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ekbowler/r/seduction07/09/12 04:35 PM
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well that sucks, then go around and talk and introduce yourself to people. Everybody's scared and new and they don't want to be left out of the social circles, so they will never be more accepting of new people than they are right now. Pretty much everyone that didn't come to your university with friends are in the same position you are in.
/r/seduction27/08/13 12:15 AM
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First of all, keep your door open at all times unless you have a specific reason to close the door. Next, after you talked about what you mentioned in you're post, ask questions. This is crucial, people love to talk about themselves ask why they want this major, ask how they like the dorms compared to home. Then latch onto things from those answers to ask questions about and boom, you have a conversation. If all else fails, ask what TV shows, books, music, and video games they're into, then you …
/r/seduction27/08/13 12:10 AM
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Well that's great but how do you smile on cue without looking like the Joker?
/r/seduction04/06/13 07:01 AM
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No problem, I went to a bar, panicked, and left. I'm sticking with daygame from now on.
/r/seduction16/02/13 03:10 AM
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Not a bar guy. I tried, panicked as soon as I walked in, and made straight for the door. From now on, I think that I'll just stick to daygame.
/r/seduction15/02/13 03:17 AM
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You can also go to a bar. Most of the people are going to be single on Valentine's Day. You have a good chance closing depending on your game. My night game is god awful. Firstly, I can only have one beer a night because of medical reasons. Second, in my town, there are no chill bars. Everyone's trying their hardest to get drunk and party. Third, pretty much all of my friends are under 21, so I would have to solo. And finally, I have very little experiance in bars, so I have no idea what I'm doi…
/r/seduction14/02/13 05:25 PM
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Shit, if this was in the middle of the night, I'd get up and walk straight to a bar. That's fucking inspirational. I'm saving this to pump me up before heading out the next time I go out. Seriously, can we add a comment to the /r/seduction sidebar?
/r/seduction22/01/13 06:14 PM
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What does RSD mean? Also, I'm getting to go out and find myself in the same train of thought as you were. You've given me a huge boon for tonight, thank you.
/r/seduction20/01/13 02:41 AM
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Going along this topic, is it bad if you have a FB account that hasn't been updated since high school? I only use it to keep up and still haven't changed anything in it since highschool. Bothered my parents so much that they updated my info for me. I really don't give a fuck about FB. Will this hurt my game?
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:00 PM
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I can't drink at all for medical reasons but I still go to house parties, and while this has gotten me a few weird looks (that I give zero fucks about) I've gotten more people saying that they respect me for coming out. As for not liking to be around drunk people, why? I can give better advice if I know. Personally, I find it hilarious to hang around my drunk friends, as long as they're not the asshole and/or annoying kind of drunk. My core group of friends are all pretty cool to hang around dru…
/r/seduction22/12/12 02:19 AM
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Maybe I should rephrase my question. I'm not consciously worried about becoming a creeper. I just have trouble overcoming this programming that has kept me from flirting my whole life. I get the same feeling when I'm thinking about trying that I get when I start to walk out of a bathroom without washing my hands. My instincts scream against it. How can I get rid of these instincts and are there any good beginning lines?
/r/seduction02/12/12 03:05 AM
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and then you have to tease her sexually. This is what I really have trouble with. For as long as I can remember, I have been taught that this is what you don't do and that you're a creeper if you do. Now, logically, I know this to be false and ridiculous. But there's just an instinct to avoid doing it that's as automatic as walking. How do I get rid of this instinct and start being able to talk sexually and not feel bad about myself?
/r/seduction01/12/12 10:47 PM
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I've tried this but I have very sensitive gag reflexes and start to gag as soon as the toothbrush touches the roof. Are there anyways to make my gag reflexes less sensitive, or should I just man up and still do it? Also, I've never french kissed before (recovering AFC) and could my gag reflexes cause problems with that?
/r/seduction10/11/12 01:07 AM
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So I should pretend that girls are prostitutes? Serious question. If I have it in mind that she's a prostitute, will it be easier to escalate with her?
/r/seduction09/11/12 10:27 PM
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I'm going as an apocalypse survivor. Getting some old-looking clothes, dirtying them up and tearing some parts of them, getting a sash with bullets and a cut-out gun, and I'm going to get some bandages and put fake blood on them to make it look like I was injured. I'm also thinking about putting grease and dirt on any exposed skin to make it look like I've been out surviving for a while. And I'm also haven't shaved in a while and I'm going to mess up my hair before I put the costume on. I have n…
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:02 PM
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Prince Aladdin or street rat Aladdin? I just think that street rat would be MUCH easier to pull off.
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:36 PM
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Now I'm not shaving or cutting my hair until after Halloween for my costume, an apocalypse survivor/hobo. How much will this hurt my game? I had a goatee before doing this, so I'll have a longer goatee with some sideburns, and stubble everywhere else, including the neck. My hair doesn't get long, it gets thick. But this will be a small problem, since I am almost always wearing a hat. Any ways to minimize the damage while staying unshaven for the costume?
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:43 PM
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This man speaks the truth, this was way before this post. But in one frat party, I was just randomly throwing my body around, not really paying attention to if I was "dancing right" seeing as I have NEVER been in a dancing situation like this before. And a girl came up to me and said that she loved what I was doing, unfortunately her boyfriend was right there. The point is, you can do this, even if you have NO IDEA how to dance!
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:35 PM
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I would just like to add, that I really take meds that don't allow me to drink alcohol. And no one has EVER given me shit about it. Of course, I say it confidently because it's the truth. So no one will think less of you for saying that.
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:23 PM
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How good is this website, and how reliable would the rest of the articles and advice be?
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:19 PM
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I saw a post a while ago where the guy just BS'd it, is your technique more advisable? Between school, work, and the rest of Seddit, I'm already really pressed for time and don't want to take the time to learn anything that I could BS.
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:18 PM
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All my life, society and family has taught me that these kinds of things are unacceptable, so I have in instinctual aversion to it. Are there any kind of sexual flirts that are good but not too explicit that I can practice and help me get used to this idea?
/r/seduction14/10/12 10:03 PM
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here's the thing, my classes either have just a midterm and a final or no tests at all. Just essays and in one, I've gotta cook something for the final (I have no idea what the details are about that yet, just that it'll involve cooking). I wanted a chill first semester.
/r/seduction12/10/12 06:46 PM
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Shit, I just finished my midterms......... Well, I'm saving this for finals week!
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:30 PM
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I'd like to extend his question to my circumstance. Girl I've been seeing for a week is going to come over to watch Game of Thrones with me. Problem is, I only have it on my comp. and my computer doesn't have an HDMI plug so I can't plug it into my TV. Also, the only places to sit are my chair (which is quite uncomftorble) and lofted bed. How can I escalate in this situation?
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:05 AM
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How do you even make a costume like that?
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:43 PM
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I forget where I saw it, but there was a comment that explained the HB scale very thoroughly.
/r/seduction24/09/12 12:33 AM
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and by lower thigh, you mean the knee area? I'm going to party tonight and don't want to get any details messed up.
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:46 PM
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With #3, you say that this needs to be done as soon as someone meets a girl. But the question is asking how to do this with a girl who you already know. And I'm assuming this also means that you haven't been doing keno sense you met her. So how do you recover from all of that lost keno?
/r/seduction13/09/12 11:51 PM
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Very much so, just one more detail I'm wondering about. Do we want to start the internal porn before we even start talking?
/r/seduction13/09/12 11:42 PM
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How does internal method 1 communicate to her that you're interested? I feel like I'm missing something very simple here.
/r/seduction12/09/12 07:41 PM
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Thank you so much, my sister mentioned this the other day and couldn't remember what the M stood for!
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:31 PM
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Does the Knee->lower back->hands->eye contact and smile->kiss technique work in other situations? I'm really bad at kino because all my life I've been told to respect personal space and kid me interpreted this as no touching so I've erected mental bubbles around everyone (including close friends and family) so that I can easily see their personal space. And if I enter someone's bubble, I instinctively take a few steps back. How do I get rid of this instinct and get good at kino?
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:28 PM
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I will preface this by stating that I'm still new to game and not very experienced. However, I found a great trick that helped me with approaching people. Think of something, anything, in your life that you overcame but made you feel the same way when you talk to anything, that pit in your stomach that makes just want to curl up in the fetal position. Now when you're out talking to people, act like you did in that prior situation. I know that you may not have had a situation like this, and if so…
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:16 PM
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Would this be inadvisable in a frat party that's so full just moving a few feet is a task?
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:04 PM
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I have some gay friends on the same floor as me and I've been wondering how do I best utilize how they bring their girl friends back to the dorm and sometimes to me without coming on too strong or possibly damaging my friendship with them?
/r/seduction11/09/12 10:50 PM
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The advice I've gotten from your article and ikkake's comments has helped me so much, but I've ran into a problem. Christopher Titus explains it best at about 4:55 (I recommend watching the entire piece, but skip to that spot to get my point). I've gotten rid of that physical fear and wobbly knees I mentioned earlier, but now I've got that "inner retard" in my head. Every time I take a breath and try not to care my inner retard yells at me. I've tried all kinds of mental tricks to stop, but I ju…
/r/seduction09/09/12 09:15 PM
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Is this applicable in day game or can we only do this when we pick up in a bar, club, or party?
/r/seduction09/09/12 08:51 PM
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Question about Day Game, do you just get out and randomly walk around? If so,what do you say when you're asked where you're going?
/r/seduction09/09/12 04:22 PM
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It always shocks people when I tell them my age (and has ever since I started middle school), but now I take it as a complement. Because in twenty years, guys like you and me will look a lot younger then we actually are. And I always make a joke about it. In short (no pun intended), don't care. I have a lot of nervousness issues, but this isn't one of them. It's really easy once just stop caring.
/r/seduction09/09/12 04:08 PM
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I just got back from a Frat party, and I've never been to a house party like this before, and thought that I couldn't dance for shit. I watched others, and randomly threw around my limbs and a girl came up to me and said that she loved it (her boyfriend was with her though). The point is, don't be afraid, make yourself the center of attention and girls will be attracted to you. However, I'd like to ask others reading for this, what to do once I've got a girl dancing with me? There were plenty of…
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:03 AM
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I'll give a few more details about our relationship. We met because we're both going to a fencing club and had a mutual friend there and in the same building we live in, I met another friend there that was in the same building as the three of us. So the four of us started walking together to practice (it's a bit of a hike) and getting to know each other as friends, and I convinced them to try and teach her how to play Euker. One time, it was just me and her since the other two couldn't come and …
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:48 PM
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How important is Kino? I saw a video posted here where the guy said that if you do Kino on girls without normally being a touchy-feelly kind of guy creeps them out. I don't touch people a lot, in fact I've noticed that I kinda withdraw and try not to touch people, not consciously, it's just a reaction. Can I have game without any Kino at all?
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:23 PM
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Do video games count as a hobby?
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:01 PM
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At first, I just wanted to lose my virginity, but now I see that I'm improving other aspects of my life, and only after a few short days of browsing and experimenting I genuinely feel more happy. And I haven't even gotten a number yet. Now I just want to use this subreddit to improve my social life as a whole (although the first motivation is still there, just not the main one).
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:48 PM
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It's kinda funny, I had to go to the Administration building after I posted that last one and experienced exactly what you described. Talked to some really cool random people. And on the way back, I ended up walking along a HB and chatted her up, barley felt anxious at all. I think that setting determines when I feel most anxious. If I wait to get my nerves up and talk to her, I get the fear and wobbly knees. But if it's spontaneous and I don't really give myself time, then I only feel a little …
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:21 PM
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You should write a book at some point in your life. I only have two questions. When I walk around randomly and without direction, I know that I look confused and confident, any way to overcome this? And my dorm is pretty messy, but together for the most part. How clean should I get my dorm? I have no problems with the hygiene aspect. edit: and the closest place I can go to outside of my dorm is the main street in town, there's also a mall that I can take a bus to, but I'd prefer not go there.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:35 PM
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This is great and I'm going to get started as soon as I can (about to leave for classes today). Just one question, at my dorm there are a TON of people. And in my cafeteria and the rest of uni I just get people overload. How do I choose who to talk to at first, and is it bad that I sometimes have to introduce myself twice because it's been a while since I met someone but their face is familiar? Awesome post man, keep it up.
/r/seduction05/09/12 02:00 PM
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Video games? Stargate? Most of the stuff I like is overly geeky and I would think that unless the girl was into that kind of stuff to (which would be awesome) talking about that stuff would be just me talking and she wouldn't respond at all. And it would turn into an awkward conversation that she just want's to get out of.
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:23 PM
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For the 5th point, is it alright making a joke about "Wow, this is an awkward silence" or just something along those lines?
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:19 PM
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Really? I've always thought that line was really cheesy and assumed that girls would laugh it off. That and I fucking hate that song.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:42 PM
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Thank you so much for this, but I have a few questions. Whenever I try and move in on girls, I feel physically weak, my brain just freezes up, and I literally get wobbly in the knees. I've read the sidebar and have been browsing seddit for a few nights now. And while I know all of this stuff in my head, my instincts are still terrified as if I have been conditioned to be afraid around girls. How can I undo this instinct that has built up over the last twenty years of my life? I was actually abou…
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:37 PM
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Question about chatting with girls whenever you can, I'm in college and live in a dorm. If I chat up all the girls that I see, will the people in my dorm see me as a creeper or a desperate guy?
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:11 AM
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