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Happy birthday! I hope you have a wonderful day. I'm almost twice your age and where do I start? I would make school my priority. I'd probably start with changing my entire attitude to stop being "not like other girls" and a desperate "pick me." Stop myself from ever using OLD and avoid all military men. (The last two are how I met my NVX, yuck). Stop believing that I must get married and have children before a certain age. Most importantly to stop sacrificing my own happiness for men and spend …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:58 PM
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I saw this post yesterday before she added the edit. I don't understand why she wants to stay with this LVM, she had nothing positive to say about him. It's not even about the headphones, he is actively ignoring her and the child he helped create.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:19 PM
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I love a happy ending. I'm so glad she's leaving him and didn't believe his bullshit story about "I was just joking."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:35 PM
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No wonder this smart teen didn’t talk to him for years before this. He just made sure she won’t talk to him for several more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:00 AM
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Absolutely disgusting, but I'm not surprised. LVM and LVW love to blame the victim, especially if they're female. Sometimes I catch a few comments on posts about the murders, and men and women comment that his wife was the one who "pushed" him to that point with her MLM business and YouTube channel. His wife and those innocent children did nothing to deserve this. Watts is a selfish, cheating asshole who tortured his family and deserves to rot in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:03 PM
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Yes! I read about that, too. So many women saying they believed he was innocent. They also offer to send him nude (or "racy" photos), books, tv sets, etc. I couldn't believe these women would still love him after what he did to his pregnant wife and kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:59 PM
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I hope you choose yourself and get out of that one-sided marriage. My NVX was very much the same (cared more about gaming and card games, demanded sex, tried to force gender roles, etc). Don't worry about his threats, especially if he's not doing anything about it. There is so much less responsibility, more freedom, and more happiness when you're not caring for a man who acts like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:55 PM
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Seriously, what an asshole. I’m glad he got caught and I’m sure he’s only “sorry” because there’s photo evidence. I wouldn’t even call him a “father” maybe a sperm donor. I looked up the stories on FB and (not surprised) saw so many comments bashing the mom in all this. How is any of this her fault? She should be celebrated, along with her daughter, for turning the situation around and donating it all! These scrotes who complain about child support and claim “men get treated so unfair in court!”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:17 AM
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Thank you mods for all that you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:56 PM
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If a site could really make this feature work, I wouldn't be too upset, but I can easily see how NVM would abuse it to cheat. I can't stand sites that ask me to upload my contacts, but for another reason. They assume I want to speak to everyone I have in my contact list. What about women forced to remain in contact with N/LVM for their child? I know I don't want him to know when I've signed up for a site as a "Recommended" so he can stalk me again. Our communication is for the child only. I gues…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:17 AM
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Reminds me of some men going crazy at the thought of eating anything with soy in it. I've never heard men saying that eating fruit might be "gay," but I can believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:39 PM
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Drop him now and don't waste anymore time on him. The only thing I am worried about for you is this: -i asked him for money and he gave it to me, but expects me to pay him back... Is he only still talking to you because he's waiting for you to pay him back? Is he going to retaliate in someway if he doesn't get his money back? Please take care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:40 PM
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Thank you! I watched a trailer and it looks really interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:55 PM
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Thank you for this! I wish I would have known all this when I was much younger. My NVX had these traits for sure, especially love bombing while isolating me from my friends so I would "only" depend on him (not sure if this is an overlap of him being in the military, which I now know is another red flag). Something else I've noticed about these RP, especially if they're white men, is racism. I'm a WOC and they would try to say something racist to see "where I stand." 🙄 Or they say they like trave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:49 PM
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Agreed, the emotional abuse I went through still sticks with me today and it's been a long road of recovery. I finally managed to leave after he bought a gun and waved it around proudly. People tried to tell me it wasn't "really abuse" because he didn't hit me, which I thought was bullshit. I don't think I will ever forget the emotional toll the experience put on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:55 PM
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I felt this in my entire being. I grew up with my parents never once telling me they loved me, only daily criticism. I used to have such low self-esteem and was a desperate pickme, which is how I ended up with an abusive NVM ex. It took me years to forgive myself and to remind myself that I am worthy of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:42 PM
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This is the saddest shit ever. The BTS Meal is just a 10 piece chicken nugget meal with 2 sauces and is like $8 (plus tax). She could make so much more doing almost anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:32 PM
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I'll add to it. What if ya man does this while yall on a BREAK? He obviously wants you back and he is wealthy , faithful , and has power and influence. Do you still leave as easily? The mental gymnastics of some of the replies on that dumbass tweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:34 PM
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"😂🤣" is exactly what I expect women to do once they see this jar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:26 PM
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Just looking at that screenshot, mistaking "here" for "hear" would have annoyed me. Little grammar and spelling mistakes always make me raise an eyebrow, especially "your" and "you're." But that's assuming both of us are native English speakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:13 PM
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This was ridiculous for the school to do and I'm glad they're offering refunds. Their Photoshop work was also atrocious and lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:00 PM
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The South Florida Sun Sentinel reported that less than 12 hours after the discovery of the bodies the boy’s mother received an email from a judge denying her motion for an emergency pick-up order. The judge said the motion “does not present an emergency as it addresses the issue of child visitation.” This makes me so mad. I'm tired of judges not believing women when they have proof of stalking and threats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:14 AM
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I'm sorry you're going through all this, but I'm glad you're getting out. Early in my career, I had a boss (owner of the company) who treated me like his verbal punching bag. One day, he was so frustrated that he lashed out at me. I talked to "HR" which was useless and her only "help" was to say "He's just in a mood today." I resigned the next day. I'm a FDS Newbie, but even then, I knew I deserved better. It's sad that even though we might enjoy a job that men in power feel threatened in try to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:01 PM
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This is awful. I hate how her message sounds like she was in the wrong somehow. No! They abused her and refused to stop when she "specifically" said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:29 PM
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“Could it actually be that single mothers are living more fulfilling lives than they would if they were married?” Her answer: “In my experience, yes.” Seems a bit obvious to me! I know I'm living a much better life now as a divorced, single mom than as a miserable married mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:19 PM
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Love your story! I’m also a single mom. Found this sub from a repost, but I love this place. I feel more empowered with all the amazing info here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:09 PM
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What a LVM loser putting so much of his ego in a game. I hope she leaves his stupid ass. I hope she moves on easily though, isn’t afraid to try games after this (if she wants!) and isn’t bothered by the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:38 PM
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