elizajohns Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Four Girls - Same First Response I don’t think there’s anything too complicated in it! I think it’s a response said so that you have the option to continue the conversation with “oh cool, I like that show too” or “I’ve never seen that show, is it good?” Good luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 03:15 PM
–	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? I know the acronym but what do you mean? Is my comment an example of this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 05:46 PM
0	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? I had no idea?! That’s crazy	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 06:26 AM
1	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? I love your honesty! I completely understand your second point, it must be disheartening. I don’t really know what the solution is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 09:37 PM
2	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? That’s so nice, thank you. So many intelligent women (and men!) on this sub, trying hard to keep up!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 07:40 PM
2	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? Thank you! I’ve seen some really self aware answers on this thread today too	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 07:29 PM
4	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? Manufactured chemistry, I guess I mean. Like negging, flirting etc. I hope I’m making sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 03:37 PM
11	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? I think it’s because no woman wants to believe she’s the type of person that has casual sex… so you have to manipulate women into thinking these things ‘just happened’, or she got swept up in the charm or banter. A good looking man can’t just go up to a girl in a club and say “want to f?” because if she says yes she’ll feel like a s. There has to be more “I got caught up in our chemistry” kind of stuff, so females feel less accountable for being promiscuous. Good looks is just the ‘foot in the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 02:57 PM
19	When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them? My husband was pretty ‘successful’ with one night stands before we got together, and some of the tactics he tells me about seem so foreign and manipulative to me; negging etc. If a man asked for my advice with one night stands, I would never recommend manipulative things like this, because I wouldn’t want other women to experience it. (Even though it was, in his experience, very successful). I would probably say some naive BS about being nice, in the hope that the world is better than I think it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/21 10:39 AM
4	Not to come off like a fascist. But why is it so hard for yall to just obey someone who has your best interests in mind? Thank you for your eloquent thoughts! I struggle to get my point across.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 06:13 AM
2	Not to come off like a fascist. But why is it so hard for yall to just obey someone who has your best interests in mind? That’s my point! It’s really nice but I just saw any demand as a demand with bad intentions. I think girls are raised to be very wary of controlling, abusive relationships, so much so that it affects our perception of men who actually have our best interests at heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:50 AM
3	Not to come off like a fascist. But why is it so hard for yall to just obey someone who has your best interests in mind? A year of full-on battles. We’ve been together 6 years now, and we’re very happy! A stupid example; early on, he used to make me walk on the inside of the pavement (with him on the outside) so I would be less likely to be hit by a car. I was so surprised at being told what to do I immediately put him in the ‘controlling, dangerous boyfriend’ category and refused. (Sounds so stupid but no guy had ever told me what to do before, and my mother/sister always warned me to be on the lookout for contro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:23 AM
3	Not to come off like a fascist. But why is it so hard for yall to just obey someone who has your best interests in mind? I think it’s hard because some men try to tell you what to do, but have bad intentions. It makes you less likely to “obey” (I really hate your word choice) a man with good intentions, as they seem the same at first. It took me so long to realise my husband was looking out for me, rather than a weak, control freak like a previous boyfriend. If I may, why are you no longer with your previous, very agreeable girlfriend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:12 AM
1	The hypocrisy of shaming male/female sexuality In a hopefully related note, I’m always confused by women’s desire to end other women’s relationships. If I ever had a problem with my boyfriend (now my happily married husband), my female friends would say “dump him” immediately, even if the problem was small. They were always so keen for me to meet other people and get out of LTRs, like they wanted my ‘body count’ to grow. It makes me wonder if women are ‘supportive’ of other women’s sexuality, but only because they want other women to be deva…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 08:02 AM