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It helps a lot for me. It also depends. The leaner I get the more attention I get. There's levels to it sometimes more girls will put their hands on my back then as I get leaner some girls will ask their friends to ask for my number. I don't think it's the abs that help since I'm usually wearing a shirt. It's small things each thing is a percentage small percent is the shoulders,arms and even glutes.(some girls don't want a guy where his jeans just flatten like they have nothing there) for me I …
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:53 PM
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And in a way you lost the a part of the battle aswell because I'm guessing now your brain for a way to make this all work. Yet this seems almost like she betrayed you in seem way when she returned and treated you colder because she probably had someone else as you has said yourself she was seeing someone. I would say you could back with her if you didn't care about her and it would be okay. However it seems from the outsiders point of view she doesn't care about you all that much and you seem to…
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:31 AM
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I would refrain from having any sexual thoughts about exes. It turns into a habit and you will yearn for something that just isn't there anymore. She could be making similar memories with someone else by now and there you are touching yourself in the dark to something that isn't for you anymore. It may seem like you have no control over it but slowly catch your brain going to those places and ask it why it choose go go there. Remember that in a way it's your mind and you do have some control ove…
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:29 PM
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My guy, you sound like you're way too into Game. We all have peaks and valleys. Also, I've been in situations where I was seeing multiple people. For me at least it didn't fix me wanting more and more. I don't think you're ever going to reach that place you're looking for, but you can It'll take lots of work but in the end, it won't be as fulfilling as you think it is. If you want to be on easy mode honestly get a six-pack that's my best advice, tried and tested. However, you need to appear more…
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:23 PM
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The amount of extra steps and extra things that you've added to your thinking seems like a lot. It almost seems like all this extra stuff and over thinking is making you get in your own way. You might benefit from just hanging out with people and chilling out a bit.
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:51 PM
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But everyone else is out there working or has something going for them. You can make any number of excuses and say "it's not excuses" however if you want different results your going to have to put in the work. There's a bunch of people with no legs missing an arm or some other mental issue wrong with them however they are putting in the work so you'll hear about them on the news or some documentary. All your responses sound weak if I had to be honest. Go Crack open a couple books about people w…
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:37 PM
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I'm currently taking a break from dating and honestly, the truth is the loneliness for me is always there even when I have someone. I ghosted my friends with benefits back in October Then I just kept bailing on dates and not replying on the dating apps. In my head, I'm thinking that I'm in a dry spell and nobody wants me however I just been feeling depressed and suddenly I started thinking that my sense of value was coming from a bad place. I heard someone say that I should ask myself whether I …
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:49 AM
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Step 3 is a goldmine that most people should look at. I recently started dating someone new and honestly I can't explain how great she is to me intimatelywise. A lot of people miss that "sexual tension" and your right it's subtle like standing next to a warm fire,you want that will he won't she. I actually listen to a lot of the girls I've dated. complaints about guys they went on dates with guys who were creeps. Sometimes it's good to be friends with every girl you connect with because a lot of…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:31 AM
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For anyone young, However, please don't make this an excuse to not try and go out because you working on your goal to move out. You don't need to be "A MAN" to get the results that you want lol. I know young cousins and friends who sleep on family couches. They seem to do very well regardless. rent is expensive I always have roommates or family I room with.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:20 PM
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try going to more local bars. my friend also has a girlfriend who knows he goes out. My other buddy is a natural and has girlfriend who doesn't. I would say try different types of relationships yet still go out till you meet one that sticks.
/r/seduction30/09/16 08:14 AM
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where do you live? I would say be honest about it Hey I really want to become a more social person I don't just want to rely on you guys I love you guys but I also want to be my own person. use logic on them. usually friends and family don't want you to change because then your not relying on them or your getting something they aren't. my own girlfriend one time got jealous because her sister and husband invited my best friend and me out to dinner. she said she felt like she was missing out.
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:46 PM
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I would just approach with a smile and say "I like that" I think its one person I feel like you think something could happen here. which it could. She seems like a party girl so in my opinion you need to bring the fun maybe very little needs to be said just bring a fun vibe some dumb shit like I love your straw and laugh at your own jokes. "she doesnt talk much to me" then I guess you do the talking do the seduction till you know for sure she doesn't like you. I had a girl not talking to me at a…
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:39 PM
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embrace it. I have feelings for like 2 girls I am seeing. just let the feelings through. Like yeah I love this girl oh look another one.
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:31 PM
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One of my buddies started his journey at 26 now he is a dating coach. He honestly moved from a shitty place to party city by himself then went out constantly found other people to mentor him started mentoring people. I would say find people who want the same thing as you "success with women" then out hustle them. I am currently staying with 5 friends who largely focus on money,women,fitness. I broke with my girlfriend to get here. start taking action it actually gets easy once you get out of you…
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:27 PM
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I dab on people till I am having fun. one of my buddies goes out alone all the time and he told me "no one is going to bring the fun but you". Last time I went out was feeling shitty so I started to dab on girls the first I opened I ended up making out with.
/r/seduction29/09/16 07:20 PM
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If you want to approach girls just do it. I had a girlfriend when My life was fucked up and to be honest it didn't really make me happy. you have to have a life where you bring someone in and they can add to your life.I understand that its hard but you have to understand that its worth it. This will pass but constantly have to deal with the uncomfortable situations of life and just accept them. Once you accept them try your best to let them go. for instance when your about to binge "yeah I'm pre…
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:57 PM
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I'm no expert but calm down and take it easy one step at a time if your serious about losing weight maybe focus on that first. Approach fitness slowly as it may take a while to get somewhere but you will get somewhere if you commit to it and let it consume you. That being said just keep going and maybe at the same time working on yourself. Don't overthink things. If you gradually put in the work you'll make some progress.
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:41 AM
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yeah it sucks but oh well there will be plenty more chances.... especially if your constantly approaching.(which I need to do). that being said it sucks to know you missed an opportunity.. however sometimes those opportunities rise up again. I have been with a girl who I had no idea was in to me. so there are those rare occasions, but definitely try just acting upon your opportunities next time. good luck bro I feel I understand where you are right now.
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:27 AM
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"What's the most embarrassing thing that happened to you?" a girl actually asked me that in a date just in case you you need another question
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:21 AM
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I was in a similar situation but mine was a little bit more complicated... however the main problem is that we simply don't act upon our opportunities. sometimes you just have to make a move and ask them out or something otherwise they probably will just lose interest you because you simply won't make a move.
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:18 AM
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Has it improved your interactions with women or more just changed how you are ? otherwise thanks a lot will definitely check it out anyways as I do love to read.
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:13 AM
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For some reason the only response In my head is "LIFT"...besides that maybe that Tyrion lannister comes to mind.. however that may result in the nickname "princess" staying for most of high school.... to really get rid of the perception that you are a princess my best bet would be to date a girl... sorry I'm in high school. this is the best I could come up with. My thought here is since you already hang out with so many girls you could use that to your advantage don't be afraid of asking them to…
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:09 AM
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well I have a couple experiences sophomore year of high school I did this. Added a girl I was still extremely early on in the game (I'm still early on but the girl who I lost my virginity and me had just split up). Anyways I added a girl who I had crush on,never spoke to her just added her. she turned out to be kind of stuck up and it kind of scared me off. still I should have done something with her. second girl I added I actually messaged and we had a decent conversation till she bored me. fin…
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:00 AM
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"I don't think I have anything to lose at this point and if she questions who am i or why i added her I would just explain that I saw her on my newsfeed and that she seemed cool." I think you just answered your own question. I mean if you really want to talk to her then do it. That being said I bet somebody has a valid argument on why you shouldn't. However if I was in your position I would just add them if it really mattered to me. I think it would give me an experience even if it went wrong.
/r/seduction21/12/13 01:48 AM
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I will start off by saying that a couple of weeks I went to a really crappy party where I was really off my game. It was maybe one of those nights were I just completely felt like a loser and nothing would ever get better. As the party proceeded to get crazier and everybody was doing crazy things (I'm talking strobe lights and paint) one of my friends took of hiss shirt. At this point I was way into my head and debated a total of 5 times of taking my shirt off as a lot of my friends urged me to …
/r/seduction21/12/13 01:33 AM
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Did it help you?
/r/seduction21/12/13 01:17 AM
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anything else you can tell us about your experience with this book and how it was changed you?,sorry just curious
/r/seduction21/12/13 01:15 AM
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Another thing asking for the restrooms seems a bit dishonest to me. I mean once you stayed for a chit chat. I'm pretty sure she noticed you didn't really need to use the restroom so why not actually tell her that she seemed cool from the beginning. Just my thoughts on the matter otherwise good job on actually approaching
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:58 AM
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To add to what's being said...in my experience some girls while not that attractive gradually become attractive once you talk to them. I think as long as the girl is slightly attractive you would be surprised how beautiful they become once you actually have a meaningful conversation.
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:54 AM
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I would advise to let go of the so called beta thought in your head. Stop choosing for people and letting them know your a "beta".let people make their own my minds on you.then simply don't care what they think of you.
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:49 AM
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Maybe you could just ask her casually that you guys haven't been texting... If she acts kind of awkward towards it she's problably not interested and move on.
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:05 AM
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"Yeah" I had the same situation in the summer all I said was yeah .. It didn't really matter I just accepted that she was leaving and I might not see her again .. If your gonna miss someone just tell the truth.. Just be honest.. She's gone anyways
/r/seduction02/12/13 12:59 AM
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you did four approaches...most people can't even do one...I guess just keep approaching, you did good.
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:16 AM
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this...I'm still in highschool and I have a couple friends who happen to be girls... I got one friend to introduce me to a girl I liked and well it went alright we dated for like a week... I mean it works ..
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:11 AM
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"I am sorry, you are too late. I am dating somebody else."... sorry but shouldn't you at that point just move a long..... like she said she's dating someone else.. pretty sure your only response to that should be "ok see ya"
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:02 AM
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I'm actually kind of interested in knowing about your feelings on fourth ... that sounds like a situation where I would be scared to approach I have to admit... I have to give you props on approaching girls .. However I don't think you need to "lower your standards" if you think the girl is interesting just go for it ... no standards
/r/seduction01/12/13 02:54 AM
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good answer you pretty much hit the nail on the head.
/r/seduction01/12/13 02:44 AM
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I sit on top of them...anyways does this really matter I mean I've never had any problems with seating arrangements isn't it a bit over thinking it
/r/seduction01/12/13 02:41 AM
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I'm no expert by any means but you really should just ask for their numbers it really is that easy I have gotten 4 numbers this year(also in high school) the point is that if they are either A)interested in you B)just friendly they will give you their number, if not,don't worry about it.. you wouldn't want their numbers anyways trust me... like I said I'm no expert but it is really easy to just ask.... here's a completely innocent way I asked a girl because I really needed her number "hey could …
/r/seduction01/12/13 02:36 AM
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lets do something then you up for it? or any body else up for it?
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:35 AM
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I'm in austin. I'm down for anything still fairly young however but just starting. 18 years old
/r/seduction01/10/13 01:05 PM
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I live in Austin there are lots of parties going on all the time but most of my bro's only know of the ones were there is a lot Hispanic music playing... I'm more into electronic,me and my bros have been looking and this might be the year we actually go to one as we are all turning 18. just a matter of finding them. thanks for the help
/r/seduction11/09/13 10:24 PM
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Loved your post!!! Got me so excited I've been to a few parties but nothing too big. I'm barely 18 but I have been wanting to go to a festival for sometime. Any tips on finding cool parties like the one you mentioned here I would appreciate it a lot!. Anyways Great post
/r/seduction11/09/13 10:07 PM
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18.. still kind of young I think
/r/seduction11/09/13 09:57 PM
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good stuff, will keep that in mind
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:03 PM
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I'm not really an expert but... I don't think you should worry about that... my first girl thought I wasn't a virgin when I was 16...It wasn't really a problem I would joke with her smirking that she would be my first.. made her think I wasn't a virgin..
/r/seduction11/09/13 01:00 PM
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if a girl touches you sometimes they are...although I suck at signals and I have messed up a lot chances with girls because I didn't realize they were into me.. pay attention when they touch you .. then flirt to find out more.. ....I think that was your question right?
/r/seduction11/09/13 12:56 PM
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wouldn't it be a good idea if you said at least ..."wow I am trying really hard not to kiss you right now" would that be a form of asking?
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:45 AM
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my first pick up.. last year during valentines.. I hit on a girl in the lunchroom..I said -"Do you have valentines?" she smiled and blushed. I then proceeded to have a 5 minute conversation asking if she wanted a valentine.. then I walked away.. success in the way that I got through my first pick up. all I got sorry
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:34 AM
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great post bro, helps me a lot specially the video game part
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:21 AM
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While ago same thing happened to me still trying to get back in but it seems that girls liked me more when I was going out with somebody. Right now best advice is act like your still in a relationship and don't need any girl but still flirt with them. kinda new at this. hope this helps
/r/seduction21/02/13 01:31 AM
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