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I have ADHD and I consider myself a HVW. Some things we can’t control, but we can choose the outcome. As long as he is working on himself, willing to be a better person for himself and for others, being responsible with his diagnosis and treatment, and not using his diagnosis to excuse himself from bad behavior, I don’t see any harm - in fact, I think choosing to live a healthier life is a signal of maturity and high value. I would pay close attention not necessarily to the bipolar disorder, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:42 AM
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Just did this recently. I was very nice to this guy I matched on OLD, he was seemingly doing very well. As soon I as accepted his date request, he got extremely lazy, even to hold the most simple conversation. Totally taking me for granted. Texting him became a drag, really. So the day before the date I broke things off saying “I don’t think we are a good match, I wish you the best” and he responded with “yeah, I wish you drop dead lol jk” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:15 AM
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I’m doing this. I own my house, my car. I’m building my career and saving money. I’m planning to freeze my eggs soon, so I can postpone having children, even with a sperm donor. If a HVM join me along the way, nice. If not, all good too. I’m the captain of my ship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:51 AM
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This. I usually bring dreams to my psychologist (analytical psychology) and we interpret them together. I’m no professional, but it seems that, for exemple, past ex boyfriends come to your dreams so you can resolve any issue that stays repressed during the day/life (for many reasons). It seems natural that they appear right after dates with this new man. It is a way of your psyche to process your past and unresolved issues to start a possible/promising new relationship with no loose ends. Try to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:58 AM
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Simmm, é nóis, manas! o/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:54 AM
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Where I live the government had to do a campaign to incentive men to wash their own penis (because some cases of chronic/severe smegma accumulation can lead to cancer). They can’t even wash their own dick properly to save their own life, imagine putting effort to look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:26 AM
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“The Wall” is a lie invented by LVM to send women on panic mode and drop standards. She is beautiful and I love her channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:02 PM
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Any movie with a Manic Pixie Dream Girl type of character. From Wikipedia: “MPDGs are said to help their men without pursuing their own happiness, and such characters never grow up; thus, their men never grow up.” On the other hand, 500 Days Of Summer is a typical nice guy movie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:41 AM
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Being nice is nothing more than an human obligation. For the look of it, he probably has anxiety and self esteem problems. Anyone can have problems with mental health, but save empathy for yourself, too, you deserve a confident man. It doesn’t seems he is a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:13 AM
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That’s why I’ve always forced them to use condoms. When they were unwilling, I would get starry eyed and squee “awww so we’re going to have a baby? The two of us? That’s so sweet!”. That usually did the trick. But then again, even with condoms the risks are enough to give up FWB and other shit like that. I can masturbate without any of this stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:04 AM
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Ladies. I spent almost ten years as a forever girlfriend. TEN YEARS. If only I would’ve applied FDS since my early twenties. I would have gained a lot of experience, emotional intelligence, without the sensation of having wasted great years of my life. All of this because I was fearing rejection, the unknown, so many things. I also was very accommodated on my relationship. My comfort zone was being with a LVM. Definitely not worth it. So my advice is to enjoy your twenties to improve yourself, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:01 AM
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Same here. I get dozens of matches, yet only one of them will message (most of the times they are clearly lazy in their conversation). I noticed many men putting descriptions on OLD like “say hi and start the conversation, be nice!!! or I will unmatch”. I mean, excuse me? The audacity. Zero effort. Please get the f out of my way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:52 PM
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One friend’s boyfriend act like that, but I feel a strong “daddy”, patronizing vibe about him. It irks me. Not much different playing the mommy role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:50 AM
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Those are awful to read, yet I find myself unconsciously performing tasks like these. Thanks for the input!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:43 AM
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Thank you. I tend to quickly soothe any person with me who is having some kind of discomfort, many times disregarding how I myself am feeling. This makes much sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:39 AM
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Beware! This description is of someone already married to his mother, but he can’t lay with her so he needs a mistress. I know the type, even dated one for more than five years. Don’t be fooled by his professional success, he is a LVM. Edit to add: don’t date promises. It is good that he plans to move out by the end of the year, but now, in the present, this is just a promise. He could even be saying that just to gain access to your heart. Be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:38 AM
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Could you ladies please exemplify? I have a hard time even distinguishing motherly behavior from affection. since I was a child I took the role of the caretaker inside my family (not a healthy thing).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 11:34 PM
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This image screams Dan Bilzerian 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:18 PM
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Former pickmeisha here. Thank you for this post. And I must say that I’m so grateful for finding this sub. FDS has been really good to my mental health (actually, it was life changing), and this comes from someone who goes to therapy since many years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:21 AM
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Two things: 1. He is jealous of your confidence. 2. He is sexually harassing you. It wouldn’t be “socially acceptable” for him to actually flash his dick, so he drew it and gave it to you. Drop him like a hot potato. Edit: spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:43 PM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. This man is sick and criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:05 PM
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Are you dating more guys? If you aren’t, do this until he proposes exclusivity. I find it helps me to remind that there are plenty of men and no guy is worth of a “now or never”, “take it or leave it”, rushed approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:13 PM
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I know that feeling. Going through the same. Feels like my whole life I lived as a pickmeisha. Always bending backwards to please men, always grooming myself to be the “cool girl” and “not like the others girl”. I feel a great sense of peace and relief after discovering FDS, but at the same time I’m very surprised and sad by my not-so-old behavior. I can’t believe the amount of shit I’ve put myself through just to serve myself in a silver plater to men that didn’t like me that much. I feel sad f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:34 AM
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I wish I could frame your comment and read it everyday on my wall. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:36 PM
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