Antiquated definitions of rape are problematic, i agree. As to it stemming from the patriarchy, it makes perfect sense. Feminists want equality, and part of that comes from the idea of dismantling the arbitrary idea that women inherently better caretakers, or that they’re fragile and can do no wrong, so deserve lower sentencing. As for getting away with sexual assault, not only do men commit it to an IMPRESSIVE degree more than women, they get away with it about as often. If women not being prop…