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Yes. All of this. Improve skills you can use to work from home. Work on savings. It will be easier for both of you on the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 06:01 PM
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Try gel polish! I invested in a cheap lamp and set of polishes from amazon and I haven’t had any damage, the only way you can damage the nails is if you remove the gel improperly. I change my mani every 1 week because I get bored but it can last 2-3 weeks. Gel polish does have a bit of a learning curve, you have to be careful with applying so it doesn’t get on your skin because it can lead to lifting, but once you’ve got it it’s smooth sailing!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 03:38 PM
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It’s not the gel that ruins your nails, is the removal process. If you get the gel removed correctly there won’t be any damage. You should peel, bite or forcefully remove it because it can take the upper layers of your nails with it. Gel should be soaked in acetone for about 10 minutes and carefully remove what lifted with an orange stick. If there are bits still stuck to the nail you soak again and repeat. That a way should be any damage at all 😊
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 03:36 PM
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What. Do you have a link for the influencing the sex of the baby? I’m pretty sure it depends on the gene (X or Y) passed on by the sperm.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:14 AM
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Designer here. Apart from keeping everything tidy (someone mentioned Flylady, I totally recommend her too) you need to figure out what you like. There are so many styles in interior design that it can be hard to achieve a cohesive look. I recommend you start a Pinterest board and just pin interiors that you REALLY like. It can also be decorations, paintings, furniture, etc. Once you have a few pins you can look at the whole board and figure out what are the elements that repeat. Pay attention to…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 10:57 AM
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Here is an article about it: https://www.today.com/parents/why-it-s-never-ok-parents-force-kids-hug-adults-t118863 "Forcing children to endure affection teaches them a dangerous lesson that people they know can always touch them, said Karen Days, president of the Center for Family Safety and Healing at Nationwide Children’s Hospital. Parents warn their children about “stranger danger,” but don't do as good of a job warning them that people they know cannot touch them against their wishes. This m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 04:18 AM
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Thank you! I will not intervene anymore and let them do their thing and figure their relationship out :) Maybe offer some fun games, finger painting etc but without butting in. The thing about respecting toddlers is very often mentioned in parenting newsletters as a way to teach a toddler that they have control of their body and to avoid possible abuse in the future. It's something that's repeated so often that it kind of stuck with me, I didn't mean it as a disrespect to my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 02:18 AM
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Thank you! I will not intervene anymore and let them do their thing and figure their relationship out :) Maybe offer some fun games, finger painting etc but without butting in. The thing about respecting toddlers is very often mentioned in parenting newsletters as a way to teach a toddler that they have control of their body and to avoid possible abuse in the future. It's something that's repeated so often that it kind of stuck with me, I didn't mean it as a disrespect to my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 02:17 AM
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Me too, high five!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 11:22 PM
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Yes, but you did question RPW and I come here to improve specifically in a RPW way. You should really repost this to puplepill, I think it would spark a good discussion over there from both sides :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 11:18 PM
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I think this post belongs in r/purplepill It's cool you have an opinion but this discussion doesn't fit here. I come to this sub to improve as a woman, not to debate whether should I or not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 11:07 PM
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This is very helpful! Thank you!! I would love to read more tips like these.. do you have a blog maybe?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 12:54 AM
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Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I was about to make a post here in RPW asking for advice to reconnect with my husband. My baby is 3 months old and the parenting weight is really palpable. You posted the answer! Really! Again, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 12:49 AM
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It was some troll comment about how I'm a lazy ass and should get a job instead of my husband. This response made me laugh too!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 03:15 PM
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Yep, we have plans for moving out of here as soon as we can. the earliest would be when I get my degree in June next year. We have talked about this extensively, and he was so pumped to start working already on his career to get experience for when we move to another country. It's just that in plans everything seems more easy. Anyhow, thank you for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 03:08 PM
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I see, I guess this is what I wanted to know. It's just.. weird, you know? To have to take the lead.. I'm sure we will get over this, and as soon as he gets a job he'll feel a thousand times better and will be able to take back his role as a capitain.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 02:05 PM
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Yeah, the government provides a one time payment after birth, not much, around 200 dollars. I also can apply after birth for aid but it is like 25 dollars a month.. We have almost everything for the baby, and do get by with the money our parents send us. We got a Graco pack n' play with the bassinet and changing table, have diapers for the first month at least, a bunch of clothes my mom gifted us (she wasn't able to resis the baby clothes!), a suitcase full of clothes and recieving blankets a re…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:37 PM
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Alright, I will have a serious conversation with him. I know he knows how serious the situation is, and he does feel terrible about not being able to get a job. I guess motivation went out the window.. Maybe, like other person commented, he is depressed or dealing with anxiety.. but I don't really know how else to help him if this is the case.. I realize all of this sounds terrible but he is not a bad guy, he is not lazy, and he is responsible and caring. His drive and motivation were some of th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:26 PM
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He doesn't have a driver's license :(
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:19 PM
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Yeah, we have call centers here too. It is one of the must sucky jobs ever. We both have worked at call centers.. And yeah, I guess we should start considering those too.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:18 PM
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Alright I guess everyone agrees that I should talk to him and let him know this is a serious issue. We are in Russia, he is Russian as well. I am half Russian, Mexican. I don't know if this info helps somehow.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:16 PM
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I have no doubt he feels anxious about this whole ordeal, who wouldn't? Unfortunately we don't have any resources and obviously don't have money to spare on a therapist. I would love for him to get some professional support but I guess that just leaves me. It is hard on both of us, we are young and this was unexpected. Will do. Encouraging and motivating is all I can do..
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 07:00 AM
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Lol yeah, no, I don't want to lose my husband!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 06:13 AM
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Thank you! I'll try to help him break this habit. It is true that it's not of the healthiest ones.. And I'll try to get some freelance projects (for myself), I think that could motivate him more! Actually, remembering back when we were dating, as soon as I got a job he also went and got one too! Said it was not right thatI was working and he wasnt.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 06:04 AM
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Yeah, he was doing some projects for a freelance site, I'll suggest that maybe he get back on those. I know he registered on a couple of them. Maybe it will work out!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 06:00 AM
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Those are good questions and good advice, thanks! Mostly he is searching online, but you know, sites are crappy and a pain in the ass. Even if there are a lot of open jobs listed most of them never contact back. Unfortunately we're not in the US, and I should have specified earlier, but our country is in crisis, so that's why this is taking so long. And I didn't pick this guy to get pregnant by, I picked him to be my life partner and have full confidence in him (altough I admit that we planned t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 05:56 AM
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Yeah, gosh I agree 100 percent with everything you said. I know how sucky it is. I've been there before. I'm just trying to be there for him and do what I can to motivate him. But I guess my juice is running out too.. I have no doubt he will find something. We both have worked before, we are not "new" to the job market. Just sucky timing I guess.. Also I might add that we are in a country that is in crisis right now.. so that is also a factor in why is it so hard to find a job :(
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 05:44 AM
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Alright, thanks :) maybe you're right and this isn't a RP problem, but I still prefer getting advice from you ladies. It's always on point.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 05:06 AM
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I get it. Believe me, I do. I think he gets it too. He is, and has been looking for work this whole time. He even has started looking at jobs not related to his career. Lately he even has said he should just go to McDonald's. It's stressful and depressing. There are times when I do want to say "When are you going to start supporting us?! Do you understand how serious this is?" The thing is that he does. He understands. And me riding up his ass won't help, it will only bring him down.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 04:49 AM
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Yeah :( It happened once. But this schedule also prevents him from calling potential work place because obviously it's not office hours. I tried to wake him up several times but what else can I do? I wake him up every day and try do so at least before lunch. It does make me feel like his mom.. I stay up late sometimes, but I do wake up before lunch at least. I still have to go to school. I know he is losing motivation too. It's hard when you can't find a job for so long. I try to encourage him t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 04:42 AM
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Thank you!!<3
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 03:34 PM
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That's great! Thanks for the advice. I already feel that this pregnancy has brought us much closer and I really think that parenthood will only make us stronger. I feel so blessed that I have my husband by my side!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 03:33 PM
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Yes, my husband and I promised eachother to be together for life. My kids will go on and have a life of their own, that is so important to remember! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 03:30 PM
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I remember reading that blog post! It is so simply explained and so on point! The analogy is great, we shouldn't let go our hands to take our childrens but pust our children inside our circle. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 03:28 PM
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Yes! I also don't wanna be the frumpy mom, nobody desires one.. and I don't think my husband married me because of my frumpy mom potential lol It's true, we need to remember that we have to balance being a mom and a sexy wife :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 03:02 PM
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It's true! And I think the best gift for our kid is giving her a stable family, where mom and dad love eachother and aren't just coparenting .. I will read that book! Sounds like exactly what I need. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 02:59 PM
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Thanks! I know it will be hard at least at first but it is so important to not let my husband slip into second place after baby. We're both very excited and baby has been the main topic for a few months already, I'll make an effort to avoid that topic unles he brings it up first :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/15 02:55 PM
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I would love to read it!! By the way.. there's a typo in the post "- courtesy of Larua Doyle."
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 11:49 AM
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Thanks!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 07:40 PM
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Hello, I hope I'm not out of line, I would like to know if you did send the link to the book :-) I'd really love to read it. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 12:42 AM
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Hey, sorry about the delay. Couldn't figure out how to answer in the phone :) my mail is #### . Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 10:26 PM
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Wow, I would like to borrow it too if possible!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 09:49 PM
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Your wedding sounds lovely!! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 10:40 AM
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Thank you! Your sister's wedding sounds amazing! I guess the more relaxed you are when planning, the less things go wrong :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:02 PM
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Well.. Right know our priority is to find the perfect rings. We are students so we are trying to find the cheapest possible without them looking like chinese stuff! I am looking for a nice white blouse to wear with my awesome white skirt to make it look like a dress lol. He's looking for shoes and a blazer. We will celebrate with our friends in June so I guess we still have time and haven't really thought much about it. The idea is to have a bonfire, very casual :) I am sure everything will go g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:00 PM
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Oh, my SO also wanted a traditional wedding at first. He said he wanted to do things the right way. Mostly he was worried that his family would get offended if we did not invite them. But we found a great compromise and he seems to be even more excited with our actual plans than with his original idea of a wedding!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:53 PM
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Everybody wants to be a part of this special event in our lives, so we are organizing a celebration with our closest people too :) Its awesome that you has such a spontaneous wedding!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:51 PM
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Thank you very much! We were thinking of organizing a bonfire to celebrate with our friends after. I hope the weather cooperates! Your wedding sounds awesome! I also would like to have our parents on Skype, but sounds a bit difficult to arrange. Let's see how it goes :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:48 PM
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Thank you! And yes,I will try to stop and pay attention to what is happening around me. It is great advice!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:46 PM
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That sounds beautiful! I plan on baking the cake too, I hope it turn out alright :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:44 PM
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Yes yes yes! I am very excited too! Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:43 PM
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Yes! This sounds awesome! It's what we're imagining :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:42 PM
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Here's the article about that: https://girlsbeinggirls.wordpress.com/2014/03/14/be-his-soft-place-to-land/
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 04:36 PM
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Lovely! Thank you :-)
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 08:33 PM
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Thank you! I was actually thinking about starting a small business after discovering a "chinese ebay". I'm still not sure on how to approach the idea and start it up but I hope it will work out!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 07:13 PM
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The rant at the end was quite confusing. What the hell was her advice? Accept the situation? Change herself but not change herself? The gay man and the predatory female wasp want to grab some man-ass, but the working breed of dog wants to bite some sheep-ass. What?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 02:18 AM
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Thank you for this. The change, the real swallowing takes time. It is true that you might understand the RP and not change. It is a battle on the inside, specially when we have been raised to be the absolute opposite.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 06:37 PM
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Touche.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 12:40 AM
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I was one of the posters asking "What else should I be doing to encourage my captain?" I am not trying to change him, but trying to change myself to give path to him. You answered all the questions I had, and gave me a better direction on how to better myself.. with specific instructions (Especially #1 and #3.. I was doing the "What do you feel like?" instead of letting him know that I want his direction) . Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 06:57 AM
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Me too! :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 06:28 PM
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Well, I know three languages very well. Two of them are native. All jobs I've had were related to languages and I can say that the paycheck is quite good. So the 'how will I survive without a college degree?' is not a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 01:56 PM
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Well, I know three languages very well. Two of them are native. All jobs I've had were related to languages and I can say that the paycheck is quite good. So the 'how will I survive without a college degree?' is not a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 01:55 PM
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I'm studying Transportation Design (a very very masculine career..). I believe I will make it work out :) I used to think that I should finish college, get my master's degree, a good job and only then start looking for a partner. I've since then swallowed the pill, and understood that I wouldn't have time for family. Kids come in first place and I would have to leave my job anyways. I do not want to be stressing about a job, I want it to be optional. I would like to have kids while I'm young and…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 06:41 AM
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I have a problem with growing my nails because they layer and break, so I keep them polished constantly. Considering that usually I have at least 4 layers on (basecoat, 2 coats of polish, topcoat) it gives them quite a reinforcement. I can do dishes and basic cleaning without them getting chipped as fast (and the polish actually helps to protect my nails from getting dry and brittle), but for more heavy duty cleaning I use gloves. Regarding the polish colors.. I recently became quite an addict a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 06:19 PM
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Awesome! You give such a good and understanding advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:27 PM
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No, he didn't tell me he needed space. He got a new job and I know that takes a lot of his time and concentration, so I try to not distract him. I will definitely tell him how much I like being with him and that I understand that because of his job we can't see each other as much, and it's okay,but I still love to hear to hear his voice and it would be nice if he called more often. I suppose that sounds okay? I'm sorry I'm asking you this much, I'm a newb at relationship stuff lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 02:09 PM
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Thanks! I'll tell him :) I guess I'm just trying to give him his space because I know how much I need mine. The truth is I want to be with him all the time! I'm taking it slowly, trying to not get too excited, being caring and understanding. I hesitated about telling him my needs because we started dating not so long ago (almost a month), yet we get along so well that it seems like a lot more.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:28 PM
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Actually that's one of the things I would like to request.. I still feel like I would be demanding him to call me. I have already told him that I like to hear his voice, and after that he sometimes calls instead of texting (which we do rarely). Yet telling him "call me more often please" sounds like too much. Idk, maybe that's just me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:05 PM
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How do you go about telling your needs without sounding demanding?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 11:43 AM
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HOLY FUCK you're so fucking sexy!.. and this is so fucking awesome!!
/r/seduction24/05/13 09:14 PM
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