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1	It isn't fair to think autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating or any part of life The trick IMO for both genders is to date other ND people. Too many of us are trying to smash themselves into an NT box and see that as ultimate success. It's easier to just accept yourself and date someone you actually have stuff in common with. I'd be so bored and uncomfortable with a neurotypical. ~ autistic woman married to ADHD man	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 05:15 PM
4	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? To clarify, I do not have a problem with women choosing what is right with them. And yes, I said MY purpose, not yours. What I have a problem with is the societal framing of the concept of marriage and parenting as an attack on our sovereignty and value as women. It is the opposite. Again, I am a working mother. It doesn't have to be one or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 09:10 PM
1	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? Agreed. Equity over equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 07:49 PM
2	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? Genuinely, I mean this. It is such a snooze speaking to someone whose idea of a debate is personal attacks and projection. Surely you must realize this isn't how adults discuss societal issues. Typical redditor though, my bad for expecting a little more substance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 07:04 PM
2	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? Wall street and GDP are profiting. In the short term. But long term, it's a terrible strategy. They've dangled mass consumption and "treat yoself" culture as the key to happiness, and it's obviously not. I DO care about men being happy, and it seems like almost no one does. I'm the mother of a young boy and I find it incredibly alarming how little people are dating because they see each others' genders as the enemy. They are unable to form families. As I stated in the last paragraph, I believe t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 04:57 PM
1	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? I don't disagree that we're privileged. But your argument about an 80 year old woman is a fallacy. There's an age limit of 25 for draft and 42 for enlistment across the board (in the US, at best (space force)). And not everyone in the military is out there fighting. There are more support roles than infantry (google tooth to tail ratio for more information). So physical strength is only part of the story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:42 PM
1	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? It's one of those things that is naturally unfair and just is what it is. Right now at least. And I don't mean to make it sound america-centric, in hindsight. This is the truth worldwide. The only countries that draft women simply do not have birth rate issues in sight. If they did, they would stop doing that immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:39 PM
3	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? As a woman, I believe a course correction is needed in third wave feminism's focus on outdoing men in their traditional areas and pushing down traditional women's paths at all costs. Someone, somewhere decided that what women naturally do is not on par with what men are up to these days, which is inherently absurd. But we ran with it for some reason. And the reason is profit. We've gone so hard on being performative in the workplace that the idea of getting married and having children is offensi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:32 PM
3	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? Huh? Why do you think women can't be drafted in the US? Because they are more valuable than men. Due to the amount of sperm banked in america, we could replace the population lost if hundreds of thousands of men were killed in war. The same cannot be said for the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 05:51 PM
–	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. I'm very third-wave-critical, is what it comes down to. I do not believe the original intent of feminism encapsulates what is going on right now. I feel that a lot of people have lost sight of the goal (equal rights) in favor of pushing something counter to that (elevating women above men at all costs). So we agree on a lot there. I also greatly dislike the idea that in order to be "equal", women should be outcompeting men in corporate America and all that trash. To the point where natural women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/26 03:19 PM
10	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. I think that's a reasonable opinion. Especially if we are primarily considering very modern discourse about the patriarchy. It has definitely grown to be out of touch with reality IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 11:57 PM
14	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. It was not benevolence that disallowed women to vote until 1920. It was not benevolence that disallowed women to get their own credit card until 1974. Neither of those changes were randomly decided by men; they were rights women fought for. You must engage in real discourse to win arguments, not revisionist history. You act like men just decided one day to let women have rights. Learn basic history before you flap your mouth around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 06:49 PM
21	The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men. I think there's a lot to be said for the idea that the patriarchy isn't really a huge power anymore in a lot of places, but the idea that it never existed at all is indeed laughable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 06:02 PM
5	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Evolutionarily speaking, it absolutely is. Everyone in here is delulu in thinking procreation isn't the entire biological point. Your modern trends have no impact on thousands of years of human evolution. Read "The Evolution of Desire" to find out more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 05:00 PM
14	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. One thing about you is, you're not interested in listening and learning from others. You're not seeking true debate. You just want to yell about your own opinions that you perceive to be perfect. There is a difference between "incorrect" and "information I don't like". Learn the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 01:51 AM
20	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. You think you're above millions of years of human history and basic evolutionary anthropology. People tell themselves oh we have internet and refrigerators now, so what humans evolved to do is meaningless. They're convinced we are beyond nature. It's hubris. Very little has changed. You'll figure that out eventually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 01:41 AM
27	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. Evolutionarily speaking, sex is the whole point. So I personally feel that it's unreasonable to hold that against them. Men and women absolutely do have different perspectives on love and relationships. Those perspectives pursue different goals. That is how we as a species have survived this long. To claim one is better than the other is an oversimplification. Especially when you consider what the other sex's motivations are: safety & more resources to support reproduction. Now that doesn't mean…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:10 AM
8	Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering. Depends where you're looking. I find it amusing when people say this and where they're looking is on the apps, aka the casual bang catalog. No shit everyone on there sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 04:52 PM
-3	Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority? Yeah imagine that, a distaste for human trafficking. Only on degenerate reddit would people act like that's surprising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 02:37 PM
-1	Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority? "All women are lesbians. That's why they don't like me." - the biggest cope there ever was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 01:57 PM
0	Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority? By no means does that translate into "women who don't watch lesbian porn are a minority".	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 01:14 PM
-3	Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority? What? I'm a straight woman, don't watch any of that crap and don't know any woman who does. Terminally online nonsense. The majority of women are absolutely not watching lesbian porn. That is a fantasy you are deluding yourself with. You guys have got to start having in person interactions with people who are living functional lives again. Y'all are basing your ideas of women on fetishized internet personalities and basement boy tweets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 12:26 PM
12	The economy and rising costs are influencing women's 'six figure' standards 1000%. These adults saw their parents go through a 50% divorce rate in a time where women were not making anywhere near men. They are not interested in taking that kind of risk. I just finished reading "Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization" by Brad Wilcox, which went over exactly what you're saying. The strongest indicator of marriage right now is each half of the couple having a bachelors degree. Everyone else is bumbling around with a pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 01:14 AM
1	Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore? Women are being constantly bombarded with messaging (online & in media) that speaking to anyone who has the least bit different perspective is below them and a waste of their perfect time. It's simply an isolation tactic and they're buying it in droves. That's why they have no clue what is going on with men. The thing we need the most in this world is to talk to and learn from each other. The reason we're not is because someone has figured out it's either profitable or helpful to some kind of ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 12:45 AM
–	Why are women like this? It's seen as an attack to be honest. Women who value constructive criticism from other women are hard to find. I do think this often gets better as they get older. Like more women are open to being real with each other mid 30s and on, in my experience. I agree with the other commentor who said men are more forward with each other. I think that's a gender gap that can be very challenging to bridge in relationships. It's like how women often want comfort when they talk about problems, and men want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:33 PM
2	Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategy I think it depends what the goal of the encounter is. If you're looking for someone to marry and have a family with, courting makes sense. If you want a woman to have your children, showing that you can provide is pretty critical since she is sacrificing her body to accomplish that goal. If both parties just want to casually bang, I don't think it's as important. However I find that to be pretty distasteful and hard to relate to, so maybe consider having some standards in behavior and desires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 09:03 PM
1	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? i just finished the book "anxious generation" and it answers a lot of OPs questions with real statistics early on in the book (first half). basically what it comes down to is people aren't having IRL social interactions as much anymore, and a certain slice of the population hardly at all. it included a lot of graphs to show how this has changed dramatically in the last two decades. highly recommend reading it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:08 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates divorce rate has fallen substantially (in the US, Canada, UK, Australia). it was 50 percent at the top and now it's 40. you should really be sure that your ideological opinions are backed by facts before spouting them everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:06 PM
7	Women don’t need men liar, it's so obvious chatgpt wrote this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 04:21 PM
6	Women don’t need men chatgpt wrote this hence the quote collection	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 04:20 PM
2	Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling) If you believe there is nothing denigrating or humiliating about doing OF women are not a conglomerate. i personally do feel there is something denigrating about me doing sex work. i don't hold it against other people, but i am definitely not going to do it. also i have a good job and have no need to stoop to that. i have higher aspirations for myself and my impact on the world than adding to the mounting pile of unrealistic porn slop that keeps (largely) men from forging a real path for themsel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 05:05 PM
–	Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely men you act like women are a conglomerate. personally I have a 100% success rate in avoiding abusive dudes. it's almost like people are individuals and their level of ability varies. OP's assertion is that no one is ever able to detect danger from behavior. and this biologically is not the case at all. all mammals have some level of intact protective instincts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 12:38 AM
–	Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely men there's a vast difference between not being able to sense danger from behavior 100% of the time and claiming it doesn't exist at all. that's like saying you don't find a person whipping out a gun in a school to be suspicious at all. but you know that. no one is that dense. delusional, yes maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 12:26 AM
–	Women cannot detect the "toxic" thoughts of lonely men you don't think humans (mammals) can sense danger from behavior? that's a new level of creepy guy in denial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 12:22 AM
–	Most men have nothing to offer women people on here don't know what love is because they do not interact with people in real life. they spend every spare moment in doomer echochambers online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 09:48 PM
2	Husband wants to quit his job I feel you so hard on this because my husband is also overly positive about AI and works in tech lol. I work in cyber law enforcement and feel the opposite about it.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/25 11:56 PM
8	Husband wants to quit his job both his work and his side projects suffer one of these things makes 100k. the other makes 0. you're not crazy, he's being ridiculous. i would call his parents and see if they can give him the reality check he desperately needs.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/25 08:28 PM
12	Husband wants to quit his job please be mindful that chatgpt will enthusiastically gush over how great of an idea literally anything is. that's part of the reason why it's so dangerous. people who treat chatgpt like a person are at risk of psychosis.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/25 08:27 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Are you very young? A lot of people have very lofty aspirations until they start getting out there and dating/meeting new people. We naturally adjust expectations as we gain more experience in the world. But if you never start, you'll never get there. I think that's how people run into big problems, when they will not accept anything less than what the picture in their head dictates. The best results come from a wide variety of experiences. Life in general is very rarely how you imagine it to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:24 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice the biological urge to reproduce is how. some people just don't have it, and that's fine and normal variation. we are animals in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:14 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice some of you critically need to go outside and reacquaint yourself with reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:11 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice I don't get why this is even a bad thing. And OP is like " I still judge these women". Why? It's not your life to live. It's giving resentment that other people have figured out how to love someone who isn't perfect, just like them. You'll never get anywhere in life if you think you are above compromise and leveling yourself. The way people view themselves these days where they are perfect, untouchable, right all the time and everyone else is just a bad ugly hater is WILD. We are all humans tryi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:06 PM
3	Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reason food comes from grocery stores not farmers silly pants	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 08:59 PM
15	Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reason the idea that OP actively wants to let them burn is laughable. if farmers suffer, we all suffer. I voted for Kamala, but the belligerent ignorance of urban dems never ceases to amaze me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 02:50 PM
–	Are alpha widows becoming more common? some of you are so deep in the internet sauce you've become self created pariahs from society. because what the fuck does this post even mean? can you please put down the koolaide and write like an adult?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 07:31 PM
1	Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalism And your assertion is...that those people don't exist? Or what	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 09:19 PM
1	Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalism I would suggest rewording then. I get your argument now, but I don't think that your post reflects your idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 09:16 PM
5	Men are not able to be providers anymore due to capitalism Your argument is invalidated by the existence of men who are providers, which is still a norm in current society. Perhaps this is just a phrasing issue. I agree it's slightly harder for men to be the provider role now, but what you wrote communicates that it's not possible. And that is just flat out incorrect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 09:00 PM
19	Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to society i don't disagree with OP that no one owes anyone anything. but as a wife and mother, i DO expect that my husband is the main breadwinner. not to say i refuse to work, i do work. but i prefer to be the go-to primary parent because i whipped up these kids from scratch and birthed them myself. and that has been the case for women since the dawn of time. i think it's tough to say "we don't owe you anything" when at the same time, largely we do have expectations. but it's not a 1 to 1 scenario where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 04:15 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I'm a woman and am attracted to probably less than 1% of men. I've only ever met a few people I could see myself with. It's almost never a person my friends agree is attractive too. I've never known why that is. But I'm married so luckily it no longer matters for me personally. It's still odd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 08:08 PM
-2	The entitlement of certain autistic men is baffling what a joke. men have run the world since the dawn of time until very recently. you created all the systems women have no choice but to fit into or suffer the social consequences. you have an insane victimhood complex going on over there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 09:47 PM
13	The entitlement of certain autistic men is baffling All this nonsense about them "better at masking their autism" and so on is bullshit. absolutely untrue. I just got diagnosed and this was covered in the session. women are higher masking as a group and thus their social outcomes are better. it's proven time and time again, and that's part of why women are diagnosed at a much lower rate. just because you don't like something, doesn't mean you can claim it's bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 09:14 PM
3	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. 1000% yes. i live in appalachia and can tell you FOR SURE they do not know what they're voting for. never underestimate the effects of the deliberate undermining of the public education system. i would estimate my county's average adult reading level to be approximately 6th grade. so imagine how much nonsense you will fall for because you lack the ability to suss out whether politicians are manipulating you. especially given one party absolutely refuses to come out here and speak to us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 06:13 PM
11	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. yea I feel like we just don't see it the same. if you think ignorance is tantamount to outright misogyny, you're going to have a bad time looking at the population as a whole. that's hardcore dooming on men as a concept, especially if the goal is pursing a healthy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 01:15 AM
3	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. I hear ya but I think you would be surprised how many people don't 100% or even 65% line up with a particular party or politician. the vast majority of my male friends know very little about the details of women's health policies etc. it doesn't affect them so doesn't show up on their algorithms, isn't talked about in their social circles, etc. even the democrats. basically I think it's important to acknowledge we are still living in a patriarchal world, it's just not nearly as bad as it used to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 12:59 AM
31	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. you're proving my point. conservative women have no interest in app based dating. they have no interest in casual sex. lifestyle conservative = living out traditional values. you can find these women at church, not on an app. they have no desire to fart around online chatting with strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 11:44 PM
46	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. it depends what you mean by misogynistic. the reddit definition where if you criticize any woman for anything, you're "misogynistic"? or truly misogynistic in that you are genuinely prejudiced against women as a group? the idea that if you're conservative, you must be misogynistic is patently false. anyway besides that point, I think what really blends into this issue is a values mismatch. there are conservative women out there who want conservative men. but they're not at bars soliciting casual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 11:00 PM
–	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. yea if you can find a woman who doesn't want to have bio kids AND wants to support a SAHD. in the end I doubt that's any more common. the more serious answer to this would be to develop a career, both of you work and contribute until you can afford to be SAHD if that's what you guys agree on. there's a difference between being a stay at home dad for some time and planning to not have any kind of career at all because you're exclusively "family focused". nobody's going to fall for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 11:27 PM
–	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. amen he's looking for a mommy and a babydoll, not a wife and family	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:12 PM
11	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. my guy, you cannot spend 9 months growing a child in your uterus and give birth...repeatedly. you cannot feed those children from your breasts. that's why you're expected to go to work and provide money. if you're not interested in that, then you're not truly the family man you thought you were. you're asking that a woman do all that for you AND support you financially. so you can hang out with the kids. your idea of parenthood is a farse. no smart woman would fall for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:00 PM
6	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage what exactly do you think can be solved by classifying 50% of the world as bad people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 05:03 PM
2	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage I think that's a very fair assessment. Personally I feel that the apps amplify everything bad about dating and cheapen the good parts. It lessens everyone's humanity to flip through a catalog of people who are limited to some pictures and a few sentences about who they are. Nihilists will say well that's everything that matters to anyone anyway. And I find that very sad. When we strip everything of meaning, don't be surprised when everyone feels hopeless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 04:20 PM
3	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage personal experience with random bad men (hi i barely escaped being raped in college) does not speak to sweeping generalizations about half the population of the world. btw - what does gold pill mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 04:06 PM
9	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage i disagree with the idea that men are inherently harmful and manipulative like that. i think that kind of rhetoric is very damaging to society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 03:57 PM
6	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage pretty sure he meant that women largely aren't centering reproduction in their lives anymore, which is true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 03:42 PM
14	Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriage I don't disagree with you, but I'm wondering why men act like this is the only dating pool available? It's not breaking news that people who heavily use dating apps are attention-seeking. No one is stopping yall from meeting people IRL. If you want to meet women with their head on straight: volunteer, go to crossfit, attend a church with a big singles group, sign up for the very popular speed dating events in cities. So many dudes I know are like "i'm gonna meet someone!" and then hang out on ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 02:58 PM
1	Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for it what does that have to do with your false assertion that all women have slept with a man without a date? this is categorically wrong. and aren't red pill dudes supposed to be conservative? why are you so thrilled by ultra casual sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:48 PM
0	Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for it that's because universities have tripped over themselves with excitement to teach promiscuity as some kind of breakthrough in women's rights. it's not, it's just a tactic to further serve men of loose morals. and to your point, you're right that often the most unlikely people fall for that. fwiw in today's economy, I no longer believe that falling for an expensive masters program (especially immediately following your bachelor's) is a sign of much critical thinking ability. you're still wrong th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:45 PM
6	Dinner is not "the bare minimum" because in current year, every girl has slept with at least one guy without the need for it this is false, there are plenty of women who don't do that. myself included. if you don't want to date smart, high standards women because it's too much trouble, that's fine. but don't act surprised when they're not open to random sexual encounters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:28 PM
–	Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal. No one is entitled to another person's attraction or love. Period. As an autistic person, the mere suggestion that we have a special campaign for normies to specifically pity fuck autistic people disgusts me. I'm better than that and so are you. Get a grip on yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 06:52 PM
2	Males should be told to dress better you literally just decided my opinion doesn't matter because you don't like it. good luck with women lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 02:40 PM
3	Males should be told to dress better I suppose it depends on what you mean by parties. I live in the rural south so my "scene" may be different than yours. Small town bars, local music, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 09:18 PM
5	Males should be told to dress better I think you guys would be surprised how much women do not care about your clothes. Apart from wearing shirts that say crude things, I've never noticed a man's bad or good fashion. In fact when a guy is really into fashion, it's a financial and values red flag to me. I don't tend to get along with people who take optics seriously. Just my two cents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:52 PM
9	How should the playing field evened out for men who seek casual sex, when men and women are not equally open to casual sex? I couldn't possibly be less concerned about anyone's access to casual sex. No one is entitled to sex, period. And people who think they need increased access to it are pathetic. I would suggest they try valuing other people as humans instead of an object to get their wiggles out on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:04 PM
3	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Yea I agree. I do think the current state of women's culture leads women to unintentionally isolate and radicalize men. With all the constant mockery of men and the elevating of women as better than them. The normalization of publicly bitching about a group of humans. However, the write up here is not it. It's giving unrequited love, which really is not the purpose of this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 12:56 PM
1	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. not if that person is complaining around the clock that they can't find someone who meets their ridiculous standards. at a certain point as a friend, you have to be the one who says the hard thing. for example, that the person in question is elevating themselves above what is reasonable for them to attract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 03:09 PM
2	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) you don't even have to be in touch with the pop culture aspects to take an introspective look at yourself and understand...by barking up the tree of establishing "romance" with a robot due to lack of success dating humans, you are telling the world you value yourself above the human race. you gave up on humans because they weren't worshipping you to the extent an engineered "personality" is trained to do. the alternative would be to look inward and work on yourself. work on not viewing other peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 01:19 PM
2	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) screen addiction. they do not participate in IRL community because they were trained to believe they are above dealing with other people. that and all the foreign influence and political propaganda designed to tear us all apart so nothing ever gets accomplished. and now we're back at screen addiction. if you think being the one to say the hard, truthful thing is "gaslighting", you too are guzzling the internet koolaide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 01:12 PM
2	If you could date the perfect synthetic companion, more attractive than any human, would you choose that over a human partner? (Hetero relationship) absolutely not. you have to be a sociopath to elevate yourself above the rest of humans enough to even consider "dating" a clanker. nobody thinks about this part. these ai personalities are all sycofantic af. their goal is to keep you coming back and spending more time on them. so they make you feel like you're oh so perfect to them. if you're attracted to a robot because you haven't had success dating fellow humans, you're the problem. if everyone you meet is an idiot, you're the idiot. but it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 09:30 PM
1	Men: how do you feel about traditional gender norms? yes. evolution made men stronger and larger than women. not just in certain areas or certain cultures, but worldwide. the larger and stronger humans are the protectors and hunters. it manifests differently these days but the evolutionary differences remain the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 09:21 PM
3	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women no one's entitled to sex. wouldn't you agree that people shouldn't have sex at all until they know their potential partner is a decent person / not a murderer? i sure think so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 07:59 PM
9	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women i'm a married woman with children and I love my life. My main question to everyone engaging in this is, why'd you marry this guy? I think north americans put WAY too much focus on looks and not enough focus on determining whether someone would be a good partner prior to marrying them. I also think women get extremely tied up on manifesting their dream wedding instead of asking themselves whether this partner is truly going to be family-focused rather than self focused. Marriage is so so so much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:58 PM
2	birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than before basing your argument on anecdote is lazy. sorry but it's the truth. if you spent 10 minutes reading about it, you would know that falling birth rates are complex and span the globe. far more than can be boiled down to a few dates not going well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 11:07 PM
5	Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behind That and the reason women aren't conscripted but men are has nothing to do with voting. I'm surprised this isn't talked more about due to what's going on in russia. Women aren't drafted because we can repopulate the country if war takes too many men die in war. Men are now optional in reproduction due to the amount of sperm we have banked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 08:40 PM
4	Men and Women need to start settling for the average person OPs point is that if you're unable to find something that meets your standards, then it's likely your standards eclipse the level you believe yourself to be at. but yeah if you're not that worried about finding a partner then it's a moot point	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 08:19 PM