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| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingLol breastfeeding? This is how I know you don’t have a kid or never did your part with kids. My brother just so happens to have a newborn, he feeds the baby just fine with formula or with milk my sister in law pumped. I also helped watch my nephew without the ability to breastfeed myself. That is the most pathetic excuse I’ve ever seen. As for lawn mowing? You realize those are seasonal things right? It’s not a daily task you have to do. And most men don’t even do it themselves these days. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 09:49 AM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingYou then realize how exhausting it must be for working mothers then, right? Even you admit that’s exhausting. You don’t even have to do the pregnancy, giving birth, postpartum breastfeeding part. That’s why women want men to step up because as you stated, it’s hard esp to do it all alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 12:09 AM |
| – | Men’s attraction vs. women’s attraction it’s not the same thingLet’s just say that is the case, doesn’t that mean women are being a lot more intentional with their dating than men? If you just go for anyone without making sure you truly are attracted to them then I’d argue that’s more shallow. That’s a recipe for disaster in the long run. I’ve learned early on that it is better to be selective from the start than to give false hope to multiple types of men hoping you’ll fall in love with them later. That way you’re not wasting their time or yours. If I just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 10:31 AM |
| 3 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Let me put this into perspective for you. Plenty of gay/bi men find straight men attractive & lust after them, would you say it’s an advantage for straight men? No, why? Because you’re not attracted to them. You can use it to your advantage ig, but in a sense you would have to force yourself to be with someone you’re not attracted to & put yourself in a position where you’re not 100% comfortable. Now let’s say they are stronger, bigger and can easily overpower you & may not respect your boundari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:37 PM |
| -1 | Why lie about the past to get into a relationship?What kind of lies are you talking about? You compare to a man who lied about not being a virgin so I’m gonna assume you mean sexual past. When you’re adults, there’s no need to pry into each other’s pasts unless it impacts the present for example, you still have an ex around you as a friend. Realistically-speaking at a certain age, people are gonna have experience. It’s dumb to assume when you’re both full fledged adults, both of you are each other’s first love and have zero past whatsoever. Are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Young women are dating the same terrible menThey clearly saw warning signs so they ask in the group to find out and be sure. You men preach not all men all the time and say not to judge, so these women are looking for concrete proof before just accusing. Isn’t that the point of the group? They’re taking precaution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Young women are dating the same terrible menIf they ignored it, they wouldn’t be asking. They would just continue to be blissfully unaware not looking for the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Men want women to settle for themCan you provide specific examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Women don't regret because you got better but you treat better.The people who regret no matter the gender are usually immature and miserable. They’re constantly chasing temporary fulfillment and are never satisfied. Most of time they don’t actually miss the person, they miss what they got out of the person or the idea of them. But for mature, content people, no they won’t regret. I don’t regret anyone I’ve ever left or rejected even if they’re happier with someone else now. I know I made that decision for a reason & there’s no guarantee I would’ve been happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Young women are dating the same terrible menUm…your second point about the Facebook group “Are we dating the same person” is contradicting. You’re saying all women go after the same bad men knowingly and willingly, but clearly these women didn’t know until they joined the group and are in the group to find out..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:26 AM |
| 0 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingThere’s less research on it you mean. Autistic women are late diagnosed because of it which means they were a lot more pressured to fit in earlier in life. Everything you’ve ever experienced autistic women experience, too, but were less forgiven for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingYou realize autistic women exist, too, right? Like autism doesn’t cherry pick who has it and decided to only pick men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:30 AM |
| 2 | People hate male insecurities for two reasons.What kind of insecurities are you talking about? Like physical appearance or like in a relationship (regarding opposite sex friends for example)? Without a specific example I’m not exactly certain what you mean, but if I were to take a guess why male insecurities may be received poorly it’s because you make it other people’s problem and try to control other people’s behavior with it when that is something you have to work on yourself. Having insecurities is normal as people all have them, but ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:13 AM |
| 2 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Are you saying all married/partnered up men of all different races look exactly the same and are the exact same type of man? No, right? Also, what’s your definition of high value? Money? Plenty of blue collar men are dating/married. Looks? The average married man isn’t the hottest male model on the block. Personality? Some of the best and worst men are dating/married. Everyone (man or woman) complains about getting ghosted ever since dating apps were created. The reason why a man might not be li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere“Also the idea that all these red pill creators can get so much traction and convince men of things that don't resonate with their personal experience is incredibly foolish. If they were truly so off-base, they would be dismissed and ignored.” You realize that’s how scammers and cults approach you, right? They approach you with the things you like (which is why a lot of red pill is spread through fitness, gaming etc) & the things you struggle with. They’ll find things you resonate with to manipu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.Well yea bc it’s not input/output. You can’t force a relationship with people. It’s complex because humans are complex. So much goes into it: first impressions, timing, compatability, chemistry, personality, backgrounds, attachment styles, trauma, what period of life you’re in (transitional periods, tragedy or different life stages). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Men complain about being used for resources is the same as women complain about being used for sexIt is nowhere near the same because A) Money can be made again, but you only have one body. Women will always be at more risk with just the fact that she can get pregnant. Not to mention when being used and lied to about having sex with others, she may contract STD’s. B) Men are not judged for spending money on a woman the same way men judge women for body count and tell women their biological clock is ticking. If a woman gets used for sex, her body count goes up, then you have men judging her f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 06:49 PM |
| 6 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedSo basically women are in a lose-lose situation. Men don’t want a woman who is better than them, but they also don’t want to better themselves. But they also want the high quality, attractive women lol. Make it make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 11:03 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.If it’s so easy, go adopt an infant and raise it yourself lol. Help out the foster system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 10:43 AM |
| – | Does the “victim” in a break up really glow up the mostI feel like the stressor bounces back quickly, but can’t maintain it for long, whereas the victim takes longer, but at the end it’s worth it because they look better than ever before. So I guess only time will tell and what you make of it. But usually the stressor doesn’t take accountability so a lot of their toxic patterns get repeated & they can’t forever run away from themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 03:11 PM |
| – | Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing?Let’s be honest here, it’s mostly yt men who have pictures of fish. They were never trustworthy even before Trump. Yt men who hunt and fish for fun, not survival give off such racist vibes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.If I didn’t believe there were men who date bi women because they like them, I wouldn’t have said “some men.” I even added that disclaimer in my sentence, yet you’re already trying to argue as if I said ALL. Just as dating BIPOC doesn’t automatically = not being racist. Plenty of racist people have partners who are BIPOC, this can apply anywhere for any marginalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.Fetishization is still a form of biphobia/homophobia. If it’s due to that, then it’s problematic. Let’s for real here, generally speaking, the average man isn’t the most progressive when it comes to LGBTQ+. If they were, you wouldn’t see so many men against the trans community. You wouldn’t see so many men being conservative. So, you have to question why is it that they seem “ok” with it. It’s similar to racism/fetishization. It’s important to be critical always when figuring out why you have ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?Strong to the strong, weak (gentle) to the weak. A man who will use his strength and lead when needed, but also isn’t afraid to show his soft side and empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:34 PM |
| 18 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.I don’t think it’s necessarily always acceptance. I actually think for some of them, either they don’t see women as worthy of competition and/or they’re imagining having two women side by side, fetishizing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Shaming women for doing the very thing you want them to doIt was originally created to tie women down in relationships/marriages so they can’t leave. By shaming women for body count, you’re essentially threatening women with being alone and having no other man wanting her because now she’s “used goods.” What’s a common threat abusive men make? Nobody will love you like I do. Nobody will want you. This worked historically because back then, women were forced into marriages and often relied on their husbands to survive as society provided no other avenue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testIf it’s that important to you, just do it. Why are you trying to control how the other person reacts to it on top of that? You’re just scared that there’s a chance you were wrong and don’t want to face the consequences for it. You just want to be able to do something that will cost the relationship without bearing the cost. Once again, if it’s so important to you, you’d do it regardless of people’s responses and opinions of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsI agree with you to some extent but that’s not always true. I think the better way to phrase it is good person does not always equal preferred/right partner for you. Good person sets a baseline, good relationship requires a lot more work on the specifics. And that is very subjective based on the relationship as everyone’s needs and wants are different. Does that make sense? Inexperience can make a good guy not a good partner. Incompatibility can make a good guy not a good partner. Life circumsta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Red pillers: What would make you change your mind?Either way, you are the common denominator. You cannot control everyone else, but you can control what you do which is why I say it’s more productive to look within and go to where you’re wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 05:54 PM |
| -2 | Red pillers: What would make you change your mind?Yes, so then obviously go to where you’re wanted. Don’t try to force women who aren’t into you to change their preferences and judge them because they go after what they want. You have the right to have preferences, women also have the right to have preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Red pillers: What would make you change your mind?I think the disconnect men have here is when women say they don’t care about looks or height, you take it literally and only see things one dimensionally. You think “don’t care about looks” = “must only date ugly and short men.” So when they don’t, in your eyes, they’re lying. “Don’t care about looks” actually means looks are not AS important as other things. If you have a great personality, she might give you a chance, but once again, that doesn’t guarantee anything because like I said before, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 09:58 AM |
| 6 | Red pillers: What would make you change your mind?If a man says he likes beautiful women, but doesn’t like me, I’m not going to say that he is lying about liking beautiful women. He may just not like ME. Maybe I’m not his type of beautiful. Maybe I am but my personality sucks. Maybe we’re just not compatible for whatever reason. Maybe I’m not as beautiful as I think I am, but that doesn’t matter to me because beauty is subjective and I am more than just looks. Maybe I met him at the wrong time. Maybe he didn’t have any intentions of getting int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 09:13 AM |
| 1 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.What men don’t understand is these men are like scammers. Every time, you learn about a new scamming tactic, they’re already on to the next one to make it seem more real. It’s scary how more realistic they’re making the scam calls. In the same light, every time women learn about a new red flag, mind you, men are also watching & finding new loopholes and ways to debunk or invalidate it. They make it harder and harder to sense it. They also are good at making you seem like an aggressor should you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule?Well since they’re friends both your bf and you know and he’s okay with it then that’s fine. I say “interpret as a date” bc even if you yourself don’t see anything wrong with it, you never know if the other person can misinterpret the situation which can just make things tiring. I personally also think it’s important to be able to distinguish what makes something a date/ partner vs not. If the 1 on 1’s are to the point where people can’t tell whether I’m the gf or the girl friend is then we have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule?For me, it really depends on the context. Is this a new friend or a friend you’ve always known? Are you meeting them 1 on 1 that can be interpreted as a date (i.e. like a movie, late night talk, candlelit dinner)? Is alcohol involved? I think catching up with lunch or coffee is fine. Anything else, can easily become a slippery slope. Things are implemented after you start a relationship because obviously now your actions and decisions can affect your partner. That’s what makes a relationship dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itLmao, what work have you done instead of complain on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Women’s reliance on passive dating is self-sabotage and they know itStop worrying what women are doing and focus on yourself lmao. If YOU WANT IT, YOU GET IT. You really can’t change what others do, you can only change what you do. If you really want to get approached, do what it takes to be approached. Look your best, know your charms and learn how to use them, improve social skills, learn how to be more approachable, improve your own dating game. Be realistic enough with yourself, address your own flaws & work on them. If you really want to be with someone but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?What a joke? The woman is taking responsibility by doing the actual raising, so therefore she has authority. The man has neither because he chose that. You have no authority if you’re the one who abandoned your role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | The Flawed Logic Behind Opposing Standard Paternity TestsA STI test does not only affect you. It affects your partner and anyone who you plan to hook up with/ date/marry down the line. It is life-altering, are you kidding? You’re faced with stigma and a life-altering illness if you don’t treat it fast enough or depending on the strain. If they knew they had an STI but didn’t tell you, you realize there’s legal issues with that, right? The fact you minimize a STI in order to try to prove your point says everything I need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Can you not read…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Fake niceness will always be better? So I will assume you prefer a woman who pretends to like you but really just wants your money over a woman who is honest and rejects you straightforwardly, right? According to your logic, even if they have ulterior motives and don’t actually like you for you, that’s better, right? With honest bad boys, at least you know what you’re getting yourself into. What you see is what you get. But with these “nice guys,” the signs are harder to see. You get gaslit abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.If convincing yourself this helps you with your inferiority complex towards education and research, then I guess keep telling yourself that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.I can provide you with facts, I cannot think for you, so I won’t waste my energy on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.Hmm you’re trying to put words in my mouth that I never said. I provided a study on why people may feel creeped out. And at the end, I even explicitly that it doesn’t automatically mean that they’re dangerous or have ill intent. I stated that usually it’s due to a multitude of factors not just one, which is true according to the study. To simplify a very nuanced topic to just vanity is also disingenuous as like you said stereotypes can play a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.I actually provided a study and sources, which you did not do and clearly did not read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Guys here think creeps dont exist because they dont want to admit women can have non-shallow reasons to not like a guy.Creepiness is actually ambiguity of threat, not just doesn’t like you for whatever reason. For BOTH men and women, men are considered more physically threatening so both genders are more likely to view men as creepy. There’s also sexual threat for women because statistically we are more likely to be affected by that. Attractiveness is a variable, but usually we consider multiple factors before deciding that a man is creepy. This doesn’t necessarily mean people who we consider creepy are automati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withKey word is “seem.” You don’t know exactly what goes on behind closed doors. Of course a dictator will try to keep up good appearances to maintain his authority and when you can be killed at any moment, you’re going to have to act. The fact that I even have to explain this is sort of insane…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withAm I infantilizing women or are you being unrealistic and unreasonable? Maybe you can say that you would say no, but when actually faced with a dictator who could kill you and your family easily? Please be real here. Dictators kill people for no reason all the time. They do technically have a choice and are in the wrong, but when the choice is either to get married against your will or to have your entire bloodline wiped out, is it really a choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withI don’t disagree that women can be evil and use indirect methods, but how many of the wives do you think have a choice based on the examples you gave? A lot of the men you mentioned are those in power who can easily abuse it. How are you expecting women to say no to a bloody dictator? A greedy CEO can easily fire/blacklist a woman from the industry if she says no. Not to mention, usually a lot of these marriages are strategic or arranged by their families. If you’re talking about the criminal wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies.You pretty much proved OP’s point. You did put effort into your appearance. She also did say “not HOT enough to pull that shit off” meaning you can only somewhat get away with a bad profile if you’re hot. She’s saying if you put zero effort at all then ofc expect zero results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsOne thing you’re not considering is how many predators there are. Can single moms get more dates? Maybe. But even then, they have to vet a lot more. To make sure that man doesn’t have other intentions and to keep their kids safe. Single dads don’t have to worry about that to the same degree single moms do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSSo you don’t even acknowledge race or gender. Two marginalizations that have an extensive history of oppression and that exists to this day. Then there’s no point in talking with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Feminists talk about a glass ceiling preventing women from being President. I think that's BSIf there was no glass ceiling, we would’ve had multiple female Presidents by now. Is it really a coincidence that every President elected was a yt man with the exception of one? You’re naive if you think politics is only based on meritocracy and fairness. There’s a lot of dirty play and bias involved whether with scandals, funds or votes. In politics, a lot of men will attack a woman’s character as a way to diminish their accomplishments and skills; as you see in this election, Kamala is called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.You said dating is NOT disadvantageous to women, then listed disadvantages and said it happens to men, too. If you want to argue that it hurts men, too; you have to acknowledge that it is disadvantageous LMAO. Are you then arguing since it happens to men, these aren’t disadvantages? How is getting a STD not a disadvantage whether to a man or a woman? How is emotionally traumatizing someone not a disadvantage? Make it make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveOf course if you expect to automatically have a girlfriend just because you had a delightful personality, you’re going to be disillusioned. Even w/ friendships, not everyone just becomes your bff bc you’re nice. Human relationships in general are complex bc humans just like you, are complex. So many factors play a role: - first impression - background, history, trauma - life transition/ context ( are you still a student? Are you trying to adapt to a new job?) - preference/ bias -compatibility/ p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 07:09 PM |
| – | "Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similarYou work at a resort and interact with a very specific demographic & tax bracket I’m assuming. Not everyone goes to bars. It also depends on the crowd. Also, you mentioned it’s a resort so I’m guessing people are on vacation. The type you go for when you’re on vacation and at a bar is probably different than who you actually interact with and form deep emotional connections with in your day to day for both men and women. When you’re on vacation, you’re focusing on having fun, not really necessar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:13 PM |
| 31 | The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling menI’m very curious how many of these men who claim it’s ok would be ok with their daughter who is 17 dating a 35 yr old. How ok they would be with having a son-in-law that’s closer to their age or even older than with her? They excuse it for themselves but would be against it if it’s the schoolteacher/ principal going after their daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them?I wouldn’t use the words “superior,” I would say they’re seeking more stability. When women become pregnant and when raising kids, it’s ideal to have a partner who can be a strong father figure and who’s financially stable. Especially considering how many jobs don’t have paid maternity leave, someone has to hold down the fort eventually during that period. A lot of men talk about how riches don’t guarantee love and that they will be good to you. Being poor doesn’t mean they will be good to you e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single manIt’s a false equivalence because one is very made clear that it’s service, the other isn’t made aware that they’re married. If you compared it to men falling for a woman who is married and lied about it or a situation where they are not made aware about it that makes more logical sense. You’re trying to blame a woman for not knowing someone’s married vs. falling in love with someone who’s doing their job and the customer is made aware of what they’re paying for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Women would rather share a successful married man than an average single manTricked? OF doesn’t hide what kind of services they offer and what kind of place it is. You are aware going into it. Tinder is supposed to be a place to find other single people. Married men on the other hand will often hide the fact that they’re married and pretend to be single on the app. Trying to compare the two is ridiculous. That’s a false equivalence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:16 AM |
| 9 | One of the biggest miscommunications between men and women is that when a man expresses emotional and sexual interest in a woman, the women assumes he ONLY wants sex.I mean there are a lot more men who do mean it that way it’s hard to distinguish and also the risk that comes from going into a man’s home is much greater than saying no and not doing a cooking date. In general inviting someone to your house and not a public place for a first date can be scary for women bc it’s an enclosed space and anything can happen. Let’s say she did take what he meant literally and did go to his house only for it to end up sexual, people would’ve blamed her for being naive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 01:22 PM |
| 0 | If a man is a late bloomer wouldn’t it be more natural for him to date down in age to where he would be more likely to find someone closer to him experience wise?Why not also meet a woman closer to your age who is also inexperienced? There are plenty of women who haven’t had their first relationship/ sex that may be similar in age. Idk why your first instinct is to find someone still in college who just graduated high school 2-3 yrs ago. Can’t it be at least 21 and up? You’re experienced literally in everything else. She can’t even drink when out together with you. You’re at totally different transitions in life. And there is a power imbalance bc you pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyPeople will act differently with different people. Isn’t that just natural? Also, people’s standards change the more experience they gain. So with your example, with guy A, her standards may have been low whether it’s due to low self esteem, she was young, or whatever. With having you wait for 90 days, it may be because she learned from that experience that it’s better to wait or she wants to try something different bc clearly the standards she had before didn’t work for her. This isn’t only spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?Clearly, you haven’t really seen how men act from our perspective. I’ve actually asked a couple of men who I’ve done it on the first date and they say and do the exact opposite of what you’ve said. You and your friend group are the outlier not the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 19 | Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait?Don’t men do the same thing too, though? Men have women who they just see as a hookup and women who they see into the long term? Also if she gave it up too early, y’all would call her easy or a whore, so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | What observations can be made from my brief Tinder experiment?You said yourself you swiped on women you wouldn’t. That means you’re pretty selective yourself. What’s the issue? Are you upset that more attractive women didn’t pick you? Also let’s be real here both men and women are shallow. It’s an app based on looks what did you expect. You’re swiping based on nothing else than a picture and maybe a bio and maybe demographics. How are you supposed to swipe based on personality on that app? If we sleep with a lot of men, we’re whores, but if we’re selective… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 09:09 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020The guy deleted it but I saw a post that said he was trying to get his cousin a girlfriend and that only girls 5’4” and under respond. This is why I get annoyed when men complain about how women won’t date them for their height when they act like THAT. I’ve had men complain that I was only 1-2 inches shorter or complain about my height, but oh if I said “you’re too short” they’d go crying how women discriminate against height 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do men online always have such a negative reaction/hangups over dinner dates?? Yet they want to meet you ASAPBecause they don’t want to pay, they don’t want anything serious they just want to bang | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Low effort first dates are basedIt’s not always about cost, it’s about thought. You shouldn’t have to spend $200 all the time on a first date, that’s fair. But I think you’re mistaking low cost for low effort. You can have a low cost date with high effort. Painting in the park, showing her your secret hide out spot, eating Wendy’s on a rooftop where you can see the view, going by the pier, even opening the door and making sure she got home safe shows effort. There are many ways to go about it that shows you put thought into it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Just keep in mind that you don’t owe anyone anything. Don’t feel bad. If you feel pressured to like someone it probably ain’t it and it is probably more out of pity or guilt than genuine love. You deserve to have standards. You can have a type. You don’t want a man who is nice to you, you want a man who is right for you. Try it and see if you want to give him a chance because there are times a man can grow on you despite not being your type, but most of the time trust your gut. Don’t force yours… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 31 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I’ve been seeing the topic of liking Instagram pics and jacking off to other girls show up a lot on dating forums, and honestly, I get shocked by comments from both men and women. I see so many men and women justify it or call the woman insecure for being upset by it. I once caught my ex following sexually inappropriate accounts on Instagram and found out he jacks off to porn. I said ok and did the same back. If he can do it, why can’t I? He was so upset and felt disrespected. I asked him why? B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:56 AM |
| 7 | A message for lurkers....you're not the centre of our worldsI say men break up and move on, while women move on and break up. That’s why men always come back because they didn’t process properly and realize what they did until only after the fact. Meanwhile, women mentally prepare themselves and do their utter best until they really can’t then let go. Women are definitely shamed when they move on quickly and it makes zero sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It doesn’t really sit well with me when guys call women “high maintenance.” Granted there may be women who are, but I’ve also seen situations where women are just asking for the bare minimum and the men just don’t want to put in the effort. Is she really high maintenance or have high expectations or do you just not value her anymore so you shift blame unto her? Women don’t have expectations unless they know their men can do better or have seen them do better. What do you all think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:54 AM |
| 10 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Idc as long as they don’t mind me picking apart their appearance with the same energy they do to me. Lol if a man comments on my hairy legs, I will comment on his bald spot. He comments about my weight, I will comment on his height. Don’t dish it if you can’t take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:50 PM |
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