elbaspthen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What do you say to a girl if you just want to hook up again?		elbaspthen	/r/seduction	02/11/13 01:05 AM
6	I've been lurking for a while and I've decided to actually DO something		elbaspthen	/r/seduction	15/08/11 06:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	So a post on /r/cringe caught my attention I agree except that particular guy in that video needs to stop approaching. He has gone up to people eating at a restaurant and gotten kicked out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYPXuRnDOgc That is unacceptable. Those people were just trying to have a nice meal and he made every single one of them very uncomfortable. He labels one of the guys at the table a "beta friend." I watched a few of his videos and he just makes everyone EXTREMELY uncomfortable. I'm all for going out and meeting new peop…	/r/seduction	19/01/15 07:36 PM
2	I get invited to 'chill' with women all the time. But that's the problem, 'chilling' is exactly what we end up doing. Help? When a girl invites you to chill and she's alone and not related to you, she definitely wants to make it easy for you to make a move on her. I don't agree that you were friend zoned. Maybe you are now but not when they invited you over. If you were friend zoned she would make sure that one of her friends was also at her house. Girls and people in general aren't stupid about these things. The home alone environment is very conducive to hooking up. There will always be that "we could just fuck rig…	/r/seduction	04/05/14 05:22 PM
2	How do you actually overcome an insecurity? I was typing some long shit but you covered almost everything. I would just like to add that comparing yourself to other people is very unhealthy, especially comparing qualities that you can't change. The ONLY thing that will come out of that is unhappiness so stop. Also, I'm 5'4" and I understand what you are feeling but I can't empathize with you. I understand that you feel like being taller gives you more options. It's logical, right? If a tall person had the same qualities as a short person …	/r/seduction	26/04/14 01:41 AM
2	Absolutely Lost At House Parties... Any Advice? House parties are the best! You seem to beat yourself up pretty bad and that's not good. No one wants to stop me and talk to me and girls get creeped out. I'm almost positive that isn't actually true but with that attitude it could become a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you walk in immediately go up to someone and introduce yourself. I actually usually go up to a guy. "What's up dude? I'm blabla." If his is outgoing or drunk he would introduce you to his friends. After the introduction shit is …	/r/seduction	20/04/14 05:59 PM
1	The Greatest Realization Of My Life. I don't think you can shut off your emotions; you are just deluding yourself. If you accept the fact that a certain emotion is happening you can TRY to suppress that emotion or you can choose to synergize with it and I think the latter is more beneficial.	/r/seduction	13/04/14 03:57 PM
1	How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same time I don't have a system. That's the point.	/r/seduction	05/04/14 03:40 AM
-1	How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same time My system is that no matter how long it takes a woman to respond to my text/email/IM I double that time with a minimum of one hours. So if she waits 6 hours to respond to my email, I wait 12 hours; 10 minutes, I wait 1 hour (the minimum). Once this woman replied to my email after 2 weeks, I waited one full month to reply back. I almost stopped reading there because I thought this was a joke. I think this says a lot about your character and so it achieves the opposite of what you want it to achie…	/r/seduction	05/04/14 03:10 AM
1	[FR]First Daygame Approach. Would Love Tips And Pointers Pretty good for your first approach. Ill be concise. You could have maybe tapped her on the thigh to let her know the presentation is starting or something like that. You should have not offered to pay at all. You just met the girl. Would you offer to pay for a guy classmate you just met? If so then its fine as long as you convey its no big deal and maybe tell her its on her next time. You could have been a little bitch and not talked to her at all but you were not so good job.	/r/seduction	20/02/14 04:54 AM
1	30 Day Challenge, Days 1-7 Agree	/r/seduction	29/01/14 02:00 AM
4	30 Day Challenge, Days 1-7 Awesome job actually going out there and talking to girls. However this made me cringe just because I used to do shit like this and now I realize how weak and creepily indirect this sounds to a girl. "So I'm not even hitting on you when I ask this. How often do guys hit on you every day?" You ARE hitting on her when you say this and she know this. What I thought I would convey when saying stuff like this is that I'm different than all those guys that hit on you because I'm aware of your situatio…	/r/seduction	28/01/14 06:16 PM
50	Tinder Game: I get shitloads of matches but can't get a solid date? Anyone with some solid tips on this? [I'm in Melb, Aus btw] You are being incredibly indirect which may work in real life but in online dating services the girl will probably just want you to get to the point. That's one of the reasons they exist, right? "Hey you are pretty attractive! Let's meet up at Starbucks at 7 for some pizza." Don't call her babe.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 05:19 PM
1	Anxiety is a Chemical I understand that this is conceptual but then you should write it like it's conceptual. "Imagine everybody's brain creates the same amount of that chemical..."	/r/seduction	14/01/14 03:20 PM
1	I Honestly Didn't Think it Would Work [FR] It's a bet, I can't use Google, I have to find somebody in the bar who knows, let me introduce you guys to my friends and we'll tell you more about it I don't understand how at least on of the girls in the group didn't just dismiss you with a "nice try." It should be so painfully obvious at this point that your just using this canned game to introduce yourself and your buddies to a group of attractive girls. Yes, sometimes they don't care and are also just looking to meet new people but I can't …	/r/seduction	14/01/14 03:15 PM
1	What do you say to a girl if you just want to hook up again? You are right but I don't think that. What makes you think I do?	/r/seduction	02/11/13 12:32 PM
1	M/F Sedditors: I'm on the shorter side, how do I simulate those extra few inches with personality? I'm 5'4" and I was honestly in complete shock when I found out through reddit a while back that girls cared about height. I was in shock because I never even considered that a factor. I do agree though that it is a factor for a lot of women but I never let that stop me. I remember a few girls I would talk to would tell me something along the lines of "If you were taller I would definitely try to get with you." My genuine reaction to that was "Whatever, that's your loss." That should be what you'…	/r/seduction	24/07/13 03:54 PM
1	A success story, in more ways then one Whoa dude, that's fantastic. It's like you took the pill from limitless! haha	/r/seduction	16/08/11 06:46 PM
2	I've been lurking for a while and I've decided to actually DO something I feel like that article was written just for me! Pretty much dismissed all my concerns on that topic. JayTS, since you feel exactly like I do I'm glad this helped you too. Good luck!	/r/seduction	15/08/11 10:45 PM