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| 3 | Is this a sign that she was interested? | eightninevision | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 10:59 PM | |
| 2 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynical | eightninevision | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 02:06 PM | |
| 2 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb reality | eightninevision | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 03:27 PM | |
| 1 | Help me convince myself I can get the girls I want | eightninevision | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 05:52 AM |
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| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityYeah, that makes sense. That has been the biggest shock about this all, that my ex went from worshipping me to treating me like every other guy over night. You live and you learn. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityWhat's the logic behind that? I like fuckin hot bitches | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityAlso important to note that, while I have believe a lot of TRP stuff, it's also true that some shit just happens out of circumstance, and this chick wanted to moved before her and I met. So, I think her realizing that she couldn't do long-distance (b/c of new city Chads, obviously), was also a factor. I.e. I was destined for dumpage regardless of how it happened if her heart was set on moving. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityI kind of agree. I've slept with about 25 girls in my life, and none of them were below a 6, most of them were ≥8. It takes patience, constant self-improvement, and patience, patience, patience. I have many friends who would rather fuck 5s-10s and get their dick wet weekly, but that's not me. It's a big fucking hassle to deal with the 5s and 6s who want to latch on and date you when all you want is to fuck them once and never talk again. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityI think it's from my work/study form more haha. I rarely had symptoms while lifting. Mostly while typing/writing. We'll see, trying to change my posture a bit. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityExactly. It's a blessing in disguise. If I were more chad, she would've married me and I would've lost all of my money five-ten years from now when we inevitably divorce. Her number is over 20, and pre-TRP eightninevision would not have been wise enough to realize that this is one of many MAJOR red flags. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityAbsolutely agree. When I was with her, we would laugh at the number of random guys who shamelessly messaged her on social media trying to get a date. It was literally daily, and not from a bunch of bums either. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityYeah, I disagree. I made every right move until that shit test, and she had multiple options, so why wouldn't she take one after a failed shit test? I match girls of her quality on tinder, they just don't go for the date it seems. It's a little tough because I'm in a medium-small city and to make matters worse, most HBs in this city know each other. So I've seen a few bail once they realize I'm associated with HB9 I referenced in the story. I think my SMV is pretty damn good. I'm a medical stude… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityThanks for looking back at the post history. I agree, this was a nice lesson in how to deal with women. I lost frame so badly that I would've dumped me if I were her, she had no option, as I said. Spinning plates has been tough for me. I have hundreds of matches on tinder, even being pretty selective with my right swipes, but I'm just too damn picky. I feel like I wait for the 1% chicks to match me, then act surprised when they are flakey. It's totally illogical. My ego gets in the way I think. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityI'm always working on my SMV in a way because I'm in professional school. I was working on lifting a lot but recently got a couple of nerve problems in one arm from lifting or school, unsure. Lots of bike time and crunches now until that heals up. Meditating as well, but varied results with this. Any other suggestions? Lowering my standards to allow preselection makes sense. It's a kick in the groin anytime you stop dating a HB8-10 though, since clearly they will get back on their feet quicker. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityShe was torn about whether to wait for me to finish grad school and stay in our city, or to move and go fuck other dudes. She sprung it on me very suddenly after saying she wanted to potentially move in with me and 1 day after sending me winter vacation plans. Before that she worshipped me. I'm not going to go into details, but she truly did. Her friends even commented on how she was doing things for me that she never did for other boyfriends. When she said she was thinking of moving but was con… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality vs. Lack of hb realityA. Actually she did dump me bc of one shit test. I have a very clear idea of who held the control. She tested the waters when I was vulnerable and I completely lost frame. She ditched. B. She is a hb9, you'll have to take my word for it. This is objective based on what others say as well. C. I do have options, just not like her. That's the point of this post. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this a sign that she was interested?Also, I'm a medical student, what would be the most impressive and least douchey way to put that on a business card. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Is this a sign that she was interested?This almost seems too good to be true. Anyone have a reason this wouldn't work? | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalFor anyone reading this in the future with similar situation, decided to not even dignify her with that. Don't feed the ego | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalMakes sense. She's also said stuff like "I wish we met at another time." definitely wants to keep her branches open. her bday is coming up and since we were amicable the last time we spoke I kinda don't want to ignore her on her bday, vengeful part of me would rather slow play by saying happy birthday instead of ignoring her on that day, so I'm not seeming bitter, etc. Then when she inevitably tries to fall back on me I can shut it down. Maybe better to pretend she's dead to me tho. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalYeah, I'm gonna move on assuming she thinks I'm pathetic and is surrounded by athlete dicks. There was a time after the breakup that she showed interest in hooking up, but it was probably just to keep me hanging. Since then I haven't done anything to raise my value in her head and have been a little bitch in retrospect, it's probably safe to assume she has an anti-boner for me. Oh well, many more like her out there. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalTotally feel you there. I am going no contact and she knows I'm already dating around. If she crawls back to hook up before she moves/after she gets bored with whoever she's fucking I'll maybe go for it (great sex) but I'll be maintaining my distance for now. Doubt she will crawl back though since in her mind it was really all about getting me hooked, she's satisfied with that I bet. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalYou pulled her, and you can pull them, too. I needed to hear this, my temporary beta mentality blinded me from that important takeaway. thank you. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalYou think I could have kept her on a leash longer by being more aloof/alpha/outcome independent with my interactions with her at the end? Not that it matters too much, she was gonna ditch eventually. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalGreat feedback, thanks. Definitely realized that when she committed to moving I should've said "that's fine but it's over." Was blinded by the sex. And a lot of my friends, especially girls, have said that the sudden confusion is almost always due to another guy. Good riddance I suppose - at least I got to hook up with a hottie for awhile. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Learning from blue pill-induced dumping without getting jaded/cynicalAs a follow-up: since the breakup I lost frame completely, belittled her decision to move on from someone like me, tried to make her jealous, begged a little at the beginning. We're amicable now and I'm going no contact. Any chance of her crawling back or does this sound like damage is done? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 02:09 PM |
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