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Social IssuesehWoc/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:05 PM
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ProgressehWoc/r/MensRights04/02/24 08:31 PM
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1

I literally just told you I never said that. Or implied. That's your imagination.
/r/MensRights15/06/24 08:32 AM
-10

That's murder. You either know what you're doing and you're doing it safely, or it's murder.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:50 PM
-11

Are you stupid or dumb? You can't accidentally choke a person. That's literally murder pal.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 11:43 PM
3

The friends of mine who are the personality gems you are describing tend to be shy/introverted, and they just don't interact with the women as much. For the girls it's quite easy to come to the conclusion the man isn't interested if he doesn't interact, doesn't reach out or doesn't even talk to her.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 09:13 AM
2

Well there are plenty of other terms that are reserved for women.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 11:16 PM
-5

There's a difference between having sex and having long lasting high quality relationships. Also, the studies of sex frequency rely on self-reported data. There definitely are men who are going to lie for the sake of feeling more powerful, or whatever.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 02:55 PM
1

Are you for real my man 😂 have a nice life ahah
/r/MensRights06/03/24 08:28 PM
1

I've been in martial arts for a couple of years... Yes, there are some women who are stronger than some men. Congrats on your academic success I guess.... That totally proves your point.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 08:24 PM
-1

Not in my country, so I've got nothing to answer with to your question.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 11:49 AM
-1

Link me to your studies, because with abortion, there is always risk of long term negative effects and even death in extreme cases. Also the psychological impact is not to be ignored. Even if physiological factors were the only to be considered, your comment is not based on true.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 11:45 AM
1

That's a lot of words for "being bigger = being superior". If your logic is correct, we should have global wrestling matches to see who is actually stronger. The average man is stronger than the average woman, but many men aren't built well or aren't healthy and many women are stronger than these men. It's nonsense to use such cave person logic, of course.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 07:23 PM
-12

I mean, it's the woman's body that going to suffer the consequences of either birth or abortion. Would you like your wife to have a say in whether you want to be snipped or not?
/r/MensRights05/03/24 07:21 PM
1

"Women live longer than men" "Having two copies of the same chromosome is associated with longer life expectancy" Logic is not logicking, the latter isn't a proof of the first, it doesn't support the first statement and it doesn't tell if having a set of XX or XY chromosomes itself is the reason
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:21 PM
1

I think that the Chinese dating culture is toxic both ways and incredibly more towards men, thanks to the one child policy.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:36 PM
-6

Aw, of course we would.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 02:23 PM
1

I didn't mean to imply anything such, but the language barrier between us might have made it seem that way.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:45 PM
1

I don't think it's a conspiracy but in your political system, it seems that people who "run for office" are chosen by their parties, based on expected chance to succeed. So if there is a significant portion of people in the society, who wouldn't vote for a woman, that leaves female candidates out of the question.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:43 PM
-1

I was just answering a question, never saying that women are not a part of the problem. What is your point?
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:23 PM
-4

Women are a part of that culture, aren't they?
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:20 PM
-5

I'm not viewing anyone as a helpless victim, I was simply answering a question.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 01:14 PM
-6

Simply... When sexuality is discussed, women are often only perceived as tools to achieve the man's orgasm and reproduction. The vast majority of pornography doesn't portray women having orgasm and the movie ends when the man cums on her face.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:45 PM
0

I wasn't aware that some men (even entire percents of men?!?) don't experience orgasm.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:44 PM
2

It's cultural. I've seen men complimenting each other in Arabic and Hindu cultures. That's where two male friends are also allowed to hold hands in public. Typically, in cultures where men have deeper friendships with men (because the role of the wife isn't as important, I guess)
/r/MensRights28/02/24 09:27 AM
4

Feminists somehow refuse to see women as perpetrators of such crimes at the same time
/r/MensRights26/02/24 06:55 PM
1

In Europe, at least the countries I've been to, female restrooms are definitely smaller. Women need to urinate more ofteb statistically, you may have a condition or high caffeine intake or just have dated women with large bladders, or whatever. Women also need to change their hygiene products. And when pregnant, they 100% need to use he restroom more often. There are even studies conducted on which sex voids more often, you can google them.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:34 PM
1

I do it sometimes out of necessity only when it's empty... At local events when there's vast majority of women//or men (such as concerts of people/bands who are mostly enjoyed by a certain sex) they usually make one restroom unisex. Tbh women physically have to urinate more often than men, and they use the toilet for more various needs, so I never understood why the typical female restroom has X toilets and the male restroom has X toilets and X urinals. There's usually a queue to the female rest…
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:23 AM
1

Well, the book is a lot about sex, and western cinematography relies heavily on sex to sell even bad quality movies... Sometimes it makes me feel like I'm watching pornography - the story is more holes than plot, and they try to save it with nudity and unnatural sex
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:17 AM
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I don't know any but I'm curious about the reason
/r/MensRights25/02/24 04:32 PM
-4

Yeah, because that would actually help us get all the crime statistics right! People who have become a victim of something would feel so motivated to come forward with it!
/r/MensRights22/02/24 04:51 PM
3

Not really, but if you only see relationship as a way to have sex, if you feel that a life partner can be replaced by a robot, I totally understand your stance on this.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 12:51 AM
4

I throw a fit when anyone tries to generalise anyone's sexuality!
/r/MensRights15/02/24 01:10 PM
0

I never said that the average man will do such thing, but a small percentage of men is able to hurt a woman physically upon rejection and we just don't want to risk it.
/r/MensRights11/02/24 12:50 PM
3

The working conditions and the entire legal system of the USA are flawed, I'm glad you people are starting to see it. Hope things change for you soon, for he better
/r/MensRights09/02/24 02:54 PM
1

Don't ask what's normal, ask what's right
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:59 PM
0

What about father's who are infertile and choose a surrogate donor, but don't want the hospital staff//everyone to know about it?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:19 PM
1

What specifically are we talking about, circumcisions? Piercings? Tattoos? Of underage people and children?
/r/MensRights06/02/24 09:09 PM
1

In my country, male bodily autonomy and lack of social support (including mental health) isn't that much of an issue... I guess you're from somewhere these things are lacking. I'm not saying our system is perfect, but I'm privileged to live in a safe country and the state takes care of us when we're down. It's a start, you're right.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:56 PM
16

Wear protection. I'm afraid the laws are against you. Unless you come to an agreement with her, no hope. Try to ask for paternity test, or move to another country.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 08:51 PM
3

You are more of a man for crying. More of a person who knows himself.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 08:22 PM
0

I don't think you understand the point of the form. But you do you I guess.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 06:16 PM
2

Hear hear
/r/MensRights05/02/24 01:27 PM
2

Oh, ok. I prefer the term "egalitarian"
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:40 AM
3

Who is a proper feminist here?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:10 AM
3

It's about sexism? Trying to uncover and solve the issues? Why do you find it sexist?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:10 AM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights05/02/24 04:05 AM
1

That's not at all the point of the form. The form studies how negatively people perceive different statements aimed at different people: "Is it acceptable to say this to a five year old boy? Rate from totally unacceptable to perfectly fine." Conditioning boys to not like pink colour is a sign of accepting irrational gender roles. Interesting how you are very actively trying to paint this form in a negative light.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 02:33 AM
3

(The student is a woman, if that's of any interest)
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:07 PM
7

For the general public, made by a social studies student. These questionnaires are then used to monitor tendencies within the society and to adjust our social support system.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:06 PM
3

Men are taken away to wars, and have always been, in history. Treated as objects who deserve to be traumatized, murdered or mangled for someone else's ambitions. When men are sexually abused/assaulted, especially by women, they are almost never taken seriously. They get ridiculed, so they don't speak up. Admitting that they have such experience only leads to more bullying. That often goes to women, too, but the society takes female victims more seriously than male victims in general. I'm divorce…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 03:58 AM
3

Anything that's being kept only for the sake of tradition is bullcrap. If there are no rational reasons, and/or people don't enjoy the tradition, it should be erased.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:04 PM
2

Both Ukraine and Russia are incredibly sexist.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 02:04 PM
3

For the same reason a woman should be a stay-at-home mum. You don't have to. Some people will voice their opinions but you don't have to care about them.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:23 AM
2

Women in tribal societies do build and hunt though, and they stay alone in separate groups of women and children during the day, so they do protect as well...
/r/MensRights01/12/23 11:47 PM
2

How do you "risk women" as a tribal society, when they literally don't have anywhere to go? There's a cultural and language barrier between them and the other tribes, by leaving the tribe they risk death or enslavement. What motivates you to treat them well, if they're weak and defenseless?
/r/MensRights01/12/23 10:32 AM
1

Conceiving through rape is easier than through consensual sex. Why would treating women better make the tribes more likely to survive?
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:46 PM
-1

So, people treat women better because women treat people better?
/r/MensRights30/11/23 12:40 PM
-3

Why do you think people are nicer to women? Like, what is the reason people treat women better? (Honestly if you downvote please tell me why, I literally just asked a genuine question...)
/r/MensRights30/11/23 05:52 AM
1

I'm a lady who has studied physiotherapy. Yes it does cause permanent damage, sweetheart.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:34 PM
-3

The woman's organs are going to tear apart and she is going to suffer permanent damage from the childbirth. There is no way around the woman's bodily autonomy. Find a woman who wants to have a child with you.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:39 PM
3

I hear you sis... Same case here
/r/MensRights27/11/23 04:08 PM
2

Because of their experience with men
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:29 AM
9

Pseudopsychology isn't the best way to approach gender inequality related issues
/r/MensRights23/11/23 09:14 AM
1

Hatig someone isn't the same as not wanting to date them but ok. I don't hate people for their looks, I'm not wired that way.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 07:24 PM
2

Not really, because you can't do anything about being short while you can do something about being fat. Disliking someone for a physical trait that they can do nothing about and that says literally nothing about their personality is much worse than disliking someone for not living up to a certain lifestyle standard, which is in their free will, or not having a certain mindset, which is totally understandable when picking a life partner.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 05:44 PM
1

I don't. I make my own money, and am in a serious relationship.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 10:43 AM
1

99 out of 100 are easy to get with minimal effort. Love in your fantasy, men will always be easy, giving away their money as if it compensates for their lack of emotional intelligence.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:43 AM
1

We do notice them, most women just don't care. Why put in the extra work, if the work is willing to do itself for free? Yes, it's definitely women who choose. Who cares if you're in the 1% who is going to be "hard to get" if 99% just give themselves away for free?
/r/MensRights30/10/23 05:01 PM
1

Well, for every man that chooses to ignore a hint there are 15 who will drop to her feet. So it's up to her to decide which way of communication and what kind of partner she wants.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 09:37 AM
0

Because we simply don't have to. We're being approached all the time. Usually all we have to do is drop a hint. Men are easy game.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 12:14 PM
-2

I used that phrase on purpose because the "not all men" seems to be used commonly
/r/MensRights22/10/23 03:58 PM
1

Not all women Sorry you've got this experience.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 01:15 PM
1

Dating significantly younger women, they're 99% in it just for the sense of economical security and emotional stability, because they aren't mature enough to be alone just yet. The vast majority of relationships where the man is 10+ years older than the woman ends tragically for the man.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:59 PM
1

I'm starting to believe the US legal system is a joke
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:57 PM
1

Sex with a minor should be classified as sex with minor, and the one who isn't a minor should be wise enough to make sure they aren't fucking a minor...
/r/MensRights21/10/23 08:31 AM
0

If it's the legal age in his country, he should have known better. You have people who say that fucking a 13 year old is ok because "it's legal somewhere in the world"
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:29 AM
1

I'll be glad to read news, articles and studies that show that men are opressed by women in Goa, Mumbai. Can you provide any?
/r/MensRights12/10/23 10:21 AM
2

Have you ever been to the majority of the world? Africa, Asia, large parts of Europe, India.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 10:10 AM
1

At least in my culture, it definitely isn't women who is used to sugar coating.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 09:52 AM
-1

It's about the same level of toxicity as feminists forums... pointing out the negatives and negatives only, and massive generalising.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 08:52 AM
1

You must have a very specific kind of trauma
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:54 PM
1

Thank you for a response that isn't toxic
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:53 PM
-2

It says that they prioritise women for kidnapping and killing. The article says that women are at higher risk. In a crowd of people, women will be targeted for kidnapping.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:06 PM
9

What I learnt in sex ed: male and female reproductive anatomy and processes the value of consent some people have alternative sexual orientations and identities and if we're mean to them for that, we're actually in the bad methods of birth control where to get help in case something happens quality>quantity What I didn't learn but kids learn it nowadays: Internet is fake and pornography can degenerate your brain over time, and harm your relationships I don't really feel like googling them for yo…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:01 PM
26

Playing the victim and giving their hole to the first man who shows up to "save them" and provide a house and financial stability is much, much easier than being a strong and independent human being searching for a respectful partner.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:50 PM
0

How so? My dad was supposed to be the stay-at-home. Imagine you tell your wife to stay at home and she does nothing all day. Easy fix? Drop your job and be home with the kids, silly! Right?
/r/MensRights09/10/23 01:05 PM
0

She would take care of the house and the children, she just wouldn't go to work I guess.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 01:02 PM
1

In my country, the wage gap has been proven to be real, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 10:10 AM
4

My dad was a stay-at home. Result? My mum went to work, then home to clean, cook and take care of us. Not trying to make it look like all men are like my dad. But damn, did he have a chance.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:30 AM
1

Well, both parents can't permanently sacrifice their health to give birth...
/r/MensRights05/10/23 05:34 PM
2

Don't know how this works in your country. Custody and child support in the case of divorce can be specified in the pre-marital agreement. Child support is usually a totally hilarious sum (by which I mean, barely covers the necessities such as food for the children) where I'm from.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 08:06 AM
0

When you have kids, you either have to take care of them, or support them financially. I don't understand, what's the difference?
/r/MensRights04/10/23 09:38 PM
1

Don't give up. Some people are pricks. I've been told by internet strangers "that's right, you're just a fucktoy for men" after confessing the same. Don't let a handful of absolute idiots discourage you from experience the world in it's beauty. Are there any mental healthcare options in your area?
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:10 PM
2

I don't know about your study but my deaf boyfriend left me because I have a chance of losing my eyesight when I'm 70+ years old haha. I learnt to sign for him and he said he wouldn't be with me if I got sick. Once I dated a little person, who couldn't even take care of his personal hygiene because of his condition, and he told me he wouldn't date a disabled woman because he "deserves" to have a healthy partner. Obv I've met a lot of men who are ok in the head, too. When it comes to taking care …
/r/MensRights28/09/23 11:32 PM
3

I'd say wars. For thousands of years, men were forced to endure incredible trauma, and not complain about it. It's a cultural thing now, and we need to get rid of it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:56 AM
7

I'm talking about adult clubs, like swinger clubs.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:01 PM
12

In my country, I've noticed that in adult clubs, often women have free entrance and men have to pay ridiculous sums when alone (couples pay the normal entrance). I believe it is because men would frequent/visit these places a lot more than women, so to keep the ratio a bit closer to 50:50, this rule is set.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:52 PM
22

A couple of years back, there was a case in my country where the woman chained a drunk man down in her basement, fed him Viagra and alcohol and repeatedly raped him in the course of several days. I guess he was hard - but did he enjoy it?
/r/MensRights22/09/23 05:20 PM
0

Come to Europe, USA is weird about bodily autonomy
/r/MensRights22/09/23 03:15 PM
5

The guy who checks the tickets, don't know what that profession is called in english, escorts them away. The "women only" wagon is only connected to the rest of the train in one direction so men don't have any reason to "just walk through". If they don't respect the sign, they can be excluded from the train by security. It would surprise you, but many of those creeps are perfectly sober. They just enjoy using the situation: being alone in a small room with a woman... Groping and SA is usually do…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 10:42 PM
1

Hi, we have these in Europe too. Don't know how many times people touched you on public transportation with their naked genitals, but it has happened to me a couple times. Drunk people "flirting" with me and touching my body at night is a current occurrence. By "people" I mean men of course.... Japan is the capital of these things.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 09:58 PM
2

Hypocrites.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 02:04 PM
2

Oh, I think we might have just gotten a glimpse of the reason you developed it in the first place.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 06:26 PM
-1

If it's voluntary and wanted by both sides, it isn't harrassment, it's a relationship. If you're worried the other party is being harassed, you can reach out to them and ask about their point of view. You might ruin their life, too.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 06:18 PM
0

What's getting her fired going to do with anything? Being intimate with a nearly 30 year old isn't something obscene. Being unfaithful is. It's a personal issue between you and her.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 04:55 PM
1

Hi. Can you report it and ask for a paternity test? Where are you from?
/r/MensRights12/09/23 07:11 AM
1

I'm aware.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 10:53 AM
-15

It doesn't, studies show that women in their twenties are more mature than men, it evens out around 30
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:11 PM
-1

Well, we have to deal with chronic pain and bleeding for most of our lives, and give birth etc which risks our health and lives.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:11 PM
3

You can come to Czechia and let them perform the tests here. France is a strange place, for many different reasons.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 10:48 PM
-2

You can have a good prenup
/r/MensRights28/08/23 08:26 PM
1

Czechia.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:03 PM
3

Have a good prenup to protect the both of you, and a normal wedding. If you're so different from each other, why do you want to marry her?
/r/MensRights24/08/23 03:15 PM
1

The divorce laws in my country are pretty fair and most people choose to not get married. It's even more profitable for women to not be married when they have children (or for fathers who choose to be the "single parent")
/r/MensRights24/08/23 03:10 PM
2

Focus on your personal growth, on finding ways to have the richest life experience, and to understand things better. Find things that block your path to a better experience, things that you can change about yourself. And find peace with the things you can't change.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 04:59 PM
1

It catches my eye but yay for him wearing whatever he wants
/r/MensRights23/08/23 10:34 AM
4

Hi. I'm from one of the countries where Ukrainians go most often. Yes we do care. We have friends in Ukraine and every day we fear they die for no good reason. I work in education and healthcare and there are so many fatherless children coming into the country every day. Sometimes they even travel on their own, without parents.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 09:16 AM
20

Don't know the laws in your country, but how does she need any of that if you don't have children together?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 11:16 PM
1

In my country, premarital agreement.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:44 PM
2

Prague is Central Europe, and Czechs are pretty rude and not very fond of American tourists.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:42 PM
157

I would contact the professor, to at least ask them questions.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 06:40 PM
46

It's interesting to see that both sides see the other as "adult child", but usually for different reasons
/r/MensRights05/08/23 05:11 PM
3

There are many articles that conclude the same thing across many countries, is all I know.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:36 PM
18

Yes, plenty.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:57 PM
2

Are there object weight restrictions in workplace in your country?
/r/MensRights05/08/23 07:29 AM
27

I understand that. You risk being filmed and ridiculed for acting completely normal.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 12:34 PM
-6

I like it when men approach me in a polite and respectful manner, I just don't enjoy being catcalled and chased after even though I refused several times.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 11:48 AM
2

Nothing really. I just mind that in my country, women aren't legally able to perform certain jobs because of weight restrictions (women aren't allowed to lift heavy objects at work). Yes, it's a double-edged sword with "inequality" written on it. Only men are allowed to perform these jobs, and only men suffer the consequences.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 04:53 PM
4

Speak about it in real life, not only on a men's rights forum.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 10:24 AM
1

If they don't tell you this in the west, they definitely won't tell you in the east.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 06:40 PM
-1

Hear hear
/r/MensRights01/08/23 10:57 PM
1

Don't know how the laws work in your country, but in mine we can formulate and sign a premarital agreement, where you can state which things will stay in whose possession in case you divorce.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 07:19 AM
6

Many people don't understand that men can be raped, or that women can be rapists. I wish this changes soon. Hope this guy finds the help he needs.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 05:25 PM
5

None. Misandry is very real.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 04:51 PM
1

Open your eyes. She obviously isn't interested in a relationship.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 01:51 PM
1

♥️ You are so smart and unique.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 04:11 PM
1

Again, I said nothing about mass breeding 😂 I was talking about repopulating. You are a clown.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 03:33 PM
1

I never said anything about a mass breeding programme. I'm talking about regular reproduction and local production of the state, you confused noodle. I as a woman want a man who sees me as an equal and is a functional human being, able to provide as much as I do, btw. No amount of riches makes up for a shitty personality and a lazy approach to life.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:36 PM
1

I have met incels who are very much into the idea of enslavement, torture and murder of women. Crazy people are everywhere. It's sad and wrong that the society tolerates it from the feminists.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 02:26 PM
2

I've heard this from many men, and only one women: "Sex is a basic human need and a person can't be happy without regular intimacy."
/r/MensRights13/06/23 03:01 PM
0

Source please?
/r/MensRights08/06/23 07:31 AM
0

Ouwie, I'll cry myself to sleep tonight :'(
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:54 PM
0

You're such a superhuman ♥️
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:53 PM
0

Enlighten me then, my hero!
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:52 PM
0

Learn to read, honey. In my country, men aren't legally obliged to go to war.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:45 PM
0

Well in case of war, they might have to. Immigration leads to transcultural issues in many regions. States want to avoid that. Women are legally obliged to bear children, silly. Men can't do that.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:43 PM
1

Did I ever say that "I" want it? Clown.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:42 PM
1

Historically, polyamory was supported in cultures where there were more women than men. Typically, because men went to war. Early Islam, Turkic nations, Vikings, for example.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 12:40 PM
-18

In mine, professional soldiers are sent. Male and female, based on their training. Thing is, one man can impregnate many women, but one woman will only have a limited amount of children. If you want your population to grow or to be stable, it's quite irrational to send women to the front lines. It sucks but I believe that this is the motivation, deep down (besides the fact that female soldiers are nowhere near as effective as male soldiers).
/r/MensRights24/05/23 10:33 PM
2

Point is, no matter what anyone is wearing, they don't deserve to be assaulted for what they're wearing.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:41 PM
5

I'm sorry, this is so horrible and unfortunately there's probably no way out for you legally. Get in touch with a therapist and be kind to yourself. You did nothing wrong, just be more cautious about having sex with strangers.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 01:59 PM
1

I'm sorry for whatever made you the way you are.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:36 AM
2

It's because testosterone kills hair follicles prematurely... But that wasn't my point. Most people have insecurities.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:34 AM
2

Show affection to his insecurities. Cuddle with his baldness and fat.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 01:26 PM
14

I've got some great male friends. You should try that, too.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 09:02 AM
0

Then, why doesn't the average person in the US spend time with friends?
/r/MensRights22/04/23 07:50 AM
1

"Hi, I heard you need a lift, and I could help you. I can let you take a photo of my ID and give you my phone number so you can send these to your parents. I will keep my camera on recording so you can send the video to your parents, or we can Livestream to them, so that they know you are unharmed." If she refuses, her loss.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 06:56 AM
0

Why don't you make plans to see your friends 90% of the time?
/r/MensRights21/04/23 04:14 AM
1

Women's standards have increased = feminists have ruined dating? In the past, women would marry an abusive or intellectually inferior man from their village, yes, because they had no choice; they weren't financially independent and had to marry in order to survive.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:21 AM
5

We should supports everyone rights in regards to bodily autonomy. If I may ask, how old were you when you were cut? I'm sorry they did this to you.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 07:34 AM
1

You can tell her from a "safe" distance what it is you're approaching her about. No need to walk to 0.5 meters from her to say "Yo lady you forgot your purse"
/r/MensRights06/04/23 04:50 PM
2

That's why you have to check people's ID before you sell them alcohol. You can't tell from what they look like. They can lie.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 11:55 AM
1

A) Get a better girlfriend B) Try therapy for couples
/r/MensRights03/04/23 02:38 PM
1

It really depends how the partners define it.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 03:43 PM
3

Yeah their sub is just a toxic echo chamber.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:46 PM
0

Then why do you mind they are allowed in here?
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:12 AM
1

"Someone did a bad thing so I should be allowed to do the same bad thing," be it stealing someone's car, killing, or disabling a demographic group from entering a public discussion. This logic is just wrong.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 09:27 AM
4

"Someone killed my brother so I should be allowed to kill their brother" It doesn't work this way.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 08:50 AM
-3

Just yesterday a man was blocking the woman's restroom in the restaurant. I'm ok with it.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:48 AM
2

I've met men who were into it, not a fan of causing pain to anyone myself, but I don't kinkshame.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:01 AM
22

It's a bad situation. Me being a F who has been SAd by another F in childhood, I get a lot of "you just matured early and wanted it." Can't imagine what male victims get. Especially teenagers.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 08:34 AM
1

What about her sexuality though?
/r/MensRights22/03/23 06:21 AM
1

Oh wow. May I ask what it's like to live with a hetero person of the opposite sex when you aren't hetero? And why?
/r/MensRights21/03/23 09:37 PM
2

???
/r/MensRights21/03/23 09:56 AM
2

You're* And it was more of a revenge site for men who can't handle breakup.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:28 AM
2

That's nonsense? Men tend to die younger mostly due to lifestyle differences. There probably is a very slight biological factor but not significant enough to make a difference as big as a decade.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:27 AM
1

Is there a "are we dating the same girl"? There used to be one in my country. Never one about men though.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:23 AM
0

"It only happened 14 times in the past 2 years." Are you from the USA?
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:57 AM
1

It's 100% ok to approach her at a social event revolving around your hobbies, and befriending her based on that hobby. Being approached in public places solely because they thought I look attractive always puts me off but as long as the person is polite, understands a "no", doesn't corner me, I see nothing wrong with it. I'd say it's best to start a conversation about something that we have in common, and if the person doesn't want to talk, just move on.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 11:47 AM
2

Yes, definitely. Bonus points if he brings it up PRIOR to having a baby. Otherwise could be seen as a sign of distrust. There are men who lost their wives and babies after getting a paternity test that proved the child is theirs. A woman after giving birth needs support and if the man suddenly distances himself from her and the baby and questions whether the baby is his, is heartbreaking even if she's been faithful and has nothing to hide.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 01:25 PM
5

Is she bossing you, or is she the household's manager? That's an important task and most couples don't share it (so it's either the man or the woman and there's nothing wrong with that).
/r/MensRights27/02/23 10:21 PM
1

I don't "choose to surround myself with a specific kind of man", I spend time surrounded by many different people and some are like that.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 08:27 PM
2

Can't say it is a thing in my social bubble, so I can't agree based on my personal experience. I'm not saying you are saying the truth, I'm just saying that my personal experience says otherwise.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 06:55 PM
1

I know many men who bully other men for "not being masculine enough/not being masculine the right way". Women, too, are at fault. But definitely not women exclusively.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 04:47 PM
1

I disagree...
/r/MensRights25/02/23 03:57 PM
-3

Can I have an example?
/r/MensRights25/02/23 03:44 PM
0

Yes because it saves the state money. If the victim refuses to report the crime or sue the attacker, nobody cares. Unless it's a murder victim.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 05:05 PM
1

I just want to understand what purpose it will serve to focus on the english-speaking cultures specifically.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 11:17 AM
0

They said he only ever talked about work, which is professional, but if he was friendly to other colleagues (who weren't women), and discussed topics unrelated to work with them, that's a sign of hostility toward the demographic group that isn't included on purpose.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 11:14 AM
-5

I mean, it would be uncomfortable to anyone if someone avoided being simply friendly to their colleagues of certain demographic group, right?
/r/MensRights16/02/23 01:26 PM
1

May I ask why English speaking specifically?
/r/MensRights15/02/23 04:20 PM
2

It is practically 100% effective when used correctly. With proper handling and sufficient sex ed. There is no method that would be 100% effective no matter what other than having your gonads disconnected/removed. Sperm jacking is a thing, yes. Look after your condoms then? when the woman decides her desire for a baby outweighs her partner's not wanting one 1) That should be seen as a crime. 2) The man always has the option to wear condoms, and should wear them, even if his partner is on HA. Beca…
/r/MensRights15/02/23 04:15 PM
0

How come it is none of my business? I am heterosexual and I want to understand the struggles of my partner, of my future sons, my little brother, my male colleagues...
/r/MensRights15/02/23 12:58 PM
2

It is recommended. Glad it worked for you though. In my region. We don't have Walmarts around here lol
/r/MensRights15/02/23 08:35 AM
2

Se my further response to that.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 08:34 AM
-10

I don't think we do except they're quite expensive and hard to get by in my region, also you need to use one hand to hold them in place during intercourse which isn't possible for everyone. Edit: definitely better than other options that alter your body's hormonal metabolism and cause physical damage.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:16 AM
-14

So can you explain it to me or are you just going to be derogatory?
/r/MensRights15/02/23 06:34 AM
-23

I don't understand. There are condoms, they cause minimal discomfort, no health issues, are very easy to use. Why do you need more?
/r/MensRights15/02/23 05:41 AM
3

Don't know, I'd say I usually am the one who pays on my dates. Girls who are against paying equally usually have some irrational explanations.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 05:36 PM
1

Can you try to rephrase that?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:49 PM
2

I don't understand what the last one is talking about
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:31 PM
2

Parental leave in my country is 3 years. Sometimes even more.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:21 PM
-2

"You're a hero" clap clap clap 🙄 Cringe.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 05:08 PM
2

Nah, regular menstruation (when the person doesn't have a condition that makes it unbearable) is definitely not a reason to stay at home. I don't really have a first-hand experience with menopause but both my mother and my grandmothers were able to function just fine, so I'd say it's just a regular "life being life" thing and not a reason to be on a leave, either. Unless the person develops secondary illness (eg depression), of course. Childbirth, on the other hand, and breastfeeding + taking ca…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 05:03 PM
1

Why do you complain about maternity leave though?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 04:21 PM
1

Boys are more often subjects to physical bullying, girls to emotional and sexual (about 25-40% more than boys according to different statistics; that would be because girls enter puberty sooner)
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:57 PM
3

What the f are you talking about? He should have stopped when she became unresponsive. Period. Doesn't take a master to understand this, teenagers get it actually.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 09:00 AM
2

Having fully developed frontal lobe and understanding basics of communication?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 09:56 PM
5

You talking as if he was a 15 year old who doesn't understand how humans work. He was 25 and had the full mental capacity to react in a different way.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:28 AM
45

Obviously men. Female journalists don't visit the most dangerous parts of the world. It's weird they point out the minority though; what's the context?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 10:46 PM
8

Your approach to intimacy is definitely weird, and so is the lack of communication on her part. Sounds like a very strange encounter. If she didn't respond, why did you keep going? Why did you take off you condom if your partner wasn't responding to you?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 10:38 PM
-2

Post is talking about the hypocritical approach of women towards crying men.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 05:53 PM
-6

Crying isn't a weakness, but crying to force someone to look the other way from one's wrongdoings, that's childish and a major turn-off for me.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 01:00 PM
2

You don't have to watch it, use your imagination. At least you'll become more sensitive to visual stimuli.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 08:56 AM
3

Hateful/derogatory generalisations
/r/MensRights07/02/23 08:50 AM
1

My experience says otherwise.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 08:34 AM
-2

Why do you think that uncircumcised boys necessarily suffer from infections?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:46 AM
1

Your point being...?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 12:16 AM
1

I never said that they were all housewives, lol. As someone (not Eastern) Slavic who has interacted with plenty of Ukrainian and Russian men and women, there definitely are cultural gender roles, and very different expectations from each gender.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:35 PM
1

I've got a feeling that we sometimes forget that the world isn't uniform.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 03:43 PM
3

In Ukraine, Gender roles 100% are a thing, as well as in other Eastern-Slavic cultures.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 12:29 PM
-1

Could be related to where (which media and account) the photo was originally shared, and whether only one of them consented to the picture being taken and shared? I'm not versed in Indian GDPR.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:39 PM
13

I mean... Go for it
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:02 PM
-1

Maybe if you start focusing on the relationship part and stop making it about sex, more people will be interested, but that's higly cultural I guess.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:46 AM
1

How would you make sure people don't abuse this option? If opting out of parenthood by the father meant free child support for the mother, many people would do this just to have the support money.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:43 AM
1

Why are we talking about being "sexually worthless" if what you want is a relationship?
/r/MensRights04/02/23 03:13 AM
1

In an ideal world, where the laws split responsibilites among the parents equally, only one gender still has to sacrifice their health to have a baby. I'm asking about your feelings on this, nothing else.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 11:17 PM
0

So, we've straightened this out. What now?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 08:28 PM
0

I do, but so does being a mother. I'm focusing on the biological difference: only one gender carries the pregnancy and gives births.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 08:22 PM
1

That sucks, but that's some crappy logic if you get your heart broken and therefore say that in 90% cases the entire other gender is at fault lol.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:13 PM
1

What statistics are you basing this on?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:25 PM
-2

Thank you then. Hard to tell after some interactions I've had on here.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:24 PM
0

I see, when a relationship becomes dysfunctional, it's solely the fault of the woman. Note taken.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:07 PM
-4

Sorry, I don't have a punchline. It's just that people in this forum seem quite schizophrenic: on one hand they call women names for dating the wrong guys, on the other they call them names for ending dysfunctional relationships.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 01:13 PM
6

Stop basing your worth on the amount of sex you "get"?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:05 PM
1

Can you just move abroad and forget about her?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 11:59 AM
-13

So what do you call a woman who stays in an unhappy relationship, trying to make a change but never accomplishing it?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 11:55 AM
1

What you just said doesn't make sense, can you try to rephrase it?
/r/MensRights03/02/23 11:29 AM
2

The average Swedish woman is over 5 feet 5 inches so their policy accommodates most women... Sweden really is in a downward spiral
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:09 AM
0

Yes, I'm only asking about this single aspect, one of many. Financial and mental strain can be divided equally by law. It should be. But physical, never. That's why I'm asking. Stop dancing around. I never said it's the only aspect, you're making incorrect assumptions the entire time. Since you are obviously not mentally capable of answering a simple question, I'll be leaving this "discussion". If you want to chit chat about unrelated topics, feel free to DM me. Have a great night, or whichever …
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:03 AM
0

Where I'm from both people are equally financially responsible for the child. I'm discussing a specific topic of direct strain on one's body, like torn apart tissue and infertility, incontinence, or even death resulting from either carried out pregnancy or abortion.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:30 PM
1

Which are a result of pregnancy, got it.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:29 PM
1

I'm talking about physical health specifically, aside from mental health, in which case both sides are affected.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:24 PM
19

"On several occasions" 🤢
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:17 PM
1

I think you've made some sort of incorrect assumption, I don't "think it's the case of xyz".
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:04 PM
0

Except it isn't fair, see my first question. Once the woman becomes pregnant, her health is always significantly affected no matter how she decides. The man's health is safe from harm.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:34 PM
0

Probably with a piece of paper signed by both parties, or with a video documenting the talk. "He told me and she said" doesn't really prove anything.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:30 PM
0

The woman's health is significantly affected no matter how she decides, once she becomes pregnant. The father's health remains unaffected. Which was my original question. Can you answer?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:29 PM
1

True. I'm afraid the invention of artificial wombs won't "save" the woman's health as she's going to have to undergo a surgery to remove the foetus, so her health is still significantly affected even if the child gets to live. But perhaps it would be the best option for the scenario where the man wants the baby and the woman doesn't.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:28 PM
3

I assume this is in the USA?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:19 PM
1

Yes, definitely. If the man is able to prove that he disagreed with fatherhood prior to intercourse, and the women knew about this decision, he shouldn't be held responsible for the wellbeing of a cold he never wanted to have. Paternity fraud is the same case. The man should be refunded if he finds your it later on that he supported a child that isn't his, and even compensated for the trauma.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:17 PM
0

I never said anything about rape, so chill. I'm talking about a specific situation and you're going to another topic to make yourself a victim. You're really degrading yourself.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:14 PM
-5

I wonder what lead them to this decision.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:13 PM
-22

Ok then
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:37 PM
-29

The second is open to everyone...?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:19 PM
-56

It's understandable if most of the customers and toilet users are women (which is usually true as women use the facilities more frequently). In a restaurant I worked at the men's restrooms were much larger than the women's.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:20 PM
1

I only read it out of curiosity, the story was dumb and unamusing.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 02:47 PM
1

I think 50 shades is just a fantasy for women that substitutes other pornographic material.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:52 PM
-1

Yes, if he stated so prior to intercourse, I think he 100% has the right to not be a father. However I don't think it's moral to "withdraw" this consent later on.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:50 PM
3

If a woman uses protection, and the protection fails, should the man have a say? When he didn't protect himself?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:15 PM
-2

He has the choice to wear a condom... If the woman gets pregnant, she either has to carry the pregnancy or get an abortion, both has its risks and both can cause her permanent damage. If a man has the option to say "I changed my mind from when I told you five weeks ago that I want a baby," he's directly injuring the woman.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:10 PM
-6

I'm literally only asking about the physical health and the man's right to decide whether he wants to father a child he voluntarily concieved. Nothing else.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:59 PM
-6

I agree but since only one of the two people is affected physically, I see this as morally problematic. Hence I'm asking about this specific aspect. Can you answer?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:56 PM
-7

How do you feel about the fact that after sex, it's only the woman's physical health that's going to be affected by any decision?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:54 AM
1

I definitely don't see such dynamic in my country. Which country are you from, OP?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:12 AM
0

Is this the right forum to ask this question?
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:43 PM
1

Not at all. I just don't see how you came to the conclusion.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:12 PM
2

And that's why you use a condom.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:25 AM
1

Obviously.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:24 AM
2

Your logic is not working very well...
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:13 AM
1

I'm not from the US.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:27 PM
2

Living a man in which country?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:26 PM
4

I'm not from the USA, local standards are different.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:23 PM
5

I know for reasons I won't be sharing publicly, but I know for certain.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:23 PM
7

I think you don't understand my point. It would be better for me specifically, because I am made that way. Living life on easy mode has never been among my interests. But what are you exactly trying to prove to me?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:22 PM
-8

Yeah, we basically lie because we don't have brains. You're right.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:21 PM
-5

Glad you know all about my personality experience and my priorities in life! You definitely know what is better for me than me!
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:04 PM
8

Depends how you look at it. I probably managed to pick all the wrong cards just by being born to the wrong family. For me, being a man would be easier, believe it or not.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:03 PM
7

I'm not here to argue. I just genuinely believe I would be more content as a man. No trans business on my part though.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 05:36 PM
6

I could tell you the same about being a woman 🤷 I guess us humans always want what we don't have
/r/MensRights31/01/23 05:33 PM
3

I Wish I was a man 😅 it would just suit me so much better imo.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 04:57 PM
-7

I wouldn't say it to insult anyone, just to make harmless fun. But if the person told me they find it hurtful, I would avoid doing it again. If it's a specific person, have you tried telling her what you've just told me?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 02:25 PM
0

I don't know but I get called "gay sisters" and similar questions (So when are you having a baby?) With my bestie as well... I've noticed that men if some cultures (especially where male friends are often seen holding hands) get offended when called gay, but I thought it was due to their cultural homophobia.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 02:15 PM
1

Women being extremely selective - since when is this a new thing?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 01:46 AM
1

Hear hear!
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:41 AM
3

I don't see this phenomenon around myself. Single men get frustrated easily because they don't get as much sexual-themed attention from the opposite gender, at which point their behaviour often gets odd. But nobody sees them as freaks just for being single.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:26 AM
2

It's problematic because it's children who are being circumcised. It's a bodily modification that doesn't provide any health benefits, and it's done without the consent of the person being circumcised, because children aren't able to give educated consent. If it's so important for religious or cultural reasons, let the child grow up, decide how they want to live, and then decide if they want their body altered in such way.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 02:43 AM
4

Which country? Edit: Can anyone explain why this question is getting downvoted? Thanks.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 09:36 AM
1

What do you people consider "masculinity"? (Just asking for your opinions/definitions because different people have different views on this)
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:24 AM
0

I mean, I would like someone who's academically on the same level with me, so that we would be able to hold a meaningful conversation. But I don't feel like the women around me require the man to have a higher title than themselves.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 08:19 PM
6

There are stupid people out there. You think this is a gender specific problem?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 07:11 PM
1

If mRNA vaccines were tested properly in the past, and they work the same way with Vivid as they did with the tested viri, doesn't that mean they had been tested properly?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 04:38 PM
1

Do you think there were no tests before that?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 04:36 PM
1

So, when were mRNA vaccines tested on humans?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:58 PM
1

You're reading a study about a specific vaccine that happens to be mRNA at the same time, and your statement is about mRNA vaccines in general.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:57 PM
1

How long have mRNA vaccines been tested on humans and why do you think it wasn't long enough?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:53 PM
2

why they take so long to complete before their product can be approved for manufacturing. What exactly are you referring to right now?
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:44 PM
5

I'm sorry but you sound like you don't really understand what mRNA is and how it works.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 03:32 PM
-20

Enlighten me then.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 12:25 PM
-21

There's masculinity, and there's nothing wrong with masculinity. Then there's toxic masculinity, which has some sort of machoism and sexism connected to it. People misuse and abuse the term toxic masculinity and that's wrong.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:43 AM
-2

There's 104.7 men for every 100 women in China. There's 102 men for every 100 women on the planet. Use your brain.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:55 PM
3

Actually there's more men than women due to China's one child policy.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 06:19 PM
4

The therapist's purpose isn't to tell you right from wrong, and it's actually somewhat unprofessional that she told you her opinion. If she said it in the form of open question, fine, other than that, unprofessional.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 11:20 AM
0

When sexism and machoism is described as the "proper" masculinity.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:53 PM
1

Women do get called out and insulted about the same. The insult is a different form of the "woman" in my language. Don't know which is used in English.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:50 PM
2

So many men talk shitty about all women because they were heartbroken by one. It's not a gender specific problem.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 02:15 PM
1

Why won't she go?
/r/MensRights19/01/23 06:00 PM
1

You need therapy, and perhaps couple therapy if your partner doesn't understand that they need to be just as invested as you. Turning to alcohol only hurts you and your children. Please, don't.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 05:54 PM
2

Local police statistics (calculated reported crime vs unreported estimated by multiple specialists) in educational programs for schools. They stated it's 1 in 6 girls and 1 in 10 boys.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:13 PM
1

Not a thing in my country. Abortion legal without a question until 12 weeks, after that point only for health reasons (baby is disabled or the mother has a condition that makes pregnancy/birth/motherhood dangerous for her). There are baby boxes where the mother can put a baby if she doesn't want to take care of it, still a better option than finding babies frozen to death in rivers and trash bins I guess. People rarely put their child for adoption and when they do, it's for serious reasons. If t…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:36 PM
1

What kind of source will you consider valid? When I post a source on this sub, I always get a "well that's because the study was written by a biased person" response.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:30 PM
-1

She was lying to you, and she was probably a mentally deranged person using young boys as a vent for her personal issues. I'm so sorry you've been through that. Hope life took a better turn for you. I've got family in München, Düsseldorf and Berlin and the education system seems fine to me, except I'm not a fan of teaching children religion (not about religion, but specifically classes on how to be a good Christian).
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:29 PM
-3

1 in 8 children get sexually abused before they're 15. That's only 15 years to be sexually abused. Once you're adult, it just keeps going although adults are actually safer than children. It's just very common, way more common than you think.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:07 PM
3

How come they don't find it derogatory that the product is specifically made for women because it "smells nice"? They're basically saying that women will prefer pleasant smell over functionality.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:37 PM
3

That's totally weird and by all means illegal. Can you report the teacher?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:44 AM
6

What are you talking about, boys not having a chance to graduate schools?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 10:33 AM
10

Women are being executed too. It's considered morally wrong to let a woman die a virgin, so they rape them prior to the execution, too (one night marriage so it's halal).
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:08 AM
1

I've been told that I'm defending pedophilia because I said that [adult] petite women aren't children so it was probably something like this.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:03 AM
7

Must be cultural, in Europe it's mostly a running joke that boys stay with mums while girls learn how to be the new mum.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:48 PM
0

How do you investigate the accuser?
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:32 PM
1

It's different amount of time in different countries I guess. Of course there should be some legal formalities and alternatives in case the mother or the father weren't available to inform the other party about pregnancy. By which I mean, if the mother fails to inform the father, that's on her, but if the father is hiding and the authorities aren't able to contact him, that's on him.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:31 PM
1

You need to level up your game
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:25 PM
14

Making a false accusation should definitely be punished by law. It is in a way, as spreading misinformation and harming one's reputation. At least where I'm from.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:02 PM
1

Prevention, prevention is the key. Your school probably has a psychologist or someone like that. Talk to them about your worries, how people don't like you etc. Present yourself as a good person, don't snap at people and if they're hostile, ignore them, and report any bullying asap.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:50 PM
7

Every field has its own dresscode even if it isn't explicitly written anywhere. Following the dresscode means being professional and understanding the role. Outside of their job, people can wear whatever they want.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:19 PM
5

Just block her then
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:32 AM
2

Yes but she still has to go through the pregnancy. Her health is already being permanently affected. Also, that's another issue.The authorities should be able to contact the father.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 08:17 AM
1

Let's not shame men for having dicks cut or uncut, usually it happens when they're babies, against their will/without their consent. Doesn't make them any less valuable.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:41 AM
14

It's not going to fix itself I'm afraid. Don't know what they did to you but I doubt it. If there's skin tension or bad healing, maybe a dermatologist might help.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:07 AM
21

You meant "I live in a culture where the foreskins of babies are being harvested for organ transplants and I have been brainwashed into thinking it gives me any benefits whatsoever" Uncut only means "cleaner" in the terms of "less work for lazy parents"
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:05 AM
8

Man that must be bad. Can your general doctor refer you to another specialist? There must be a way to fix this
/r/MensRights17/01/23 12:01 AM
3

Well I think there should be an option for him to not consent to have a child if protection fails, but the time period for it should be limited because a woman can only have an abortion in the first 12 weeks after becoming pregnant. After that point, the woman has to go through with the pregnancy and give birth even if she wants to give a child away. Hypothetically, it a man had a chance to say "I don't want this baby" in the first 8 weeks after concieving, or prior to it, would that be a good s…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:42 PM
4

Thank you ~ I'm aware it's because I'm not a man, I tested this a couple times when I repeated things said by other members on this sub on another post around the same topic, and no matter what I said, I was always in the wrong 😂 it doesn't bother me that much I just sometimes just give up on giving elaborate answers when I know I'm only going to get hate. Still this sub isn't nowhere near as toxic as r/feminism.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:53 PM
0

What's wrong with people acknowledging their problems and seeking help?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 07:08 PM
22

Is this in the USA? I genuinely don't understand how people live in a system like this.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:55 PM
-4

Generally, Europe. I've only ever seen it "debunked" by some people saying it's the illusion of men and women doing different kinds of jobs. Can you provide data?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:47 PM
-17

Don't try to defend women as human beings on this sub if you like your karma
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:38 PM
-7

Can I see the statistics for "equal pay for equal work"? Because I sadly haven't found any that would prove this point
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:37 PM
-17

It really comes down to: A) are you sure you're doing your part? B) talk to her about your feelings, consider couple therapy if you (you or her) aren't able to communicate effectively C) find a better lover or suck it up No other solutions unfortunately.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 01:02 PM
2

It can worsen an underlying mental illness but surely it hasn't been effectively used as a defence alone in otherwise healthy individuals, that doesn't make any sense. I've only found articles that state it's only a valid defence when it's medically proven that the hormonal fluctuations caused insanity (regular pms doesn't do that). So, PMS + some sort of psychosis, which may have been triggered by PMS, but not PMS alone.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 12:59 PM
1

Yes.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 08:23 AM
1

Alright, I get post-partum depression (you probably mean post partun psychosis though). But when was PMS ever used to excuse murder?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 08:21 AM
7

I definitely was refused by some men for wearing my nails natural and things like that, "not being feminine enough" for them, when it came to fashion and make-up. My partner lists my independence among the top things that made him like me, and I wouldn't be with him if he didn't care whether his partner is a functional, self-reliable person. I want to work too, and if the man can't and doesn't want to help with kids, and doesn't like kids, then we aren't meant for each other. I don't know who "w…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 02:49 AM
2

Possible trigger warning, may I ask how old you were when you got diagnosed with CPTSD and how long after the end of the "main chapter" of the abuse it was?
/r/MensRights14/01/23 11:27 PM
-6

Sometimes, people need the help of their partner. People should be able to show their vulnerability, and partners should be there for each other, no matter their gender.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 12:28 PM
-8

I don't understand. Some men are mad that male characters in the movies are portrayed as OP heroes with unrealistic abilities, that men are portrayed as the strong, muscular, the ones who don't let emotions get in their way. That it's difficult to be a man when this is the standard in the movie industry. When a man can't afford to be emotional, affected by his life circumstances. When a man can't afford to not have the body of someone who works out several times a week. Now apparently, some men …
/r/MensRights14/01/23 11:27 AM
1

"Video has been removed"
/r/MensRights13/01/23 08:26 PM
1

As someone who's dealt with PTSD, sometimes when you start reading and suddenly there are details that bring up the trauma, it can mess you up. TW does increase your anxiety but it isn't explicit so no mental image is formed. It's a warning and it serves its purpose well. You are given a chance to avoid the rest of the text.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 07:01 PM
1

Dont tell me what to do. You are not my queen. Nor my owner.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:17 PM
1

You are a man. Take care of the problems caused by your group!
/r/MensRights13/01/23 02:13 PM
18

In sorry you've been through that. The people in your life aren't the best of people.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:58 PM
2

I think it isn't right when women put their bags on the seats, either. Why are we talking about this? I never defended them in any way. I love this "the other party does something wrong so I should too to make things even" mentality. If everyone thought this way, the humanity wouldn't be getting anywhere.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:51 PM
1

I don't know if she would, but she would. Traveling takes time and energy, physical and mental. If he wakes up, makes a coffee, sits by his computer and works his 8 hour shift in the comfort of his home, it just isn't equivalent to working 8 hours somewhere else, having to prepare, travel, and having to deal with people face-to-face.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:35 PM
1

Yes, and my seat isn't there for him. We're in the public so we should all follow some etiquette, so that people around us are comfortable.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:33 PM
1

Health, family, money 25
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:59 AM
1

I never put any words in your mouth. You can calm down.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:18 PM
3

I suspect you can tell a male and a female apart without knowing what they do for a living and how they do it. It's common and natural for people to feel upset/uncomfortable when their culture is changing. It's why nations often have a hard time integrating and accepting other cultures.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:05 AM
3

Hi, you don't necessarily have to complain or start a fight. If you feel like your and your wife's contribution to the home is uneven, just tell her about it. Of course you need to take into account that she actually has to travel outside of the comfort of her home to make money, but I'm sure you already did that. Another thing is different people make different money but as long as the less-earning one doesn't expect the other half to cover unnecessary expenses, and pay their share of the rent,…
/r/MensRights12/01/23 07:48 AM
3

Do whatever you need to do but let me have some space for my own legs if I'm sitting next to you, thanks.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 07:41 AM
1

I don't understand why women pay lower taxes in your country.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 08:15 PM
1

What's the country?
/r/MensRights11/01/23 04:44 PM
1

That's her fault then 🤷 But there's so many cases when there would have to be made an exception. We can talk about utopia all we want :/
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:28 AM
1

Why are you telling me this?
/r/MensRights11/01/23 06:24 AM
-1

Thanks! Edit: still, there's menstrual cycle, menopause and related issues and disorders. Atop to unrelated reproductive health issues. Men's reproductive functions don't involve constant hormonal changes and reorganisation and regrowth of tissues, so obviously the funding needs to be higher.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:34 PM
1

Well your logic is "I suffer and we should solve this by making more people suffer." Which I find morally wrong. I don't think there's a point in arguing anymore.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:16 PM
1

That sounds reasonable. We soon will have to write everything down on a paper 😂
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:11 PM
3

For routine screening as recommended by the doctor as well as my insurance company. Five years is a lot of time for a tumour to develop, what's holding you back from going more often?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:09 PM
1

Yes, I agree with that. But since the lady is limited on when she can decide to have an abortion, the man should be limited so that he can decide in the period of time when she's able to have an abortion.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:03 PM
2

I think it's pointless to argue further. We have different opinions, and that's how the world is. I'd still like to add that every pregnancy brings a risk of death, and long term damage to the mother.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:54 PM
2

In which field do you work?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:46 PM
1

Oh well, I did mean that. Do you think that being pregnant and giving birth is equivalent to, ehm ehm, paperwork? If so, you indeed are being ridiculous.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:46 PM
0

Are you scientist or a healthcare specialist to be able to tell which demand what kind of funding?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:39 PM
1

I'm only saying what I've heard of, you're making irrational assumptions.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:23 PM
4

But if the woman is set on "I only want the child if the other parent is present too, I don't want to go through pregnancy and childbirth and be a single parent ", then by telling her when she's been 8 months pregnant "yo I changed my mind" is incredibly hurtful.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:23 PM
0

If I sound bitter, it's literally because I don't know the "correct" phrases.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:21 PM
3

98% when used correctly. People should learn the basic rules of applying condoms at schools (which is true where I'm from). When they malfunction, it's from being worn incorrectly.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:20 PM
0

Explain what "health benefits" are, please.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:17 PM
2

The man should stop taking insulin to afford child support Yes, the situation in USA is tragical.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:12 PM
3

Women found abandoning the child in such a way should be forced to pay child support, just like any man would (equality and all that). I agree. But imo the solution is the father should be informed about the "abandonment" rather than giving both parents the option to abandon the child without telling the other parent. I was told "if I can't afford my medications while paying child support then I just might as well die". I'm sorry the healthcare system of your country is set that way. Hope it cha…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:12 PM
4

Iresearch on pregnancy and genetics is big. There's so much more to fetal development than to sperm. So, it needs significantly more funding.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:06 PM
-5

Well the man doesn't have to go through childbirth and pregnancy, and "paperwork" surely doesn't take him more than 3 months. You're being ridiculous.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:28 AM
-1

I'm not. My wording is the way it is because English is my third language. I'm using it to the best of my abilities.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:27 AM
-1

No, I was operating with the current law, nor hypothetical situations. I believe the father should be able to express that he doesn't consent, just like the monther, but only in the initial weeks of pregnancy, as the mother isn't able to get an abortion after that point.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:16 AM
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I only used it for the lack of better vocabulary. Now that you're saying this: if the timeframe for abortion is 3 month, the timeframe for "financial abortion" should be slightly lower. Because the woman needs to be given some time to prepare for the abortion (take a day or more off, set the appointment, get checked and consulted for all the risks: some women aren't able to concieve again after abortion because of preexisting condition she might not be aware of, etc). I say the decision that the…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:14 AM
6

Oh I see. But how do we formulate the conditions under which it's possible for the biological father to not consent to be a dad? Pardon my broken English.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:11 AM
1

Now that's new; many US Americans told me that parental leave isn't the norm at all, that women (both parents actually) often go back to work right after giving birth, and they have to use their holidays to give birth. I didn't say any of that (about that a man MUST pay even if he didn't consent).
/r/MensRights10/01/23 11:10 AM
3

I feel like condoms are a simple to use, easy to find alternative. I don't see how men are prevented from protecting themselves, unless living in third world countries and not being able to afford condoms.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:43 AM
1

Time off work isn't the norm in many countries. The child support calculated should only cover the man's "half" of the care for the child. If the woman is the only legal guardian, and only she takes care of the child, obviously she's investing time and energy so the financial input on her side should be lower (and vice versa; if the man is the guardian, the woman should be paying appropriate child support). I don't think it's appropriate to compare the "financial strain" with permanent damage to…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:41 AM
2

Do you feel like a woman has no responsibility over the child?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:38 AM
-2

By financial abortion you mean, that the father should be "excused" from child support if he doesn't agree with the pregnancy? Under which conditions do you think the father should be able to do this? (Obv there's no way to withdraw consent once she's been pregnant for 8 months, for example)
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:36 AM
2

Condom, spermicide, vasectomy, currently I've noticed this "testes heater" that, when used regularly, kills the sperm with warmth, but it's being tested currently afaik. And pills are being developed, but it's problematic.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:29 AM
4

Imo because it's the woman who goes through the pregnancy. It puts a strain on her health, not on the man's. Do you think that if a man voluntarily has unprotected sex with a woman, that he has no responsibility over the child?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 10:24 AM
1

Edit: mistook you for someone else, sorry.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 09:15 AM
1

I'm only asking you if you think that a woman gets to decide because her pregnancy only directly affects her health. How is a man's health affected by pregnancy? By having to go to work? Edit: I can't read your response now that you've blocked me. Not that I mind, I'm saying it just so you know.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 09:12 AM
-2

Can you answer my question and leave these off-topic rants? You are being quite emotional and not quite rational.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 09:03 AM
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I don't understand your logic. If a woman has sole control over reproduction, then the man has to be aware that she might get pregnant from having sex with him. Therefore by having sex, unless he's a minor, he accepts that a child might result from it. If he doesn't want to risk a pregnancy, he should protect himself from impregnating the woman, there are several different means of protection for men and more are being developed.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 09:02 AM
-1

I'm asking if you think the fact that women go through pregnancy and men don't could be the reason why women get to decide whether they are going to go through pregnancy or not, and men don't. I didn't say any of those thing you're ranting about.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 08:59 AM
-18

Do you think it might be affected by the fact that men don't go through pregnancy, and it has no effect on their health and their body?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 08:50 AM
-7

Well we should start saying it so it becomes the norm if it isn't where you're from
/r/MensRights10/01/23 08:49 AM
3

How? If both parties consent with unprotected sex (or with the fact that protection may fail), they both consent with the risk of pregnancy, no? Edit: The person responding blocked me, so I'm unable to respond to this thread. Please, if you want me to respond to you, use another thread.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 08:49 AM
-4

I can't tell you much about medical misogyny as I haven't experienced it, it seems to be more related to the process of giving birth when the doctors often push you through unnecessary practices to make it "faster" and easier for them rather than for the woman and her child. I'm curious, how often do men go to have their private parts checked by a specialist? Because for a woman, that is once a year. So yearly, I go to my general doc, allergologist, cardiologist, dentist and gynaecologist. That'…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 08:44 AM
1

Excuse me, you were assaulted by a 7 year old child? Are you serious?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:09 AM
1

In my country, we have a law that explicitly states that there are different weight values for men and women. I was trying to find an equivalent in an english-speaking country. Thought I had found one, but I kept asking you because I didn't fully understand the text, it really is a wall of text in a foreign language to me. I didn't keep asking you because I wanted to argue, I wanted to find out if I understood it correctly. So, thanks for explaining. I'm happy to know that in the UK, it's based …
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:05 PM
1

In my country, we have a law that explicitly states that there are different weight values for men and women. I was trying to find an equivalent in an english-speaking country. Thought I had found one, but I kept asking you because I didn't fully understand the text, it really is a wall of text in a foreign language to me. I didn't keep asking you because I wanted to argue, I wanted to find out if I understood it correctly. So, thanks for explaining. I'm happy to know that in the UK, it's based …
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:05 PM
1

A man who is shorter than a woman and has poorer musculature, is allowed to lift heavier things than her?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:43 PM
1

Apparently, in many countries.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:07 PM
3

That's beyond paternity fraud, if she abused charity to recieve money, how come nobody sued her after?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 06:04 PM
2

I don't understand your point. My point is, weight limits are different for different genders, based on gender.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:05 PM
2

Well having a different (lower) weight limit basically bans you from performing jobs that require you to lift and manipulate heavy objects. And you can't get a licence to be allowed to go over the weight limit.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:33 PM
3

https://www.uklaw.co.uk/accident-at-work-claim/faqs/what-is-the-weight-limit-for-manual-handling/ I shared this link with other people in this thread.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:08 PM
1

I thought Australia was cool :'(
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:16 PM
1

Where are you?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 11:54 AM
1

?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 11:27 AM
2

Can you help me with this? What is OHS? It's difficult for me to understand all of it. So there's no law that regulates how heavy things people can lift in the workplace? There definitely is such law in my country and other countries. I see no reason why a trained woman who lifts in the gym shouldn't lift in the workplace. Of course the average woman can lift less than the average man. But the decision should be based on the individual's ability, not on their gender.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 11:25 AM
-1

Linking an article about the law in the UK https://www.uklaw.co.uk/accident-at-work-claim/faqs/what-is-the-weight-limit-for-manual-handling/ Weight limits are different for men and women in most of Europe.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:57 AM
2

I'm providing link for the limits in the UK - different for men and women, as it is in most of Europe. https://www.uklaw.co.uk/accident-at-work-claim/faqs/what-is-the-weight-limit-for-manual-handling/
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:56 AM
1

What was their goal with this?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:46 AM
2

Source what? The law?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 10:42 AM
-15

I wonder how many physical labour jobs they researched, because women are banned by law from lifting heavy objects.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:17 AM
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What happens if the woman recieves the money and only after that it's revealed that she made it up?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:41 AM
-1

Well, it does, but it isn't really noticeable for low and middle class. Of course I'm talking about the gap in wage where the people do the same job and provide the same results. Western feminism is strange, I didn't expect so much hate from it.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:16 AM
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Hey, I'm sorry you've been through this. Of it helps I'm any way, criminalises are often rule as a part of their interrogation tactic. There was probably nothing personal in it.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:56 PM
1

I don't need source of logic, I'd like to learn more about the studies you've mentioned.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:53 PM
1

Also, I didn't deny any of the things mentioned in the post, I just said that it's surely difficult for a young man to live in today's society. What part of my comment do you not agree with again?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:51 PM
1

In which country is this relevant?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 09:51 PM
7

Central Europe
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:50 PM
29

That's neglecting their responsibility to provide first-aid which is punishable by law where I'm from. Sickening.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 03:59 PM
1

O haven't heard of this, can you share the source?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 03:55 PM
2

True that. I've learnt to always have a recorder on when I'm at work, and in situations where I'm afraid things could be misinterpreted later.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 01:53 PM
1

I don't understand the part "it's only problem when women display pattern of being bad..." Some people do bad things, then it's better to not trust them. And yes, generalisation.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 01:51 PM
7

Which legal troubles specifically are you concerned about? Rape accusations/paternity fraud, or other?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 01:10 PM
9

I was once walking in a very crowded street, so crowded that you couldn't see more than 1 Meter ahead of you. Suddenly, a very young girl, at max 5, grabbed my hand and said "I'm looking for Mommy" We walked and walked for some 20 minutes and found the mom some 250 Meters from where the child found me. She ran to the mum, who was chatting nonchalantly with a friend, unaware that her child is missing. She gave me a very nasty look, looked at her friend and they walked away and kept looking over t…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 12:15 PM
0

Studies have proven this, is all I'm saying. I don't know about the situation in your country. In my country, unemployment rate is very low and I'd say that more women are taking maternal leave than men, which protects them from losing job. Well, as a matter of fact, if there's discrimination based on gender (or race, religion, or anything else), it has nothing to do with competency.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 11:44 AM
1

I didn't ask anyone from protection, I'm just curious about your moral compass :)
/r/MensRights08/01/23 10:58 AM
1

?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 10:52 AM
2

So your logic is "some women do bad things, therefore it's right that I do them too."
/r/MensRights08/01/23 10:44 AM
-1

An argument for gender quota is, that people respond to papers signed with a female name more negatively than to papers signed with a male or neutral name. This has been proven by studies. Similar argument is in quota in workplace etc. In many fields, women are less likely to be hired even if their skill and qualification is the same as a man's. Do you think this could be fixed by adding gender quota to fields where men are discriminated against?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 11:55 PM
-2

So your point is, that women were never opressed, they always had the rights equal to those of men, they were never restricted from education and job, they had the right to vote and to participate in the same fields as men, and the Declaration of Sentiments is full of lies?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 11:29 PM
1

Can you elaborate? Pinpoint which parts of my comment you find wrong, and why? I believe I base these views on the basic training I have in psychology, as well as on the things men and boys directly told me. Feel free to correct me.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 11:13 PM
-2

You are misinformed and I'm feeling like trying to reason with you is a waste of energy, sorry. For example, Marie Sklodowska-Curie was born 20 years after 1848. She still struggled to recieve education and to be recognised in her field. Women didn't have the right to vote under any circumstances, until recently (after 1900). And so on. You provide your opinion but don't share any historical evidence. You didn't say which part of the document specifically you find historically incorrect in the c…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:37 PM
-2

Thank you. Society is Male Dominated Male dominance privileges men over women In 1848, when the Declaration of Sentiments was written, this was true. And in many centuries before that. Historically, there were reasons for it: the world was very different from the world we live in now, and it was necessary that each gender contributed to society in a different way. With the Industrial revolution however, women became able to perform various jobs, developing modern medicine saved many lives, and b…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 09:50 PM
1

How do I reply to a portion of text like you just did?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 09:29 PM
-1

I don't think feminism originated in misogyny and the want to rule over men. It does seem so from western media. At least in my region (central Europe), feminism is the pro-female part of egalitarianism. Just as MRA is the pro-male part. As I probably mentioned above, I don't like the way feminists act these days, especially in the western world. Everywhere, there are feminists who are misandrist as well, but misandry is not the initial purpose of feminism. Somehow women are able to be openly mi…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 09:15 PM
1

Yes they are.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 08:14 PM
1

Hey, first of all, thank you for all the examples. I'm not from the USA though, so some of them aren't exactly relatable for me (I can't understand how there are pro-gun people although I've got an idea that it's cultural; I don't fully understand the left-wing-right-wing thing because from the outside world, the two political parties of USA democracy look more or less the same, etc) In my country, there's a lot of anti-romani racism. The state recognises the Romani people as disadvantaged on th…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 08:10 PM
1

Be the one to start talking, if you have access to their bubble. Why wait for someone else to do it?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 07:23 PM
-1

How do you feel when a feminist blames something on men, makes it a gender specific thing, and generalises saying "men are like xy," or "men do xy"? Do you think it's correct to generalise?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 06:39 PM
5

I understand feminism in the sense that women and men should be equal. But western "feminism" is a parody of that ideay, they completely twisted it so the word has the opposite meaning, so I don't associate with them. Feminism, as the fight for the rights of women, perhaps still has a place in parts of the world where there's severe inequality. Perhaps it could be used to describe small acts of raising awareness about inequality in certain situations. But truth be told, what's the point of being…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:25 PM
7

Not normal where I'm from (central Europe) but can't speak for the entire world. If you express displeasure the person should apologise and not repeat it.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:23 PM
3

Strangers shouldn't do this but if it happened in a club/rave it's considered normal behaviour for these events
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:18 PM
-7

What's it got to do with her feminist status?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:17 PM
-1

Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but where in the article is she mentioned to be a victim?
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:44 PM
-9

Unfortunately, I don't think that the complications of divorce force people to try to work things out anymore. In the past, when divorce was nearly impossible because divorcees were shunned (in my region approximately until 80-90s in some areas), maybe, but more often than not, people developed pathological ways to cope instead. It isn't "I will leave because you aren't my problem," it's "I will leave if you become toxic, abusive, and all other means of fixing the issues fail".
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:36 PM
0

I'm actually happy now that I'm unmarried, and I don't see a point in getting married. It just makes it more difficult to leave if the relationship ever turns dysfunctional. In my region, there is no point in getting married anymore, it doesn't help with anything, and people aren't religious so they don't feel the need to marry to please one god or another. There is simply no reward for getting married. Sure, wedding is a cute ritual, but is it really needed for a happy relationship? Edit: Often…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:28 PM
-9

I think motivation plays a role as well. For me, it's important to prove myself academically as I've been raised in an environment that made me want to prove my worth, other than what I would have as a mother and as a wife. In the western society, it seems that women have a sort of tradition of wanting to be well educated because it hasn't always been their right. Men on the other side lose a sense of self-worth and purpose in the society, because the roles that used to be men-only are now taken…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:24 PM
2

You need to document her apolox, and preferably text her, tell her that these things are happening right now. Ask her why she lied about these things. Also, talk to an adult you trust (your mum or a teacher for example), tell them you need help with this. You never hurt the girls but you apologised because you were heartbroken and you didn't know what to do with the situation, you just wanted to do the right thing and move on. You are only 15, you are too young to know how to react in an extreme…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:01 PM
7

I wonder who wrote that article and how much fun they are in bed 🙄
/r/MensRights07/01/23 11:26 AM
2

In the west, definitely.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:59 AM
0

Oh yes, your comment, so constructive, is a great argument of that.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:55 AM
-2

As I said, it's a historical term. It just stayed. Now it's of use in some regions, where women don't have the same rights as men, but in the western world, not anymore. I understand that it might be used by a person who is currently interested in women's rights more than anything else, just like a MRA might be aware of certain issues the other gender is facing.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:55 AM
0

Does "moderate" mean you don't support any site, or that you support both? I'm very fine with the term egalitarian but it wouldn't fit many people because if I understand it correctly, an egalitarian believes in equality of all people, including LGBTQ+ minorities, and that apparently means different things to different people.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 12:22 AM
2

You've only been together for five months and you aren't even sure if it was a romantic relationship, if I'm reading it right. She might have worsened your social anxiety but surely couldn't be the cause of it. She's very obviously a horrible person. It's only good for you that she's out of your life. If you can't get her out of your head, consider talking to a therapist, if you don't feel like talking to your friends about it. You should especially go to therapy if it's true that you have untre…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:47 PM
18

I think it's important to let them talk but to put it in the right context, "you are watching a psychopath" or sth like that.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:18 PM
1

You don't have to if you don't want to.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:16 PM
-4

So, where are you from?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:49 PM
46

It's horrible that such things are performed on children who aren't able to consent. Routinely, when there's no medical reason for it. And then you have entire societies of people who think that uncut male genitalia is somehow worse. I also learnt that in the USA, the baby foreskins are used to create skin drafts. Did the parent know they were donating their baby's organ? Are people informed on this?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:33 PM
0

Because feminism has different goals in different parts of the world. And is used (or abused) differently.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:28 PM
2

I see nothing wrong there, other than the fertility of the population is likely to decrease because of in vitro babies. The process doesn't really allow for the incapable sperms to be eliminated, so more babies who will have the likelihood to have worse sperm quality (or children with worse sperm quality) will be born. I wish the women who decided to have a baby on their own decided to adopt instead, but I understand the urge to have their own biological baby. There's also some controversion bec…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:28 PM
-11

Where do you live?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:18 PM
1

Is it wrong to identify as feminist and MRA at the same time? Edit: Also, do egalitarians fight for the other gender identities as well?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 08:43 PM
0

Oh. Is this philosophy related to the "we don't owe our parents any gratitude, because it wasn't our choice to be born from them in the first place"?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 06:30 PM
0

I'm a nihilist and I don't really care what happens with our species. I think that we don't need to live in large numbers to ensure our temporary survival, and having big families in regions where survival of most of the children is likely, isn't very thoughtful of the environment, or necessary. Can you explain why you find reproduction immoral?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:58 PM
0

Depends. Do you think that no people should have children, ever?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:51 PM
3

It's cultural. In other cultures, women will defend their own oppression, and when you try to tell them that life is different elsewhere, they get very nasty. The women I'm talking about, they then recieve appreciation (and lack of punishment) from their family and other bigoted people in their society. What do these men get in reward? Looking like they have a nice character for the women? Why do they do it?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:36 PM
0

Feminism is the fight for women's equality with men. There is inequality in the society, that goes both ways. Except for very few places in this world where people are actually seen as more or less equal by the majority. I think it's possible to be a feminist and acknowledge men's problems at the same time. I personally don't describe myself as a feminist because western radical feminists kind of ruined it. And feminism doesn't describe well the want for universal equality, it's a historical ter…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:25 PM
2

I'm worried that the justice system in India is quite dysfunctional on all accounts.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:35 AM
54

She should lose her license for this.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:35 AM
-1

There's testosterone that heightens one's self esteem and lowers impulse control, but there's intactivism. What you're saying is equivalent to "women's wombs should be removed so that they aren't hysterical". Obviously this isn't how it works. Mental health, personality, impulse control, are things that can be altered without the removal of one's organs. Also, if you remove the testes, that indeed does lower the amount of testosterone in the body. Which makes muscle regeneration worse and change…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 08:03 AM
1

I'm so sorry. Schizophrenia is difficult on both you and the partner but I know people who managed to have a happy relationship. If you're currently stable, consider finding a dating site for people with conditions. If you aren't stable, do your best to work with your doctors to stabilise you. If you need sex, consider letting out some steam with a sex worker, so that frustration isn't clouding your mind when searching for the right partner.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 07:48 AM
18

Sorry that you've been through stuff that made you think this way.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:27 PM
30

That horrible as well. Doesn't mean it isn't just because I didn't say it. But it shocked me that men would laugh at me and say that it's impossible when I asked about their safety. And they would say that little boys are glad this happened to them.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:25 PM
3

Which country do you live in?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:12 PM
84

It's so bad, [some] men will defend female abusers and molesters even on this forum
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:11 PM
86

Please be fake please be fake please be fake This is so horrible. I was abused by a woman and I know it must be quite common but still it hurts that this happened to someone else, to do many people actually.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 10:10 PM
25

You need to get out of that relationship. If you live in a home that you own, just put all her stuff outside in bags when she isn't home, and change the locks. Also have everything recorded. If she does anything like this again and you have the video, sue her.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 08:56 PM
0

I didn't say that at all. When you want to resolve a conflict with a person you deem wrong, there's no point in arguing with them. That only hurts your relationship further. Instead, you can gently guide them to see that you were right, but it cannot be in a "I told you so" fashion. She may only be a misandrist because nobody exposed her to a variety of information. If OP wants to change her mind, he could try to get her to understand his point. But if he chooses a way that she sees as derogator…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 06:07 PM
0

No I am not 😅 Have a good day.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 05:55 PM
12

I know families where this works. Or families where the parents take turns being at home with the kids, and both work part time. But that's difficult because only one parent can take parental leave at a time each month. After the children are older and parental leave is no longer available, sually the stay-at-home parent, man or woman, has their own little business or a job they can do from home though. I know very few people who don't wish to be financially independent, and those I know persona…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 05:14 PM
1

Maybe she just needed to vent something? Can you try and have a calm discussion with her where you assure her that you and many other men don't discriminate? It usually isn't worth arguing with people who are on a rant like this. But ask her if she supports men as much as she supports women. Maybe show her some statistics about paternity fraud and such stuff. But only if she's already calm and open about it.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:45 PM
1

Why wouldn't it? Immigration is stronger in some countries than others. Also depends which cultures are brought in and how welcoming the host country is. If the immigrants are assured that if they don't respect local laws and traditions, they won't be treated as VIP, they behave way different than in countries that are afraid to deal with their crimes to not be called racist or xenophobic.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:35 PM
3

Don't give them a reaction. When this happens, if you can, take your space, go somewhere else. Don't interact with them. Never start anything. Never respond no matter what they say. If you feel threatened physically, go straight to a teacher/superior. The moment they start bullying you, start recording them. Don't say anything, do it in a way that looks like you're just on your phone. How old are you?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 04:32 PM
4

Yeah, in Sweden violent crimes went up hundreds of percent with immigration. People in Sweden aren't informed on these statistics and the propaganda is very towards multiculturalism, denying any issues with immigration and culture clashing. Also, in India, women who have been raped are often told to marry the rapist. Rape within marriage isn't really considered rape, either, same goes for many different cultures.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:12 PM
0

Psychologist was definitely unprofessional. I don't think this is gaslighting but a mental healthcare professional shouldn't be telling you their version of reality even if they disagree with you.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 03:06 AM
1

I'm so, so sorry that you're going through this. Best to stay away from people who are mentally unstable and/or immature. They can have a good side but you never know if they're eventually going to develop in something worse. Don't try to help everyone, put yourself first, always. Another thing I noticed: I don't know which country you're from, but in my country, you are obliged to give the person first-aid if they need it, but only if it doesn't put you in danger. You have risked a lot when you…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 02:33 AM
2

In what ways do you socialise?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 02:05 AM
4

What's the point of the parking spaces, if they are still for everyone?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 02:04 AM
4

It's got to do with raising amount of sexual assaults related to immigration crisis. Germany isn't good at handling those things. They don't solve problems, they compensate for them in a way that doesn't really make sense sometimes.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 02:02 AM
1

Language and cultural barrier would be a part of that. I'm from a culture that's often described as "rude" because we don't tend to wrap things in polite phrases. I understand it's different in English.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:38 AM
1

Good to know.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:36 AM
1

Well then, sorry about that, english is my third language. What does a real apologise look like?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:31 AM
0

Have you got screenshots? Or does the post still exist somewhere?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:31 AM
1

Well, I've already said that I'm sorry, there isn't much that I can do for you at this point.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:28 AM
1

How come it's getting off topic? Either OP is talking about a difference between the past - ancestors vs recent reality, or I seriously need an explanation. The people who enslaved the Africans in the past are merely ancestors of nowadays people. Not the same people.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:27 AM
1

I do do that actually. The reason I commented was because I was raised in a divorced family where both parents were talking badly about the other, and both were claiming that it is just so typical for the other sex. That's all.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:25 AM
1

I sadly don't know the comic strip. Rest assured that I have the need to say "well women do that too" under similar yet opposite posts. Sorry if I've offended you in any way.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:22 AM
1

I've only been to Poland once so I don't really have an opinion on this matter. I never witness any abuse f>m or m<f. What media tells me is that women die in Poland because they aren't able to have an abortion for medical reasons... Of course that doesn't mean that men should be abused. It's just that the country seems to have deep issues in general. Are the people actually so religious that they would want these rules? Not that it affected my stay at all. That was beautiful and people were nic…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 01:03 AM
2

If you say "we never enslaved anybody, we are different from our ancestors" does it mean that white people, who are also different from their ancestors, never enslaved anybody? The white people who live now. Not those who lived in the past.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 12:55 AM
1

I'm going to need your source on this. I'm aware that people from Eastern Europe who go to work abroad get often trapped in another country because their documents are confiscated and getting help can become quite difficult if you don't know the language. But it definitely isn't as widespread or permanent, most people find their way out and the perpetrators end up in prison. Is this what you were talking about?
/r/MensRights05/01/23 12:43 AM
0

Both parents often turn the children against the other party. It's not female exclusive, but I understand it's important that men are also recognised as victims in this.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 12:22 PM
2

I don't confuse people's sexualities, I just don't generalise. And unfortunately I know women who got babies with men who didn't want them, on purpose.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 12:20 PM
3

That's the thing. Some men might not want to have sex, even in most do. And then, even those who are down for casual sex, usually don't want to have babies with random people.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 12:19 PM
2

It isn't obligatory to marry her, but it's obligatory to take care of the child you fathered, even if you never meant to. Many men will marry the woman out of their own moral reasons, which is just sad, they then live in a dysfunctional marriage just because they wanted to be a good person. Afaik the countries where you can refuse to father your biological baby are those where extramarital babies are seen as the woman's failure but correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 12:18 PM
1

Oh, ok! I have no experience with hard contacts.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:47 AM
1

Let's not victim blame. Not only are there short lightweight men and tall robust women, but in any case, it isn't the victim's fault they were abused. It's the perpetrator who was immoral. Some people, especially young or people who have just gone through a certain illness, can't tell how much drink they can handle.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:43 AM
2

If talking to someone might help you, you can DM me
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:27 AM
1

I know it isn't the point but how come lenses help you and glasses do not? They work on the same principle.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 11:26 AM
3

I think that's mutual (between genders) across the world... The further you're from civilisation the more radical people get 😅
/r/MensRights04/01/23 10:14 AM
10

There is still slavery in Africa to this day though.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:30 AM
2

Definitely not normalised in Central Europe. Are we talking about USA or western Europe as well?
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:24 AM
2

Ah. Too bad for them as my family wouldn't give them a dime 😂
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:22 AM
1

Yep. Have you got any examples?
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:16 AM
1

I can't imagine much worse scenarios as long as you get out of it alive.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:35 AM
1

When people are drunk, they end up having sex with people they wouldn't want to have sex with if they were sober. There are logical and rational reason why a man would choose to stay away from a woman - she might be mentally unstable, clingy, have a bad personality otherwise, and bad reputation. Not every woman is wanted by men.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:32 AM
2

I understand what you mean, however there are women who aren't wanted by men, and they sometimes decide that the only way to get a partner is by tricking him into having a family with her. I legit had to talk a woman out of it. She was going to drug a man who wasn't interested in her, so that she would have his baby and he would be forced to take care of them. Why did she even come up with that? It's how her mother got herself her father.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:29 AM
3

Now I need to know what's a whisky dick 😂
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:25 AM
2

If you wish to father a child of a woman you aren't attracted to... You do you 😅
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:54 PM
2

Wow thank you!
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:52 PM
2

Can I just watch silently?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:46 PM
3

To rape in order to have a child with them, and force them to pay child support money or preferably give them a home.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:31 PM
2

I think it's more widespread than what people know.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:30 PM
1

I kind of get you, but since I think that no demographic should be ridiculed, I don't see why you're giving me this speech about equality. I'm all for equality, my values are just maybe different from yours. If there's a joke about men being stupid, and a man said "this isn't ok", would you be giving him the same response?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:28 PM
1

Blue pills might help.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:13 PM
2

I'm aware. That wasn't the point though. There are women who are undesirable to their male friends, too.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:39 PM
4

And that's a mistake. Sadly, predatory women are looking for average guys just as well. I know a couple of them.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:38 PM
8

I'm aware. It sucks.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:45 PM
-2

I'm definitely not saying that it's his fault that he meets such women. I'm saying that his social bubble is terrible if they treat him this way, and he should seek new connections.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:28 PM
-5

What makes you think I'm a femtroll?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:07 PM
3

What if she slips something in your drink and you suddenly lose the ability?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:53 PM
4

Up until recently, in my culture, man would simply have to marry the woman who was pregnant with them (and women had to marry the man they became pregnant with), because it was totally unacceptable to have a child outside of a marriage.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:38 PM
2

?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:37 PM
-10

Not long ago was there a post about Greta Thunberg's "smalldickenergy" and apparently many people found that inappropriate on the basis of bodyshaming
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:36 PM
-6

Bodyshaming jokes are fine? (the above-mentioned jokes aren't bodyshaming)
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:40 PM
1

You're free to have an opinion that is different from mine.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:39 PM
-7

Did you read the jokes?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:08 PM
1

I think sexist jokes are bad when they're against either gender. The first one is specifically about a negative stereotype. The second one is fine imo.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:08 PM
1

I'm genuinely asking for this. I see men as equal and recognise the issues they face. I know I'm not perfect in this. I try to get other women to understand. What got women the right to vote was that they connected and protested for it, how do we get men to be more vocal about this?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:47 PM
3

They can always use it for false accusation and pregnancy
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:44 PM
6

What about women you know personally? Aren't you worried they might want to falsely accuse you, or use you to have a family (unfortunately that's the logic of some women)?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:38 PM
8

Well that's why I don't clubbing. It isn't right to do this to strangers without knowing they'll appreciate it, but people seem to be doing this to each other, and it's something of the "club culture". Quite annoying when you're only there to dance and/or have fun with friends.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:36 PM
7

Can you share how specifically you do get harassed? Does this happen in clubs?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:30 PM
-6

You have a terrible social bubble. Can you connect with like-minded people in your area? Where do you live?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 12:06 PM
-1

Um, no, it had nothing to do with my cycle. They just use it to avoid actually responding to what I say.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:54 AM
1

Can anybody explain to me in detail, how this mechanism works in your opinion? I'm not talking about access to casual sex and short lived revelationships. Since a long term relationship takes a man and a woman, there's the same amount of men and women in committed long-term relationships. How come many men claim that women have easier access to long-term committed relationship? Since when a woman becomes a part of one, so does her man...
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:34 AM
1

Definitely domestic abuse and the preference for women in custody fights.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:27 AM
-24

Honestly I've seen more men "accusing me" for being on my period simply because they didn't agree with me and wanted to invalidate my arguments. I've never seen a woman use period as an excuse for anything, other than complaining of pain and not being able to lift heavy things [in person, I am aware that such women exist].
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:23 AM
5

I think that all people who use their own hormones as an excuse for anything are just looking for an excuse to not learn to have control over their behaviour. Sure, it affects you, but either you are a sentient being and you have control over yourself, or you aren't.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:20 AM
2

How fucking crazy do you have to be to do... What? I wonder what happened in the USA. The feminists in USA seem incredibly toxic. They invest a lot of time and energy in meaningless things. When and how did that happen, how did it change from "give women the right to vote and to work" to this?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 07:59 AM
-2

The government only cares about the things that people push it to care about. Why don't men protest and fight for their rights?
/r/MensRights03/01/23 07:36 AM
3

In my culture, as well as many others, when the woman is serving food, she serves the oldest man first, and men always before she serves women. Also when women were still housewives, when the man would come home they would just do anything he would want, because after all he was tired after a long day of work. They would pamper him and he would just relax and regain energy. For example. We have more ritual behaviour and traditions with this purpose. In Northern Europe, the gentlemanly rituals ar…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:39 PM
2

Of course I don't base my opinion on the Vedic texts themselves, it's a base to understand the context of the future development. I'll be happy to learn from you if you are willing to share information rather than repeat "your information is incorrect" over and over.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:25 PM
-1

That sucks. How do we change it?
/r/MensRights02/01/23 09:48 PM
1

Well many people in India are apparently very spiritual and base their social behaviour on philosophy rather than on psychology. I can't judge whether it's the minority or the majority. Caste system and gender roles are a huge thing, as I've been told by Indian people.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 09:47 PM
1

Considering his reasons why he might want to decide to stay with the wife.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 05:41 PM
0

Ok, thanks.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 02:14 PM
1

Can you try to be more explicit with your point? I'm not sure I'm getting the parable correctly.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:58 PM
-4

I agree with you that it's extreme, but it makes sense in the context and the person asking wants to know where I draw the line I guess.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:44 PM
2

Really depends on the circumstances. My mum is currently dating someone who killed in self-defence and went to prison for it. He seems like a genuinely nice person though. In my home village there was a boy who burnt his father in his sleep. He was 14 when he did it. His father abused him horribly and caused him permanent damage. He was desperate, worried for his life, and too young and uninformed to know how to solve the situation better. Obviously he was already suffering mental health issues …
/r/MensRights02/01/23 01:43 PM
3

Yeah I'm definitely not on the same boat with the psychologist. I probably misunderstood more likely because English is my third language and I'm not perfectly fluent. I have to guess the meaning sometimes because no dictionary and no translator is able to teach me all the ways to word something, only conversation can do that. I didn't say you did say it, I asked because I wanted to understand if that's what you're saying. So men are ok with their wife cheating as long as she doesn't get pregnan…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:42 PM
-6

I think it should be up to him, he should be able to decide in a way that he finds morally correct. If leaving would be the only option for you, that's perfectly valid and you should be free to go.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:23 PM
0

Also, I'm not saying that he cheated. I'm saying that they could have both been intimate with someone else, which is why he might be able to forgive her the cheating. We don't know whether he was loyal to her or not, I'm not judging him on that.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:22 PM
1

I don't really understand your point here. So cheating men should be able to have babies outside of their marriage, and women shouldn't? I definitely think he's in a terrible situation and shouldn't be forced to take care of the child.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:21 PM
-16

How come it has nothing to do with abortion? He either takes care of the child, or he leaves the wife (because how do you share a home with a child that isn't yours and not take care of it in any way?). And the wife might be set on getting an abortion if he leaves her. So I can see how this could be a moral dilemma for him. He definitely shouldn't be forced to take care of the child if he doesn't want to. It's a terrible situation for him.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:17 PM
-23

Some people are able to forgive cheating under certain circumstances, and some are against abortion. So I can see how he might be actually thinking about keeping the child for the sake of it not being aborted.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 12:10 PM
-1

Because many people have double standards, and I was just asking to see whether it's the case here. Glad to see it isn't.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:54 AM
0

You are free to think whatever you want to think. I don't agree with your view though.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:54 AM
0

I think all people make mistakes sometimes, and it depends highly on the circumstances. But you're free to have an opinion that is different from mine, of course.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:51 AM
3

Yeah, it's terrible that he's got to go through all this.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:48 AM
-10

The literature I was talking about were predominantly vedic texts and travel magazines, as well as articles from philosophy scholars, if you're curious about that.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:48 AM
1

Apparently. But what I mean by that, he should be able to decide freely in a way that keeps his mental as well as spiritual health intact.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:44 AM
-8

And when a man gets someone pregnant outside of his own marriage, what should happen to him?
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:43 AM
-11

I'm glad you're educated on all the various communities on Earth! My sources are various, some is literature and documentaries, my Indian friends and a friend of mine who is a Indologist. He never said whether he cheated or not.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:42 AM
0

Actually this has developed in communities where polyandry was seen as acceptable, and in cultures where men often died in battle and the woman was left with children but no husband, and had to remarry.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:39 AM
-21

I mean, in the Indian cultures, women often lose all value on the wedding market for things like this. So it's quite understandable that she's asking him for this. She isn't forcing him though, is she? If they both cheated on each other for whatever reason, it's probably within his power to forgive her for the cheating, but nobody should be forced to father a baby that isn't his... Again, it really depends on the culture because in some small communities, being a father is understood as somethin…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:27 AM
-22

Can you explain rationally why this is making you feel so bad? It doesn't really affect you and it's in the past so yes, it's something for therapy... Feeling this way towards your partners for things that are no longer relevant, you'll only end up hurting yourself in the end because you'll discard good partners for nothing. Are you against abortions? Or do you mind that she had unprotected sex quite regularly, apparently? I'd only be worried about STDs myself in this scenario...
/r/MensRights02/01/23 11:23 AM
2

What is your culture?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 11:01 PM
1

Why would you want to have a power that women don't have?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:42 PM
4

Can you try to take her to therapy and set boundaries? It's your income and no matter her culture, she should respect that it is your money and not more not less than a kind gesture from you to be giving her some of it. Or is it really so bad and you want to end the relationship?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:35 PM
1

I don't disagree with you on the fact that females can be pretty nasty abusers as well; however my point was that the fact some people say something bad about the opposite gender doesn't make it true.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:17 PM
15

This isn't really a case where you would get domestic abuse intervention, sadly. You can try talking with her about couple therapy, ideally put it the way that you would like to resolve a communication issue. Say that "we have a problem" instead of "your behaviour is bad" otherwise she won't listen. If nothing else, the therapist will at least observe yours and hers behaviour, and will be able to be on your side if you get into a fight for custody (which hopefully you won't). Now, it's up to you…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:02 PM
2

What exactly is your point right now?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 03:53 PM
11

It's best to see a dermatologist, or at least a cosmetician, and let them help you find your skin routine and the products that are made for your specific skin type
/r/MensRights01/01/23 03:37 PM
4

My original point was that some women say stupid things about the opposite gender. The fact that some people say it doesn't make it true. Some men say stupid things which doesn't make them true, either.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:25 PM
2

Ok, so what is your point, what is your goal with all this?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:09 PM
1

Sad that you feel like this, hope you're going to get better soon.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:08 PM
30

Just dodge the bullet. Good thing she showed herself for what she is before anyone wastes their time with her.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:07 PM
2

I think you mean "time of month" and it isn't, actually :) are you ok?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:01 PM
3

What are you trying to prove by this behaviour?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:00 PM
0

I'm definitely not playing the victim, I'm lucky enough to live in a civilised country.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 11:59 AM
2

Care to elaborate?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 11:57 AM
5

It isn't ok.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:45 AM
0

That's about the same as "men aren't looking for a commited relationship, they just want to get laid"... Yet there are happy commited couples. It takes two to have a relationship. If the same amount of men and women is in healthy relationships (and many are in dysfunctional relationships, which goes both ways), how come that it's easier for a woman to be in a relationship than for a man?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:44 AM
0

It takes two people to form a couple; if a woman is in a serious relationship, a man is too. Care to explain your point of view?
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:15 AM
6

Is this equivalent to when a man refuses to wear condoms because he wants a skin-on-mucous-membrane feel?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 10:32 PM
5

In villages, sadly, it was seen as the norm to beat your wife. Your neighbours wouldn't consider you trashy, because they did it too. It was a widespread issue. But apparently you already have an opinion you don't want to change, and I'm not here to argue. Have a nice evening, or whichever part of the day it is in your country.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 09:35 PM
20

Where I'm from, if she accuses you of rape and no proof is found, you can sue money out of it and perhaps even send her to prison. I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish that the people who know you at least side with you and support you.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 09:10 PM
3

I never said it's a mainstream opinion of any society, only that there are cultures that see wife beating and rape as completely acceptable. In Medieval Europe it was also very common, in many countries up until the world wars. Not that it would be seen as something macho, maybe by very small groups of people, but nobody would really care or do anything to help the wife. I've seen such behaviour in gypsy societies even in this age.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 09:09 PM
-6

It's a societal opinion in small, rural, less developed communities, sadly. Even though the official government often tries to fight these "traditions", it's rooted deeply in the folk and difficult to deal with, especially when the woman is afraid to speak up out of fear of further violence. Have you never encountered such videos? They are to be found on any social media, and interviews with said imams are streamed by TV local to the countries where this is common.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 08:50 PM
61

That's horrible. Can you sue her back? For spreading such a nasty lie about you?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 08:47 PM
-11

Imams and courts of elders talking about how it's alright to beat a woman, in a certain way, under certain circumstances. Or to rape her. I'm not Islamophobic though, it's just that some imams are quite vocal about it and it's quite easy to find them talking on TV or in videos.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 08:34 PM
-22

Wife beating is actually still considered normal and manly in many parts of the world, especially in rural parts of less developed countries...
/r/MensRights31/12/22 08:16 PM
17

Because some people are stupid. Why does masculinity sometimes involve domestic abuse of women? It doesn't, actually, but dumb people will sometimes say so.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 06:42 PM
2

Some men are porn actors, too. Does that degrade the male gender?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 05:53 PM
13

If the guy is okay with condoms, why should he get snipped?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 04:51 PM
0

It's obviously easier for women to get sex and dates, but is it really so much more difficult for men to have meaningful relationships? Please tell me your opinion and the country you are from.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 04:43 PM
2

It's been years so I'm afraid there's no revenge. Only thing you can do is reconnect with the people you consider friends, that you lost because of her, and try to clean your name.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:39 PM
1

Maybe it would be practical to ask at a French subreddit
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:36 PM
1

I date my bf because he's an amazing person and I enjoy spending time with him.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:35 PM
7

A man is a man regardless of their height, stature, socioeconomic status etc. If you identify as a man and live as a man, I see you as such. Being a man can mean different things to different people, and telling someone that he isn't a "proper" man because he doesn't fit the stereotype someone else follows, is just harmful.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:32 PM
0

It really is up to you. Reconnecting with your daughter could be a way for you to find peace in the situation, and to explain to her what things have been life. If you feel like your daughter has been missing from your life, you can enjoy her presence once again. It wasn't her fault that she was disconnected from you, and now she reaches out. She shouldn't be forced to live without a father, but neither should you be forced to reconnect with a family that was taken away from you. What are you go…
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:29 PM
1

I'm so sad it is this way in your country. Is there seriously no way to sue the woman into having to let you be with your child/ren regularly?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 03:26 PM
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