eldcx Archive

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1	I feel so desperate as FUCK It seems like you unconsciously believe that you deserve to be abandoned, that your default is for people to leave you unless they give you constant reassurance that they won't. Accept that you are OK even if people aren't telling you so. Easier said than done but I found that the book "Assertivenes" by Joel Derrington really helped.	/r/seduction	02/04/18 12:26 PM
1	Working on assertiveness and self-confidence You are addicted to self monitoring and you think that your inner state has to be perfect before you are complete and people can like you. Let go of the need to know the right thing to do all the time. Accept that you don't know what will be the consequence of every action and be willing to find out through experience. I recommend "Assertiveness"" by Joel Derrington	/r/seduction	02/04/18 12:07 PM