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| 1 | Seeing ex GF at a party in 2 weeks, how to make her think wowExes are exes for a reason, and best left that way. Move on. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.Confidence is great, no problems there. My issue is with the specific advice given and quoted | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.Because the advice given is harmful as stated. Nowhere did I mention anything about establishing a relationship with anyone. If you're okay with self-destruction to get your short term goals then make that decision armed with the knowledge of the consequences you're choosing to accept as well. I've got high standards for myself because that's what works for me. I'm not trying to tell anyone to be like me; if you don't mind the ramifications then do as you please. But don't expect anyone to give … | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 01:10 AM |
| 18 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.Your assumption is a nice one but unfortunately it's naive. People should be good people but not all are. And selfishness isn't malicious by intent, it's malicious by neglect. It's not that my friend isn't living up to his values, because he is; he's not living up to others' values. His current values don't include things like being courteous and respectful towards his friends and family. Anything that doesn't make him happy and numb to life's ugly side is not something he cares one bit about. H… | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 09:51 PM |
| 78 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.And that is the crucial point to understand here. You may not be perfect as a person, but you have to be perfectly fine with the way you are – and you should never apologize to anyone about how you live your life, as long as you live up to your OWN values and ideals that you have set for yourself! This is the kind of thinking that breeds selfish assholes. If your only objective is to fulfill basic desires at any cost then go ahead and adopt this mantra, but understand that being unapologetically… | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 09:32 PM |
| 2 | How to react when you text with her!?Don't overdo the texting. Use it minimally just to set up dates and such. There's too much communication lost via texting (intonation, body language, etc). Conversational texting can occur once things are more steady and stable. If a girl is interested in you, it won't be hard to set up a date. If you suggest a day that doesn't work, she'll likely try to come up with alternatives. If she doesn't offer anything along those lines she's probably not interested. | /r/seduction | 03/05/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I am 27 never had a girlfriendFor example, he said he is not particularly attractive, so he can work on his wardrobe and on his body. He can still choose to dress in his own style, but he should choose better, more flattering clothes. He also said he doesn't like going out much, which is also something he can improve on without giving up his personality. The difference is, he should do those things because he wants to, not because he thinks he has to in order to impress women. That's the key difference. | /r/seduction | 03/05/17 07:26 PM |
| 12 | I am 27 never had a girlfriendMost people will suggest you change your clothes and hobbies to align yourself with the general consensus of attractive. That only makes you like everyone else, and that would make you boring. I'm making assumptions here based on your description of yourself, but I assume you don't think too highly of yourself. Why should anyone else, then? The first step is getting comfortable in your own skin. Until you can love yourself, nobody else can. If you like Magic the Gathering, don't talk to people a… | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?You don't change it. You accept it and let it be part of who you are. You own it and work with it. That's how you become comfortable with yourself, and when you're comfortable your social and funny side will come out too. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only.I'm not much of a PUA; I'd take it as a huge compliment; at the same time it'd probably fuck up our friendship since she's 400 miles away I'm guessing most people wouldn't like that as much. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 12:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to visit a girl I met at a festival - now suffering from oneitis and regret...I can identify with your aftermath section quite a bit. Here's the issue: you're trying to use your logic and reason to clarify emotional ambiguity. No matter how hard you try, it's not going to work, and you'll only end up upsetting or confusing yourself. Realize that whatever conclusions you arrive at are probably ill-formed to begin with. The only way you'll really get the answers you're looking for is to have a 1-on-1 conversation with her about those very topics, and that's very unlikely to… | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only.I kinda understand where you're coming from. Kinda. Hung out with a cool female friend of mine recently. She's much more vocal and direct about things than I am, which worked out well. We didn't end up hooking up that night (she was too drunk) but the next day I realized it's probably better off that way. She was looking for strictly FWB and while I'm cool with that, I have a really hard time detaching emotionally. It would've been really weird for me afterwards. EDIT: Also, sorry but I don't ha… | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 10:55 PM |
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