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| 1 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?You can’t genuinely believe this. Males are on average MUCH stronger than their female partners. The bell curves of male vs female upper body strength barely even overlap (the relevant metric for the ability to overpower/ inflict damage). The weakest men & the very strongest women are roughly at parity. Maybe you’re on the far left tale of the male curve personally, but there is absolutely a massive disparity in potential danger (ie ability to inflict catastrophic damage via violence) in male on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:45 AM |
| 7 | PolygynyOkay, I’ll play along with the premise that you’re actually a woman and your post is genuine for this line of discussion. I’ll focus on the financial point because that’s the only one that’s actually a benefit to the woman… Remember you’re trying to make an argument why polygamy is more beneficial than monogamy for the woman. Not the man. A monogamous provider also lets you stay home to raise your kids and can afford hired help as needed. You are the mother, you can raise your children however y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/26 08:27 AM |
| 8 | PolygynyGive it a rest or make one single logically sound argument as to why any (real) women would see any benefit or appeal at all in the idea of participating in a harem for a mediocre, barely upper middle class, fake Christian so he can experience sexual variety. Go ahead, bud. Make that case in any logically consistent form. I dare you lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/26 08:06 AM |
| 18 | PolygynyThe fact that your idea of what makes a guy good in bed, the two factors you felt made that case is “8.5 inches long & hitting the cervix” leaves no room for doubt. Not only are you a man, but you’re a man who’s bad in bed lmfao. Idk why you insist on exposing yourself like this, you’re just digging a deeper hole here. Your “huge dick”, “smack the cervix”, “beat the pussy up” bullshit is the pornified male fantasy of “dude who’s good in bed”. You are in a sub for women, talking to real women. No… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/26 07:50 AM |
| 22 | PolygynyLmfao bro. Drop the act. First off we know you’re not a woman. “Amazing in bed (very endowed)” is not how real women describe men that are actually good in bed, mkay. That belongs in the r/menwritingwomen sub lol More to the point… my dude…. you can’t actually think low 6 figures is anywhere near enough to live a harem fantasy… a “great provider” to multiple families with multiple women. Be so fr lol You’d need to add at least a couple 0s to be at the level where you’d qualify for the type of tr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/26 07:15 AM |
| 22 | PolygynyLmfao nailed it. This thread is comedy gold. Goes without saying OP is obviously a man pretending to be the wife. Ofc no woman wants to share a man period full stop. No (actual) woman needs this explained lmao. Best part is OP’s in the comments bragging about what “a great provider he is making almost $300k” …fucking lol. Buddy would need to tack on at least a couple more 0s to that before pursuing his harem fantasy. In what universe is low 6 figures anywhere near enough to provide for multiple … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/26 07:03 AM |
| 9 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Swear to god this sub should be renamed to r/explainBasicHumanSocializationToSeverelyAutistcBitterMen Is this supposed to be a gotcha? Because yes. This illustrates the key distinction perfectly: consent. As in whether the interest is welcome/ reciprocated or not. Fun fact: this is also the key distinction between rape and sex. The woman has to want it too. Jfc. Just pathetic that this needs to be spelled out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingI’m not ‘denying misandry’ and I literally never have. You’re arguing with a ghost, not me. I’m not claiming ‘every man who struggles to date must be autistic/socially stunted.’ That, again is just strawman you’ve constructed to rail against rather than addressing any of the substance of my comment. What you described- being mocked for your looks, is cruel and terrible and those women are disgusting human beings. Unacceptable & you did not deserve to be treated that way, full stop. I am so sorry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingOhhh i see the problem here, you don’t even understand the logical framework of how a debate works. Let me help. Unsupported opinion” would mean I offered no premises you can check. I did. This is an argument: Premise (verifiable): this sub repeatedly uses dehumanizing/transactional framing and niche slang, and expresses entitlement/resentment patterns. Anyone can test that by reading threads. Conclusion (inference): that rhetoric is a subculture and not representative of “normal men” offline. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:34 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingYou shouldn’t ‘trust’ it like I’m an authority. You should evaluate it like an argument and present a valid counter claim. I’m not claiming to be able to read the minds of strangers. I’m pointing to concrete, observable features of this sub (language, framing, recurring themes) and contrasting that against normal, healthy human socialization. So here’s the only meaningful response you can give: Either show me I’m wrong by quoting threads/comments that don’t match what I described. Or demonstrate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:25 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingYou keep saying ‘proof’ as if I claimed access to strangers’ private inner lives. I didn’t. I made a cultural read based on what’s actually observable here: the language, the framing, the hostility, the dehumanizing slang, the transactional ‘sex is owed’ worldview. That is verifiable in the most literal sense: read the threads. What isn’t a serious rebuttal is demanding a peer reviewed study to confirm what every normal, well adjusted, romantically successful person already knows based on their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:10 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingI’ve never made a single claim about misandry. There are absolutely toxic, angry, bitter women who hate men as such. So no idea where you think you’re going with that whataboutism lol Also I’ve thoroughly responded to this guy. The burden of proof is on the extraordinary claims made by the men in this sub claiming to represent “normal men” while espousing rhetoric that normal, healthy men in real life relationships receive as insane & repulsive. My fiance & male friends who I’ve shown this sub t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 04:06 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingYou just described entitlement, selection bias, and abuse dynamics—then called it ‘the truth.’ That’s not ‘how men are.’ That’s a maladaptive, destructive way of relating to people. (Also now you’re fully generalizing all men as the very worst examples of male behavior for some reason). The fact that some men get rewarded for destructive, toxic behavior doesn’t prove it’s normal or correct. That’s like saying: ‘sometimes scammers get rich, sometimes burglars get away with it, sometimes bullies b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:57 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingOh no, buddy… This is getting embarrassing. ‘I was trolling’ is the oldest backpedal on the internet. Nobody who isn’t already brainrotted by this ecosystem casually types ‘foid’. That word doesn’t exist in normal-people vocabulary. You don’t ‘wander in’ from the outside and accidentally speak niche incel-lexicon. That’s why your first comment reads like a live demo not satire. And the funniest part is: you’re scolding me for the exact thing my original comment was warning against. My entire poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:32 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingYou’re asking for ‘proof’ like my comment is the extraordinary claim. It isn’t. The extraordinary claim is what this sub constantly tries to sell: that its bitter, transactional, dehumanizing worldview is what ‘normal/average men’ think. That’s just not the reality anyone sees in actual normal, healthy, well adjusted adult life. Normal people’s experience informed by mixed-gender friendships, workplaces, families, relationships. The baseline is boring and obvious: healthy, socially functional me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 03:16 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingLmfaoooo You just did the thing. In no less than two words. 😂 couldn’t have made my point any better if you tried, thank you. This is why people don’t take you weirdos seriously. You can’t even speak like a normal human. The brainrot is too strong. If it weren’t so damn funny it might inspire pity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:57 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingDon’t let them gaslight you, you’ve touched on a very real dynamic. It’s analogous to something I’ve heard in the marketing/ consumer dynamics space: “It feels like companies these days are annoyed they have to go through you to get your money.” That is very much the way a lot of the men here talk about women & sex. But I would caution you against generalizing anything said on this sub to the broader population of men... as much as they insist, the men here are not representative of the “average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".This actually made me laugh out loud. Let me get this straight- rather than acknowledge that you are wrong. That your perspective is extremely childish, simplistic and just plain inaccurate. That it’s clear to everyone reading that you are likely: a child (and an under socialized child at that), with no experience in ANY of the things you’ve listed: corporate America, the military, running a business, or raising children. While it’s painfully clear to anyone with experience in any of these thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:51 PM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?You’re trying to punch above your weight, champ. Simple as. Not sure what’s not clicking for you. You said it in your own words. “My ig favorites are NEVER seen with men remotely resembling me.” Yes because exceptionally attractive people tend to date other exceptionally attractive people… obviously? Why would they be attracted to you more than someone on their own “level”? “Ugly people get laid all the time’. Not with any woman worth a damn” So your “looksmatch”, or whatever the chronically onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:05 AM |
| – | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?You’re trying to punch above your weight, champ. Simple as. Not sure what’s not clicking for you. You said it in your own words. “My ig favorites are NEVER seen with men remotely resembling me.” Yes because exceptionally attractive people tend to date other exceptionally attractive people… obviously? Why would they be attracted to you more than someone on their own “level”? “Ugly people get laid all the time’. Not with any woman worth a damn” So your “looksmatch”, or whatever the chronically onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerYou clearly don’t know any couples like this in real life & are talking out of your ass. My uncle is a divorce lawyer. He’s had two couples just last year where the women (a doctor & a lawyer) both pay alimony & child support (split custody) to the men (both teachers), because the women’s income was 10x that of the men. The lower income partner gets the financial support regardless of gender. With unequal custody, the primary caregiver- the one spending the majority of the time/ money actively r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIf a man is worried about “divorce rape” & gold diggers then yes, he should absolutely make a woman’s financial stability/ ability to provide for herself a priority. Then he will never have to worry about being “taken for a ride” financially. In fact I know two couples who divorced, where the woman earned significantly more (a middle school teacher/ lawyer couple & a high school teacher/ doctor couple). In both cases they have split custody & the women pay both child support & alimony to the men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIt’s quite straightforward to understand, no mystery here lol Because it is a replacement for (a lot of) women, when evaluating men. Meaning: an average looking man who is highly educated, a high earner, with a high status, well respected career is wildly more attractive than that same exact man were he, say a barista making $40k. They’re just (incorrectly) applying that same paradigm to male -> female attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science.Hey, as a woman who has also spent too much time on this forum, please don’t let what’s said here color your perception of all men. None of the men in my life act this way or believe these things. When I show my fiancé things said here he tends to come back with some version of “why are you wasting time arguing with miserable shut ins who have probably never been touched by a woman or had a single female friend much less a successful relationship with one.” He’s probably more right than wrong. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 06:50 PM |
| 27 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishThis guy has an insane obsession with making this claim repeatedly in this sub. It’s some kind of mental illness lmao. Dude legit has a fetish for constantly, loudly announcing: “I HAVE NEVER, EVER, IN MY ENTIRE LIFE, MADE A WOMAN CUM! Therefore… the female orgasm is a myth!” It’s like a fun little Easter egg of this sub at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:45 AM |
| – | There Is No Point in Being Loyal to Modern WomenThe advice for delusional “average” men worried about being “settled for after a woman has given up chasing Chad” is the same as the advice for delusional “average” women whining about “where are all the good men”. If you don’t want to be settled for… Lower your expectations You are trying to punch above your league. Either improve your ranking relative to your competition until the partner you want also wants you… Or lower your standards & date down until you find a partner who is crazy for you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:12 AM |
| 4 | Did The 2014-15 Discussion of "Nice Guys" And "Me Too" Cause You To Stop Dating/Talking To Men?It is absolutely wild to think you can speak for huge swathes of individuals “across three states”, no less. You must know that’s a crazy thing to say & only serves to undercut your point & reduce your implicit credibility to basically zero, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Jesus Christ dude. Looks matter. Of course they do. They’re just not the only thing that matters. I’ve never ever claimed women don’t need to be physically attracted to their partners. Of course they do. Why would I want to touch someone who repulses me? Sexual/ romantic attraction is the only thing that separates friendships from relationships. Good, healthy, happy, lasting relationships have all the characteristics of best friendship + sexual & romantic attraction. That is the formula. I genui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 01:00 AM |
| – | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Jesus bud, you might actually be hopeless. I already “admitted” it. of course you aren’t treated the same as Brad Pitt. It’s insane & delusional to think you should be treated like Brad Pitt in the first place. You shouldn’t. He’s Brad Pitt. You’re just some random, average (or below, idk), and based on this conversation clearly seriously socially stunted dude. Why would you expect to be treated the same as one of the most desirable men in the world?? You live in a fantasy world if you think “I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.This is exactly it. The men who gravitate to these forums are so cripplingly socially stunted they don’t know what normal mixed-gender socialization even looks like. They have zero female friends. They view starting as friends & progressing to a relationship as failing/ being “settled for”. So much so that they argue against any woman who points to their experience to the contrary. As someone who the cold approach has never once worked on, who doesn’t engage in apps or hookup culture, and has re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Jesus, dude. Of course you don’t get treated like Brad Pitt. wtf is the point you think you’re making here? Do you not feel even the slightest twinge of self awareness when you say something completely batshit like that? Do you actually believe you… should be treated like Brad Pitt- one of the most attractive, successful, desired men in the world?? A literal sex symbol lol. You sound like someone who makes min wage whining about not living the lifestyle of a multimillionaire. “Just admit that [i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.Hi, not really clear as to what your comment has to do with mine…? Also not sure what you’re trying to imply with the contraceptive/ abortion comment… surely as a woman you’re not suggesting we should go back to a time where we had no choice in our own reproduction & were forced to be baby making machines rather than having a say in choosing our own futures… To your last point: I’m very sorry you’re pining after someone who doesn’t return your feelings. That’s a painful place to be. My advice wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorHello lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietySir, no one in the west has multiple wives (aside from Mormon freaks- another hyper patriarchal culture where women are given by father to husbands like property). There is no desire for polygamy among women. And definitely not among western women. Women overwhelmingly want to settle down with one man. Men overwhelmingly want to settle down with one woman. I’m sorry you aren’t attractive enough to participate in hookup culture. (We all know that’s what you’re really salty about here). This bring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyDude. The brain worms have done their work. Your brain is Swiss cheese. Surely you can see how objectively unhinged and factually untrue your claim is, right? Afghanistan is what happens when men hold all the power, and women are legally treated as property—the precise opposite of any so-called “feminist paradise.” The entire society is structured around female subjugation: women can’t speak in public, can’t get an education, can’t choose their husbands, can’t even show their faces in public und… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyThe way you doubled down just to illustrate his point. Oof. We’re all well aware that the bottom of the barrel men- be that in terms of IQ, EQ, net worth, whatever- don’t find education or intelligence attractive in women. That doesn’t represent all men. Out here in reality… beyond the isolated, antisocial brainrot of the internet: People tend to pair off with those of relatively equal socioeconomic background, intelligence, education level, and (of course) physical attractiveness. TRP zealots c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:29 AM |
| 7 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyThis has to be rage bait. Too perfectly, impossibly stupid to choose Afghanistan, of all places on earth, to try to make this point. The existence of harems in Afghanistan is the result of a society where women are purchased from their father by their husband like fucking chattel. There is no hypergamy, the women aren’t making their own mate choices. Surely you’re not suggesting harems in Afghanistan are the result of… Afghani women… choosing to participate in literal harems…? In your mind they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.Yes exactly. To your point, it’s not black & white, it’s a spectrum and there is some variation among individuals of both sexes. But overall, when measuring physiological arousal itself, there is very little overlap between the sexes. Looking at a really hot nude man doesn’t arouse me. It’s visually pleasing in a way similar to looking at a beautiful work of art, but I don’t feel any physical arousal at all. Some women might feel some arousal but likely still need more direct context & stimulati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.… surely you can understand how what you said doesn’t in any way refute what I said. One, there are perfectly respectful ways to approach a woman and there are ways to approach us that make us feel like a piece of meat you want to stick your dick in & talking to us is just an annoying necessary step to try to find the correct inputs for the dialogue tree (like we’re NPCs in a video game) to get sex. That feels dehumanizing, creepy, and objectifying because you are treating us like an object ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:58 PM |
| 12 | Women want men to be like women. Men want women to be like men.Hey so scientifically speaking, you’re totally correct in that men & women experience arousal & desire in completely different ways; but you are 100% wrong in “women don’t want sex”. We do. Yes, women rarely experience the more typically male version of desire called “spontaneous arousal”- wherein you just feel desire out of the blue without anything directly prompting it. For women, our sex drives are wired for what’s called “responsive desire” which means we feel desire in response to an outsi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Many men losing interest in womenSomeone needs to post that video about poly people all looking “that way” with all the responses from poly people who all look exactly “that way”, proving the point to a tee. I’d love to see the mental gymnastics of the “I’m too ugly to date” crowd. Many of those people are objectively ugly. Not average but firmly below average and yet somehow they all have multiple partners. Almost like in the outside world, beyond the antisocial reddit circlejerk- ugly people engage in sex & relationships (wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:22 AM |
| 9 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.That is extremely true— of course that’s not to say attractive people are de facto kinder than unattractive people on average— but resentment and that chip on the shoulder mentality can be just as toxic and destructive as arrogance & egocentrism. This sub does NOT want to acknowledge that fact. Edit: phrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 08:59 AM |
| 6 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.I have a question, if you’re willing to answer in good faith. How many of these perfectly good (average looking) men who can’t get a date to save their lives also happen to be moderately to severely socially awkward/ reclusive? It’s not meant to be a gotcha or combative in any way, I just feel like there’s always an unspoken subtext when this is parroted in this sub. Edit: clarity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.She didn’t say children, she said teenagers. As in 18, 19 year olds. And she’s right, there are both reasonable age gaps & a point at which it’s just gross. Although legal, it is indeed very creepy when middle aged+ dudes lust after teenagers. Yes, 18 is the arbitrary legal designation of adulthood. That has nothing to do with what makes it creepy. It’s creepy because an 18 yo is an “adult” who has only ever experienced life as a child and a brain that’s not materially different from a 16 or 17 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorI hate to break it to you but your issue seems to be with evolution i.e. natural selection itself, more specifically the mechanism of sexual selection. A process every (sexually reproducing) species engages in their own ways. The male peacok’s beautiful plume, the male pufferfish’s meticulously crafted ornamental display on the sea floor, the list goes on. The predilections of the sexual selector (typically the female) are reflected in the successful suitor(typically the male) and so more of tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 06:07 AM |
| 17 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorNot sure what articles you’re referring to. You’re going to have to elaborate as I’m not really sure what you’re getting at. How are attractive men being enabled by articles? To answer your question- It’s distorted because the delusion doesn’t reflect reality. That’s like the basic definition of a delusional belief. Doesn’t really matter where the belief comes from, the point is it’s not real. To add my personal anecdote- the shortest, ugliest, most awkward guy I’ve ever dated (because we were s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 12:44 AM |
| 48 | Nearly every woman has been in an abusive relationship, yet they still claim they aren’t drawn to toxic behaviorThey’ll never respond to you in good faith because their distorted world view doesn’t allow for “unattractive nerd” and “shitty guy” to exist simultaneously. Just like they can’t conceive of “hot guys” who are also intelligent, caring partners. Hot guy = shitty fuckboy Ugly, awkward nerd = a good guy This fundamental belief forms the foundation of their cope: women deserve to be treated like shit for picking the hot guy over me because guys like me are the good guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 10 | Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward.This might be the most deeply autistic take on basic human socialization I’ve heard. No malice, but I’ll reiterate the broader point here: life is not a video game. All humans are living life through a unique lens of perception as rich & dynamic as your own. There is no correct combination to enter which guarantees the desired outcome because the same “inputs” could mean “success” with a woman one night but the same exact actions on your part would have meant “failure” had you tried the night pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 07:12 AM |
| – | Q4W: would you actively seek relationships if men were betterThis comment is so interesting to me. Of course biologically speaking, the fundamental “purpose” of every living creature is to pass on their genes. It is the base mechanism that drives evolution, and thereby all life on earth. From flowers to jellyfish to humans. Yes, we have evolved to the point of being largely “outside nature” to a large extend. I.e. removing ourselves from the food chain. But to call the most fundamental element of the existence of all life “insane”… That insanity is the on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Why do men talk a lot about their ‘prime’Happy to provide sources, these are all research papers pulled from the NIH, but a google search will turn up many more. Testosterone Replacement is a Contraceptive and Should Not Be Used in Men Who Desire Fertility Exogenous testosterone: a preventable cause of male infertility Impact of Advanced Paternal Age on Fertility and Risks of Genetic Disorders in Offspring | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/24 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do men talk a lot about their ‘prime’I agree the other poster is coping hard and a 20 year old man is basically a child, not just in terms of maturity & life experience but literal physical brain development. Same goes for a 20 year old woman for that matter). Imo, it’s weird af for anyone to advocate for a someone in their 40s to have a kid with a 20 year old regardless of gender. Big 🥴 Just wanted to bring a balanced, middle ground perspective with a few clarifications: Testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) dramatically decrease… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Better alternatives than fresh and fit?Macken Murphy & Chris Williamson come to mind. “Guys guys”, as both, ironically, would fit the redpill’s Chad (lol) archetype physically & socially. Macken boxed competitively & Chris was a club promoter but both then became actual intellectuals/ academics. I believe they both have PHDs. Chris did his dissertation on incels actually, very interesting work. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/23 05:31 PM |
| 32 | Red Pill “Bad Boy/Nice Guy” DynamicI think you’ve absolutely hit the nail on the head here. Only thing I would add is: I think the men who tend to fixate on this never had fun, wild experiences in their youth, certainly not with the opposite sex, and deeply resent that. I get the strong sense most had/ have some combination of: social anxiety, very small social circles, weren’t involved in organized group things like sports, clubs, frats, whatever. Maybe had very solitary hobbies like gaming, had low self esteem, we’re extremely … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/23 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Better to lie to Women than be honestSurprise, surprise, OP refuses to address this point lol i tried in an earlier comment. “My point is: in the interest of logical consistency, if you support immoral men lying to get what they want, you surely support immoral women lying to get what they want as well, right?” No response. Shocker lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:20 AM |
| – | Better to lie to Women than be honestNone of the things you listed are immoral, nor do they speak to any of my points. You’re not even making sense. Just complaining about a list of preferences you (assumedly) don’t meet. Otherwise why would you be so worked up about them? A woman having a preference you don’t meet is not at all equivalent to you lying to get in her pants. My point is: in the interest of logical consistency, if you support immoral men lying to get what they want, you surely support immoral women lying to get what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:46 AM |
| – | Better to lie to Women than be honestSo long as you also support the female equivalent: unethical women lying, deceiving, emotionally manipulating, and betraying men for access to their money ie gold diggers, seeking out “divorce rape”, etc… then sure. All the sociopaths so inclined should just lie and manipulate to get what they want with no care for the broken people they leave in their wake. You and this type of woman deserve each other. Live in your sad, empty, little realities together in an endless cycle of usury & abuse. Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menPrime r/confidentlyincorrect & r/nothowgirlswork content. Has to be satire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 10:27 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesWhat are you talking about? We don’t have a choice lmao. It’s just flipped. Rather than being forced to stay home, we are forced to work. Believe it or not, there are women (who aren’t brainwashed, uneducated, “submissive”, religious nuts) who would love nothing more than to stay home & focus their energy on their children, family, & home rather than wasting 90% of every day on a career that sees them as a cog in the machine & nothing more. Very, very few people have a career that “matters” on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:04 AM |
| 11 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Definitely not a feminist (whatever the fuck that word even means these days) but a woman, and I agree wholeheartedly. The fact that the word “incel” has been conflated with— “dude who can’t get laid” rather than “dude who can’t get laid- and as a result turns to a specific, and radically destructive, hateful ideology which has motivated some to literal mass murder”— is fucking ridiculous. Seems to be a pattern, taking words and completely reorganizing the underlying definition while claiming an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:35 AM |
| 14 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Yes. Every single person who succeeds at losing weight & keeping it off has done some version of the above. Meaning they have permanently changed the lifestyle that led them to be overweight. (Of course aside from legitimate medical reasons), your weight is a reflection of all the micro choices you make every day. You can’t live the lifestyle of an overweight person & not expect to be overweight. An overweight person regularly consumes too much energy and burns too little, so the extra energy is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:22 AM |
| 6 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”No one is suggesting that. I think the point is more broadly viewing dieting as a temporary state. If you view the eating habits that lead you to be overweight in the first place as “normal” and the “diet” a temporary change you have to suffer through in order yo lose weight, even if the diet l works, the inevitable return to “normal eating” will put the weight right back on. That doesn’t mean log every calorie meticulously for the rest of your life. It might mean keeping a loose running count i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Women generally want men desired by other womenOLD heavily skews results. I genuinely believe the environment of online dating creates the issue in the first place. Consider the following: male —> female attraction is very heavily visually based. A photo (as long as she actually looks like her pics) is often enough for a man to know if he’s attracted to a woman. female —> male attraction much less visual & is based much more heavily on the “vibe” for lack of a better term. As a woman, I can directly attest to this. Personally, with every guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Do most women really value different attributes when looking for a relationship?Could you expand on what you mean by “…the dread of early dating that comes from not living together and lose that when the LTR progresses.”? I’m very curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:08 AM |
| 15 | Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean?I’m sure this won’t be received well here as I’m just going to outline the well established understanding from the evo-psych perspective, which doesn’t play into either bp or rp narratives. The answer isn’t “men & women are exactly the same, there are emotional men & emotional women” or “hurr durr women are just useless & emotional for no reason while men are logical & stoic, women should be more like men if they want ‘equality’.” Anyway, if you’re interested in the answer according to evolution… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?You haven’t addressed my point at all. You’re just using me as a sounding board to espouse your cope of an oversimplified world view which paints undesirable men as somehow morally superior to desirable men automatically because they can’t treat women like shit and still get laid. Obviously an attractive man who treats women like shit is a piece of shit. But an unattractive man who only treats women “well” because he can’t get away with treating them like shit and still get laid isn’t a good man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?Do you actually believe confident, stereotypically attractive, masculine, “protecter type” men can’t also be caring, loyal, trustworthy partners? And shy, introverted, meek men will by default treat women better and are somehow automatically a better choice? I won’t spend time detailing my personal, anecdotal experience that flies in the face of this ridiculous notion. I.e. my partner who possesses all these qualities or my own father who is pretty much as far to the physically & socially mascul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about?natural breasts are something you have to encourage from puberty. And I'm pretty sure there aren't many parents out there thinking "Our daughter just turned 11, let's make sure she drinks her milk. We want her to have great big tits so boys will like her." Do you... believe women can control the eventual size of their breasts by drinking large amounts of milk during puberty...? Surely that's a joke and I just missed the implied sarcasm? Or you're a literal child who's never taken a health class?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that people who say “number of sexual partners doesn’t matter!”, seem to mostly pursue those with a low number of sexual partners?lmao great question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?This was very fascinating, thanks so much for taking the time to respond in such detail. The "blissful ignorance" part is particularly interesting to me as per the conversations I've had with male friends on the topic, (to control for the testosterone factor which I obviously don't experience), this seems to be the sticking point for them. Knowing they would be paying a woman to "pretend" to be attracted to them ruins it. A random tinder hookup/ one night stand is at least based on mutually felt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?I totally agree with your assessment of the difference between sex with a loving partner vs a hookup/ one night stand being akin to mutual masturbation. Though based on the experience of my male friends, there seem to be a fair number of women on apps like Tinder who are simply interested in casual sex with them. The perspective of said male friends seems to be that paying for sex is purely transactional, knowing there's no mutual attraction, that it's merely an act the woman is being paid to pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?You're speaking in very definitive terms there lol, the perspectives expressed in online forums like this one or TRP are not at all representative of all men. Certainly not representative of the opinions of the kind of men I associate with socially in real life. That's why I come to these forums, because it's intensely fascinating (if often fairly depressing) to get a little peak into perspectives that are so very foreign to me and those I know in real life. I've had similar discussions with men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:05 PM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Thanks for your perspective, it’s certainly a breath of fresh air coming off the previous conversation. If you don’t mind expanding, in so far as not viewing sex as “scratching an itch” and “still enjoying sex as an emotional, intimate act” is it that you view sex you pay for and sex with a partner as fundamentally different in that regard? That is to say, do you still get a sense of intimate fulfillment from sex you pay for? Particularly in the instance of “regulars”? Or are the two types of pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Men purchasing sex revolts me, not you individually as a person. I think I made that distinction fairly clear and I think it’s pretty obvious I’ve approached both our conversations in good faith regardless of our fundamental disagreements. Financial goals and a relationship are not mutually exclusive. In my opinion the latter is something that should help both people reach the first. Two people qualifying jointly for a mortgage vs one alone for example. Again the fact that you see them as opposi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?The point is, all of you think you are guaranteed to land him. If you think you are more attractive than every other woman in a man's life, you don't have low self-esteem There's a base line of attractiveness that you have to meet for the "most desirable men" to be interested in you for a hookup, then a (usually) slightly higher level you have to meet to be considered "wifey material" but past that point, it's not about finding the hottest of the hot girls & marrying her, that's completely surfa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 02:00 AM |
| 4 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?And the other 1000 women that were chasing him? Does he keep them on the side? Well we live together and both work from home so it would be pretty impressive if he was able to maintain 1000 side chicks in the amount of time we're not together lol. In all seriousness though, if he has 100s of women who've wanted him, 100's of women end up not getting him in the end. Yes, obviously. That is how it works with highly desirable people. The same is true for me. The other 3,500 matches, and 10,000+ lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:39 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?This was very interesting and provided me a lot of interesting insight into your perspective, thanks for the detailed reply, I appreciate you taking the time to do so. The overwhelming feeling I come away with after having read what you wrote here is sadness. Not pity or disgust, as with the previous comment on purchasing sex. I just feel sad for you. I'm sorry for whatever you've experienced that has lead you to have such a dismal, jaded view of the dynamic between yourself and the women you've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?I just meant that as a general lead-in to the fact that my anecdotal experience with my relationship is exactly the thing you're saying is impossible. I did indeed "get chad to commit." (yes, lmfao at how ridiculous that sentence is). It's entirely possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:04 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?No, I said that if Chad has a thousand options, what's the likelihood he's going to choose you out of that thousand. That's less than a once percent chance right? If you think you are better than a thousand other women because you expect Chad to pick you, you can't claim you have low self-esteem. My self esteem has nothing to do with what random men think of me, and I personally find the thought of having sex with more than one person at a time, or with someone who is also fucking other people t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:56 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Wow you're just all over this thread, huh? I've never understood this line of reasoning. After they've finished with their casual sex phase, just like most other people, "chad" tends to marry someone in his relative league in terms of looks, socioeconomic status, intellect, etc. Maybe he has lower standards for hookups when it comes to things like personality & intellect as compared to the person he'll eventually settle down with but I swear to god all you terminally online red pill types act li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:01 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Can always pay for it during dry spells. Yikes. Typing that sentence really inspires no negative feelings in you? To say it so matter of fact like that... I'm not trying to be a dick, I feel pity (and admittedly, a degree of revulsion) but no malice toward you. (To provide context, I get that it's in vogue to support sex work wholesale & pretend like its just that same as any other job but as someone who has done volunteer/ outreach work aimed at supporting traumatized women who desperately want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeveru/onJuputerandMars I agree completely, but unfortunately it does work. As a woman who's watched friends succumb to the red pill types, this is my take on when & why it works and what exactly makes it so "gross" as you put it. It works on women who are vulnerable to the type of behavior peddled there as "game"- said behavior ranges from covert manipulation to borderline emotional abuse. It most certainly doesn't work on emotionally stable, self aware, and (at least mildly) intelligent women. Not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Do you think relationships based on traditional gender roles tend to do better than relationships based on equality?Lol wut. Can you explain why your logic here doesn’t apply equally to relationships where the man brings in the majority of money while the woman provides the emotional support/ child rearing/ home making, etc.? Why, to your mind, does it apply to women who are the primary providers for their families but not to men in the same position? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | In your experience, what are the best first dates?Glad you agree, and I’m glad this sub seems to try to mitigate the toxic, predatory type dating advice that seems to be so common on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:15 AM |
| 2 | In your experience, what are the best first dates?What you describe is self-improvement. Bettering your social skills, self confidence, and appearance are all healthy “tactics” to become a person who is more attractive to women. As a woman, I 100% agree. That’s not the advice the original comment described. The OP asked for first date ideas. Not hookup ideas. The goal of a first date is to get to know someone enough to begin to gauge whether or not there is potential for a mutual connection, not to have sex with a stranger. The goal of a hookup… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the best first dates?Nope. See my other comment, I explained in detail what’s wrong with OP’s comment. Seduction is showing a women you are someone she wants to sleep with. Tactics to trick a woman into a situation where she sleeps with you by misrepresenting your intentions (this is a 1st date vs I just want to sleep with you by any means necessary) for example, or telling her whatever you think she wants to hear in order to sleep with her is not seduction, it’s predation. In the same way a scammer who lies, manipu… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 02:56 AM |
| 3 | In your experience, what are the best first dates?I’m glad it resonated with you, this thread felt particularly poignant as I saw another post recently in a different sub of women talking about “having more bodies” (as in men they’ve slept with) as a result of situations they went into not wanting or intending to have sex with a man but because the man expected sex and they were already alone and moving toward sex, they felt too afraid to say no. They were clearly not into it but also not fighting back, screaming no, etc so it happened anyway. … | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | In your experience, what are the best first dates?Trust your radar, love. He is absolutely an asshole. His entire comment serves as a PSA to any women unlucky enough to happen upon it as to why- unless of course you are looking for sex with a stranger- you should never, under any circumstances, agree to go over to a man’s house as a first date. Regardless of if he’s framing it as a “cute, personable first date”, the expectation is sex. He’s not expecting to just make you a cute dinner and chat. When you get there you will be alone with a strang… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Lmfao did you type all this out and really think it was a gotcha? I’ll indulge. Shouldn’t. But I will. As you recognized I explicitly stated I’m not speaking for all women so I’m not quite sure why you continue on to address specific groups of women, of which I am not, via me. I have no business speaking for single mothers as I have no experience in that area and would be speaking from a place of ignorance. I do, however, think anyone of any gender who is childless themself is perfectly reasonab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Dude… what? Are you even trying to make sense? My pointing out that I don’t fit the definition of a gold digger somehow equals= I think women who aren’t gold diggers/ sex workers are trash? Is that what you meant to type? That makes no sense. I date men at my level, men at my level date me. To your mind, are these men also somehow immoral because they date women “in their league” like me instead of “dating down”? I’m trying to be charitable in grasping for any semblance of logic/ logical consist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Unless you’ve got some new definition of gold digger, that’s gonna be a swing and a miss my dude. Im considered a “high-earner” within my age bracket of 25-30 year olds. I’m above average physically and intellectually, at some point I’ll inherit a non trivial amount of family money which my eventual husband & children will also benefit from. I’ve never had an interest in casual sex so I’ve never slept around outside of committed relationships, (no shade to those who partake, it’s just never appe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:12 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Okay man. Last message here. Believe whatever you’d like. I’m not going to change your worldview. What might change it is looking around at 50+ & realizing you are well and truly alone in this world. Sure you can always pay for sex but you’ll look around and see couples who did make it work, who did build a beautiful, loving, trusting life together- who experience a level of intimacy, trust, and security in another person. Something you never experienced because you allowed yourself to become so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.No you’re not understanding- the entire point of the study is to isolate and compare children who’s parents stayed married for the entirety of the child’s childhood vs those who did not. If the parents separated at any point before the conclusion of the study (typically when the child reaches 20-25) they are not included in the “married parents” cohort. When you say “there’s no way to know if they stayed married” you’re 100% wrong. That’s the entire point of the study. To track and compare child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Dude you’re not even making sense now lol. They don’t merely “assume” the parents stay together. That’s the entire point of these studies- to control for that factor. They compare the outcomes of children who’s parents did stay together against those who’s parents did not stay together. Some of these studies spanned decades. Across all of them, across all time spans studied, the children with married parents who modeled heathy, loving relationships as their children grew up had better outcomes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Yikes. Does what’s better for your hypothetical child figure into your idea of what’s “best” at all? Every study ever conducted on the subject has concluded children turn out better across every measured metric- emotionally, intellectually, socially, materially, success-wise, etc- when raised in intact two-parent households. Also I hope you’re honest with the women you date that you have no intention of every marrying but you do eventually expect children. Lmao what mentally well woman would wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 8 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.As soon as men start wrecking their bodies & occasionally mental health taking hormonal birth control 50% of the time and carrying the pregnancy for 4.5/9 months, I’ll start going Dutch on first dates. It has nothing to do with the wage gap- the misconception that women are paid less for the same hours/ work. That is patently false. I’ve legitimately never seen a woman make a correlation between this & splitting the bill 50/50. What is true however, is that pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Lol maybe you just have low standards? Very curious to see an example of a man you consider an 8 vs a woman you consider an 8... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Thank you! The ratio of normal, sane people to incels on this sub is genuinely concerning. Sometimes I guess I forget what the demographics of Reddit really are lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Do you believe there are more ugly men than ugly women? Genuinely, what is the logic behind this statement? If I’m a woman who’s an 8, I’m probably never going to look twice at a man who’s a 2. Of course. Likewise a man who’s an 8 isn’t going to pursue a woman who’s a 2. In the same exact fashion as the previous scenario, she “won’t even register as a choice” to him. How does it work in your world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”It’s not hamster wheeling if i changed a mind, which if you read through the replies, i did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Yeah you can do a quick google scholar search to verify if you like. You’ll come up with many demographic studies of heterosexual dating examining the gender difference in the desire for causal dating/ sex and committed dating. Further, some examine the psychological response to casual sex as broadly much more negative in women than in men. Lastly, I’ll just add- the game theory checks out. If it weren’t the case that more men seek casual sex while more women seek commitment, some subgroup of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 09:34 AM |
| -1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”You’re so close to the point. Quantity does not equal quality. A woman may go on more dates but because the majority of the people who want to date for the purpose of casual sex are men, the pool of men looking exclusively for commitment is smaller. If a woman who is only interested in a loving relationship goes on 10 dates and only 2 of those men are also looking for a relationship rather than a hookup, fwb, one night stand, casual relationship “with no labels”, etc. Those other 8 dates were au… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 03:03 AM |
| -1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”To answer your question, yes. Women experience more failed dates. Again, because the goals are different, the definition of “success” and “failure” are relative. In the case of casual sex, the same encounter can be considered both a “good date” by the man and a “bad date” by the woman. Sex of any kind almost always results in orgasm for men. Casual sex very rarely results in orgasm for women. Like almost never. The female orgasm requires much more communication and effort on the part of the part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Genuinely do you not know that sex itself is vastly different for men and women? Sex of any kind almost always results in orgasm for men. Casual sex very rarely results in orgasm for women. Like almost never. The female orgasm requires much more communication and effort on the part of the partner and is much more dependent on the woman’s psychological and emotional state. Most men have no interest in putting in that kind of effort in a casual encounter. Male orgasm is almost purely dependent on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 12 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Women who are looking for a committed relationship but settle for casual sex often come away feeling used and manipulated with observably lower self-esteem than when they do not engage in casual sex. It’s not that sex doesn’t matter to women, it’s that sex is not the goal for most women . For most women, truly enjoyable sex requires trust, communication, and more often than not- emotional connection. The women being “pump & dumped by chad” are not coming away from the experience of being dehuman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:59 AM |
| -4 | From r/dating “RANT: Dating as a woman is NOT easier. Finding love as a woman is NOT easier. Finding sex is. It's not the same.”Your gripe is with basic biology. In human reproduction, women are the sexual selectors. Always have been. There a not really a choice in the matter. It’s part of the biological imperative of the female experience when it comes to mate selection. As a result of evolution placing the potential severe physical consequences of a coupling, namely childbearing/ birth fall squarely on the woman, she must be more selective in engaging in a coupling than her male counterparts who bear no such possible r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 10:42 AM |
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