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Feminismegg75man/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:01 PM
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Generalegg75man/r/MensRights03/06/24 03:22 PM
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False Accusationegg75man/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:57 PM
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Generalegg75man/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:04 PM
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Generalegg75man/r/MensRights03/06/24 03:16 PM
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Helpful thank you
/r/MensRights29/08/24 10:47 PM
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I am lucky. I also think that there was no way HR was going to unsubstantiate both complaints, so they went with the "believe all women" mantra. At least there were a few witnesses to scapegoating with the department, so the contradictions were laid bare. Her accusations of me saying inappropriate and unprofessional things in a consultation were just too bizarre to be dealt with fairly. My union rep told me that he has never seen someone accused of so much receive so little punishment. I have re…
/r/MensRights29/08/24 06:10 PM
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Richard Reeves's book Of Boys and Men is the reason why I sought out this subreddit (as well as personal experiences I struggled with understanding until I found a community discussing them openly.)
/r/MensRights20/08/24 07:00 PM
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I don't know... Challenging the "boys will be boys" mentality and holding them accountable is an important message. I don't read into this the opposite (don't hold girls accountable) but the message does need to get out there that girls generally held less accountable for bad behavior in schools. It is on us to teach our boys to be respectful AND to protect themselves from a world that does not care about them. Accountability is something we all need, and challenging a common saying is important…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 08:04 PM
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This is accurate. Gender roles for men in our culture are much more rigid.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:46 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. I read the 2007 study and it was eye opening. When violence is reciprocal, women tend to be injured, and this gets escalated to criminal charges. My reference point is MacArthur Violence Study, but that focuses more on a clinical/forensic population. The take home message from this thread clearly is that it is misleading to say that men are more violent in relationships.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:42 PM
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So advocacy should only come from those who have suffered? Try that on a pro-Women or pro-Minority page... see what happens to your comment This comment is EVERYTHING we are talking about on this page.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:32 PM
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To be honest, the literature that I am exposed to has spotlighted this and includes those stats. But I read professional journals on trauma for my work, as well as UN reports, but I understand your point about mainstream coverage in the US
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:31 PM
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I know the research around this. Women generally are less aggressive, but when women have low average intelligence or less, and the presence of mental illness/substance use, there is no difference between their male counterparts. And yes, I have been hit by most women in my closest circles (mother, girlfriends, wife) out of anger and I have never harmed a female in my life. But rape and murder are systematically used in war to terrorize. We can't ignore that.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 11:07 PM
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That is a broad-brush stroke to paint with. Personal responsibility is an individual characteristic, not a trend, policy, or system. Saying that men lack personal responsibility is blatant misandry. I foolishly looked at your post history and your lack of compassion and illiberal thoughts are a pattern. To come to this subreddit and react as you have been, it is also clear that you are a troll. Best of luck to you...
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:30 PM
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I am saying lazy is not how I would describe the cause of the disparity
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:27 PM
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I think one thing you miss is equity and retribution are not the same thing. There are valid concerns with the way that men are viewed broadly by large swarths of the population. We live in the now, and in the now men are being devalued across the board for privileges they have probably not experienced and systems of power that they did not create. I hear you when you say equity is experienced as oppression by the majority, and I would argue that in many ways women now have more opportunity, mor…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:09 PM
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Lazy is not the way I would describe it. The education system has left many boys and young men behind. In part, it has to do with how being a boy is pathologized (e.g. being physical, learning through experience, competition.) Our boys are diagnosed with ADHD and given medications to make them sit quietly in a classroom like many girls are able to do naturally. Boys develop at a different pace than girls on all fronts and blamed for it.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:01 PM
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I know at least in my relationship, the amount of time spent "suffering" over a chore is far greater for my wife than me. Take grocery shopping... She moans about "the list," she complains about having to go and the lines, then when she gets home she talks about how terrible it was. If I have a chore, I just do it. I try to have no attitude about it, it just needs to get done. I don't feel anything beforehand, and after I just move on. To some extent, I understand the mental load thing because s…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 04:01 PM
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I got banned from them a few months ago. I am not much of a Redditor so I was quite shocked. I did not seek out the subreddit, it appeared one day on my feed. The topic was about an overweight (her words) 40 year old woman who was complaining that her man did not offer her oral sex and that early in the relationship he made a face while going down on her. She then admitted she hated giving oral to him because "eww." I was appalled at the feedback that she was getting that yes, men are "ewww," bu…
/r/MensRights31/07/24 05:57 PM
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There are rational arguments, and emotional ones. The "not all men" and "bear vs. man in the woods" conversations are emotionally based. That does not make them less valid, subjectively. It is important to understand that when interacting with others using these tropes. No matter how much we point out that violent crimes are committed by less than 1% of the population, or that broad generalizations are more harmful than helpful, we are not speaking an emotional language and therefore we are (oft…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 05:52 PM
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I found that doing the specific work of recovery from "moral injury" had helped me with the betrayal I felt in a circumstance that was different yet similar to yours (not romantic, but professional mentorship.)
/r/MensRights07/06/24 07:00 PM
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“We have spent the past half-decade wrestling with ideas of gender and privilege, attempting to challenge the old stereotypes and power structures. These conversations should have been an opportunity to throw out the old pressures and norms of manhood, and to help boys and men be more emotionally open and engaged. But in many ways this environment has apparently had the opposite effect — it has shut them down even further. For many progressives, weary from a pileup of male misconduct, the refusa…
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:04 PM
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What is your reaction to this? Rolling your eyes, thinking "here we go again with the whataboutism?" Do you look at the men in your life with compassion and concern for their well-being, or maybe with contempt, not for who they are in the micro, but what they represent to you on the macro?Just curious..."Men are advantaged in every aspect of our society, yet we have worse health outcomes for most of the things that will kill you," said Derek Griffith, director of Georgetown University's Center f…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 03:16 PM
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