elgrantriste Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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18	What’s your view on a partner having casual sex? You're going to have a hard time finding someone desirable who has low sexual experience. Especially if in the low 20s rage. It's an expectation that will very likely have the opposite of the desired result	/r/seduction	03/04/22 01:40 PM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me At the end of the day people will react on what information they have. There's often further context to every situation that could change their opinion, or maybe even solidify it. But what information they often have is younger girl and older man. There's a long standing and ever refreshing stream of horrific examples of abuse within that dynamic. That doesn't mean that every situation is like that. It's just the surface information that people have is enough to be concerning. Which is why there…	/r/seduction	01/04/22 12:08 PM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Have I done that? And obviously. But we are talking about a stigma here.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 11:14 AM
2	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me I'm just explaining why it's often seen poorly. There's good reason it's viewed with scepticism	/r/seduction	31/03/22 08:34 PM
-4	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me For sure. But it's far more common in this dynamic. And it's rarely unintentional. You've all no doubt seen it. Though I'm sure the reasoning that you think it's okay is predictable. Regardless. It's no surprise the stigma exists	/r/seduction	31/03/22 08:28 PM
6	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me No the stigma comes from the constant stream of times it's clear that the older guy is predatory. Folk want to act like they're blind to it and act like everyone hits 18 and instantly has their head on their shoulders. People are OFTEN vulnerable to manipulation and the likes long into their 20s. And it's common to see men who can easily abuse that, do so. It's not suddenly no longer predatory because she's over 18. That's the stigma	/r/seduction	31/03/22 07:50 PM
5	Dark Triad Methods to sabotage online dating competition That's still a lot of people, a lot of platforms and easy to spot unless you hide it behind a ungodly level of work. There's also a lot of attractive guys. It's not like reporting people in games. For tinder for example you will be spending a lot of time searching if you want to target. And you will need to to hide suspect reports. It would be a huge win for a lot of people. But still there's nothing to say they'd suddenly become open to cold approach. Seems far more likely they'd find something…	/r/seduction	31/03/22 09:57 AM
35	Dark Triad Methods to sabotage online dating competition Because it's a terrible idea. The level of effort required is comical. You'd need some next level coordination and a massive portion of the userbase to be involved for even small result. Won't take long for reports to be ignored if you're sending them out in massive numbers. How are you going to ensure you don't get banned? What kind of system do you imagine. There's already tons of bots and catfish. The number of men is far too high to even make a dent. The people getting so few matches that fi…	/r/seduction	31/03/22 09:41 AM
1	Am I the only one who is attracted to feminine guys and tomboy females. No	/r/seduction	08/03/22 06:35 PM
4	[deleted by user] uh huh	/r/seduction	28/02/22 05:20 PM
5	[deleted by user] I mean you're clearly trying to brag. You added a lot that wasn't necessary. By I don't understand what you're asking. You're someone having casual relationships. Do you not want casual relationships?	/r/seduction	28/02/22 03:49 PM
7	[deleted by user] How is getting no replies more engagement? Tinder benefits from people finding other people on it too. If Tinder couldn't lead to relationships or whatever, nobody would use it	/r/seduction	21/02/22 04:24 PM
2	[deleted by user] They've got to stand out. Generic pick up lines have likely been heard before or are in a sea of other generic pick up lines. As are comments made on the same material available to other matches. Neither screams effort to be honest	/r/seduction	21/02/22 03:11 PM
3	I don't think women like alpha males obviously. its weak as shit too	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:06 PM
1	Unprotected sex The girl used some unwanted force to try and get the OP to have unprotected sex without his consent. We don't know that. We know he used "force" to stop her, not that she used any force herself. For all we know she went to remove the condom, and immediantly upon finding he wasn't interested, stopped. Exactly how the situation should play out. There's no argument for sexual assault in that situation. Point is we don't know everthing. But OP has not said anything to justify your certainty towards …	/r/seduction	06/10/21 05:41 PM
1	Unprotected sex Yes, the words "damn near" is often followed by heavy exaggeration. For example. I just spent 20 minutes looking at a Natalie Dormer photoshoot and I damn near ripped my cock off. I'm not mincing words, but not reading into something that's not been said. You just seem determined to think she kept pushing it despite op not saying that at all	/r/seduction	06/10/21 05:08 PM
0	Unprotected sex It indicates force was used, be it warranted or not. Or that he decided to use force to signal a level of seriousness behind the refusal. Or that he chose the word to emphasise the refusal but in reality the decline was much less than the word would suggest. He didn't say he had to use force	/r/seduction	06/10/21 04:24 PM
2	Unprotected sex From the look of the post he stopped her. I see nothing saying she carried on trying after being stopped. Stopping when given indication to stop is not the same as not stopping when given indication to stop. The whole point	/r/seduction	06/10/21 05:16 AM
2	How hard is to get FWB? I think it's worth remembering that women don't share a handful of personalities	/r/seduction	09/08/21 09:04 PM
45	How hard is to get FWB? I mean, I feel like this attitude is a greater block than being unattractive tbh	/r/seduction	09/08/21 06:39 PM
68	How hard is to get FWB? I'd suggest not bringing up the idea of FWB until after you've slept with someone	/r/seduction	09/08/21 06:32 PM
12	First date was going well but it ended confusingly Wait, so the idea that someone would want to head to yours and make out, but not have sex seems so unlikely to you that you're considerering that it must have meant she wanted you force yourself on her? Bro. No. She didn't want you to rape her.	/r/seduction	17/07/21 11:33 PM
3	Tinder non responder Do you mean 16% of people who match on tinder meet, or that 16% of all people who meet met on tinder?	/r/seduction	14/07/21 02:19 AM
8	Tinder non responder That seems quite high for a single app	/r/seduction	14/07/21 01:40 AM
4	[deleted by user] well luckily my eyes just rolled right out their sockets	/r/seduction	10/07/21 04:49 AM
8	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? I think it's just a point of consideration for a lot of people when it comes to dating and such. And I don't see a problem with that. People can not want to date someone for whatever reason they want as far as I'm concerned. Obviously no reason to treat someone badly though. And in all fairness, it's a lot easier for a woman to get a high body count. And men often do the pursuing. It's very easy to see how the attitude has come about. It's a double standard for sure, but it is what it is	/r/seduction	25/06/21 11:32 AM
2	Prevent her from saying shit Sounds like a good start..	/r/seduction	05/06/21 08:03 PM
3	Prevent her from saying shit Have you considered using those words?	/r/seduction	05/06/21 07:24 PM
4	Prevent her from saying shit So you're worried about people hearing you got rejected?	/r/seduction	05/06/21 07:20 PM
-8	They removed her diplomatic immunity as well It is an absolute injustice though to be fair	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/05/21 09:53 PM
0	Why do women tend to stay with unfaithful men? Other than a comparison with other mammals must indicate it's attractive to humans? Lots of behaviour seen in mammals would be disgusting to almost all women on the planet. It's very pick and choose to match my view logic But yeah that is kind of common. It's also kind of trendy	/r/seduction	03/05/21 09:55 PM
0	Why do women tend to stay with unfaithful men? Not sure that's as soundproof as you think	/r/seduction	03/05/21 09:31 PM
1	It happens often with me, what does it mean?.. It sounds entirely possible it was neither of those things. But perhaps I'm not understanding correctly	/r/seduction	22/04/21 11:25 PM
1	It happens often with me, what does it mean?.. Are you asking if that was a sign she was interested in you?	/r/seduction	22/04/21 11:14 PM
2	Can this tactic actually work? Are you asking if letting a girl know you're looking for a relationship is a good way of finding a relationship and letting a girl know you're looking for something casual is a good way of finding a casual relationship?	/r/seduction	10/04/21 10:41 PM
2	How do you quickly weed out damaged goods? I'm not much of a gambler, but I'd wager my legs that you've been the problem in most of not all of your relationships based on this post alone	/r/seduction	30/03/21 02:10 PM
2	Women Want Men Who Are Superior To Them Not sure how that expands on anything to be honest. Other than a shared factor of small number	/r/seduction	12/03/21 07:51 PM
2	Women Want Men Who Are Superior To Them These rare exceptions are evidence though, no?	/r/seduction	12/03/21 06:57 PM