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There's lots of judgement on the internet though we don't know anyone personally, so I wouldn't say you're a failure or a bad person for identifying with people who are forever alone or incel. That would be too harsh to think of a stranger. From your post, it sounds like you're pretty depressed. If you're worried that opening up to another person about your troubles is too hard (or costs too much or you don't want to leave the house) you can try an online workbook (a good free one is moodgym). T…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/16 02:07 PM
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On the subject of evo-psych: this is a legitimate science overall, but there have been controversies as to its application to people today. Research suggesting that something might have been useful to us a million years ago, so that's why we have x, doesn't mean that it's a certain fact. We can't observe people from a million years ago, the best we have is what's going on in the world now. Most of it should be regarded as interesting theories rather than facts. The red pill is even worse at this…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/16 02:17 PM
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I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 08:13 PM
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literally hatred of women Well, let's see what other dictionaries think... nah, nope, sorry. Sure, sexism is pretty much the same, but sexism doesn't specify that it mostly affects one gender (not to say TRP has much good things to say about men as well lol). If we're arguing semantics, then yeah, sure, there probably aren't any red pillers outright saying they hate women, but to suggest there isn't any prejudice or mean-spirited/hateful comments about women in TRP is pretty rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 01:21 PM
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How is that my business? Wtf, do you know about your every acquaintance's sexual life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:35 AM
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If it's consistent, it doesn't matter. There are still clear trends that can be analyzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:31 AM
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Yo, note that usually TRP advice goes "don't ask a fish how to fish, ask a fisherman" (ie don't ask women about what they like in relationships, ask dudes who get lots of women), but whenever a woman agrees with them, it's celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:28 AM
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Nice and meek are subjective assessments, but yeah, most of the guys I know are normal, not totally ripped dominant arrogant guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 10:24 AM
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I believe you're misappropriating the word 'misogyny', as do many other posters. Misogyny is literally the hatred of women. No, it's not. Just as racism doesn't have to be literally hating black people (it can be "race realism" or "just hating their culture" etc) misogyny can be subtler than hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 11:39 PM
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I, however, don't agree with any of TRPs ideas about women and they don't really apply to anyone I know, including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 11:32 PM
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If someone is susceptible to RP theory it's pretty pointless to help them, after all, "you don't get fishing advice from fish (and betas, who are just naturally attractive and don't need RP)". If someone's actually on TBP where I see it and there's something I can do to help, I will. Recently posted a link to an online depression workbook for a dude who seemed really depressed. Btw, what do you dudes all do to help BP people besides sometimes not moaning about women? Sometimes these people are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 07:50 PM
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They've said feminism is wrong and bad several times. And even if they don't outright say it, there's derision when referring to it, especially when they're talking about relationships. You probably have seen "feminism has ruined women and failed men" etc claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:36 PM
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Yeah, their sample size is actually even smaller, because I'm sure they don't really interact with women who they don't find attractive. So it's only "girls I want to fuck and who put up with me" and "mom" they get their knowledge of AWALT from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:31 PM
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At least that happens in TRP. No matter their sources or information, they still seem to be showing signs of proper argumentative analysis. Pretty much anytime someone makes a rational criticism of TRP, terpers backpedal and say that that isn't how it really works. Most of their knowledge and facts for their arguments comes from either personal anecdotes or newspaper articles about studies (which have notable problems portraying findings accurately and usually only cover the most controversial f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:21 PM
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I guess what I'm saying is: TRPers tend to have more intellect TBP people are just not very smart So what you're saying is "ur dumb". Interesting and thoughtful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:17 PM
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Just saying, there are spaces for women on the internet that aren't safe spaces. For obvious reasons, I'm not gonna link them for you. Rest assured that it's pretty much much full of trolls and spammers. Think 4chan, but with more periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:59 PM
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True, but I don't think this is TRP specific and neither does this have to do anything with dread game. Usually I think of dread gaming/ overcoming LMR as literally stonewalling, though, so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:20 PM
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I don't think it's either a common nor a feminist idea to spend every free minute with your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:16 PM
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As if any normal girl would read that wall of text. Full disclosure: I didn't either. BTW, some normal girls are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:47 PM
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So dread is having a life beyond your spouse? Huh, what a novel idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:43 PM
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It looks like people here aren't understanding what you mean. Maybe taking those quotation marks off the title would help? Rp peeps, try to hold your frame, okay? I know reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, but maybe the mods here aren't a bunch of scheming blue-pillers out for your sperm and divorce money, they're just trying to set the record straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:38 PM
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YetAnotherCommenter's Strange Day One day YetAnotherCommenter found Tumblr. Besides the evil feminists, he found fandom. Life was never the same again. PLZ NO FLAMES, liek for part 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 02:48 PM
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Lol yeah, I know, you have to reveal that you have evidence as well before they give you anything. In this case it was economic research using decades old data and a survey about working moms from a company who helps working moms with hand bags on the first page. Oh yeah, and obviously you have to look for these scientific resources yourself, because all they can link is newspaper articles. Terpers can't even social science, I worry for their STEM degrees. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 11:37 AM
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Sorry, I conflated two different studies. The first one is about women wanting a good career, the second one is about men being unhappy when their partners succeed. Young women now top young men in valuing a high-paying career Gender differences in implicit self-esteem following a romantic partner's success or failure I think there's been some studies made that say being feminist or egalitarian/men doing stuff at home gives you more sex too, but I can't be bothered looking for them. Oh, and I'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 11:04 AM
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If you accept RedPill reasoning, which is that women are happier when "inferior" to their partners (which is actually incredibly strongly supported when sorting by myriad socioeconomic metrics, such as income, height, race, "desiredness", etc.), then feminism worsened the lives of women, as it made them higher in status, and thus limited the pool of men that they could be attracted to. Funny, I read a survey that said that women are happy being breadwinners, given the chance, but their husbands …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 11:25 PM
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How on god's green Earth is Feminism good for sex/men getting sex? Feminism isn't about getting sex. Although I suppose if you have an option for birth control and you're getting paid as much as your coworkers, not barefoot in the kitchen, then you're probably having more and better sex imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 11:21 PM
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And if you dare to criticize or question anything on the feminist agenda, they will get you fired and libel you as a "rape apologist." Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 11:14 PM
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So if x = woman, then: ∀x→x(likethat{emotional, hypergamous, etc}) == False QED "NAWALT". Logic'd!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:26 PM
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Too gay is militant LGBT, "obvious gay pride attendee in perpetuity", and that sort of thing. Someone who's about being "all gay, all the time" in most everything they do. I'm pretty sure that's a pretty small minority of gay/LGBT people, at least from the people I personally know. The reason I asked about PDA was because to me, the hetero equivalent of this totally flaming gay person is the straight guy who always talks about his girlfriend and does all sorts of naughty stuff in public with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 08:29 PM
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It's interesting because I'm selectively against gay marriage. I only support it if the people in question aren't flamers who're all about the LGBT movement and trumpeting "I'm gay" to the world in perpetuity. How gay is too gay? How do you feel about straight couples and PDA?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 07:26 PM
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Yeah having a woman who would support me would be great but it would take some of the challenge out of life. I'm someone who gets bored easily and without a challenge in the relationship (help someone grow) I tend to replace them with opportunities to help others. Same. I like challenges more than lounging around at home/helping someone else lounge at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 11:57 AM
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1a) From Wikipedia on lateralization of brain function: "Broad generalizations are often made in "pop" psychology about one side or the other having characteristic labels, such as "logical" for the left side or "creative" for the right. These labels are not supported by studies on lateralization, as lateralization does not add specialized usage from either hemisphere.[2] Both hemispheres contribute to both kinds of processes,[3] and experimental evidence provides little support for correlating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 02:51 PM
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1) It's pretty hard to draw a clear-cut line between logic and emotion and how they pertain to different actions. Since logic and emotion can and do coexist, it's hard to imagine anyone exempt from letting feelings affect their judgement. The attempt to boost your desirability isn't wholly logical and neither is debating online, there are usually emotional components to this. Oh yeah, and being logical doesn't really mean you're being right, especially if you start from false premises. A lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 01:47 PM
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It's telling that you don't know Luce Irigaray's name, since she isn't really important in actual feminist academia nowadays. Let's also look past the fact that this assertion about her theories doesn't have any primary sources. Let's be clear here, we don't know when or where she claimed this, or even if she did. But okay. Do scientists and academics sometimes say stupid things? Of course they do! Have you read some of the ideas Freud had? TRP has also been criticised by r/badhistory, r/badever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 04:34 PM
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I'm not saying everyone who reads TRP or believes in it is evil and manipulative. Being an attractive man with his shit together is obviously good. But looking at actual discussions on TRP, there don't seem to be many men being both of those things, so there are obviously better ways for getting attractive and getting your shit together. If TRP was as perfect and true as some people think it is, it'd be the dating advice everyone gives. Yet not all ways for getting your shit together teach you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 07:15 PM
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No, thank you. Btw, if we're doing blog series recommendations, might I suggest Jenny Trout's readthrough of "50 shades". Might be eye opening for you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 06:55 PM
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Being confident yet genuine and having some goddamn manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 06:11 PM
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I've see pseudo-TRP posturing in real life as well as on the internet and everything about it skeeves me out. Someone might fool you with a false first impression, but honestly hardcore traditional and evopsych people coming together is like my worst nightmare. Not saying all of you dudes and ladies are evil and wrong about everything, obviously. I just don't think too kindly of people trying to manipulate me or tell me how to act, even if they think they're doing it for good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 06:10 PM
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See, that's another strawman. Not every BP is a "nice guy", who's secretly an asshole. No, an RP man is just going to post an angry FR about it on RP later and then his bros are going to sympathy jerk him off. "What a nice and respectful dude, and a horrible shrewd feminist. :( Guess I wasn't enough of a jerk for her. etc"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 05:59 PM
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On me though? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 05:48 PM
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Nah, RP says it clearly: everyone who isn't following RP is BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 05:40 PM
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Except as an outsider you hear it like a commercial to a sham product: "Try this diet pill (red pill) and you'll lose 50 pounds (gain 10 women) in a week! Doctors (women/society/betas) hate us!" Which kind of makes me think it is a sham product itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 05:38 PM
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/r/feminism is the place where feminists get banned. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 08:58 PM
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Dan Blitzerian is the male Paris Hilton.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 09:25 PM
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I'm referring to your other comments on this post.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/14 04:11 PM
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Well, if you weren't a troll, I'd tell you to quit visiting sites that have a hard-on for hating women, but I guess that's impossible.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/14 03:24 PM
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Those are the most inspid and open-ended questions ever. If you don't want help or perspective, then don't ask for it. Also, why do you want a relationship or a one night stand with someone you're not attracted to? If I had ever gotten a single message like this from a girl, I'd have jumped upon the opportunity. Hi, you sound bitter. What's your favorite thing to rant about besides women? :)
/r/ExRedPill06/12/14 03:04 PM
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I don't know you, dude. You haven't given us any insight into what your hobbies are and what you're good at. I'm guessing you're either messaging girls out of your league (who aren't attracted to you) or there's something up with your messages. Maybe your attitude is putting them off, maybe you're a fan of composing really long messages, maybe you're insulting them if they don't answer the same day or maybe you've only sent out two messages at all. I mean, there are like a million things that co…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/14 02:30 PM
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I thought it'd be easier to grasp the idea, since it's been around for a long long time. But well, think of "nice guys" as people who are only friends with you because of your Pokemon card collection or because they think you have a hot mom. That's the kind of people that "nice guy" is referring to. If you figure out the reason why they're actually friends with you, they're going to tell you that that doesn't make them a bad guy. For them, you're the bad guy for noticing that this guy only hangs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 01:02 PM
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"Nice guys" are an old phenomenon. Like literally from the start of 2000s. It's these guys who declare that AWALT and being like that is mean and dating jerks and all the men dating them getting hurt because they were just too damn nice. So kind of like TRP, you see. Not actually nice guys, more like desperate, insecure, putting everyone else down guys. If you're actually a decent person, then you won't give a fuck about this group of people. Since the rest of your post stems from this false pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 12:16 PM
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Are you a troll or how are you just so confident in your beliefs that you supposedly want to break? Btw I'm not saying you can't complain about this, I'm just saying "consider this, maybe it'll explain something about your online dating results". You know, have a realistic view about things and such?
/r/ExRedPill28/11/14 11:05 AM
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http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/new-study-gets-into-the-minds-of-women-who-game-online-134128328.html That's not a direct link to a study or an abstract. You've failed me. :( Furthermore, this is not from a scientific journal, this is market research. My guess is that they carried out this online survey from gaming sites. This study is hardly representative of a larger population. A hint for you from the "study": "This online survey is not based on a probability sample and therefore no e…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/14 11:00 AM
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There was a study done. girls who described themselves as nerdy typically had more sex partners than the average girl. Well, you can have a look at this study and link me the study you saw (and please the abstract or full text, I don't want to read an article or blog post about it, let's be serious here, most science journalists and bloggers know next to nothing about interpreting results). Before you start saying that being nerdy is popular nowadays and girls are more popular anyway, I'm assumi…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 11:07 PM
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For every one of those messages there's another two from a guy who genuinely wants to establish a relationship. No, I'm pretty sure actually most of these messages are spam. At least from anyone who's experiences I've heard, there's not a lot of real dudes around. Also logically - these spammers have a lot more time to shoot off their one-line messages, or append it to a greeting when they see someone's answering them, than guys who need at least 15 minutes to actually read someone's profile and…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 10:48 PM
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Being spammed with "hey are you on skype, wanna do a naughty video call?", "hey sexy ;) send me nudes maybe I'll send you a pic of my dick" or "there's a sausage party going on, we need some girls aged 18-25" isn't really enticing. Unless you're really into people who like to use you as porn.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 09:53 PM
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Girls who share my hobbies are actually more promiscuous than the average girl How are introverted and nerdy girls more promiscuous than any other girls? That's absurd. If they're truly introverted, they're probably not on OkCupid anyway. A girl can get sex just by asking any dude to fuck. Won't work 100% of the time, more like 80-90% of the time. Yeah, except when you think you're any good, you won't fuck just anyone and you'd better be looking for someone who doesn't just think they're owed pi…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 09:47 PM
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Just saying, your comment is also a complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 04:05 PM
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Now the sub TBP is about satire of trp. But most people in the sub also think well about improving yourself (but not just to get more sex, for yourself) and combining that with not being an asshole and respecting other people's boundaries. That's the whole point of the criticism "anything that trp has to really offer is so general that there's pretty much nothing to gain from it".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 11:15 AM
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One day Gaylubeoil was feeling like he needed a massage so he got in a taxi to go the gym. Only betas drive their own cars, alphas have the money to show their smv anywhere anytime. The taxi driver was an older sensual woman. Her black hair was tied up in a scarf and she had on a long jean jacket and some shorts. The shorts really complimented her sculpted yet slender legs. Gaylubeoil couldn’t stop staring. “Wow those shorts sure are indecent for a woman of your age,” said Gaylubeoil and smiled.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 12:46 PM
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No, the red pill isn't a normal way of approaching relationships. Usually you just find someone you really like and then figure how your relationship works. Pretty much the only time people care about societal status is when they're worried they'll be judged by anyone (for example gay people). And yeah, you have to be real with your partner, it's dumb to pretend to be someone you're not. Red pillers feel let down by their experiences and have set out to construct a new method for getting one nig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 09:22 AM
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Lol do you think agricultural societies popped up from nowhere or something? Most agricultural societies evolved from foragers, in some places there were two types of societies going on at a time. I'm also sorry, but if we're going into the most basic, archaic societies where people can be ruled by their instincts (which OP was raving about) then we're not really talking about agricultural societies, so way to go off-topic. Btw, most anthropologists would pretty much tell you to fuck yourself si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 08:50 AM
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I'm sure you understand what generalizations are and how they work. Individuality exists, yes. That doesn't prevent you from making accurate generalizations about the way a group behaves. You're talking about assumptions. There's no way to find out how billions of people behave in wildly different situations, you can't really generalize about this. Or is it for example okay to generalize that "white rice is a poison and no one should eat it" if we consider that eating white rice increases risk o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 07:16 PM
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This is a hardly objective and factual comment. And no, people aren't saying "no, I'd rather get raped", they're asking what's up with the world that this is a useful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 01:05 PM
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The act of rape is as hated. Except when it's funny (lol dropped the soap, lol frat parties etc) or used as a trite plot device for a tragic past in movies. C'mon there's a lot there culturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 12:57 PM
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Yep, Ada Lovelace and Grace Hopper sure are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 12:40 PM
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I find the scale of attractiveness thing pretty absurd. 1) Having an accurate scale would mean having noticeable traits that would explain why there's a difference between one grade and another, and having a majority opinion is pretty irrelevant unless the person being rated cares about this. 2) Personality totally does influence rating someone's physical appearance. You can be the hottest person alive, but if you're incapable of hygiene, have no social skills, have "chronic bitchface" and spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/14 10:46 AM
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You don't get the thing about "Have sex with me or get out". A lot of manipulators do this kind of thing and it's not just about sex, basically everything has to be as the abuser likes it, or the other person is punished. Usually the abuser has made themselves too dear to the other person, and already done something to prove they will punish the other person, so this person's not just going "wtf" at them when they say stuff like this. After stuff like this comes the "Stay with me forever or I'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/14 09:58 AM
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In the 70s Farrell talked in Penthouse magazine about a book on incest he was writing that had some really weird and unsettling conclusions. Like saying that in father-daughter incestuous relationships - since fathers seemed to be enjoying it, but daughters felt badly about what they'd gone through - maybe it was just society influencing the daughters to think that the incest was immoral. Here's a quote from this thing: "The great majority of fathers can grasp the dynamics of positive incest ‘in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/14 02:23 PM
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Women are told they can do anything if they lose just a little bit more weight, buy all those products and maybe think of getting some more cosmetic enhancements, and they only need copious amounts of benevolent sexism and being thought brainless if they don't want a man. Traditionally feminine things are never spoken about and no one cares, usually they're considered culturally irrelevant or inferior (what's up, my knittas?), if you say anything bad about a woman and assume a "lol i'm just kidd…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 12:53 PM
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