 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 185 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF (calipers) Crossfit 3xweek. Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 255 x 3 Reading Reading NMMNG over again. About 50%. I'm a slow reader and I've neglected it this week. Mentality/Medication Taking meds as needed to limit the side effects. Makes me less effective at home and work on the days I don't, but it is a trade off. Plan on taking them at least 2 days during the week to make sure I keep on top of work enough and a side benefit of be…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 05:37 PM
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Yeah that doesn’t sound like a shit test. They shit test when they are attracted to you. Sounds like she is taking steps to get you out of her life. Start reading and adjusting that attitude immediately. You are rambling and don’t have any direction. There is no quick fix here but you need to decide what it is you want and stop taking her into consideration. She feels depressed, she feels trapped, she doesn’t have income, she feels trapped with a loser, she convinced you to leave your home. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 03:25 PM
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All I'm reading here is you don't really have experiences with women - especially drunk women, especially drunk women with two year olds that go to the bars. That's accurate. I don't have much experience with women that don't know I'm married already or I've actively tried to game. Got married young and before that went from relationship to relationship without much over lap. Typically the girls I was into responded well so not much hitting on girls in bars. I was also a "good christian boy" so …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/18 03:34 PM
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OYS 7 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 180 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF Reading Reading NMMNG over again. Mentality/Medication Saw my psychologist for the first time in 3 months this week. I don't think I really need one at this point but I like being able to talk to someone about this stuff with no judgement to figure it out. Reddit and this sub are great resources, but saying things out loud and getting immediate responses is helpful. Frame After talking about my Wife's love of compliance tests, someone linked…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 07:27 PM
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I'm curious about the compositions of them all. I've actually never heard of Evekeo. Equal parts dextroamphetamine and levoamphetamine. Adderall is 25% levoampmhetamine and ~50% dextroamphetamine if I understand it right. I'm curious how the different mix effects things. Vyvanse has been pretty interesting so far since it is Lisdexamfetamine. Much smoother up and down since it isn't readily absorbed right away. The shitty thing is that it seems they can all effect your dick in some way. Weird th…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:16 PM
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I need to write down my boundries, as autistic as that sounds. I've read WISNIFG but its time I read it again after NMMNG. I've gotten better at fogging and the... I forget their names. Negative inquiry? Room to improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 08:39 PM
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You are right about it being hard to explain or related if you haven't had the experience. I don't mind talking about meds it in public. Someone in a similar situation might benefit or know something else we don't. ​ College Years Adderall XL - 40mg Results: Reasonable focus but hard swings between time release. SideEffects: Terrible stomach pain, Insomnia Early Working Years Strattera - 30mg(?) I don't really remember the dosage. Results: This shit doesn't work well, if at all. I've since had d…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 08:37 PM
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I took a look at your previous OYS posts. This is the first time you've mentioned medication that I can see. I talked about the issues some on my previous account, but the medication is relatively new. Haven't really mentioned it because I was figuring a few things out. Are you sure you actually need this medication to have a normal life? I'd much rather live without meds. This will be my 3rd time taking them. Struggled through high school but coped well enough. College was a different animal. N…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:33 AM
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OYS 6 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 180 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF Reading Reading NMMNG over again since it was pointed out to me that I've slipped into some old patterns of thinking. Same as the last few weeks. I've had very little down time between work, vacation, and friends visiting from out of town. That downtime has been filled with reading this but I'm just now done with it yet. Mentality/Medication I've been changing out medication regularly the last 3 months to try and find what works for me. Tryi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 07:54 PM
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OYS 5 Age 31. Wife 30. Married 6. 180 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF Reading I've started NMMNG over again since it was pointed out to me that I've slipped into some old patterns of thinking. Its been a year since I read it last so its about time. Mentality/Frame It is hard to realistically know how well I'm doing on this front after having some things pointed out last week. I absolutely found myself doing a little "give to get" and addressed that in my mind. Beyond that I haven't felt my actions are a direct…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 04:24 PM
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I took an hour and typed out a long response to this, mainly to work through it all point by point in my head. I thought it best to just delete it, trim it way down, and say thanks for the feed back. You've got work to do; a deeper dive into NMMNG might be a place you should start. NMMNG is the first book I read, so it has been a while. Guess it's time to go back through it. your mindset and behavior still seems very beta. I'm not sure you have made much progress in that regard in the past year.…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 05:52 AM
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OYS 4 Skipped a week of OYS STATS 31. 180 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 235 x 3 I feel slightly stalled with lower than average energy levels. Working out in 90-95 degree weather might have something to do with it. Last week's goals Keep reading : Check Develop a dominant state of mind : Progressing Be fun at home : Yes and no this week for soon to be obvious reasons. Keep initiating : Check Meditate a few minutes every day : 5/14. Haven't integrated it into my routine…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 06:57 PM
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OYS 3 STATS 31. 180 lbs. 6'0. ~15%BF Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 235 x 3 Really focusing on mobility between workouts. Feels good, slightly less tight. Working out consistently. Work has slowed down a little allowing me to focus on it. Last week's goals Last week I was told to quit being gay about some things. Make decisions and own it. Was also told to quit living in the past and let go of past failure. It is not helpful to keep dwelling on it, even when trying to do better. Took it…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 07:49 PM
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Yeah I agree with that. I found that when I get bored or feeling a little anxious I’ll go see what she is up to. Often she doesn’t care that I’m around or gets annoyed that I’ve interrupted whatever thing she is involved it. 9/10 she is just watching tv, which I don’t view as important in the slightest. I interpret her reaction as something bad on my part. Feels needy when I look back at it. If she doesn’t find me attractive enough to be happy when I’m coming to see her then I should stop. Might…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 11:10 PM
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OYS 2 OYS 2 under new account. Still a faggot. I've got plenty of work to do. STATS 31. 180 lbs. 6'0. 15%BF Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 235 x 3 My mobility still sucks and will for a while. Staying healthy and getting tone is the goal. This week I lowered weight and focused on form. Felt like a good move. Still difficult. 3x this week. Addiction/Last week's goals No alcohol, gaming, or porn. I did alright for about 6 days. Felt really bored but filled my time in a more constructive w…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 09:19 PM
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One Year OYS This is my first OYS under my new account. My last one was found out a few months ago so I killed it. This month is the one year mark having discovered redpill. I've still got plenty of work to do so it felt fitting to start this up again. STATS 31. 180 lbs. 6'0. 15%BF Squat: 225 x 3 Bench: 185 x 1 Deadlift: 235 x 3 My mobility sucks. I'm not pushing for really heavy lifts in a short amount of time since I have a few injuries. The weight increases each week/month (depending on trave…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 04:13 PM
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