eherqo Archive

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1	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Im so sorry that so fucked up. I cant imagine how much worse it is not having friends or family there to support you. The state tends to prosecute those already disadvantaged by circumstance more than those in power. The police couldve helped you, but they didnt. I would feel ill with rage. You were betrayed by everyone. The fact your roommate knew and did nothing is utterly disgusting. The fact those girls did that to you is horrififying. You were taken advantage of in a vulnerable state and no…	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 11:04 AM
2	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Thats so interesting, thanks for your perspective. Obviously, as a woman with only my own experience id never have known that , but it makes a lot of sense. I absolutely believe therapy should be tailored to men. Or tailored to any persons. (Tbh I gotta agree, therapy can be absolutely useless. I already know my feelings are valid, i journal this shit all the time, but the issue is still there and i cant work out why! i still advocate for therapy despite having many absolutely useless therapists…	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:54 AM
1	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Holy shit! Im so sorry. That’s absolutely awful. I hope you find some solace from counseling bc thats a horrific thing to experience. Best of luck man. No one should ever have to go through something like that.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:48 AM
2	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Gurl i don’t advocate for my own rights 💀 maybe that makes me a bad person. But trust in my personal life i am absolutely calling out bs double standards. If a woman tries to exploit a man i will absolutely call out that double standard. And i do to my friends frequently. I stand up for men in my own life. Im literally losing friends bc they can’t stand any mild suggestions that maybe they ought to widen their perspectives a little instead of only following polarizing media. Whatever. It’s becom…	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:45 AM
2	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape That’s so so so disgusting. I absolutely despise that. If that happened to my brother or friend i would be absolutely livid. Men are human beings! Treat them as such! It’s absolutely horrifying to hear that.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:36 AM
3	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape I HATE double standards. I’ve mentioned this is a few comments now but i will not tolerate my female friends attempting to exploit men. I believe that’s incredibly toxic form of femininity. I will call them out on it and explain why it’s fucked up. I think it’s especially important for us to uphold standards for our own sex. And to empower the opposite sex. If we do so we have a chance of cooperation. I thoroughly reject the radical feminism taking ahold of the mainstream. I still identify as a …	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:33 AM
1	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Im not an activist of any sort, but in my personal life absolutely. Ive had female friends try to exploit men and i absolutely go off at that. You do not get to treat another person poorly because you have been treated poorly. When my male friends open up about issues affecting men, i listen. Bc i care for them and they are human beings just like me. I want the best for my little brother. I want a world where we aren’t riddled with hate for each other, but learn to be compassionate. I don’t let …	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:26 AM
1	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape God no, men need empowering too. I wrote this in another comment. I mean to say that radical feminism has taken over as the loudest voice of feminism. Feminism has many different branches under the same label. I ascribe to feminism as empowerment of women and men. I know ppl get pissed at the term “feminism” but ill contribute to use it bc i believe it deserves reclaiming. Or until a better term comes along. Regardless , i mean this sincerely that men’s rights absolutely need to be upheld. I hav…	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:19 AM
3	The Femosphere, the feminist dominated journalist and editors want to make you hate yourself - again. Lol why the mags scrotums lol. That’s just weird, no? I’m generally not partially fond of any public imagery of genitalia. Keep it in ya own home. This article read more like just a report of events though? But yeah the article did explain 4b pretty well. If you can afford a kid and can’t get abortions then kinda logical to not have sex. Although sad. Sex is fun. Anyways, idk i do not believe men should hate themselves! I think self love is incredibly important, as is love and compassion for our…	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 10:08 AM
1	What people really mean when they say "men should cry more". Uh, hi, white woman here that absolutely supports men crying about things that hurt them. I want to learn and empathise bc human beings have feelings and i can’t understand until those feelings are shared with me. I support women. I support men. Both things are compatible. I see misandry is a common experience for you, just as misogyny is for women. I believe we need to support each other more so we don’t retreat to extreme measures to protect ourselves from the other side.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 09:57 AM
3	Forced Male Silence Thank you! This is so interesting. I very much dislike how these facts are downplayed in popular culture. I will most definitely be brining this up im conversation the next time it becomes relevant. I dislike isolation and echo chambers (hence why i joined this sub) and i appreciate the information you have provided me! We cant fix the issue if we ignore it. The world must be safe for ALL of us.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 09:40 PM
2	Forced Male Silence No ofc not, i agree.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 09:35 PM
1	Forced Male Silence I do think historical context is relevant to understanding any issue. What came before creates what is. There is still a lot of work to be done on female self-esteem. But that should not come at the expense of mens’. Just bc im insecure about my sex bc of social and historical objectification, does not mean i get to make men insecure of their sex. And this is unfortunately what is happening. Instead, we need to both empower each other to promote security.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 09:21 PM
2	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Unfortunately it really is looking that way. There’s too many definitions and subdivisions of feminism to be able to know someone’s position. I thoroughly disagree with radical feminism, but i strongly support female empowerment.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 09:10 PM
1	Forced Male Silence Oh i apologise for my wording, i absolutely did not mean that! “But most here know that women rape men often enough to make that excuse crap.” I meant to say that it is definitely underreported, but taking that into account, are women offending at the same rate? Edit: I liked the article you linked. Id be very interested in learning more. The actually percent of female perpetrators is hard to predict and the numbers seem to vary widely between sources, but enough so to have me want to look into …	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 08:52 PM
0	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape ?	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 08:38 PM
0	Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With Money Oh god, thats a absolutely disgusting thought	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 02:00 PM
3	Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With Money YES THIS!!!!!! It’s absolutely disgusting! You rape a child and then go “yep this wasnt my fault at all”?! It’s sick. Im so glad men are coming out with their sexual abuse stories. We must not ignore this.	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 02:00 PM
16	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape As a feminist. No. Im incredibly fucking angry by this. Thats fucked up. And i want to be held to the same moral standards as any man. Otherwise, it’s invalidating my agency as a human being. Doesnt that inherently go against the principles of equality?	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:50 PM
15	Turns out there's a huge double standard in the UK a woman can't be charged with Rape Nah thats seriously fucked up. I hate that bs	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:47 PM
3	Forced Male Silence Ugh, i know female sexual assault is under reported but to the extent of male sexual assault? I believe we absolutely need to stop body shaming men and holding ourselves to different standards. Its really messed up that girl complained that you wouldnt go out with her and the ADULT said you should have. Thats a terrible message to teach. I would only like to add that this isnt a competition. Men absolutely need to be able to speak freely about these things without judgement. This is historical a…	/r/MensRights	16/11/24 01:45 PM
1	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Im glad you dont experience that sort of physical violations! Its sad its an issue at all.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 11:19 PM
5	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Ah, i understand! Thank you for explaining to me. I hope we can work towards a future where we judge individuals on character, rather than based off the system we didnt make. (Oh shit, am i martin luther king?)	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 11:18 PM
6	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' I understand ! I agree, absolutely need to address the issue. Male equivalent of “but what were you wearing?” It pisses me off when women think its okay to shit on men bc the patriarchy or whatever. Like , yes, theres a systematic issue, but that doesnt give u the right to bully other human beings. It shouldnt be this hard to give each other basic self respect.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 11:16 PM
6	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Why tf are you getting downvoted? We absolutely need mental health services for men. Too many guys i know “can handle it by themselves”. My friend literally lost a best friend to suicide but didn’t wanted to “be weak” and is “doing fine”. I’ve had guys tell me they can’t talk to any of their guy friends bc they don’t want to be laughed at but also don’t want to see s therapist bc that’s “for mentally ill people”. We need more accessible mental health resources and to destigmatise talking to a th…	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:09 AM
10	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Well, I’ve had friends who have been groped by women and didn’t like it but don’t know how to explain it without being told “aren’t you a lucky guy?!” I think men just don’t know how to advocate for themselves bc we don’t discuss what sexual harassment against men looks like. Men are “supposed to like it”. Which is absolutely not true.	/r/MensRights	10/11/24 07:03 AM