elisespeaces Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club. Hey guys this really happened, I was there. I was the dance floor. Everyone clapped after.	/r/seduction	27/04/22 09:36 AM
1	Escalation for dummies. Very short version. This is a direct quote from your article: "And so to the main reason women have sex. The idol of 'women do it for love, and men for joy' lies broken on the rug like a mutilated sex toy: it's orgasm, orgasm, orgasm. 'A lot of women in our studies said they just wanted sex for the pure physical pleasure,' Meston says." That is the #1 reason women have sex. The #1. Everything else came secondly, tertiary. Because they enjoy it. You posted the article like it was going to be an own, but it's right t…	/r/seduction	17/03/22 07:07 AM
1	Escalation for dummies. Very short version. what's your basis for this? Well, MY basis for it would be... that I'm a woman who loves sex. All of my friends love the sex THAT THEY WANT TO HAVE & CONSENT TO. One of my best friends almost ended things with her boyfriend because he wasn't having sex with her. Shit, today my bf told me I make everything about sex, and I want sex more than he does. Why do you think so many millions of sex toys for women exist? Because women want to have orgasms, we desire sex. The vast majority of women don't h…	/r/seduction	17/03/22 06:55 AM
-2	Escalation for dummies. Very short version. "Make sure she consents" is all you really needed to say.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 06:12 PM
3	Escalation for dummies. Very short version. ... while I'll agree some of what he said is just, suuuuper out there, i saw this & had to correct you a bit. Women love sex. They love to be touched & have sex (unless they're asexual, which is fine too). They don't like sex that doesn't give them pleasure also. They don't like selfish sex, sex they don't want, sex forced upon them. They love consensual, fun, mutually enjoyable & pleasureable sex. They don't have sex just because men want to (unless it's forced or coerced), they have sex becaus…	/r/seduction	16/03/22 06:10 PM
3	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? Some people are just really good at telling boring stories well.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 11:42 PM
3	Headphones how to navagate If you try to talk to women with headphones in, you will get rejected a lot. Then, you'll get mad at women for rejecting you, when you've clearly ignored the good advice given here. I'm sure tons of women would love to talk to and get to know you, assuming you're less mean in person than you've been on this thread. They may be more ok with being approached when they don't have headphones in. Women use headphones as defense mechanisms. All people do. It's a universal, non-gendered sign of in my o…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:51 AM
3	Headphones how to navagate Do you have a hobby? Imagine being engrossed in your hobby and someone just comes up, interrupts you, and starts trying to talk to you. Would you be mad? Yup. For legit reasons. If a woman has headphones in, please leave her alone. You'll be better off. Then, if you see her headphone-less, you can talk to her. But not with them in. Please. We are begging y'all. Please leave us alone when we have headphones in. Thanks a bunch, Women.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:40 AM
2	Headphones how to navagate Do you have a hobby? Imagine being engrossed in your hobby and someone just comes up, interrupts you, and starts trying to talk to you. Would you be mad? Yup. For legit reasons. If a woman has headphones in, please leave her alone. You'll be better off. Then, if you see her headphone-less, you can talk to her. But not with them in. Please. We are begging y'all. Please leave us alone when we have headphones in. Thanks a bunch, Women.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:39 AM
1	Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes? We do notice. Definitely. However, more than noticing cologne, we notice general hygiene. Showered, teeth brushed, moisturized. Cologne tends to be the last stop on the clean, hygienic train. Most everything has some scent nowadays. So even just showering, moisturizing, and brushing teeth can make you smell really good. If you wear cologne it's icing on the cake. Putting cologne on a dirty body is pointless. That being said not every scent works for everyone. I like certain scents that smell goo…	/r/seduction	09/01/22 12:49 PM
5	I am the most quiet guy at any gathering. How do I start interacting with new people or have a good time around people I'm meeting the first time? I really really love this advice!! I'm a bartender/cocktail server, so small talk/general convos are about all I do. Your prompts are amazing. The compliment bit is the absolute BEST ADVICE EVER. Always start with a genuine compliment: "your looks awesome like that!" "Your outfit is so cool, I love your style!" "Cool shoes!" Try to stick to things the person can control. Unless it's innocent, like eyes. But you run the risk of insulting or coming across as a creep if you say something about some…	/r/seduction	28/12/21 09:16 AM
2	The laughing chicken You just randomly walked up to her, and said "hey let's go out." Even though you said it in earnest, she probably thought you were either joking or just being weird (which, you kinda were being weird). You'd needed to go about your approach differently, in a way that makes her feel comfortable. Bc imagine if someone did that to you? You'd be so uncomfortable, you wouldn't know how to react other than to laugh and walk away. Next time, you need to approach, have a bit of conversation, do some int…	/r/seduction	22/12/21 08:22 PM
1	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? Thanks! & agreed. It's never cringe to make sure the person you want, wants you. It's never bad or weird to make sure the person you're with feels comfortable, safe, as though their boundaries are being respected, and that they're into it. Like, why would you want to go forward with having sex with someone who doesn't want to? How is that a turn-on? Even if you think of seduction as a "game," whatever PUA stuff you believe, instead of as naturally getting the person you're into to reciprocate th…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:01 AM
1	How far away is the farthest that you would date someone? Good bot!	/r/seduction	14/12/21 05:42 AM
1	How far away is the farthest that you would date someone? Good bot!	/r/seduction	14/12/21 05:41 AM
1	How far away is the farthest that you would date someone? I think this is situational, depending on how invested you are, how serious it is, your transportation situation, how much time you have or want to dedicate to traveling. I live in "NOVA" - Northern Virginia, USA, the burbs of Washington DC. My bf of 3 yrs moved to Fredericksburg, VA, about a year ago. It's about 40 miles (~64 km, according to google) from my highway exit to his. Sometimes it takes me 40 min to get there and/or back. Sometimes it takes me 1.5 hours. Once it took me 3 hours. This…	/r/seduction	14/12/21 05:32 AM
4	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? Never Rick & Morty. Anything but that is probably fine. 😆	/r/seduction	13/12/21 10:22 AM
3	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? It's very case by case. I hate being tickled for more than like 2 seconds. I'll freak out & get highly physically reactive. But the first couple of seconds are fine. Fight or flight.	/r/seduction	13/12/21 10:21 AM
27	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? Hi. Woman here. Some of this advice is amazing - CONSENT! - being the best. Love to see, read, hear it. Making sure she feels comfortable and safe is the other great advice I've seen. Some of it is... significantly less awesome. But their hearts are in good places & it's mostly harmless so though it's cringe & a lil odd, I don't want to tear into anyone. If you haven't kissed her before she's come to your place, I'd change that. A kiss or nice lil make-out lays out intentions and interest level.…	/r/seduction	13/12/21 10:15 AM