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| 47 | Once again, Hollywood rewards abusers. | DISCUSSION | eggtimertiger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:24 PM |
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| 4 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | After hearing about savanna talking about long ass paragraph copy paste messages on the podcastWeird. I do OLD in a big city & have never seen it before, it’s pretty awful. Like spamming a form letter will get them laid? Seems so dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:25 PM |
| 74 | After hearing about savanna talking about long ass paragraph copy paste messages on the podcastWTF. I don’t think I’ve ever encountered this in the wild. Who the hell would think this works? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:01 AM |
| 28 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”Tbh I struggle with this ethically, so thanks for the brutal honesty. I’ve been distancing myself because I just feel so uncomfortable with how he treats women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:54 AM |
| 45 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”That’s messed up. Your poor friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 46 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”💯 I actually felt incredibly bad for this woman when he told me that. The opposite is true…find someone to appreciate you first. Sex is nice, don’t get me wrong…but it’s nicest when you’re with a committed partner who respects and values you, I think even for a lot of men. It’s so sad that many women have been conditioned to view sex as something as casual and meaningless as a handshake. Just seems so empty…and risky. I also gave him a long educational talk about how women being promiscuous isn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 14 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 200 | Why are so many men on OLD “just passing through?”Sadly, some women do fall for this, I think due to the prevalence of hookup culture, pickmes, and libfems thinking opening your legs is empowerment. One of my guy friends - 6’2”, very attractive, good conversationalist - travels a lot for work and uses Bumble to hookup with women in whatever city he’s in. He is upfront and tells them it’s just a hookup and he’s only there temporarily and isn’t looking for a relationship. Almost every single time he finds an attractive woman (or women) open to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:49 PM |
| 70 | I know it's usually frowned upon, but I want to try vetting/dating/finding HV people (friends and potential romantic partners) using apps and OLD. Any advice for creating an FDS approved profile? How do I portray that I'm HV and attract healthy individuals?I live in a major city where pretty much everyone uses OLD (like I have met a few HVM from apps. Not many, but a few). Honestly? Men are shallow and will usually look at your pictures to determine if they’re interested. Just write a bio that’s fun and honest. I don’t think you should stress about your profile too much…I’d focus more on screening them out once they match with you. Vetting them is the key. My gfs always ask how I’ve met HVM via OLD. So personally, for me these are the bare minimum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 10 | "All ages considered!"Right? Ew, just ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 26 | Such Entitlement!Honestly I regret quitting & am still conflicted about it, because I feel like I let them win. It would be badass for you to keep going and not put up with their shit. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 72 | Such Entitlement!I had this happen to me when I briefly took Jiu Jitsu classes and it was so uncomfortable and gross. The (male) instructor decided to spar with me, despite being much larger, which I initially thought was a nice way of sparing me from the creeps, but then one day he told me to wrap my legs around him and cross my ankles. I never went back, which sucks, because I really wanted to learn a martial art. Edit: I’m aware this was a legit Jiu Jitsu move he was suggesting and that Jiu Jitsu itself invol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:06 PM |
| 30 | "All ages considered!"Maybe something is wrong with me…but I laughed reading this. I know this ad is terrifying, not at all minimizing how predatory, sick, and delusional this man is, but it’s also so overtly creepy and clueless. Like WTF are you talking about freak? “Consider combining life forces” for WHAT? The opportunity to be used as a sex slave by some washed up old scrote who has two kids in the house?! Jesus, I hope he doesn’t have daughters. And he really oversells it too, like it’s so transparent that he’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 25 | Low Effort Dates | Online DatingAsking for Snapchat = fuckboi attempt to get nudes, then more Low effort dates = I’ve heard that argument as well and I think it’s total bullshit. The guy should man up and plan a real date. If he wants to see an area, why not pick a nice restaurant to try, or a museum? When I was new here, I had a guy plan a date that involved going to a nice art gallery (i love art), dinner at a nice restaurant (after he asked what I liked), and then a nightcap at a cool speakeasy. That was his way of showing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:15 AM |
| 30 | Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men?Yeah. Like in the real version of Cinderella, the stepsisters actually chop off their toes to try to fit into the glass slipper. And the other thing is, these stories have existed in other forms for centuries. Not saying that makes it excusable, but women have come a long way in the past 200 years, so it makes more sense that something written in 1818 would reflect women as property/objects. Hell, we couldn’t even VOTE in the US until 1920. It was Disney who chose to whitewash these stories, tur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 30 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit big100% correct answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:00 AM |
| 22 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with him❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 36 | He said he wanted a relationshipSome of the best advice I ever received: Men do not care about wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 241 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himFirst, I’d like to be asked for nudes, followed by a lecture at the fourth grade reading level on how difficult the world is for men and nice guys like him. Then a date at McDonald’s where we go dutch, followed by an attempt to locate my clitoris in his mom’s basement, failing, and then serving as a bang maid for 5 minutes without orgasm. For the second date, hoping I get to watch him play video games while making him some snacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 12 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Omg yes! It was sick! Just knowing that was the original ending speaks volumes about what the makers of that movie really thought about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 20 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Not to mention the creepy age gap & the fact that the media STILL treats this movie like a “Cinderella story,” when in reality it’s just a LVM with money who takes advantage of a naive young hooker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 190 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Pretty Woman always creeped me out, and it does even more now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:45 PM |
| 7 | I desperately need more women friendsYes! I have and it worked for me too. It’s like platonic dating…a few may not work out but eventually you find people you vibe with. Seconding the “go for it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 126 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.This is so disgusting and I see it all the time on Craigslist here in LA. I report them all. These predatory creeps want to find young women down on their luck to use as bang maids for “free rent”. It’s particularly f’d up here because so many idealistic women move here for the entertainment industry, and these guys know that. They always say what “nice” guys they are and many talk about how educated and rich they are. 🤡🤡 I’ve often wondered if they’re fronts for sex trafficking tbh (which is wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 9 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade upThank you so much for this gem 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 9 | Once again, Hollywood rewards abusers.Thanks for your opinion. I have, in fact, read as much as I could find on BOTH sides or I would not have felt right posting the way I did, nor did I simply read a headline and think “men bad”. Depp is a great actor, but talent and fame do NOT exonerate him from wrongdoing or make him more “credible” in my opinion. All the articles I have posted include evidence. I highly suggest you research for yourself, too, using the Google “news” filter. It’s true that they were clearly both fighting, but I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 25 | Once again, Hollywood rewards abusers.Yeah. And apparently a real shitbag, like tried to get Heard removed from Aquaman, sent texts where he joked about killing her. It sucks but is widely acknowledged be true per evidence and legal rulings. Depp is known for his devoted fan base, so people (including women) are unfortunately defending him. I didn’t want it to be true either but I think it’s important to believe and support women who come forward about abusers, and the evidence overwhelmingly indicates it’s true. The BBC has a good … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 23 | Once again, Hollywood rewards abusers.“…after his failed libel suit against British tabloid The Sun, which ended with the courts upholding the paper’s description of him as a “wife beater” and the ruling judge indicating he believed Depp had assaulted ex-wife Amber Heard on multiple occasions. “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 38 | Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them?God how gross. One of the most disgusting realizations for me as I got older (in my 30s now) was how older men really do view us as sex objects from a really young age. And not only is it disgusting, in a way I almost view it as predatory, whether they’re aware of it or not, because they have the advantage of years of life experience to attempt to manipulate younger women into sleeping with them. Like that guy, totally feeding you pathetic excuses to get your number, like he thought because you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 12:04 AM |
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