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but it is in her body. Yes, it is half his but who's the one who is carrying it? Men should certainly have rights regarding abortion options but if he wants to terminate the pregnancy (instead of giving up parental rights, etc) then she should have to consent 100%.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 05:24 AM
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The National Post just released an article about it as well.
/r/MensRights07/04/13 07:20 PM
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Just wondering, have you actually met a transgendered person before? Because your comment is one big clusterfuck of ignorance.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 03:29 AM
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In many countries, yes
/r/MensRights22/02/13 12:29 AM
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I don't think that people should be saying he should be expelled, he should have his academic career ruined, or x,y,z should happen. All we know is what OP told us. Nothing else. As far as I know, no one on reddit witnessed what has happened between these two so I think it's fair to start throwing punishments around. Regarding her talking to this guy about his behaviour..if she hasn't, is it still wrong? She seems like she's afraid of confrontation (she replied to someone's comment that she does…
/r/MensRights20/02/13 08:32 PM
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Not always. I was raised by a great mom and if I said anything on this list to my boyfriend or brother in front of her, she'd give me shit for it.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 12:05 PM
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As a woman, this is really interesting to for me to read. Going through this list, I realized I've witnessed a lot of these thrown around at my brother, my male friends, my boyfriend and his friends. I was consciously aware of a good portion of these things but this definitely reminded me of other examples of shaming. Thanks for posting!
/r/MensRights19/02/13 12:01 PM
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wait, what?! There isn't nearly enough info about this to say that if he had a decent mom, this probably wouldn't have happened. There are so many other factors involved in things like this. He could have been dealing with mental illness, bullying, etc. We simply don't know enough about the situation to go and automatically assume that the blame is entirely on the mom.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 12:24 AM
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1) everyone grieves in a different way. For some, like OP, reddit is an outlet for them to deal with it. 2) people react to traumatic things, such as losing a child, in different ways. Some get extremely emotional and break down automatically, some get angry, some go into denial right away, etc. He's most likely in shock.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 12:15 AM
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well that's quite a generalization.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:48 AM
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well, playing doctor or "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" is normal when it comes to childhood sexuality. It's more curiosity than anything else. It's not meant to be sexual...but actually giving oral sex to a fellow preschooler is NOT normal.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 04:39 PM
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I wonder if post partum depression could play a role in why there's a higher rate of mothers mistreating children? I know that's not the point of this post, but still.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 05:02 PM
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Well, I was always taught conflicting things growing up. I grew up with a sexist father, who believed that a woman's place is in the house and only in the house (when my mother got a promotion at work a few years back, he was PISSED off) and when her husband comes home from work everyday, she has to attend to his needs no matter what. I was taught that women are nothing unless they're loved by a man, and that guys can't control themselves, so you can't trust them. However, that was just what I h…
/r/MensRights03/02/13 05:00 PM
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True. I'm in my early 20s and I'm one of the only women I know (well, that's my age at least) who gives a shit about circumcision, male domestic violence victims, family custody shit, etc. Sadly confirmation bias plays a part, I guess.
/r/MensRights03/02/13 04:25 PM
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Okay, I've been on both sides of this. I've been raped and my brother was falsely accused of sexual harassment (which is luckily off his record because it happened when he was in his early teens but still). Those who are falsely accused are innocent. They did not commit the crime. They don't deserve to be condemned, punished, etc. like rapists do. They've done nothing wrong. Yet their lives can become a mess if people don't believe that they did nothing wrong. My brother had some pretty rough ye…
/r/MensRights02/02/13 11:53 PM
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I agree 100%. I was guilty of that many times as a teenager, especially when it came to double standards.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 04:47 PM
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Of course. Not at the time, because I was about 8 when the actual incident took place, so no one told me the full story. They just said that the girl (who I knew) had accused my brother of something serious and he was in trouble with the police because of her lie. My mom didn't tell me anything until I was a teenager and ended up going to the same high school as this girl and my brother. I was 14 and didn't really have any feminist views but I was insanely protective of my brother and would make…
/r/MensRights02/02/13 01:21 AM
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ell, I know tons of radical feminists wouldn't give a shit when it comes to the fact that there are plenty of things that are unequal for men because they respond to that stuff by thinking "DOWN WITH MEN!!!1!!" and all that bullshit. More civilized feminists, on the other hand, some are a little uneducated in how things can affect men. I know some feminists who aren't educated on circumcision, custody, etc. and don't know why MRAs are fighting these issues. Others, (my mom for example), become e…
/r/MensRights01/02/13 10:12 PM
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That's a really interesting quote, thanks for this!
/r/MensRights01/02/13 10:11 PM
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I'm a female as well who identified as a feminist (not a radical one, though) and always thought that men didn't need a MRM. However, I had come to realize there are issues such as circumcision, custody, issues men face by working in fields such as day care and teaching in preschool or elementary that are part of the movement. I also realized that when I was younger, my brother dealt with something that would not have even happened if he was a female. He was on the bus home with a girl from his …
/r/MensRights01/02/13 08:01 PM
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That's absolutely ridiculous. As a woman, I'd feel terribly uncomfortable and wouldn't listen to the bus driver. Why the hell do I deserve to get on the bus first because of my gender? Dumb as fuck. The universal fucking rule of getting on a damn bus should be, get on the bus in your damn line and sit down whereever the hell you want. Then, if someone who's injured, disabled, pregnant, or elderly comes on and needs a seat, give up your seat regardless of your gender. I find it stupid that the bu…
/r/MensRights01/02/13 07:31 PM
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That's what I don't get. My mother has talked about wanting to divorce my father for a while (it's a complicated situation so she hasn't done it yet) and the other day she called me and talked to me about it. She asked if I knew if she'd have to file for custody for my brother, who is 24 but disabled and then said "What about alimony? Oh, I'm not going to go for that...I'm divorcing him. Plus, I've worked since I was 16, he owes me nothing," I don't know why others can't have that outlook. If yo…
/r/MensRights29/01/13 02:11 PM
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aaand I just noticed that the place that did the study is actually one of the places I went for treatment...makes me like them even more. :)
/r/MensRights22/01/13 02:24 AM
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Epilepticbicycle's comment is a great explanation as to why anyone develops an eating disorder. Usually men and women develop them for the same types of reasons: abuse, self punishment (because of low self esteem or low self worth), trauma, etc. It's a coping mechanism and it's also a way to gain some sense of control when things are so traumatic around you.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 02:23 AM
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1 was openly gay, 1 was a married heterosexual man and the other (if I remember correctly) was straight as well. The gay man and the married man were both bulimic, and the other was anorexic. EDIT: I hit enter before I was done but I don't think it's their brain chemistry. I've actually met a few other men with eating disorders (obviously this is just my experience and doesn't reflect the entire male population when it comes to eating disorders) and out of the 6 in total, 2 were gay. Men deal wi…
/r/MensRights21/01/13 11:33 PM
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The last place I went to was extremely welcoming to EVERYONE and had signs up in every room stating that there should be no discrimination based on gender, sexual orientation, etc. and there were informational posters all over about women with eating disorders AND about men with eating disorders. It was really nice to see. and thank you, I appreciate that. :)
/r/MensRights21/01/13 11:29 PM
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As a woman who has struggled with anorexia and bulimia and has been in treatment a few times, I've definitely seen an increase in my experiences. The first time I was in treatment, there were no men. The last time I was in treatment, there were 3. Hearing their thoughts and struggles was definitely eye opening.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 04:56 PM
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As a woman, it pisses me off when people automatically assume that the man did something to deserve being murdered by his girlfriend/wife/whatever. There are crazy, mentally ill women out there who murder, like Aileen Wuornos, and there are crazy, mentally ill men who murder as well. Same can be said about those who murder in self defence or those who do it because their significant other cheated. Men AND women are capable of acts of violence and so many people think that there's absolutely no w…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 04:10 PM
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Coulter is disgusting but I can't stand The View.....they just talk over each other and their guests and it's just one giant clusterfuck. I'm gonna go ahead and assume this video is just one big yelling match because usually that's the way shit goes down on that show.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 03:53 PM
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like everyone said, an erection is a voluntary reaction. I don't know if you're a man or woman, but guy's can get erections randomly (even in their sleep) so during rape, it's definitely not unheard of that this would occur. Also, that's not the only way a female can rape a man. Anal penetration. Use your imagination on that one.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 01:10 PM
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Sorry, I mean women use it to shame other women who are skinny. Bad wording.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:59 PM
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I wish the whole "real men don't " and "real women " shit would stop. Dumbass shaming tactic. Men are victims of trafficking too so they should change the name of the damn campaign because that shit is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:18 PM
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I'm a woman and I hear it so often. Guys say it when they're talking about what type of girl they want (for example: "I want a real woman, not a skeleton" is something I've heard before) and women have used it to shame those who are naturally skinny, are struggling with eating disorders, etc.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 08:12 PM
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Because she's the mother and society somehow thinks that regardless of the mother's mental stability and ability to be a parent, she should be the one to take care of the child because he/she came out of her womb.
/r/MensRights05/01/13 07:53 PM
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this. As a feminist (although I'm definitely leaning more towards egalitarian these days as I become more educated on men's rights issues and become more annoyed towards how ridiculous most feminists are), I don't believe patriarchy exists in current society..and the feminists who act as if men's issues don't exist are either extremely uneducated and ignorant or are so focused on tearing men down that they purposely act as if men don't deserve rights too.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 02:51 PM
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As a women, I hate when people assume that only men rape. That statement is ridiculous because yes, for decades people have told men not to rape, but numbers aren't going to go down because a) rapists aren't going to give a fuck if you tell them "don't rape someone!" and b) women can also be rapists. Society seems to forget that all the damn time.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 09:16 PM
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How old are you? I'm genuinely curious because I'm beginning to think you're either a very young, sheltered preadolescent who just hasn't learned yet or you're an ignorant idiot who is too much of an asshole to realize that as a straight person, gay marriage doesn't affect YOU. You're acting like the world would implode if two men got married and raised a family. Neil Patrick Harris did it. yep, definitely looks like his kids are suffering You can't have two fathers or two mothers. News flash: f…
/r/MensRights31/12/12 05:01 PM
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what the FUCK is wrong with you? Would you be pissed if suddenly heterosexuals couldn't get married or have kids at all, just because you were straight? Just because YOU believe that being gay is wrong doesn't mean you should allow someone else's rights to be taken away. Marriage is a civil right and denying a human being that right is stupid. Not allowing them to adopt a child just because that child will have two fathers or two mothers? Also stupid. That child isn't going to suffer development…
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:45 PM
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I believe that VAWA is flawed. I do think that there should be a federal law to protect HUMANS against violence, not just women or just men. The services that VAWA provides should not be for just one gender, because men are affected by domestic violence, sexual assault, rape, etc. too.One sided family courts are total bullshit and I think that there are plenty of horrible mothers and horrible fathers out there. Mothers should not necessarily be automatically chosen for sole custody just because …
/r/MensRights31/12/12 08:31 AM
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what the fuck is wrong with me, I need to stay off reddit when I'm tired. :( Thanks for still being welcoming even though I clearly lack reading comprehension when I don't get enough sleep!
/r/MensRights31/12/12 04:44 AM
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Really? No such thing as gay rights or trans rights? Up until fairly recently, gay marriage wasn't legal pretty much ANYWHERE. Gays weren't allowed to openly serve in the military until recently in the states, and a gay couple isn't allowed to adopt in certain states. I'm not going to bother to continue because I have a feeling you're an ignorant idiot, but here's a handy guide by country, for your reading pleasure.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 03:05 AM
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Since I don't have 20 minutes to spare at the moment, I did some quick reading and I do apologize and take back my comments about the draft. The feminism movement is FAR from perfect and I'll be the first to admit it. But to say that we've never had to deal with shit is far from the truth. You seem to constantly make generalizations about women and feminists without bothering to actually listen. Also, I am genuinely curious to hear more about how men have suffered and still do. You never elabora…
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:12 AM
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Here's one site with that stat. Sure, there may be a few woman down there, but they will transfer to a easier, and safer job at first chance. This is different than what you just said. These women HAVE pursued a job in mining and you're saying they're going to transfer out at first chance, and now you're saying that it's not a stereotype that women pursue easier and safer jobs. Those are different arguments. Yes, women still pursue "safer" jobs like ones in childcare, health care, etc. just let …
/r/MensRights31/12/12 02:04 AM
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18% of miners in Canada are women. That's not "a few" women. Stop reinforcing stereotypes by saying that they'll transfer to an easier, safer job at first chance. What does the fact that 0 women dying in that collapse have anything to do with this? It's still a male dominated field, so if there's an accident, chances are any injuries or deaths will be to a male worker.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 01:23 AM
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Women weren't allowed in WW1, sorry that we weren't seen as brave enough or tough enough. You keep going on about how men have suffered so much more and still do. I'd love to hear you go into more detail about that. I'm all for equality between men and women but the fact that some men's rights activists act as if women haven't had to fight for their rights is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 01:12 AM
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There are a ton of mines where I grew up and it wasn't uncommon for women to be working down there too. There were always more men than women, but they were still there. Give me a source that says that there aren't any women on the Alaskan fishing boats. Who gives a shit if there are more men than women there, I'm sure there's at least one damn woman.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 12:39 AM
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caaaalm your shit. I AGREE with you guys on plenty of things. edit: aaaand I need to learn to read things properly. totally thought you were being sarcastic haha
/r/MensRights30/12/12 07:35 PM
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