ellabbanlaith Archive

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2	What one thing improved your success the most ? You’re better off being slim and lean with little muscle than having a bit more muscle but not lean. Why? Your face. At low body fat levels, your facial angularity will improve. Your cheek bones will be accentuated. You will have hollow cheeks (yes women love this), your jawline will be sharper, and your under neck will be tucked. Additionally your arms will look more vascular. Muscle is great, of course build it, but it’s not even close to as important and most men make it out to be. If you und…	/r/seduction	06/07/26 11:58 PM
4	What one thing improved your success the most ? You’re better off being slim and lean with little muscle than having a bit more muscle but not lean. Why? Your face. At low body fat levels, your facial angularity will improve. Your cheek bones will be accentuated. You will have hollow cheeks (yes women love this), your jawline will be sharper, and your under neck will be tucked. Additionally your arms will look more vascular. Muscle is great, of course build it, but it’s not even close to as important and most men make it out to be. If you und…	/r/seduction	06/07/26 11:57 PM
3	What one thing improved your success the most ? Hi the single best thing you can do is get to 10% body fat Literally changed my life	/r/seduction	06/07/26 09:59 PM
8	What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show? No, limiting yourself is wasting your finite amount of time with women who aren’t going to leave with you or at least be willing to meet again. By cutting your losses sooner, you can take more shots.	/r/seduction	23/05/26 01:11 AM
8	What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show? Possibly, but she won’t be high interest. Will likely waste your time. You want high interest prospects only	/r/seduction	23/05/26 12:53 AM
19	What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show? If you are in a bar or club, and you ask her for her name, and she does not ask yours in return, be polite and end the conversation as soon as possible.	/r/seduction	22/05/26 07:34 PM
1	Top 5 cities for one night stands? Miami? You better drive a Porsche lol	/r/seduction	13/04/26 10:42 PM
3	Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done right Follow rule 1 & 2 duh	/r/seduction	05/03/26 01:44 AM
1	Best city to learn game? Wow that’s so interesting, really makes me want to travel around and see how it is	/r/seduction	06/02/26 03:50 PM
6	Best city to learn game? I live in Tampa, the women here overall aren’t very friendly. Near downtown is the University of Tampa, whom ALL the students are from the northeast, and suck. The USF students are Floridians so they’re friendlier. I’ve heard nothing but good things about St Pete. Curious to check it out myself	/r/seduction	04/02/26 04:32 AM
19	Tall girls are an untapped resource I love tall girls, I don’t know why. I’m 5’10	/r/seduction	23/11/25 03:08 AM
97	men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be around Exactly. Weird guys don’t have female friends because they can’t. Normal guys don’t have females friends because they don’t want to.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 02:28 AM
1	What phrase did you utter just before making out with someone? Ben Dover	/r/seduction	14/03/25 10:19 PM
2	Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities? (leaving out the already mentioned ones) -nurse -DJ -barista -any employee at a club -any job on a college campus i mean just ask yourself: where are women, and who works there	/r/seduction	13/03/25 10:17 PM
2	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? ah okay, but both attractive	/r/seduction	22/02/25 07:43 PM
1	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? oh awesome, they were both the feminine kind?	/r/seduction	22/02/25 07:39 PM
1	How to make women lust after you? love to hear it. keep it up	/r/seduction	13/11/24 03:55 PM
1	How to make women lust after you? well i can already tell you, being christian should make it a whole lot easier, as you’ve got somewhere you can meet others like yourself- church. good luck, feel free to pm me	/r/seduction	13/11/24 04:30 AM
2	How to make women lust after you? of course it’s very hard for me to tell you as i know nothing about you. but i will say, this might be a trial and error thing when it comes to “finding the quirk” is there any particular thing you do habitually when approaching/talking to women, that you could change, even if you don’t suspect it’s the culprit? as for the type, ask yourself, what kind of women would like the kind of guy you are? are you an artistic guy? are you musical? how do you present yourself? are you extroverted? for exam…	/r/seduction	13/11/24 01:44 AM
3	How to make women lust after you? you haven’t done what you’re meant to you’ve done what you’re meant to, but you’re cockblocking yourself somehow and need to identify the quirk you’re not trying you’re trying with the wrong women you’re in the wrong location (who’s your competition?) just some ideas.	/r/seduction	13/11/24 01:38 AM
25	How to make women lust after you? i am 23. i have put on 40ish lbs of muscle since since 18, fixed my posture, grew facial hair, grew my hair out and learned how to style, developed a sense of style, tanned, etc and it has made a WORLD of a difference. girls used to only want to be friends. i never dated in high school. while game is important, you need to work on actually being more physically attractive. this idea that women don’t care about what they see if ridiculous now the girls i’ve talked to recently say things that baff…	/r/seduction	12/11/24 02:00 PM
50	How do you find hookups? okay so here’s the thing, they wanna hookup. vast majority of the time they won’t explicitly say or lead with that. if their profile says something like “still figuring it out” or similar that means there’s a good chance they won’t be against having a hookup even if that’s not their ideal situation even girls looking for a relationship will often hook up with a guy they find attractive but not fit for a relationship with. it’s one of those things where you sort of just have to read between the l…	/r/seduction	10/11/24 05:04 AM
9	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? yeah i mean plausible deniability extends to many other things. it’s the idea that she can agree to something without fully committing so if she wants to back out, she can and she can rationalize it herself that that’s the real reason you’re coming over. it’s mental gymnastics but some girls will feel guilty so they need an excuse to tell themselves (and their friends!) for example, you meet a girl at a bar, at the end of the night she asks you to come home and watch a movie with her. you know d…	/r/seduction	05/11/24 12:21 AM
17	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? yeah, i had seen her a few times in passing and casually chatted with her. i could tell she was feeling me cause she would laugh at everything i said and couldn’t stop poking/playfully pushing me on my arm. one night she came home late and i could hear somebody coming up the staircase in my apartment building (you know they cause vibrations that travel through the walls) and my bedroom was right next to it. i had just got into bed to sleep. but i got curious to see who was coming home that late …	/r/seduction	04/11/24 11:15 PM
17	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? 7 minutes. she was my neighbor. don’t do it.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 08:00 PM
5	Regret hookup during act oh man, the last line confirmed exactly what i suspected you were experiencing. i know what you mean. they don’t necessarily have smell “bad” in the unhygienic way, but they have a distinct strange smell that makes you feel incompatible with them.. just their natural scent feels too familiar maybe. it just feels off. i experienced that one time.	/r/seduction	22/10/24 05:51 PM
21	Regret hookup during act yeah that confused me too 😂	/r/seduction	22/10/24 05:45 PM
12	How to make a girl laugh? wow, who would’ve thought being funny would make her laugh?	/r/seduction	01/10/24 04:28 PM
2	How are you able to tell at clubs/bars if girl DTF during a convo or looking to go home with someone BEFORE you open? dude it’s not that complicated, if they wanna go home with you at the end of the night they (probably, not guaranteed) wanna sleep with you. stop trying to figure it out before	/r/seduction	01/10/24 12:30 PM
1	How true actually is this? it’s all about leverage. the larger the gap there is between you in attractiveness, the more power you have. she doesn’t wanna miss out on you even if you don’t wanna take her out that’s thing to consider. what is the quality of the women these guys are telling you about?	/r/seduction	26/09/24 10:37 PM
1	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? i know the problem you’re talking about. where you have no problem attracting the one nighter girls but the type you actually wanna keep around, you seem to alienate because they don’t trust you. they see a weird contradiction between you being a good guy with substance and things to talk about but strongly resembling the guys who don’t want a relationship. it’s a weird middle ground. i think it ultimately comes down to marketing. it’s about how you present yourself. the female equivalent of thi…	/r/seduction	26/09/24 06:16 PM
5	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? i think this is what i might be getting wrong too. i might be sending mixed signals	/r/seduction	26/09/24 06:02 PM
219	I have put "short term fun" on Tinder and still get likes from women who have put "looking for longterm relationship" in their bio. Should I respond? they might not mind a lil hookup along the way.	/r/seduction	24/09/24 12:26 PM
20	What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room? “no, we’re gonna start with a little bible study”	/r/seduction	23/09/24 03:26 PM
1	What are your usual responses when women challenges you? not responding at all to blatant disrespect only nonverbally tells them you are accepting of that behavior. it’s all about how you respond to it. you’re not “shaken”/upset/affected by it if you respond in a calm, non emotional way. you cannot simply “walk away” every time this happens. if it’s a random girl in the bar sure, but what about when it’s a girl you’ve been talking for some time? or if you’re on a date with her? how about your own girlfriend or wife? you just have to accept women will …	/r/seduction	23/09/24 01:06 PM
1	Is picking up girls at the beach possible? it’s only weird if you made it weird bro. if you’re playing beach volleyball or pickle ball or something like that it’s easy to offer them to join in. just be normal	/r/seduction	22/09/24 05:28 PM
0	3 Worst Texting Mistakes Guys Make On Dating Apps good post mate	/r/seduction	20/09/24 12:47 PM
2	How to talk endlessly you question, she answers, you comment, repeat. she will respond to your comment with a comment, give you an opportunity to ask a follow up question how to do you talk to your bros? try that, except flirt and tease a bit and don’t about guy stuff	/r/seduction	20/09/24 12:40 PM
24	What are your usual responses when women challenges you? you did the right thing. class act, no need to argue with a woman. let her be shit.	/r/seduction	19/09/24 01:02 PM
12	What are your usual responses when women challenges you? i have that problem too. a girl i used to talk to was like that. i just couldn’t tell sometimes but i realized her intentions didn’t matter as i did not like being talked to like that.	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:40 PM
33	What are your usual responses when women challenges you? some women will go too far, straight up disrespecting you, so a distinction has to be made. sometimes they’ll disguise it as a joke. if she herself knows she’s being disrespectful to you and you accept it she also won’t respect you you don’t wanna delude yourself into thinking you’re “secure” and “confident” while letting them shit on you of course apply nuance, if she makes a comment on your shirt or something like that it’s not a big deal. but if she makes a personal attack you have to reprima…	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:27 PM
1	What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them? when she only talks about herself, never ask you anything, and thinks she Gods gift to men	/r/seduction	17/09/24 12:56 PM
2	How much does occupation matter in regards to game? you’re 19 bro, girls expect to you be shoveling shit. don’t worry about it	/r/seduction	14/09/24 03:29 AM
8	What does it mean when she says “she doesn’t see me as a hoe” not enough context here dude	/r/seduction	14/09/24 03:25 AM
1	How do I make a move on my girlfriend bro, put your arm around her while watching a movie. do that for a while, see if she leans into you/ reciprocates. kiss her on her forehead or cheek first to warm things up. then when you feel she’s comfortable, turn her chin towards you with one or two fingers and SLOWLY kiss her. you have to match her pace and energy. don’t stick your tongue down her throat. i’m not telling you rest on here lol	/r/seduction	14/09/24 03:15 AM
8	Bitched out on approaching a girl I really like in person today. NAH i’ll tell you the REAL problem it’s not “confidence” or being “shy” or any of that shit. the problem is you have expectations of her. maybe that is for her to like you, to act a certain way, or agree on a date. you’re afraid because you might not get what you want and that will hurt your ego. instead, go up to her with no hopes or expectations of leaving with anything. just talk.	/r/seduction	14/09/24 02:53 AM
1	Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk? it helps to have some sort of prompt, but there’s nothing wrong with politely approaching them. if you go up to them with the intention of a friendly conversation and expect nothing more, all you have to say is “have a good day/night” if you feel you both aren’t clicking	/r/seduction	17/04/22 06:25 AM
0	Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends? if you’re afraid of alienating your friends when you share a success story, you shouldn’t be friends with them	/r/seduction	17/04/22 06:20 AM
-4	If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested. This is very true, a girl I used to flirt with was interested in me, but she was quite flaky. I believe she even had a bf at one point. I ran into her the other out an about and we started chatting. She confessed she was “in love with me” out of the blue. It was weird. We went on a casual a date which was fun and I look forward to seeing her again	/r/seduction	30/06/20 06:04 PM