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Great @ Your keys are fine I think that's where the problem is. The fact that I'm very satisfied with this relationship and am slipping up emotionally because of it. I don't feel as solid as I did before. Seems senseless to break up a relationship just because it's going well? Or should I differentiate that from a relationship with TOO MUCH investment on my end, and so it needs to end anyway, before I embarrass myself?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 03:51 PM
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I always thought that the effectiveness of abundance mentality comes from the fact that you COULD have other women if you wanted to, but you chose to stick with her for one reason or another. Do I have to be with multiple women at once to keep my head on straight? I'm sure I could find another girlfriend if I were to break up with her. That wouldn't be hard. It's just hard to picture given the fact that I am somewhat emotionally invested in her. I'm successful in my career and education. That is…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:15 PM
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It's cope because you can't win or don't believe you can.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:36 AM
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Because: Less attention for her, and higher likelihood his male friends will expose her bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:14 AM
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You'll appear like a greasy neckbeard when she's wrong. If you want sex, don't.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:01 AM
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No. Lmao. It will eventually sort itself out and the relationship will break up.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:57 AM
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Get something better.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:55 AM
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Ignore back. Get to the point where you don't really care what happens.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:53 AM
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Does it mean my girlfriend will not stick with me and support me during the time that I will need to create the successful life for me? I mean, probably not. LOL It's very simple: People want to feel better, and not worse about themselves. Your failure will directly reflect how she feels about herself. She'll think "am I with a high SMV guy that can handle his shit AND my shit?" If both boxes are ticked off, you are suddenly the high value alpha she wants. For the most part, men and women are in…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:49 AM
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You don't understand the topic deeply enough. I suggest studying 2 years ahead of what you're actually doing, do it WELL, and then re-consider whether or not it's for you.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:42 AM
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You're the problem. Don't care too much about what her friends think, or are saying. Better yet, make them like you.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:07 AM
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Think of how many different girls are willingly on pornhub. Now, expand that to the different porn sites on the Internet. Are you even surprised?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:35 AM
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At places where you would want to be seen in public.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:34 AM
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Well, yeah. They can deny it (less stigma from their own community), and being able to idealize the guy so she would be more receptive to having sex with him.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:33 AM
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Be less invested. Whatever masculine qualities she has, amplify those 3x in yourself. The dynamics of your relationship will adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:32 AM
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"OK." Ignore. She will come back.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:28 AM
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Because she's an entitled whore who thinks that you should wait around for her while she has the right to fuck around. You're not allowed to have fun, because your balls and cock should be in a cage until you get her "OK." Or else, you're being an asshole and hurting her feelings! Oh, and also: She knows that none of the other guys are serious about her, but she needs some validation while you cry your eyes out on Reddit. Fuck other women because you want to. Not because of her. Teach the bitch …
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:25 AM
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I used to. Then I stopped, because it was fucking depressing. Do what makes you feel good and go for your ideal life. Once you fail enough, you'll be average enough (or more than average) to have a little fun in life. Your ideal life should inspire you to get off your ass. Not be depressed. If you are, it means you're not taking enough action. Now move.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:21 AM
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The rule is to go absolutely bluepill on a shy girl until she adopts the attitude of the extroverted bitch that you thought was a different breed. /s
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:19 AM
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Have something planned and have it be something that you're going to enjoy. Preferably something you have experience with so that you can introduce it to her without looking like an idiot. If she likes you enough, she'll enjoy it too.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:16 AM
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Deep down, yup. Unless there's a girl out there that doesn't want to mix her genes with a man of a higher caliber. That would be a new brand of self destruction, and I'd like to see the example.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:14 AM
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Damn right.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:07 AM
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Late reply, haven't logged in for a month. He's always been irrational in relationships and it's been painful watching from afar. His new wife is concerned because the ex has been diagnosed with psychotic disorders and expressed intense feelings for my friend.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:52 AM
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The same way you would ask out any other girl. Chances are, the more that you seem unaffected by her beauty, the more that she'll be attracted to you. Funny enough: She'll perceive it as "he likes me for who I am," even if you have no idea who she is - just because you aren't one of those guys who are drooling over her and complimenting her every few seconds.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:28 PM
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It depends on where they are on the spectrum. You're not going to have a lot of self awareness, if you're mentally retarded with an IQ of 50; in comparison to somebody who has a learning disability of average intelligence for example.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:26 PM
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No problem. PM me if you want.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 11:42 AM
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It's such a subtle control tactic and it becomes hard for you to recognize when an ex-lover is doing it. It's cruel, and nobody who genuinely cares for you would do it. The entire channel is based off of manipulation and control. To break down someone's self esteem so much that you can get away with anything. Wanting to fuck other guys for fun, regretting it after, and having him feel sorry for you just because you emotionally ruined him in the past. Just like how children side with abusive pare…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 08:03 PM
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It doesn't work to apply redpill to women without changing it; men and women are different. The exact reason for Redpill to be in quotation marks in the title. Even if the tactics aren't intentionally implemented, it shines a light on what NOT to do in a relationship (when the woman you're with displays these traits) to avoid being taken advantage of, and harming yourself by dragging the past into the present.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 12:43 PM
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Just watch her actions, and how she behaves. You can only be made aware of what she's doing, and there's not much more than that.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 09:35 AM
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They say that people who cheat accuse others of cheating. This comes from the fact that everybody has the capability of cheating, if placed under certain circumstances. At some subconscious level, the person accusing the other of cheating is feeling insecure themselves (which may or may not lead to actual cheating.)
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:56 AM
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Well put. That's just how our species survives. There's no morality or intent (sometimes) attached when it happens. I hesitated to even use the word "manipulation" in case there are idiots who picture cold, calculating, psychopaths who are rubbing their hands and plotting every move.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:50 AM
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Men want women who they look to as 10s. That 6 to him is "perfect," for one reason or another. Whether he's aware of those reasons or not is another story. If he's inexperienced, or worn down by these "tactics"(she leaves him for another guy, tells him about other guys she meets to make it worse) he can mentally twist a whore into a girl he likes. The same mechanism is triggered when men fall in love with prostitutes. Men who are irrational will even "beg and plead,"just to make the pain that SH…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:50 AM
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Why has pretty much every girl I’ve ever dated accused me of flirting with other girls, or getting hit on by other girls? Many women don't do it consciously. Why are babies made to look cute? It's a survival mechanism. Much like how, on average, women are built smaller to trigger a protective instinct in men. Would you instinctively protect gross, fat, and hairy? No? Precisely why they aren't considered to be positive traits for women. Also, to protect her resources. Reproductive, financial, emo…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 09:12 PM
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All women hope that the alpha male she looks up to commits to her. Men want the dream girl, perfect 10 that doesn't exist. Women want their version.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:45 PM
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The desperate, worn down, and naive ones do. And when you're on a relationship high, and that person cuts it off, you'll be more willing to make irrational decisions. (Like maintain a friendship, for example. Even if the friendship was there in the first place.)
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:41 PM
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My buddy dated a girl with ADHD and she consistently used it as an excuse to fuck around with other guys, generally make bad decisions in her life, and be vindictive/vengeful all the while talking about how "irresponsible" other girls were being. He did a lot of mental gymnastics and convinced himself it was an explanation for her behaviour. She was an adult, and wasn't unintelligent. That means she has the same amount of responsibility that a functioning adult should. My friend ended up humilia…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 03:57 PM
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No problem. Always better to use that time to build yourself up, and meet a girl that AT LEAST is capable of proving her loyalty to you. Emotionally stable girls don't drink and hook up with multiple guys to make you jealous. This girl is not your friend. She's doing it to gain the upper hand so you go begging back to her. Normal behaviour is when you're upset for a few months/weeks, and move on.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:56 PM
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Go out with other girls, smile and shrug if she confronts you.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:31 AM
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She doesn't care, and neither should you. Why are you capable of looking at another attractive girl even if you're in a good LTR? It's in your nature. Don't be idiotic enough that you invest your emotional energy in somebody who gets piss drunk and has sex with multiple guys after you've just broken up.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:25 AM
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You keep going is how you deal. Regardless of her reaction.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:22 AM
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I like this reply.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:28 PM
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No, I mean: Whether you want her back or not is irrelevant. You should be seeing other girls and showing that you CAN get other girls, regardless.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 10:24 AM
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No, but I run/do push-ups/sit-ups. I look lean. 15% body fat. Like the third photo: https://rpo8h0gngr-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/day-1-30-60-90.jpg Since the marriage, it's been a complete lull on my end. Overwork to pay for the house - there's hardly time to be interesting or creative.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:19 PM
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Yup. Covert dread. It gives the impression that she's replaceable. Wait a little if you just broke up. Act cool and do your own thing, and then change your photo to show that you can get other girls.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:14 PM
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Thanks. I'll take a look.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:14 PM
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Self rationalization. Human beings, at their core, are devoid of morals and values. We're motivated by what best helps us survive, and pass on our genetic code.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:21 PM
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Change your display picture to you and another girl. ASAP.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:17 PM
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I usually don't reply to posts as late as this, but this was an interesting question.Just live as usual and don't break up. What's the point if things are going fine? If she breaks up with you, you'll get over it. If for some reason, things aren't working out and you want to break up with her, end it that way.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:54 PM
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You're in school? Don't expect loyalty from friends, especially when you're young. The majority of people are not on your team and want to see you fail, unless winning is also to their benefit. It validates them because they're losers themselves and seeing another person win would mean that they automatically "failed." These are the same people who mock fatties and delinquents out loud, and binge watch reality TV *daily* to help themselves feel better. Nobody likes the absolute bottom of society…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:57 AM
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Great. It's better to be self aware than to label the first girl you find attractive "the one." Just remove all morality from dating (if you're casually dating) and see things as "cause and effect." People will adjust themselves to the way that you come off to them. The same girl that was "bitchy," "disloyal," and "untrustworthy," is the same "sweet, gentle, loyal, and trustworthy," girl to another guy. The "fairy-tale" you mention is just that. A fantasy.It's just a better version of the relati…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:52 AM
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It's none of your business. Sit back, watch, and learn from their experience.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:48 AM
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Botch that shit up ASAP. You will have enough problems in the future that you don't need the past holding you down. Disconnect from toxic people. Be pragmatic about it. It takes time to get to the mentality of truly not caring. The key is just to start to focus on yourself - because now, you're still taking in validation from an external source. "Talking it out" with a therapist won't help as much as just taking the bad experiences life gives you, growing better from it, and building yourself fr…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:29 AM
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Depends on the kind of tattoos. I wouldn't care if the tattoo were the name of a dead relative, for example. But any "infinity sign" tattoos, cartoon characters, tramp stamps...etc wouldn't be acceptable.Usually, it demonstrates that she lacks the ability to look forward into the future and understand that she'll regret the majority of the tattoos that she's gotten in her youth. Aggressive tendencies, impulsivity, and a lack of self awareness are all red flags(what will she look like with those …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:23 AM
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Late response: He's an old friend of mine and I hate to see him waste his time. He has a current LTR that he describes to be the "best of his life," and he's selling himself short.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:53 PM
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Was afraid of that damn horn. He'll sniff the crumbs, think it's something a little bit suspicious but ...OH WAIT, IT'S POISONOUS BECAUSE IT GOES AGAINST HIS ONEITIS.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:43 AM
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**Tenet, idiotic typo.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:41 AM
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I'm a misogynistic asshole because it's OK for his Disney princess to blow strangers in her sparkly carriage - I know.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:37 PM
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I asked here because I knew I couldn't just link him to TRP and have him learn the tenants without a shit-fit response. He's still in beta mode, and acts completely irrational around her.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:34 PM
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Because it questions their current reality, and anything that doesn't suit that frame of reference is to be ignored and shunned. Everybody wants to believe in the dream. Also: Confirmation bias. Even if they're confronted with evidence and facts that contradicts what they think, it will only make their current beliefs stronger because people don't like admitting that they were wrong. It's tied to self identity and pride.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:56 AM
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Which section?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:49 PM
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Advice? Tactics?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:41 PM
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In the end, it comes down to experience and time. Do your best to reflect on the situation, take others' input into account, and see if it matches your observation. Be as factual as possible and be objective. And yes, I do think it's a bad mentality to take. Everybody speaks with the limitations of their own biases/intelligence/and inexperience (in the best case scenario, even if they're trying to help you out) or has a hidden agenda/is trying to manipulate you/insult you (in the absolute worst …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 07:27 PM
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1) Does it reflect your actions in the present moment? If so, it's true. If not, it's not true. Things like "questioning your masculinity" and calling you "needy" is bullshit. You don't know yourself well enough and haven't developed sufficiently if you're evaluating yourself through her frame.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 07:20 PM
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Today I learned that, emotions somehow dictate reality, and can even shift reality to what you feel! /s
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 06:34 PM
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Satisfying to see. Awesome work!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:51 PM
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Not an astounding realization. Hair and beard shapes your face and makes a huge difference. Balding is a sign of age - but can be made attractive if you're fit. Just don't do the "half bald, half hair" thing where you do nothing with your hair once you start balding. Shave it all off and gain muscle.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 04:49 PM
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The older they get the less work they become in my experience. Yeah^ I was looking forward to this. He's 5 months old now. No, but weekly is already asking for a lot with a new baby. I ate like complete shit for the first 3 months because there was just so much going on with moving in and our child. I keep pushing along and I do what I can, though - because I don't want to become completely complacent, develop a dad-bod and slip deeper into this mess. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:55 PM
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I find it laughable how "independent" women expects a round of applause for what every self sustaining adult does. They also expect equality, while advertising themselves to be some sort of special breed of women. They don't understand how idiotic "strong, independent man" sounds - because it's simply the expectation for men. Way to inadvertently knock yourself down several levels by implying that women are "strong" when they do the same thing that the majority of men are already expected to do.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:50 PM
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Now should you treat girls like that just like her father (ignore her, just have fun with her, no validation and no interest) did or should you treat her like a "good" father, listen to her problems, giving her advice, educate her, put her in her place but also take care of her, protect her etc 90% of the former, 10% of the latter. Even then: Listening to her problems, giving her advice, educating her...etc should be done from a place of authority.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:45 PM
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You really seem to have a mindset that interacting with other people than those you already know is some kind of major job. You could start by spending 15 or 20 minutes after work at a bar near your house just talking to people. Ever since having a son and moving in together, everything except for making money feels like spending extra energy that I don't have. My plan is just to force her to pick up some of the slack. If there's no pressure, there's no incentive.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:38 PM
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I've used it so often @Flirting it's as if she doesn't care anymore.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 04:35 PM
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Because Guy B makes the girl the center of his world (she's his "goal") instead of making the girl a by-product of whatever awesome life he's living.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:54 PM
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You're right though. Dread is the key. I always had trouble with keeping it subtle. Some guys are capable of doing it where the girl is always on her toes when something comes up. She needs to "sense" that something is up/different but not have it to the point where she suspects I'm cheating or something. Or is it necessary to do it so intensely that she does suspect there's another girl in the picture? I've read the sidebar - any personal experience would be nice.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:50 PM
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Just little indicators of boredom/disinterest on her part. She's not as affectionate lately, and the relationship is stagnant. Makes me notice that I'm becoming complacent, and need to keep being the exciting person she once knew.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:49 PM
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Yes. We've been married for a year.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:30 PM
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I don't think you can control your height...yet. Side note, if OP's Asian, don't let your height or race stop you. No, you can't - but OP asked, so I'm telling him my POV. You can be a smaller, fit asian guy that still gets some girls or a skinny-fat small asian guy that gets less girls than the former. You make the choice.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:43 AM
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To an extent. But the amount of loyalty she has towards you is dependent on game.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:10 PM
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Cheeky. If you count that as trying to control frame and freeze/don't know how to respond, you need more practice.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:07 PM
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Defend yourself, but don't hit back. Grab her lightly and tell her "no" sternly. (Make sure not to leave marks.)
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:04 PM
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10-12% body fat, the typical "V" shape with broad shoulders and trim waist. Big arms (in my experience, not super ripped) and tall. A large frame always helps. If you take somebody from northern Europe and compare him to a short guy from Asia, women will almost always prefer the former.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:03 PM
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You're too attached, and doing just fine - lol.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:39 PM
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Yes, it's one of the most common behaviours. You feel good in the moment, and don't want your emotions to stop. Induce your own triggers to stop. For example, you could do something like pinch yourself lightly as a reminder of where your emotions are going if you think things are going out of control. Try it daily. Pinch yourself at random times of the day, repeating a certain phrase in your head, like: "Center yourself." And then do it in situations where you can't think straight.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:28 PM
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Shrug and do it anyway. With a smile on your face as you walk away.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:24 PM
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You're self aware. That's good. Everyone goes through that. Keep up the progress.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:18 PM
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You said it well in your own post: Trying too hard to talk to women. Clear your head before you speak. Just think about the joke you're about to say before you say it - what exactly are you trying to say, what are you joking about, and why is it funny? Or, turn your awkward comments into something funny. The problem is that you're trying to say something, like firing without a target, and hoping it hits something. If you wouldn't use that method while you're hunting, don't do it in real life. Li…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:04 PM
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Lol. Maybe you just need to find your crowd. Unless there's some sort of necessity involved in your interactions (job promotions, business connections etc...), you shouldn't change yourself entirely just to blend in with people that you don't even like. Change, only as much as you want to. What kind of "off the wall" stuff? Is it something that people in your field would only understand? Or is it truly weird/degenerate/a turn-off when you speak? There's a distinction.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:36 PM
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The fact that you're an "incel" at 17 means you have a chance. Improve your social skills, go to clubs, and make friends. If there's absolutely nobody that'll be friends with you after a year, you can re-evaluate.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:38 PM
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"But you would, because you want to."
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:35 PM
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I just treated it like an experiment, stopped taking it so seriously, and stopped being dependent on the income. If she didn't like my approach or style/took it too harshly/responded negatively, I shrug it off and move to the next.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:33 PM
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Things like: Light shit tests to be responded with jokes/fun: -Teasing you. Pushing your buttons for a response. (Slapping your butt, making a slight at you..etc.) Nuclear shit tests that should not be tolerated: -Demanding too much, being bitchy (and well aware that she's being bitchy), pushing your limits. -Being outright rude, disrespectful. (Hanging out/talking too much with exes, staying out for days with no text responses...etc.)
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:30 PM
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You're 23 - chill. At this point in your life, you have time. It's no excuse to sit around and do nothing, but there's no reason to be dramatic: It would drive me off the deep end if I couldn't because of financial reasons. Solve that problem first. How will you make money? You could take up something like programming, where you just need the skill sets and projects to get hired. Start off as a junior and work your way up. Do it at home. A lot of employers don't care about your degree. As boring…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:27 PM
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Yup. This ^ To a certain degree, you need acceptance and validation from others. To not need it would be like saying that you "don't judge" others. Judgment comes with good reason. It helps you figure out which behaviours need to be passed down for us, as a species to thrive and survive. One helpful thing you can do is to remind yourself about how far you've come, and know thoroughly who you are/what you stand for. If somebody disagrees with your viewpoints/conflicts with them, you'll know how t…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:53 PM
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The last three comments talked about goals/ambitions, so I won't re-iterate those topics. The next thing you need to do to improve is to be a little more specific. Which blue pill behaviour do you want to get rid of? Observe yourself and see which patterns keep repeating, and make a plan to stop those habits. For example, if you notice yourself getting clingy (short of breath, needing her more than she needs you, ) slow down, shut it down, and look at the bigger picture.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:51 PM
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Create competition Create dependency Improve yourself each day In the beginning, surprise her more often. Keep her guessing.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:49 AM
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First off, approach anxiety is completely normal. Don't beat yourself up over it when it happens. One of the biggest problems that you have now is that you have the idea of a needy/clingy loser when you are approaching her. Once you have that image in your head, it's 10x harder to get rid of it, and you shoot yourself in the foot because it decreases your chances of success. Your posture, tone of voice, and frame will depend on the image you have in your mind. If you're not satisfied with your S…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:41 AM
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They sense your freedom, and want a taste of the stability that you're able to provide them. Or, they feel as if they could relate to you because you're also an "outsider," or "different." Plate, and don't LTR these girls. You should have a list of things you find unacceptable in an LTR and automatically start looking for the next if red signs show up. These signs should inherently be repulsive to you.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:13 PM
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Like she's trying to validate herself to you. In the beginning, be open to connecting/cool/confident/teasing and talk to other girls. Let her earn your affection. Drop in hints of the affection from time to time, and let her wonder if it's "real" or not. This becomes addictive over time, because you're leading her into your world as her attachment forms. And then, pull away. Let her wonder if she's done something really wrong...and then affirm her again with the affection you've conditioned her …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:46 PM
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That sounds both trashy and childish @spitting. I thought you were talking along the lines of parents imposing their beliefs on you, and not immature stuff like this. No shit, you should be annoyed. Frame has nothing to do with suppressing your emotions when you should be frustrated at somebody constantly breathing down your neck and destroying your property. If she wants to talk to you, she can do it politely or kindly screw off. @Too ignorant to see: And you're probably exhausted from the anno…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:30 PM
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Don't try to change her. That's the biggest time waster you could invest in. In her mind, you are the child and she is the mother, and therefore you should be grateful/listen to what she says even if she's not giving you advice in a productive manner. Trying to change her will only create more conflict and give her more leverage to use against you in the future. If you live under your parent's roof, the best thing you can do is just to grit your teeth, and bear it while you pursue your goals. On…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:20 PM
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1) Stop letting it affect you. Can you give us a specific example of something they're doing that could affect the way you think/feel? The first mistake is letting it get to you. 2) Do what you were going to do, anyway - if it has nothing to do with them. You're a grown man and can do what you want.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:04 PM
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To some degree, it will always affect you. It's a process that happens automatically when you see a pretty girl and nothing you can do will stop that. It's about being self aware enough to knock her off of the pedestal when you start becoming aware of what's going on, and as soon as you know what's going on.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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