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no, she had the ONS while we were seeing each other...
/r/seduction18/01/16 12:51 PM
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yeah but dude, you're telling me to feel totally fine about me sticking my dick into a girl who got sexed a few days ago like we're just fuck toys like that? I'd feel so slimy, like, idk man.
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:21 AM
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so until then, displays of affection, good faith, laughter are not genuine? or they don't mean anything? how can trust be built if we are both looking out for ourselves to begin with? genuinely asking
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:08 AM
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How do i not take it personally when we had sex, went out on dates, cuddled, had good chemistry? It's easy to say that when you're not in it, but i'm pretty sure when you're seeing a girl, it is impossible not to fantasize about a possible something. I feel like that "good faith" was broken, like she didn't take my feelings into consideration....like, she just did her, and didn't give two shits about what i may have thought.
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:57 AM
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but dude, if I'm choosing not to date other girls just to concentrate on this one, and we're hooking up, and everything seems fine, isn't it "okay" to feel fucked over when she just tells me she had a one night stand with a random dude? I'm like: mmm wtf? so, our connection is just not that good or something?
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:43 AM
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This is exactly what I feel. I'm wonder if i'm being inexperienced to understand that I shouldn't be hurt if she sleeps around with other people. But to be honest, I chose not to do that, I didn't want to do that. I guess what i'm asking is: am i allowed to be upset/feel disrespected? or am I just exaggerating?
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:37 AM
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Well, I DEFINITELY had a chance to hook up with other girls but I didn't take it because I wanted to see this through, and I wanted to show her good faith, that I cared...isn't this still a pretty slimy thing to do? like, in a way, isn't it telling me: "oh yeah, you don't cut it enough, because if she had cared at least a bit about you, she wouldn't have done this"
/r/seduction17/01/16 07:01 PM
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right on man. right on. i'm going to save this comment, so i can remind myself. I'll remember this forever.so i thank you. what did you DO to start cutting out jealousy from your life? I promise you i learned a lot from my experience, but i want to learn even more.
/r/seduction25/01/15 02:17 AM
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out of curiosity, WHY would it NOT turn you off? I'm just trying to learn here, please. Is sex just not that big of a deal for you or is there another explanation? This is exactly what happened with my last dating situation, and I freaked out on her and i exploded. She then got turned off at that, and stopped going on dates with me.
/r/seduction24/01/15 01:56 PM
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i don't think u understood what I meant... say you met a girl, and you guys have been going on like 5 dates, and she fucks another guy (exclusivity was not discussed) , would that be an indication that she's selfish or would that turn you off from pursuing a relationship with her in the future?
/r/seduction24/01/15 01:19 AM
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thank you so much for this. would you feel jealous if she was fucking another guy, and would you still try to aim for a relationship with her if you knew this?
/r/seduction23/01/15 12:59 PM
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thanks for the reply. i think you're right. Also, quick thing, but this whole thing is making me feel less "good looking". I do have a problem with self image, and i try to work hard at it, because in reality, i think i'm pretty good looking. But this shit just gets me down so much that i think i'm kind of an ugly piece of crap now...how do i get over the fact that competition makes me change how i feel about myself? by dating other girls?
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:29 AM
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it's not really that i'm seeking her validation it's more of a "how can you not see that i'm clearly the right choice?" type of thing. I appreciate the comment though
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:28 AM
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yup those three are somewhat accurate. i guess what i also mean by casual sex is this: imagine if you're dating a girl (non exclusive), and you have sex with her...that zone of uncertainty right afterwards is what terrifies me...is she seeing someone else too? does she want anything more? things like that. i'm talking about that kind of casual sex..
/r/seduction07/11/14 12:07 AM
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so you think that sex is a more powerful connection than love? i don't think so dude, sex is temporary, but love lasts way more. It's an emotional connection.
/r/seduction06/11/14 11:47 PM
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|You have to realize girls won't have sex with just anyone, if there is a girl having sex with you it's not because she just 'wants a dick' (unless she's just a total slut). It's because she sees you as someone she could be in a relationship with, and on a more biological level, someone who could provide for offspring and lead a family. I don't know so much about that, especially after reading in threads like /r/askwomen or just girls on reddit that sometimes they just want a fuck buddy or someo…
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:20 PM
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yeah yeah i understand that. I guess it'd hurt my self esteem/pride/ego knowing that a girl just kind of wants that from me and not things i have to offer (like love, affection, etc). It's like, the fact that she sees me as nothing but a human with a dick I guess. I know, it sounds weird.
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:19 PM
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yeah it seems like i have arrived there nonetheless, that's the WEIRDEST part of all of this...that i got there without even having the experience. Do you think this may just be a HUGE ego/pride? that is hidden behind HUGE low self esteem (you know, this side that says that they'll leave me after sex and stuff)?
/r/seduction06/11/14 09:07 PM
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As in like, imagine Brad Pitt, you don't think EVERY girl wants to have sex with Brad Pitt? I'm not saying i'm him or anything like that at all, but i'm pretty sure that when you're objectified like that, sex can be pretty fucking dull for him, and he probably wants something more than just sex...you know?
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:52 PM
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the fact that she only sees me as a human with a dick and that is all she needs from me? that i'm nothing more than just that? This isn't to create a fight or anything, it's straight up how I feel. I'd love for you to help me analyze this is in a healthier view
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:50 PM
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never had any in my life, i'm too scared of getting my ego/self esteem bruised...i know it soudns really weird, but that's how i feel. There have been times where the girl has been down for it, and I dipped or i start thinking of them as "not good enough".
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:29 PM
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I think there comes a point where you have to START caring though....like ok let's say you're not caring and whatever, and then you hook up with a girl, and you keep hooking up with teh same one, and thenyou start going on dates, and then she wants to define the relationship and you're into it, because, why not, fuck it...then you eventually become outcome dependent...there's got to be some point when you let your guard down...
/r/seduction27/08/14 04:21 PM
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