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🏆 you dropped this sir
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:35 PM
-4

A) Meh B) Fair C) Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:25 PM
1

There’s no exchange going on here. Ig you could say the RP generalizes and helps men to get sex. What’s your exchange attention? Also nothing new, I’ve seen and experienced this in action. When you shoot your shot if her demeanor changes thats when you know to drop it like its hot. What exactly is the goal here…what do you get from them ranting about stories and advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:39 AM
1

Aand you posted it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:34 AM
1

Ask what?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:47 PM
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That latter part is untrue. Obviously EVERYONE is not going to respond, but the majority does. If you have all of what I mentioned. Looks, Money, Status, AND you got some game too… ur mostly unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:46 PM
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Its really not 😶 Like i said if he has half a brain and knows how to apply this stuff CORRECTLY…then it works. Obviously don’t start on a tangent about how “oh, all women want is ur money yada yada”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:12 PM
1

Meh, i mean its not like you actually talk about RP to women IRL (if ur not an idiot). You just try to enjoy whitty banter… assuming the bitch doesn’t expect you to carry the WHOLE convo that is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:36 PM
-1

The MODERN RP i agree with you. But perhaps he talking about OG RP which died around Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:19 PM
2

Take it from someone who has not only SEEN this in action but has put in the work and lived it. You ABSOLUTELY have cheat codes. Ik you don’t like hearing this but sorry. As long as you have the right combination and press the buttons a certain way, the lock cracks right open ching. As long as you have enough looks, money, status, etc. you can be equated to a vending machine. Sorry, RP didn’t make the rules they just exposed them. Be mad at mother nature for making you like this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:16 PM
22

Yea u can
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:27 AM
1

Strippers: Done, OF: Done, Dating apps: Done Prostitution: Done, IG Models: Done, Porn: Done, Nightclubs: Done. Pretty privilege: Done. Basically if any of these are your livelihood then it ain’t looking good for you 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 PM
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You got TWO rejections and you think you’re even in the same thrall as us men?! Send the astroid humanity is done
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:39 PM
8

But it isn’t irrelevant. If anything this is a real talking point in the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:36 PM
5

Ar-are you trolling?..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:41 AM
2

Wrong… the majority of healthcare and communication services would crash without women, it wouldn’t look good either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:39 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:36 AM
3

May you answer the question please?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:06 AM
5

I’d give at most a week and a half before infrastructural funcions completely crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:59 PM
5

And what would you say to a person whose dealt with the reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:57 PM
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The RP is simply a step in the process if you will. The OG RP’s purpose is to educate you to try to give you the best chance to get your foot in the door for even the “POSSIBILITY” of a relationship. Its upto you after you learn the ins and outs of “female nature” to then apply it in the confines ot a relationship. The OG Redpill simply tries to instruct you on how to attract women in the first place. Because you can’t get a relationship if you can’t attract women in the first place. *notice how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:10 PM
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End result yes, but how you get there matters. Let’s say little Timmy and little Billy both die of starvation. Little Billy dies because he’s homeless and lives under a bridge. Little Timmy dies because he refused to eat anything out of his pantry. (Up to date food) (Imagine stuff like Chicken Noodle Soup, and Ravioli type stuff). Who’s death are we going to look at and scoff?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:10 PM
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He’s saying ALOT of women’s dating woes are self-inflicted. Which I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:59 PM
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👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:20 PM
10

I mean “female friends” aren’t ENTIRELY useless. You can hang with them to kinda show off that you have pretty women in your life, and women are attracted to men that they think have or can get other women. So not ENTIRELY useless..just mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:39 PM
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There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with talking to someone like a Man to a Woman. Meaning don’t listen to girls when they tell you to do that friendly fuckshit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:34 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:14 PM
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Like I don’t understand why its so hard for women to comprehend that attraction is conditional. I guess its easier for us to grasp because we are accustomed to those “conditions”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:04 PM
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No, he’s simply saying that its ALL conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:41 PM
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Because its all based on the CONDITION of those traits. Take Familial for instance…your parents live you on the condition that you are their child. (Assuming they “love” you at all) If you weren’t then they wouldn’t love you, UNLESS some other condition was met, such as being a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:38 PM
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Bro just be a trick… if you have money. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:03 PM

As in becoming COMPLETELY indifferent. Basically women need not be more than a single ant crawling on the concrete to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:34 PM
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Exactly and its fucking retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:20 AM
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Why does this offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:46 PM
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What about my statement offends you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:41 PM
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Woah woah don’t say worthless YEESH. But you gotta understand this dynamic… We want our fellow men in our lives for brotherhood and friendship. We want women in our lives for romantic affection and sexual access. Just like we don’t want their (the men) romantic affections, we don’t want your “friendship” Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:29 PM
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I said been there DONE that. Meaning the attempt was made. I’m not tryna be funny but the concept of female friends is almost insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:19 PM
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You’re a woman aren’t you?..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:55 PM
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Bud we’ve been there done that. Most of the things you mentioned we’ve done for most our lives…and the lack of success is EXACTLY the reason we think how we do now 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:54 PM
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So I’ll indulge you here. Let’s assume that men DO view women as an achievement or trophy. Are you saying that if this changes then all of a sudden they’ll be able to get companionship. Because if not, then it is LESS THAN useless to tell us to “change your views”. Imagine if a bum went around thinking “Oh wow this bridge really is a nice place to shack under, or wow this moldy dumpster food sure is something.. life is great 🥲”. He’s still a bum at the end of the day. Lemme tell you the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:12 PM
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Ofc its a women who says this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:09 PM
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🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:52 PM
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To a degree I agree with you. The simps and all have overinflated their egos and standards, however even if men stop simping it WON’T change the fact that men desire women more than vice versa (on average) ON TOP OF the fact that women are attracted to a smaller percentage of men (on average), ON TOP OF the fact that women require more of men than vice versa. Example: If you are DECENT looking and not a vicious bitch then you qualify for a REALLY GOOD amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:36 PM
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😂 and what had to take place to pop out said baby? And if you think population alone keeps “scivilization” civilization then I’d surmise ur not the sharpest tool in the shed. I find it funny that women have been trying to distance themselves from the narrative that their body is the only “value” they provide, yet the first opportunity you got that’s what you led with 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:09 AM
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Now if we said “women bring nothing to the table except a hole”, then yall would have a fit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:58 AM

Assuming he has money…he could become a trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:50 PM
1

The problem is red and blackpill narrative have been slowly merging together into some sort of “burgundy pill”. The OG redpill message being taken and combined with blackpill elements. Ok we have our OG redpill formula in a bowl, add a few cups of BP doomer mentality (just enough to be noticeable) , a pound of bitterness, a few cups of ostracism… Bake it for 10+ years and TDAAAAA you have the “modern redpill”. Oh almost forgot, we also have to add in high ass “standards” and lying about attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:34 PM

Wrong order.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:38 AM
3

You dropped this 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:57 AM
0

Like I said I believe the difference is that you can’t really have animosity towards objects but you ABSOLUTELY can have animosity towards people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:48 PM
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Need to BLAME outward sources isn’t what drives one to these ideologies. It is the simple human nature to avoid pain. Example: I want to be a wide receiver. I catch a football and it jams my fingers. So now I wonder “how can I catch a football without it jamming my fingers”. And i’m going to look for answers. The internet tells you “hey turn your fingers this way to avoid pain. Ig the thing is that you can’t have personal animosity towards objects so any way the object “hurts” you you’re almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:44 PM
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Right someone else here said “The bar is on the floor… of the penthouse suite” 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:40 PM
4

Curious, why do you think they “hate” women?..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:50 PM

It ABSOLUTELY DOES. Either you’re “purposely ignorant” or irredeemably dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:20 PM
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No. Let me fix this for you. The problem isn’t “lack of affirmation, or validation from women”. Its about feeling desired and worthy. Let me tell you why your little “friendship” failed. Generally we want different things from the opposite sex. We want companionship and brotherhood with our FELLOW MEN and romantic affections and relationships with WOMEN. (Generally speaking). Basically when it comes to Men in our lives (assuming you’re str8) we DON’T want their romantic affections. And when it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:20 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:30 PM
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Above 10 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:42 PM
4

Preciate the clarification. Also you’ll find most women don’t respond to “let’s fuck”. Even if you’re a “Chad” your success rate would be pretty low if you did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:35 AM
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My point is you KNOW FULL WELL when he invited you back to the place what he was tryna do. And the fact that you chose to indulge him in this knowing full well what you WEREN’T tryna do is disingenuous. As in why would you go back to his house?…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:23 PM
0

You’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:52 PM
2

No. I just said one dude from our group fucked without any commitment and also he name was known across different highschools. So folks from those schools if they didn’t know her personally 🙈, they knew OF HER
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:49 PM
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You mention the girl to ur homies and if they know folks that know her (or word on the street pines up with her behavior) then its wraps. Ian tryna be funny, at my old job i exposed a situation like that. My homie was “dating” this girl. Me and my boys was tryna tell him that she been around but he didn’t listen. She wanted to make him wait to see if “compatibility”. Tell me why about 2 days later (she forgot I was on her private story) she had a whole nother guy all snuggled and cuddled up talm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:33 PM
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Right. Like do y’all think?… Yall know better.. IK YOU KNOW BETTER
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:24 PM
-1

Ppl talk It don’t take much to do your homework on someone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:21 PM
1

Understandable… but why?.. Do you find it immoral, deceitful, disgusting? I guess that’s where I’m getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:55 PM
1

Please don’t answer my question with a question.. Why don’t YOU want to date a man who has “paid for pussy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:50 PM
1

Dear god that’s not what he said…🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:48 PM
1

Why?..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:10 PM
1

Why u say that?..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:04 PM
1

<Reduces it to selfish gratification No different then using your hand then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:05 PM
1

On one hand believe love can be cultivated and it “evolves” over time. Think of planting a seed, and cultivating it into a new plant. The more mature the plant becomes (assuming its healthy (toxic relationship reference)) the stronger it becomes and is able to bear fruit (at this stage “love” is no longer just physical). You and that person are intuned with each other. And on the other hand I think what we call “love” (at least romantic love) is a cocktail of 3 feelings: Lust, Attraction, and At…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:00 AM
1

Honestly if you got money…just be a trick dawg 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:05 PM
1

Gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:09 PM
5

Yeesh ofc its a woman who would say this 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:30 PM
4

Easy for you to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:36 AM
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Do you think they are getting “love and desire” now?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:29 AM
1

If they’ve been paid, and accepted the payment(knowing it was for sex) then they’ve given their consent. Not saying you can do ANYTHING to her tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:55 AM
2

Oh well tuff break 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:53 AM
2

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:51 AM
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No because their consent in under the condition of money. Now if you said not paying a sex worker was rape then that would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:43 AM
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Regular sex is consent under the CONDITION of “I desire you” Sex work is consent under the CONDITION of “you’re paying me” Now if you said not paying a sex worker is rape then i could agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:41 AM
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The vulnerable position you put yourself in… (not counting pimps or trafficking) YOU decided to be a sex worker. And “the threat of poverty and destitution” by your logic every Job or Career is on the verge of criminality because without a stable source of income we would be destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:40 AM
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See its easy to say that when you’re a woman who can get sex fairly easy… See the men in question would PREFER there to be desire on the woman’s end,but aren’t able to achieve that. Just like a homeless starving kid would PREFER to eat regular clean healthy food instead of dumpster diving behind your local krystals. So not trying to necessarily judge your opinion… but what would you have him do? Die alone never knowing the touch of a woman (ok I’m exacerbating it a little, but you get the point)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:34 AM
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Understandable…but to compare it to rape is an abysmal take
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:27 AM
2

Now what yall got to say to him…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:25 AM
-3

Its consensual between two OF AGE people so please explain your stance…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:18 AM
-1

What would you have him do if he can’t get it “naturally” then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:12 AM
1

*Born a woman *Emotionally stable (😶…) *Not a sex worker or known for being round the block *Is supportive and not a headache (this one may very well be too much to ask)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:42 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:11 PM

I believe this is the point of this experiment (at least the rapist part…idk what to tell you ab ATMs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:23 PM

Pls do not comment if to have nothing valuable to add
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:22 PM

Hey DA i didn’t say to give them ur address. Also the point if this experiment is to debunk this way of thinking of our fellow opposite sex members in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:21 PM

Look bud this sub has become nothing but a circlejerk. I’m attempting to change up things a bit from the typical “womens standards are too high” or the “men have anger issues when it comes to rejection” and everything topic that gets recycled from months and years past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:20 PM

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:14 PM

I never asked about ur body count…and i don’t particularly care
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:14 PM

Im not participating in this experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:13 PM

Agreed, but I want us to see the humanity in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:12 PM
1

Fucked or not its the TRUTH
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:41 PM
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Ar-are you serious?… this has to be your first time on this sub or you’re trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:30 AM
2

Why do you care?… These are legal adults
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:32 PM
2

In a way I agree and disagree. On one hand I’m thinking “lying to yourself and living in delusion doesn’t help you to see the error of your ways and improve. On the other hand I’m thinking about OP’s position. Either he lies to himself to protect himself…or he has to come the conclusion that “I am not worthy of basic human connection such as intimacy and sexual affection”. or “I’m undesirable”. So he either comes up with a “”reasonable”” (in his mind) explanation for his plight (and others that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:29 AM
1

This brother is suffering and ALL you can do is make fun of him?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:09 AM
1

Thoughtful response. But now for a direct question… knowing what you know being born a woman how would you appeal to female sexuality as a man? (As in how would you go about making yourself more attractive or appealing to women outside of sex aswell as tending to her pleasure DURING sex?) Other than “just listen”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:00 AM
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And you think the woman will?… you didn’t pay attention to ANYTHING he just said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:04 AM

Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:59 AM
2

And they SWEAR up and down that “maybe its ur shitty personality” 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:02 PM
0

Its NOT GOING TO HAPPEN so “wanting” it is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:38 PM
1

?…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:18 PM
0

You guys are the ones “choosing the bear” so until you do… shut that shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:35 AM
4

Say the same ab Ted Bundy...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:57 AM
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Go find a local forest, Livestream yourself near a wild bear, and come back and post it here (if you survive). If that bear does nothing to you then we will ALL STFU...Deal? *Also when I say get near the bear, I mean in clear line of sight and only a few meters away
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:54 AM
1

YEESH what "pornsick freak" corrupted you?... 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:19 AM
1

I should've put /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:54 PM
3

🤣 made me spit my drink out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:51 PM
3

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:50 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:50 PM
0

You would think?... But if you've seen what I have...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:49 PM
1

I-I said Iffy not slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:48 PM
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I mean expecting a VIRGIN is done away with. But wanting someone to AT LEAST not be in double digits territory I would say is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:46 PM
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And women who look at dating like a recruit can also be miserable. We'll wallow in our sorrows together. And was this not precisely what this sub has become anyway?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:45 PM
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I mean it varies but from me and a lot of the dudes I know after 5 (for me PERSONALLY after 4 is "iffy") is "iffy" (meaning it's not ABSOLUTELY DAMNING and close to and past double digits is unwifeable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:43 PM

Like buddy, if you got your manhood took (got f*cked in the ass) against your will. You would at best be EXTREMELY mentally damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:06 PM

Ar-are you serious?...😶 Alr bud why don't you go to ur local prison..drop the soap in front of Billy Bob and then come back to delete this post...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:03 PM
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"Undesirable" (meaning nobody would have sex with them) for a woman is not all that common..to put it lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:00 PM
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😂 that was a much needed laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:58 PM
1

Reflect on your past experiences. And...Instagram comment sections 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:57 PM
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👑 you dropped this sir. I've felt what you've described for an indescribable amount of time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:56 PM
11

Solid take, however I've heard (and seen) many girls who aren't promiscuous either outright say or go for a man with "experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:54 PM
1

Agreed. It isn't NECESSARILY a gendered divide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:52 PM
1

Where do you wish us to get to my friend?...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:50 PM
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Very nice life 👍🏽. <Men stop getting praised for getting laid once they are adults. Ian tryna be funny but...on what planet?... Also the reason the "risk" for pregnancy for women. Is because pregnancy takes a physical toll on your body both during and after, and you are physically EVEN MORE vulnerable when you are pregnant. And may be unable to carry out tasks as you usually do. So if you don't have a solid support then yeah. Shii it can also cause controversy in your own family (assuming is was…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:48 PM
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Here's the deal girlio- you can gauge if the engine is fucked up by looking at the outside of the car?...NO So how do you find out if she has "baggage" or is unworthy of a relationship?... You take it for a test drive (dating and vetting). And as far as not being able to know HOW MANY guys she fucked exactly...ok fair enough, BUT word gets around and people talk. Let buddy boy tell his homies ab u and show you off. "Look bro, I just started dating this girl" *Gives stare of concern "What" "Ur da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:40 PM
0

Let's see *Risk of pregnancy *More likely to contract STI's *Reputationally (which in turn can lead it to be emotional damage) *DRASTICALLY Decreases your chances of finding a long-term partner (at least a good one) *People don't respect you *Sharing your body indiscriminately can widen the hole of emptiness that you tried to fill with promiscuity in the first place Now let's look at Men: *More likely to contract STD's (if promiscuous obviously) *Praised for getting laid (oh wait that's not a ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:29 PM
3

Fair question...you recall the traits that I mentioned could make people "compromise" that's where this comes in. I am in no way, shape, form saying that women want men with baggage. What I AM saying is that the traits that we are willing to overlook for more favorable ones are different (on average). For instance A MAN is MORE likely to overlook (or have grace) a woman's lack of physical beauty in favor of her purity or loyalty. Or even overlook her shitty personality for her beauty. A WOMEN is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:21 PM
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"Potential" CAN be used as a nice way to say Beta buxx. Not generally tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:08 PM
1

Ok. Going back to my metaphors.. The more offers and playtime and film an athlete has the more favorable he is to be picked. Basically women want men that other women want (social proof). If he hasn't had a gf or he's a virgin that might put a lot of girls off (NOT ALL😶) or raise some alarms. The more Mileage a car has then the more problems you're likely to experience in the future. And it has been proven time and time again that promiscuity negatively affects women drastically more than it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:06 PM
0

It's a generalization, obviously NOT ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:58 PM
2

If a breakup happens or in the event of a toxic relationship (without knowing the context or reason) ppl automatically assume the woman is the victim. But slowly the "women are wonderful effect" is being replaced by the "females are full of shit effect". Basically the opposite extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:57 PM
13

"Jackson you get a cookie, and Jake you get a cookie, and DeAndre you get a cookie, and...oh Benjamin no cookie for you..i-its cuz I like you more than Jackson, and Jake and DeAndre" 😅 That's what I interpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:53 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 PM
3

Simple but accurate my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:44 PM
2

What's the point of being on this sub if we DON'T overanalyze bud?... Just giving my take and having fun with it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:37 PM
6

You dropped this sir 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:36 AM
10

NO. If she doesn't return affection or interest then you abandon ship. Otherwise you'll be labeled creepy or too persistent for not "taking the hint". The juice ain't worth the squeeze, ESPECIALLY if she ain't all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:53 AM
3

It would benefit men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:40 AM
3

Do you think there's any benefit to it for the men themselves? Or do you consider it more superfluous? Now hold on a sec, are we talking JUST being crystal clear when a woman likes you or ALSO the "lowering the standards"?...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:29 AM
1

There ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:11 AM
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Ian tryna be funny dawg..but if this were the case... MOST of the Manosphere wouldn't exist..most dating subs wouldn't exist..hell even this one. Now when it comes to challenges and overcoming obstacles..yes we do get a sense of purpose and pride when overcoming despite the odds. However this does not apply to women at all. We don't "enjoy" a moment of this dumbass dance we call dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:10 AM
1

Fuck You Bitch -Wheeler Walker Jr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:05 PM
1

Th..this is a joke right?... 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:15 AM
6

Well let's hear your attempt to prove OP wrong 😶...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:15 PM

Nobody said it wasn't 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:57 PM

👑 you dropped this sir
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:36 PM

Is it not reasonable to want someone who isn't overweight?... Now as far as a child goes you can maybe pass if it's just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:35 PM
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The simps and top tier men are to blame for this..not us in the middle. Top Tier men aren't whining about female promiscuity, hypergamy, or dating apps because they have their pick of the litter. Simps and Bathwater drinkers aren't complaining about porn and OF or even the Gynocentrism. It's us in the middle who have common damn sense enough to know that showering her with praise, affection, gifts, etc among a sea of other men ain't gon get you no 🐱 And as for the top tier men...they just don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:12 AM
4

Why don't you "gO oUtSiDe" and you'll find it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:19 AM
2

We're not talking ab the "nice guy" persona. We're talking ab genuinely kind ppl who get passed over in favor of a toxic guy...BECAUSE he's genuinely kind. Even if we were talking ab the "nice guy" persona they'd have no way of knowing it's just a persona off rip. But toxic guys don't even try to hide it...in fact they FLAUNT it. Breaking girls hearts, pumping and dumping, etc. they take pride in this (at least the ones ik of)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:17 AM
3

Sounds about right bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:13 AM
0

Someone get this man an Award 🏆👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:07 AM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:45 AM
1

No needing men for a relationship is one thing. But falling for the same ookie doke from the same man with a different face time and time again..and then to come back to me with that shit. Nah dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:25 PM
1

Contrary to what you might think I don't act like this IRL, my point is after doing the golden rule for so long to no avail it starts to weigh in you. And it my case not only was it not reciprocated, but was reversed and thrown back at me tenfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:23 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:21 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:21 PM
0

That's not what I said. Do you know how many ik personally that have thrown themselves at the same man time and time again only for it to end in not only failure, but shame and trauma. Yet they still persist KNOWING FULL WELL what awaits them. And this even includes the ones who haven't fallen for the ookie doke but know of those who have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:43 PM
1

<Treat others how YOu want to be treated. With respect and consideration. And that my friend is what I've done, but to no avail..and this is why I wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:40 PM
1

It's pretty damn hard bud
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:38 PM
1

That isn't the point...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:38 PM
1

Why would they say yes...well let's see *I'm fairly intelligent (I'd like to think, disregarding the hyperbolic rant I typed while I was sleep deprived😅) *I'm in shape 6'1 167lbs *I make solid money 72k a year (and otw to make more) *I'm fun to be around (I've been told time and time again, not to mention the laughter and good times) *I can hold intelligent and engaging conversation *I'd listen to their grievances and try to rectify the issue as long as they listen and address mine as well (with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:37 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:30 PM
1

Contrary to what you might think I don't act like this IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:30 PM
1

Not needed?... Ofc u don't necessarily need a relationship with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:20 PM
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Nah cuz I'm a fun person to be around and then they get upset and all when I don't want their friendship. And complain how "all men just want sex" or "nobody wants to be my friend" and I'm like well I guess we're both going home unhappy now aren't we 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:22 PM
2

Eh, sounds ab right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:18 PM
0

Like when I said "maybe we DO understand" and am just trying to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:18 PM
1

Oh you'd be surprised. My little rant was NOTHING compared to how they talk about you, for no other reason that they have to act that way in order to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:17 PM
1

Then tell me how EVERY time an A-hole gets the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:15 PM
2

Like I said "maybe I DO understand" and am trying to ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:14 PM
1

Of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:12 PM
1

Well 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:47 AM
1

Very inciteful, but that shii is one of the reasons that led me to post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:08 AM
1

I watched him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:01 AM
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Wrong. And if we're going back to the friendship thing..I wasn't one of those guys who "played the friend angle". Was I attracted to some of them...sure. But I wasn't stopping in the bushes waiting for an opportunity. However when all the opportunities end in failure or "let's just be friends" ofc this is how I feel. I don't need your "friendship" and I don't want it. It's the same with a girl who doesn't like you. You don't want my romantic affections..and I don't want your platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:59 AM
2

Making friends and being social was NEVER the problem bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:52 AM
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I don't give a damn about venting my frustrations to them. Hell I don't give a damn about being friends with them anymore. Like I said friendship was never the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:51 AM
1

EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:47 AM
1

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:45 AM
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Wdym I'm literally an extravert?! Being and making friends and being social was NEVER the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:44 AM
1

I was talking to the other one..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:41 AM
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I can't tell if you're trying to be genuinely helpful or condescendedly insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:39 AM
1

Yeesh that was...eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:36 AM

Ur not very bright are you?... Not at ALL the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:34 AM
1

It's actually not primarily research..it was personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:32 AM
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Oh nonono let me make this clear ofc it doesn't justify these actions..I'm merely explaining how one might come to walk these paths. A Jewish woman failed to save Hitler's mother...so he made it his life's mission to persecute and murder Jews ( this is WELL extreme but I believe it goes back to the point)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:31 AM
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Nah I read it and...fair point Very logical rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:28 AM
1

Nobody said anything about not being well-rounded. What are we talking skill, socially that makes sense. No mystery there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:27 AM
1

Alr fair but why is it assholes who ALWAYS get the opportunity?...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:26 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:20 AM
-1

Tits+Ass+Natural born woman (and even that's iffy these days)+ not butt face hideous= a pretty damn good chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:19 AM
0

How insulting. Also I never said I personally hated women..disdain sure. And they're rants are about how the men THEY PICKED and treat(ed) them. Not about understanding how to attract men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:12 AM
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Fair, but when we see men do it we just write him off as a fool. But with women it's "tHeY hAvE tO mAkE sUrE tO bE cArEfUl". Tell me how you fall for the same ookie doke multiple while being "careful"..and STILL don't learn because they are going after the same man with a different face. I understand men can do this too but I don't date men, and also like I said they're aren't theories and entire forums dedicated to understanding men's sexuality is there..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:10 AM
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As I stated before...why aren't there theories and articles dedicated to figuring out men's sexuality...because it's LAUGHABLY simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:00 AM
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Alr that first paragraph is Fair.. however I think we're misunderstanding the "grace" men have when it comes to sex. If you're KNOWN for putting out but then wanna "take things slow" with him that's a nono. Also if you're attire might paint an unflattering picture of your modesty then also that. Well at least for me personally this is how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:58 AM
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Understandable and I do have grace on them for that..However how many times would we have to see a man fall for the same ookie doke before we just write him off as a fool. "Fool me once, Shame on you...Fool me five, six, seven+ times, and there is something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:54 AM
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Jesus I'm not blaming you, I'm merely shedding light on the progression of misogyny. Because ik women that think men just inherently hate them and want to do them harm for no reason other than that they're men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:50 AM
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I just said physical aspects aren't what I'm referring to.. obviously be in shape and not butt face hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:48 AM
-1

Elaborate...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:47 AM
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Obviously there are going to be differences..but there are common things men and women across the board find attractive. Symmetrical face, In shape, competent etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:46 AM
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I mean c'mon now OBVIOUSLY don't be butt face ugly..the physical aspects aren't what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:44 AM
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There is no "fixing" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:14 AM
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To a degree is is hard to change your mindset. However it is VERY possible and on your best interest to be positive during adversity. Your "confidence" can't come just from external factors, but internal as well. For example: if you're scrawny/overweight you are aware that you aren't were you need to be. However through knowing where your workout routine will take you, you can have "confidence" in what you WILL become/ are becoming. Edit: Well damn...what I just described was more dedication tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:02 AM
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I can be civil with women I'm attracted to, but as far as "friendship"...nahhh. I mean it's not at all shallow..you don't want my romantic affections and I don't want your platonic "friendship". 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:21 AM
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👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:39 PM
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They don't experience the frustration of having to deal with women romantically, thus they are able to connect with women via TRUE platonic friendship (something a lot of us straight men have no desire for). Also they're bound to have a lot in common such as feminine habits, and gossiping about their dating lives (perhaps).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:02 AM
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🤦🏽‍♂️ missed the point. NOBODY ON THIS EARTH is without the potential to fall to error. That being said I think it's reasonable to want to know if your child is...YOURS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:19 AM
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Oh please 🙄 I feel "hurt and disrespected" anytime security has me empty my pockets and wag me down with a wand. 😱 How could you indirectly accuse me of doing a crime Cheating happens and is MORE COMMON than you might think, hell it's praised and accepted in today's society. So just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:13 AM
-2

Go overseas, but if you're trying in the West...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:03 AM
1

Great take. Thank You
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:10 AM
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Same reason women complain about being looked at as sex objects, but present themselves THAT way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:44 PM

MMA Fighter Fallon Fox (Transgender woman) got into a match with a natural born woman and broke her skull. With all the hormone suppressants and T-blockers still managed to break her skull. So WHAT DO YOU THINK AN ABLE BODIED GROWN MAN WOULD BE CAPABLE OF?? I mean if your point is to say "In the event of an aggressive encounter which you cannot escape, then try the absolute best you can to defend yourself, then I absolutely agree. However if you're encouraging women try to outright fight men bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:52 AM
1

You fail to realize if this is still happening then they won't have any incentive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:44 AM
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First off how is this going to work when majority of people still want sex, and kids (one day)? Second, let's say hypothetically this movement gained traction and the birthrates and marriage and relationship rates plumeted. We already know most likely one of two outcomes. #1 Men will stop contributing to society, which means the manual labor jobs that are worked by predominantly men to keep infrastructure will now have to be worked by women (aka society is done) (government might step in to try …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:20 AM
2

Elliot Rodger Army. Men refusing to contribute to society. Possibly a revolt. I shutter at the thought of what that outcome would bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:54 PM
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This is a joke...right?? I'm gonna give u the benefit of the doubt and assume it's satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:48 PM
1

I ain't tryna be funny but with all these theories on "fEmAlE sExUaLiTy" and how to push and pull and do this and that, and all the theories on it, I just... Like do u ever wonder to yourself like "damn, God don built y'all ass wrong" 🤦🏽‍♂️ (not all ofc).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:31 AM
0

They aren't like us. Whatever would work on you, just do the opposite 🤷🏽‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:57 AM
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You didn't give enough downsides to woman 2 to warrant choosing woman 1 over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:11 AM
3

At least someone here still has sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:50 PM
1

Yep, that's what I thought it said 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:08 PM
3

Same goes vice versa bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:02 PM
2

Umm u forgot the /s 😅 (I hope)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:12 PM
1

For what I gather it's either women seeking to disprove the RP, and/or guys pushing bluepill mindsets..There are rare gems that make me reconsider tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:26 AM
1

When your appearance is your whole personality, u look good but either have an annoying, or bitchy personality, and/or ur not the brightest bulb in the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:34 AM
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I find it disingenuous that some women in this sub are defending her going to a club by herself while in a relationship. You have to also understand risk mitigation. Am I more likely to get robbed walking down the street in a gated community..or in a suburb that's NOTORIOUS for robberies?...(illustrating that clubs are NOTORIOUS for horny folks, alcohol (which inhibits your decision making) and sex). Imagine if ur bf told you "hEy bAbE i'M gOiNg tO tHe sTrIp cLuB fOr fUn" 😶. Ik FOR A FACT y'all …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:30 AM
1

Yes. I mean not actively supporting it, not as in Everytime I see her I remind her of how much of a disappointment she is because she's gay /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:46 AM
1

Ok u don't wanna agree with me, got it 👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:44 AM
1

I could accept asexuality. As far as queer goes, I can't say how I'd react. Ik I wouldn't PREFER it. I guess I would try to make it a point not to condemn her, but at the same time not to condone a homosexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:37 AM
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In every social circle and area, everyone has certain "problem" people or notorious (for different reasons) for certain actions. Even locations. "Don't go to the bar on east street because SA is known to be prevalent there." Don't hangout in certain spots in West block because robberies are very common. Guy 1:"Don't bother with girl because I heard she'll sleep with you, and rob you in the middle of the night" Guy 2: oh yea my homie TJ had an experience with her, welp we warned him 🤷🏽‍♂️ Guy 3: …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:46 AM
2

No. U it's like u don't learn. If anything even after trying to expose these men I've only seen their success grow DESPITE the circulating info regarding said man, or his archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:11 AM
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I personally believe Gen Z men are unsympathetic because they've seen the bs time and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:23 AM
2

And here I am reminded why I myself have no sympathy either 🤦🏽‍♂️. Tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:32 PM
3

Sounds ab right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:02 PM
0

Only one i'd say that's valid is the one about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:02 PM
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THANK YOU! Somebody said what I've been thinking this WHOLE TIME. 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:54 PM
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That's even more cold bro. You reached a level beyond what I meant to portray.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:13 PM
2

Not until now at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:12 PM
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women ON AVERAGE have more options than men ON AVERAGE. Simple. Just because you think a man is no good, doesn't make it so. A lot of guys who are successful with many women treat them well. Righhtt until #AreWeDatingtheSameMan or women OUTRIGHT complain about him to other women, yet that doesn't stop em. No, ur determined to have ur heart toyed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:12 PM
2

I never thought of it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:08 PM
1

So EVERY man who's interested in you is shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:43 AM
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If ur so hung up on the wording then perhaps let's just say "valued" or "loved".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:42 AM
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Nah dawg I disagree. I think social media and the current culture is what turns them delusional. Not HEALTHY and occasional encouragement from parental figures. You must think every hour of every day imma be like "yOuRe bEaUtIfUl" 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:34 AM
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LORD GOD I don't agree with the whole " I'm a 10" thing. All I'm basically saying is that don't let others tear you down. Constructive criticism and Destructive criticism are two different things. I mean I'm no feminazi by all means but you wouldn't tell your daughter that she is beautiful and valued??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:13 AM
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Ok, so we don't want whores for relationships. Just like women don't want a guy whose broke because the likelihood of financial stability and freedom is low, same how men don't want whores because the likelihood of fidelity is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:21 AM
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👏🏽😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:17 AM
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I'd do my best to raise them in a two-parent household, a STABLE one at that. I'd raise them to value themselves, tell them "you're valued, ( in a healthy way NOT narcissistic "I'm a 10" bs, for anyone who wants to nitpick) and don't let ANYONE tell you different". I would try to get them a quality education while instilling morals and values in them. I would tell them to own up to and take responsibility for their actions. I would teach them how to vet, spot, and avoid certain types of men or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:37 AM
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Very thorough response. Thank you! Now to address some of your points... So it’s really delicious to hear from a man, “we won’t sympathize with you because you can get sex but we are going to punish the fuck out of you if you do act on that.” I never cared one bit about my partner’s n-count (or my husband’s). Ok so I'm going to be very real here...Men do care about n-count (for a committed relationship) they just do, no other way around it. Now as for guys who will publicly humiliate you for bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:59 AM
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Dude why did I think this almost verbatim before reading this. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:07 AM
0

Because women fervently complain (ESPECIALLY ON HERE) how their opinions and stances are dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:07 AM
2

And how have men done this to themselves? And DO NOT start with this "patriarchy bs" 🙄 because the ones who are in charge of said "patriarchy" aren't the men lamenting. (Which IS the target group you're referring to). Second... Stop expecting women to be ever-accessible but only to you, and 90% of the issues will disappear Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:06 AM
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Your sources are appreciated. However...DATING is what I am referring to, not marriage. I am talking about the current DATING marketplace, and as such I can only go from personal experience. And cmon I'm not dumb enough to look at JUST social media clips to make my basis. But it's when both align just right that makes you believe it. If I turn on the TV and every video I watch they say "the sky is blue" (daytime sky) followed by a blue sky in the pictures. THEN I walk outside and whaddya know...…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:03 AM
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I'm very sympathetic towards SA (GENUINE SEXUAL ASSAULT, NOT THIS #METOO ). I was made aware by my sister how she fears going out alone at night so she often asks me to accompany her. How women have a significant higher chance of being sexually assaulted than men do (outside prison at least 😶). She also explained why catcalling was such a big deal, and I didn't get it at first. I was like "some guy whistles when you walk by and says "nice tits" big deal 🙄". But then I had to put myself in those …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:54 AM
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I never ONCE claimed that women don't have struggles in dating, nor am I ignoring the fact. BUT my post was to attempt to shed light on why MEN IN PARTICULAR are unsympathetic towards said struggles. Also...ur telling me NOBODY?! Dating apps: meh I might have to agree with you there 😅. But there's NOBODY interested in you that you're also interested in? That you know of? (Not antagonizing genuinely curious).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:40 AM
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I'm not even talking about you started dating a guy and a year in he pulls the "ookie doke". I'm talking about men who are CLEARLY no good (they talk to women disrespectful, KNOWN FOR PLAYING WOMEN, Women talk and complain about him to other women, etc. And at some point of a man being a wolf in sheep's clothing eventually word gets out. People talk. Just like guys will say "look out for that hoe cuz she'll sleep with you then steal from you" (or something) same way girls will discuss guys who p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:47 PM
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Patriarchy...that's where we're going... Let me ask you something...are the men who complain about dating In charge of this "patriarchy". That's like a people from China saying "well your country blankblank* so we don't like you. Did WE have a say in whether I country blankblanked* you, or did a higher authority decide that?...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:41 PM
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Lady it was an example of how men dismiss women's grievances in dating, that I said I wouldn't do when you told me your story. It wasn't an insult..JESUS LORD 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:36 PM
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Go on... I'll listen. And I will try my best to resist my man instincts to say "you should've picked better" or undeservingly blame you 🤞🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:32 PM
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So I just illustrated why and how men feel and your first instinct is to blame men...INCREDIBLE 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:27 PM
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Because y'all fervently complain on here how men don't listen to what y'all have to say. I just thought I'd give reasoning behind that. Now whether it helps the two genders in this sub connect or be more empathetic towards each other...can't say. But I am merely imparting information.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:26 PM
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Very thorough response. Thank you! Now I'd like to clear up a few things. 1 I said on AVERAGE (meaning average men and women) women have more options than men (this is not even accounting for the Instagram models and TikThots). 2 I agree with a fair amount of RP views however I'm not a HARDCORE REDPILLER. meaning I don't agree with everything they say just because Tate, Myron, etc, said it. 3 You say the hypocrisy that men claim women's standards are too high, but don't want to be "settled" for.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:23 PM
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You know what the definition of insanity is?... It's doing the SAME thing over and over the SAME way expecting a DIFFERENT result.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:12 PM
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Sure feels like it bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:11 PM
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Explain...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:05 PM
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Well said, I can't believe I overlooked that reason as well when posting. 3) Because women are unsympathetic towards men's struggles in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:02 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:27 PM

Let's just strive to check as many boxes as we can...If possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:15 AM
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Never said it made it right, but it's more of a "If the world turns its back on you, you turn your back on the world" type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:45 PM
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I agree with a fair amount of what they say but that has always been a controversy for me. In my mind I'm like if ur gonna do free agent activities just be a free agent 🤷🏽‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:34 AM
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Look man I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the opposite sexes just deal with each other differently. I enjoy hanging and spending time with my boys, our competitiveness, our brotherhood, our bond. We (guys) deal with other guys for PLATONIC mutual relationships and I'm sure women do other women. But the same courtesy often doesn't get extended to the opposite sex. And the primary reason I'd want women (aside from family members and family friends) in my life is romantically and sexually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:13 AM
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I think I speak for every man in this sub when I say... I love women...but I HATE BITCHES. And if you think men hate women...probably because many had interactions with "women" and SURPRISE A WILD BITCH HAS APPEARED *Que pokemon music. LMAO I'm being half serious and half satirical. But let me use this instead. Imagine you REALLY wanted a dog. But a lot of the times when you see a dog it bites you, or others. You hear horror stories of how vicious dogs are. You go on the Internet and what do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:33 AM
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Let's be honest here. Mistakes are forgivable...but once it's well known enough (meaning enough people know about how you "give it up easy") and word gets around of that...THAT'S when it becomes a capital offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:56 AM
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Ian tryna be funny. I'd be a lesbian. I'm already cautious and aware of my surroundings but I'd reckon I'd have to be more so. Imma keep that 🔫 on me same as now. Uhh...no more slapboxing and taking 30 with other guys. No more bragging to the homies and who's stronger or more athletic. And I'd like to think I wouldn't make an OF because of how I think now...but I've always been known to work smarter not harder. Also I wouldn't have to worry Abt said OF disqualifying my relations with men SINCE I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:33 AM
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That's where I will disagree with OP. We are more forgiving of menial and trivial things (unlike women). THAT would be more accurate than to say overall we are more forgiving. I agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:51 AM
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We ARE more forgiving when it comes to menial and trivial things. A girl will sit there and say "he picked up a fork in a weird way" TRUE STORY. Or "v1bEs" or... "oUr sIgNs dIdN't mAtCh" and other dumb random shit. We are more forgiving (on average) of your physical flaws (minus morbid obesity or deformity) as well as character quirks. However we are NOT forgiving of DETRIMENTAL LIFE CHANGING DUMBASS DECISIONS THAT WE WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR! Let's list a few shall we... *Single Motherhood- depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:22 AM
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It's funny some of the girls here are saying there's nothing wrong with commenting "😍" on other guy's posts when you have a man. Reverse the roles...I know FOR A FACT if y'all bf were to comment "😍" on random women's post y'all would cut a damn fool. So I find it disingenuous for you to claim that stuff is ok (WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP) knowing FULL WELL you would put on a whole circus if YOUR man did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:07 AM
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No. They view that the gain is worth it. Same way if you have a job or supervisor who is a COLOSSAL DICK but your pay, or benefits make you say "f*ck it I'm still making 120k+". So basically the money "compensates" for the undesirable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:15 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily women viewing it as less creepy more than it's "he's giving me money so f*ck it I'll tolerate it".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:53 AM
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Online has the same effect so still counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:23 AM
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THANK YOU! I was just ab to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:14 AM
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Listen. All I said was if it had NO merit to it NO ONE would believe it. For example "smoking is good for you", yea SHORT TERM IN THE MOMENT but is it long term...no. And in regards to the "hive mind hypothesis"... Generalizations can be made because a good amount to majority of the time they are true. Like if somebody said "Watermelons are Red" it is a generalization. Are there yellow watermelons YES THERE ARE but the exception does not make the rule, the majority does. If I said dogs bite, do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:30 PM

If women are repulsed by inexperienced men IN THE FIRST PLACE LIKE OP SAID. Then HOW do you fathom that? Let's say on the off chance it's a beta bux situation: Lose Being with a promiscuous woman who's highly likely to cheat on you, and also being embarrassed when other ppl laugh at you for marrying her : lose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:22 PM

Gyattt dayum u CRUCIFIED her ahh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:17 PM
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I can UNDERSTAND where you're coming from, however I don't follow. U think men don't approach conservatives, or "reserved" women?! They do. But you have to understand that if they were rejected (doesn't matter the reason to them) it's because "women are a hive mind" is a thought process that has withstood the test of time FOR A REASON. Lemme tell you the thing about doctrines and teachings...if NONE of it were true, then NOBODY would believe or subscribe to the idea. You see from what OP stated …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:07 PM
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Like that's why we have LAWS AND SANCTIONS AND SYSTEMS.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:41 PM
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*report it. And let's keep it 💯 when are they COMPLETELY transparent and their BC
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 04:41 AM
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THANK YOU SIR! 👏🏽👏🏽🏆. At this point I'm just accepting the fact that they'll NEVER understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:11 PM
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I never said...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:34 AM
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DING DING DING! WE HAVE A WINNER 🏆👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:25 AM
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I completely understand what you're saying. Quality PEOPLE in general do seem to be in decline in this day and age. And due to your intelligent and well thought out responses I'd have to assume it's the circumstance of event A. Or personal trauma. In the event of the second circumstance you'd be dealing with guys who were in the same boat as me. You see you say "good men are hard to find" and I agree with you. That's because they're not appreciated. If you were a "good guy" throughout middle,hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:02 AM
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First things first High-autism PEOPLE in general are most likely to be socially inhibited. As a woman you'd have to have a birth defect, be neuroAtypical, or be disfigured to not have male attention. Or be a str8 up b*tch (and EVEN still). Now as for personal relationships such as friends and family THAT is all person-dependent because I don't believe anyone would necessarily be lonely in THOSE SPECIFIC areas due to gender alone. Now if we're talking romantically then ABSOLUTELY men take the cak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:35 AM
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"why don't men just play online and meet people that way instead of crying about male loneliness". They do. I don't think he was making a concise point rather than a dismissive counter strike. I don't think either would work for the "loneliness" we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:09 AM
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How insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:48 PM
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"Candy-like substitutes"...explain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:27 PM
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I find it interesting that someone who has an abundance of candy can say to someone else who has NO candy..."Bro it's just candy, sure it's sweet but it's not THAT good Just be happy without it". :) *Proceeds to suck on lollipop while telling me I should be happy with no candy 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:52 PM
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Nah dawg, cuz it only works under certain conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:40 PM
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"Later"= after she's kicked off the cock carousel and comes to your door dripping Chad's cum residue out her 😺 and make you a betabuxx cuck.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:37 PM
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Somebody give this man an award 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 *High pitched whistle of praise
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:33 PM
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Uh-oh. That's not good at all. The empathy part is questionable ngl. But NO solution? Lemme let y'all in on a lil secret. Hope is a VERY powerful thing, and when you take it away no amount of empathy will stop the inevitable. See when you give these hardcore pillars hope, by telling them to go to the gym or build up their wealth and accolades that gives them hope. "If I do A, then there's a SIGNIFICANTLY higher chance of attaining B". Here's the difference...if a student is doing very poorly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:59 AM
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I mean...simple supply and demand.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 04:37 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:43 AM
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They DO tell you to improve in every facet. Redpill does this ALL THE TIME. But y'all (women) don't watch those videos. Y'all ONLY watch clips of them holding y'all accountable. Y'all don't see what they say to US. I've heard MAYBE 3 girls give ACTUAL practical dating advice to men. Out of ALL the female dating coaches for men...only like 3 of them say something other than "be nice, hold the door, be respectful". If it worked like that don't you think EVERY GUY WOULD BE DOING IT. Meanwhile You h…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:13 PM
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The reason WHY they overlook it is all still the same. If he's offering something or has certain things in play or of a certain status then all that shit about "u don't have a gf bc u don't like women" goes in the garbage. Even guys like Myron Gaines has women...AND HE SAID STRAIGHT UP THAT WOMEN ARE USELESS WHORES. See here's the thing... If the Manosphere and the Redpill had NO VALIDITY then NOBODY WOULD BELIEVE THEM or even CONSIDER ANYTHING they had to say. But the fact that men in mass reso…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:55 PM
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"You’re so angry and hateful toward women - that’s why you an incel." U have it backwards. The fact that he is an Incel is WHY he is angry and hateful towards women. You think misogyny is what keeps women away...then explain to me why fanatic misogynists like Tate have a lot of women...SIMPLE. Because misogyny is not a cause, but rather a symptom. Y'all are willing to overlook BLATANT misogynists like Tate because of his looks, accolades status, etc. Versus a guy that irl doesn't even act misogy…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:38 PM
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On my last comment. Actually my advice is to parents. Prepare your sons or they WILL learn the hard way. DO NOT try to paint women in an all positive light and tell them "just be ur$3lf" NO. if u lie to them and they find out the hard way then your words of advice will no longer reach them because of the contradictions of YOUR ADVICE and how u told them it was SUPPOSED to work vs them seeing how it ACTUALLY works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:02 PM
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MY solution comes down to two points. Point A: be attractive Point B: don't be unattractive. Fairly simple if u ask me Nah I'm jp fr tho approach respectfully, do not corner her, leave enough personal space between the two of you as to not make her feel uncomfortable, keep it short and sweet. DO NOT PRESS HER IF YOUR ADVANCES ARE DECLINED. On top of that if ur not conventionally attractive then most likely this will fail anyway, but it at least mitigates (to some degree) the chance of being perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:10 PM
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I'm friends with women I'm not attracted to. No lie those friends are VERY dear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:58 PM
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Assuming you're not a 6'4 gigachad with a supermodel face and chiseled body. (Satire). But seriously people break rules for people they find attractive ESPECIALLY if they're in short supply. A girl can say "I hate all men, I don't want to be approached yada yada yada" but I can ALMOST guarantee if an "attractive" man (by her standards) does it then she'd be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:28 PM
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Right cuz the alternative would be to get no pussy, turn into an Incel and go on a shooting spree at the nearest local club 😶. Satire but at the same time it's not. Better yet. What would YOU have us do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:23 PM
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Ohhhhhh why didn't I think of that 🤯🤯. Ofc it all makes sense now. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:18 PM

Light one up real quick. You'll feel better. Be it only a temporary fix tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:07 PM
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I can count on 1 hand how many female (platonic) friends I have and still have some fingers left over. Those friends are VERY dear to me, but not in a sexual way. The problem with being "friends" with the opposite sex is if and when attraction comes into play. It's usually the guy (in my personal experience) to catch feelings ( these feelings include but aren't limited to)...The guy LIKES her and wants a relationship, or he wants to have relations with her. It also has to do with a degree of "fa…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 06:59 PM

It's both bait AND cope mixed together to create a dubious concoction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:56 PM

Seems u only read the very end
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:42 PM
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You my friend have articulated this flawlessly 👏🏽. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:53 AM
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U gotta put urself out there dawg. Go out to places with the conscious intent of talking to women. They almost NEVER approach you even if ur attractive.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 11:36 PM
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Well them other ones was all on his dick. If somebody say u ugly IT DON'T MATTER IF U HAVE BITCHES. It only hurts when u don't have nun to show otherwise. Because it's most likely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:00 PM
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Guys we don't need this. The answer is SO simple it's laughable. LeTS jUst B3cOMe MiNdReADeRs 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:32 AM
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If u keep it short and sweet your likelihood of being labeled a creep is significantly lowered (granted ur a 6'4 Chad with a perfect jawline and chiseled body). Nah I'm jp, fr tho having a decent degree of social awareness and competence can help along the way. Now ur looks will DEFINITELY be a MAJOR determining factor as to if u get ACCEPTED or not, but not necessarily automatically label u a creep if ur not up to par on the looks department. While I agree that tall, attractive men DEFINITELY h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:28 AM
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On what planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:55 AM
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Right!...Why didn't we think of that? Who could've known that those first two are basically completely out of your control and the last one is contingent upon having the first two 🤯. Mindblown 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:54 AM
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Woah woah why is he getting down voted like this?? All he did was inquire.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 03:56 PM
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Maybe take away the pregnant and obese part...but still do fuck around and give their best years to toxic guys and then when they hit the wall try to fall back on a beta cuck bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:53 AM
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Quality PEOPLE in general are hard to find. And being from a man's perspective this ESPECIALLY applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:37 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:36 AM
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Nah I just don't try to give unto people who can't receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:40 PM
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O dear...u can never try to reason with a feminazi. I quit. 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:21 AM
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This post was about our grievance is blaming women yes. But u clearly missed the parts where I "not all, but in MY (and clearly a lot of other men) that WESTERN women are shitty." (Loose quote). Now if this isn't you then I'm not addressing you. Also u gotta look back at cause and effect. (Not saying this is at all right) but if a lot of men treat you like an object then MAYBE u don't have much else to offer or MAYBE alot of men are shit. And that would be YOUR personal life evidence so we could…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:57 PM
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So being physically attracted to someone means u can't find their behavior distasteful?... Didn't know 🤯🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:44 AM
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"Chains y'all put us in". 1. Those chains have nun to do with me. Was I alive during the time when women had no rights or were "oppressed"...no. It's good u have thoughts and questions and shit to say that's part of being a alive 🤯. I was explaining the pov as a guy who has a certain view or mindset of women based on...(watch this) MY personal experience (and clearly those of many others). My grievance is not that you have jobs or can be stable without a man (personally I wouldn't choose to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:42 AM
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The rhetoric of "women are all stuck up liars" is not entirely true for every woman, however I'd say if this rhetoric is THIS popular and reproached then it has at least SOME merit to it. If Everytime I saw a dog it tried to bite or attack me imma assume dogs are shit. (Until I see a dog that doesn't). THEN I can say "well not ALL dogs" but in my personal experience...MOST dogs. Its hard to get away from it when they keep proving it to be so time and time again. (Ofc u have agency in choosing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:33 AM
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You have said nothing to ACTUALLY contribute meaningfully to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:31 AM
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A very sound argument but I'd say that men have went through the trouble of controlling female sexuality because men value purity when choosing a mate. (A SERIOUS, LONG-TERM mate mind you)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:38 PM
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